Well folks, I see some light at the end of the tunnel. The supposed sexual abuser of three year old Aaliyah Bedwell, Dustin Thompson called an Ex Parte hearing for 1:30pm today. The hearing took place, and clearly the pressure on the system is beginning to make the ‘Good Ole Boys’ uneasy. For once Dustin did not get it all his own way. In fact I’ll bet him and his ‘No Comment’ attorney Sandra Amara are in a huddle right now.
The judge on the case Frances Kearney walked into the court room, sat down, and promptly removed herself from hearing the case.
There has been some scuttlebutt that I had opted not to publish before concerning the justice system in Placer County. Everyone knows everyone else, they went to school and college together, they have lunch together. Family court in a small town is a notoriously dangerous battleground.
The really good news it that Judge Kearney also stipulated that the new Judge would be from outside Placer County.
Connie actually had some legal council with her, which is a great thing.  Everyone was to leave their contact information and will be contacted for the next hearing about the violation of the restraining order.
We will have our spies on the ground for that hearing. But it does give us two weeks to do more investigating, and you can bet that is what we will be doing. Ms ‘No Comment’ can expect a call in the morning.
Today’s court hearing is great news for both Connie and Aaliyah, now maybe, justice can start to work. Maybe, the Auburn Police department might even return my call from 12 days ago (but I am not holding my breath).
Yes folks, all that pressure that we and you have all put on Placer County is paying off.
I like California, but I have crossed Placer County off my list of potential vacation spots, I have a feeling the Good Ole Boys would want to talk to Jan and I.
Update: 7:16 central. We just got off the the phone with someone else that was present at the hearing, they were not in the court room but standing just outside. Ms ‘No Comment’ Sandra Amara apparently left the hearing with a look of thunder on her face, and steam coming out of her ears. Of course I am sure that it has nothing to do with the fact that her husband Dirk Amara just happens to be a judge in the same county! Oh the webs people weave.
Interestingly enough it seems that Dustin seemed fairly neutral in his demeanor, no doubt the importance of today’s decision will take some time to sink in.
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Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackAwesome! Thanks Simon, I was starting to have panic attacks! Awesome news!
I have to admit, I am dying to know what the scuttlebutt was all about 😀 If the Judge recused herself from this case, I can pretty much figure it out.
How sweet it is that this “good ol’ boys club” may be blown wide open. I guess I have been living in the big city too long. Between Satsuma and this town of Auburn, my skin crawls thinking this type of mentality still exists.
Thanks so much for the update Simon.
This is an interesting development! I am shocked that the judge recused herself. It is even better news that finally Connie has an attorney to represent her too. That she had no representation had bothered my immensely. Especially in a small town, I have been there and done that and it is ugly.
I am grateful to have the positive update, I was truly worried that Connie would be in jail this afternoon. The best news of all is that the new judge will be from outside Placer County. This means so much , and I want to thank all who have written letters to the Attorney General, and the Governor, and everyone else. Seems we did make a difference. Wooo Hooo~
Thanks Jan and Simon for doggedly pursuing this case, and for the update.
I dunno what it says about the judge removing herself from the case because didn’t the judge for Sandra’s case remove themselves from the case… its seems like it just happens sometimes.
Butters, Simon says here that there is some “scuttlebutt”. We don’t have all the information yet.
Sorry to be PC but isn’t scuttlebutt a drinking fountain? At least in Navy terms it is. 😛
Butters, I don’t know LOL, but Simon is English, I think it means gossip.
Good evening all 🙂
Simon..ty so much for the update.
I find it curious that only after a week of being assigned the case again that this judge recuses herself.
Further, that she states it will now be heard by a judge not from Placer county. To me that says even more than her recusing herself. If another judge from the same county were going to be assigned, I wouldn’t think it meant much but this is very different to me.
well bloody h*ll then! Why is Dustin so calm and his lawyer mad?
Frances Kearney the judge isn’t she the one everyone was saying was the good judge? So why having her get off the case equals a good thing?
that comment was meant as an english joke btw.
thinking, I got it, I’m just on the phone. LOL. It was funny.
Did she see the video? I heard that judge was going to watch it. What happened?
Butters,
If I recall correctly, Judge Kearney was the judge that put the father on supervised visits. I believe it was after she was no longer on the case that things were reversed.
I’m so curious why she recused herself.
A Judge will usually recuse themself if they know any parties involved in the case, either directly or indirectly. She may be a colleague of someone who knows extended family members. It could be as simple as her law clerk knowing someone in the family personally.
It is safer for them to recuse themself from a case than have their decision appealed by a higher court due to some type of direct or indirect connection to either party involved. I had a probate Judge that had to recuse herself from a guardianship hearing I was involved in because her law clerk was someone I knew.
From reading about this case, it seems like she made the right call by stating that a Judge from outside Placer County would be assigned. I think Dustin Thompson’s family knows too many people inside law enforcement and the judicial system there.
Sassy,
Yes, it could be something as simple as you stated as to the reason she recused herself. However, she was once on this case so if there was a conflict now, seems there would have been then as well.
The timing of it is what has me thinking that it’s more than something as simple as knowing someone, etc., particularly since she stated a judge from outside the county would be assigned to he hear the case.
Talina and Sassy, I think she must have watched the video and read all of the documents. She knows it’s been going on now for a year and she doesn’t want any part of it. She wants to keep her hands clean. That’s just my opinion.
Talina:
Very true. I think perhaps that was part of the “scuttlebutt” that Simon was mentioning. Somehow I think perhaps a higher up office made some phone calls to this court due to the recent publicity of this case. I think they could have been the riot act to clean this up. JMO
Grrr **Been read the riot act.
Karen: I think you are right. I also think perhaps she may have simply received a phone call about the case from someone who knows the Thompson family, to call in a favor. Just speculation but doesn’t seem far fetched. She washed her hands of the whole mess, like you said.
So sad no one can stand up and do what is right in this town.
Sassy said, “Grrr **Been read the riot act.”
I’m confused….
Karen:
LOL..I was berating myself for messing up my post: I wrote @9:02
I think they could have been the riot act to clean this up. JMO
I left out the word read..been read the riot act. Sorry for the confusion.
Sassy, that’s ok LOL. I just hope that whoever the judge is going to be will be good for Aaliyah and Connie. It stinks we have to wait until the 26th.
I’m going to turn in, have a good night.
Sociopaths dont have emotion, well real emotion; they are capable of faking emotion. Usually they only cry if they get caught and they cry for themselves not for what they have done. That would explain Dustin Thompson’s reaction in court today. S o c i o p a t h. Him and Casey Anthony should share a cell together then they could rape and kill each other and their cold hearts wont even feel a thing. Oh and even better, their enabling parents that made them that way could be friends and discuss who raised the most coniving liar… hmmm….
I was on the Save Aaliyah website and found this link. OMG is all I can say. The website gives Simon credit for finding this. This Judge Frances Kearny certainly has a history documented. Read all 5 pages. I’m in shell shock and only more convinced that the judicial system in Placer County is corrupt.
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/43819/placer_county_judicial_system.html?cat=17
http://www.bloggernews.net/120845
marc said,
in May 13th, 2009 at 2:56 am
I empathize with Aaliyah’s mother. I am the divorced father of 4 year old Mary Savannah Kerley. The divorce judge made a special provision in my decree for Mary Savannah to be babysat by a documented child molester. Please read savemarysavannah.com. I have posted some of the court documents on there. I would be glad to help any way I can. Please feel free to contact me through the website.
Great to hear there has been some progress. Hopefully it won’t take much longer for someone to make a move and get Aaliyah in a safe environment. Kudos to Jan and Simon and all the others that pushed for results.
everyone must be sleepin in today. Dang and I am stuck here at work … and it’s raining to make it even worse!
oh WOW thanks for that Link SASSY!!!!!!
I guess poor Aaliyah and Connie never stood a chance in this county. It is perfectly obvious this type of local occurance and INJUSTICE was preordained, before Aaliyah was even BORN.
So sad and so Obviously true that this little angel and her Maternal Family are in desperate need of help.
THANKS TO EVERYONE MAKING SURE THEY GET THE HELP AND JUSTICE THEY DESERVE!
Jan and Simon – thank you for all of your hard work on this. I continue to pray for Connie and Aaliyah and that God’s hand guides you in your mission to save this blessed child.
Dear Friends. 🙂 It has appeared that the Judge had friendly ties to Dustin , his family and Dustin’s lawyer. She did indeed watch the video and most likely believed it her self. She DID realize that the judgements she had already passed on to Connie were OUT OF LINE. She with-drawed from the case, and the judge personally thought it would be wise as well as the rest of us to obtain a JUDGE from OUT of the area. The money raised has gone to the lawyer. We thank you ALL so much for everything the storm for us is over, and its the calm before the storm for the other parties.
Thank you for reading.
Rumor Control,
Please clear up something, if you can.
This judge that recused themself yesterday – is this the judge that originally imposed supervised visitation on the father some time ago and was recently put back on the case? Or is this the judge that imposed the supervised visitation on the mother?
I’m getting confused here with these judge changes.
I thought the judge (male gender) that imposed the supervised visitation on the mother is the one that had ties to the family. Now, we are hearing that this judge that recused themself yesterday (female gender – whom I thought was a new judge just as of last week’s hearing) also has ties to the father’s family. I’m only stating the gender so that I can keep this straight.
I certainly hope that this latest development is a sign that our American judicial system is self-correcting any possible errors or misjudgements or botched proceedings that may have occured.
I fully understand that corruption is present at all levels of our government and society, but one of the extremely disturbing aspects of this case has been the seeming conspiracy within the county government to not even acknowledge that concerns, let alone actual criminal activities, exist.
I have a strong personal belief in the overall good of America and our judicial system. I am hoping that belief is upheld by the next actions taken in this case by the new judge.
This is good news and I hope that the truth (whatever it may be) comes to light!
One of the pro-father letters stated that he had a criminal record. I’m curious what the charge was.
Dustin’s family basically had too many ties in the town/county. Which ever judge it may be. The judge who with-drawed yesterday, was indeed a female. The judge changing is now HISTORY! 🙂 The new judge is NOW reviewing both sides of the case and will do his or her best to determine what is best for the child, with the possibility of a trial. The next court hearing is upon us. I will post as needed.
“I will post as needed”. Hmmmm…….
I was going HMMMMMM too Karen
Jenny, I will be VERY upset if I understand that to mean what I think it means.
I am not really sure what to think it means
Post as needed? Karen, what do you think that means? I am still on my first cup of coffee, so perhaps my mind is still weak. LOL
I had a gutt feeling the judge recused herself because of ties. Shame on her for hearing the case in the first place. I wonder if there will be ramifications on this court? If it is swept under the carpet again (I say again, after reading the investigative article I posted above that was posted on Aaliyah’s website) then this will obviously happen again to someone else.
Can you enlighten us more Rumor Control?
Meaning I will reply to your posts and questions as needed. Dont worry ladies, I am someone in the greater mix. It is apparent that this case is going to go the RIGHT way finally. Connie showing up with a lawyer yesterday PISSED Sandy off. Sandy has now realized she is screwed and can no longer use her “inner circle”.
There certainly is an “inner circle” The inner circle has realized the cold hard reality of this case. Connie getting that video out is the best thing she could have done. Connies lawyer has as MANY professional legal doctors look at the video and they have determined that the child was not led to say the things said on the video. That has been brought to the attention of the inner circle. A reality check for them, if you will.
Has a new judge already been appointed?
Also, regarding the money raised going to the new lawyer – now might be a good time to set up that trust where funds donated go directly to the lawyer as many have stated they would be much more comfortable donating if that were to be the case.
Thank you Rumor for the reply and I am happy to hear things may be starting to turn around for this sweet child. Since you mentioned you were in the greater mix.. send best wishes to everyone fighting over there for Aaliyah.
Talina that part is already taken care of. Connie is a lot more at ease. All of the donations and I do mean ALL of them have gone to the lawyer.
It can be proven in court if needed but the whole scam thing is just rumors and does not affect the case that Connie has with Dustin.
This is going to be a long haul but it only gets better from here.
Talina a new judge has been appointed in which there is an investigation to determine if there is a relationship to the “inner circle”. I can tell you that the new judge will not want to put him/her self at risk of being associated with the “inner circle”
I plan to bringing the “inner circle” to the attention of the U.S. Supreme Court, for all of the wrong doing they have done, that acticle about the “inner circle” is pretty much amazing, but that is an WHOLE other can of worms. After this case, there will be a petition drawn up and if we can all work together we can succeed at breaking that inner circle.
Thanks so much Rumor Control. You made my day
😀
May we know the name of Connie’s lawyer?
With the new judge, does that also mean starting from scratch with Aaliyah being interviewed/examed by professionals who can identify the allegations?
I meant support the allegations, not identify the allegations.
Thank you. I will answer questions the best that I can. But I will state that random details of what the child may or may not be calling the boyfriend or where the money is going or any thing negative is OVER. All of the bickering and accusations are….
Irrelevant!
It has not yet been decided when or where or if the child will go under another evaluation. This did just happen yesterday.
If Connie has no custody I don’t think she can order any evaluations. How can that be done then?
Thinkingdeeply,
Her attorney can petition the court to have then ordered or the court can order them on their own.
Rumor please understand we are very vested in this case. What I mean is, KarenCCC brought this case to Bnn. I immediately believed it and Karen and I both went to work. Jan and Simon jumped in within hours of Karen’s post. It was the weekend but we all worked day and night. We couldn’t eat or sleep. We made call after call, sent faxes, emails, actual letters. I personally wrote a letter to the U.S. President. We wrote the Govenator Mr. Arnold himself. We left no stone un-turned. I would not even attempt to try and guess how many hours we have spent on trying to help this family. We want to know, we NEED to know that Aaliyah is safe and away from the worm!!!
I understand Connie has to walk lightly but that has been the situation from the jump. It seems to me, the same folks that talked to us to get help, could now talk to us to give us some peace of mind about Aaliyah. Just because Connie has an attorney, as far as we know, Aaliyah is still in as much danger as she was last week, maybe more. We literally dropped our lives, many of us put personal relationships in jeopardy or lost them altogether, to help Connie and Aaliyah. We know Connie is in a much stronger position but we know nothing about this beautiful little child. She is on our minds and in our hearts and we can’t rest until we know she is out of harm’s way.
The new JUDGE will determine. there will be a request if the judge does not like what he or she see’s it is not up to Connie. There will be someone NOT familiar with the case or the parents. Apparently even the person/people who evaluated the child were indeed part of the inner circle. It will be up to the Judge and the request of the mother. Which will mor than likely take place.
As well as a request from the childs lawyer.
Did Connie have any police reports or hospital verification regarding the abuse against herself when she was still involved in a relationship with her daughters father? If so, has/was any of that presented to the courts previously?
AnneA, thank you, I was going to post something similar, but you are so eloquent with your words. Thank you very much.
Rumor Control said,in May 13th, 2009 at 12:02 pm The new JUDGE will determine. there will be a request if the judge does not like what he or she see’s it is not up to Connie. There will be someone NOT familiar with the case or the parents. Apparently even the person/people who evaluated the child were indeed part of the inner circle. It will be up to the Judge and the request of the mother. Which will mor than likely take place.
As well as a request from the childs lawyer.
Thank you so much for this information. I am praying the professionals reviewing the information to determine the allegations will also be from outside Placer county. Do we know if that will be the case yet or not? I would like to see an entire new group of professionals reviewing the allegations, including the GAL assigned for the child.
Anne I am aware as I too have been going throught the same thing.
Aaliyah is not safe. We are doing everything that can be done at this point to get her out of Dustins hands. Connie is working really hard and we commend her on her strength through this.
I will say that you may see him act out. This is what we fear but it can be good for Aaliyah’s sake. By him retaliating will prove to all of us and the people that he is doing what he is accused.
It’s a very scary time as well.
AnneA said,in May 13th, 2009 at 12:00 pm Rumor please understand we are very vested in this case. What I mean is, KarenCCC brought this case to Bnn. I immediately believed it and Karen and I both went to work. Jan and Simon jumped in within hours of Karen’s post. It was the weekend but we all worked day and night. We couldn’t eat or sleep. We made call after call, sent faxes, emails, actual letters. I personally wrote a letter to the U.S. President. We wrote the Govenator Mr. Arnold himself. We left no stone un-turned. I would not even attempt to try and guess how many hours we have spent on trying to help this family. We want to know, we NEED to know that Aaliyah is safe and away from the worm!!!
I understand Connie has to walk lightly but that has been the situation from the jump. It seems to me, the same folks that talked to us to get help, could now talk to us to give us some peace of mind about Aaliyah. Just because Connie has an attorney, as far as we know, Aaliyah is still in as much danger as she was last week, maybe more. We literally dropped our lives, many of us put personal relationships in jeopardy or lost them altogether, to help Connie and Aaliyah. We know Connie is in a much stronger position but we know nothing about this beautiful little child. She is on our minds and in our hearts and we can’t rest until we know she is out of harm’s way.
Very good points. Do we know if the child will remain in the fathers custody for the duration of the new trial and investigation into the alleged abuse?
mom1 we are far passed that stage of evidence.
I missed the reply to my previously posted question. So as of right now the child is still in the custody of her father as I read the info from Rumor Control.
Why would they not take the child out of his custody pending the investigation regarding the validity of the allegations?
Rumor Control said,in May 13th, 2009 at 12:10 pm mom1 we are far passed that stage of evidence
May I ask which of my questions you are responding to? I think it is in response to my question about the abuse to the mother, correct? Thank you.
Anne, I don’t see how in 2 weeks, a new judge will be willing to pull Aaliyah from her home without a full investigation. Its not how CPS works, I know that for a fact. How else does one help this child then? Justice & courts take a long time to sort everything out.
Thats is in the works, we had a judge that was part of an “inner circle” in the county. Please read a bit more, we have been broken records for sooo long.
thinkingdeeply, it seems to me we keep the pressure on everyone. Hope that Connie’s lawyer make an immediate petition to the court to have the baby removed.
Rumor Control, put the name of the person you are responding to in front of your reply. And you are not being a broken record! Don’t bite the hand that has fed you!
Rumor Control,
May I please ask if you could add the user name to whom you are replying. I’m getting confused to which posts you are replying to.
Thank you.
Mom1
Yes mom1 yes Karen.
Sorry guys, I meant to say “hands”
When all of this is over with, it will be interesting to me to see how much of this will be actually be ‘reported’. Living in the area, I read the Auburn Journal and the Roseville Tribune. I wonder if it will be reported at all or swept under the rug. If it is hidden……kept quiet…..swept under the rug, shame shame! We’ll see!
007.. have you heard anything locally? God that is terrible if you haven’t.
Jenny, NOTHING locally. It makes me feel ashamed of my community. 🙁
Why does everyone seem to read about this and not act on it.. meaning media, LE, CPS? I just don’t get it. How does a reporter not see the interest in this story. Even if a reporter investigates to improve his own reputation or to be praised a hero.. atleast someone would do it. But no one other than Jan and Simon. Bizarre to me.
Jenny, I don’t know. The fact that I’m not hearing anything on the local news or reading about it in the local papers feels very creepy to me.
So I guess the local paper is in the inner circle as well. Geesh I didn’t live that far from Auburn but dang.. I am so happy I moved to Fremont. lol
What probably happens is that the local newspapers are selective in what they put out there, in order to keep the communities ‘looking good’.
Jenny the reporters did not go ahead with the story because they want to stay on the county’s good side. The inner circle has far too much control over these people. It is sick.
Has any one here dicussed possibility of a protest out side of the court house?
Good or bad publicity.. a protest would get the media’s attention. Well atleast here in South Fl it would.
Jenny what about the national media? They are not in anyone’s pockets. There must be a reason they are not picking up this story. I’d like to know what their reasons are. I know they’ve been contacted.
A protest? I thought Connie is pleased with yesterday.
Good point thinking! maybe the main stream media just won’t touch it without proving it’s validity which seems to be very well hidden there.
Rumor, why are reporters outside this county not helping? its baffling
someone has to be able to get their hands on some court documentation? it happens all the time, things are leaked. why is this hush hush? its frustrating
Im not sure but here in FL most everything is public record but I don’t believe that is the case in CA. I do believe there is some documentation on the saveaaliyah website but I haven’t looked at it.
Simon would know way better about this, but I think that small local papers often have a contract or some kind of agreement that allows them to publish specific govt items like arrest records and govt business that are really the main reason people advertise in and buy the paper. I believe this agreement comes up for renewal on a periodic basis and the local govt gets to award the contract. So, if the local paper really does the local govt bad, they grant to contract to someone else, which effectively puts the local paper out of business.
I think that for this to hit the local media, it will have to be published by a larger outlet, like Sacremento or another large city nearby, first.
I could be way off on this, I am not in the newspaper business, but something like this was explained to me once…
maybe there should be a protest and get the media’s attention and the citizens that live there asking more questions. if I lived there I’d be terrified for my kids if officials wouldn’t help me.
Thanks for the info Space..!
Rumor,
I have no doubt that all money raised is being used to save Aaliyah. During the radio broadcast I clearly heard it stated, that Connie had sold all her worldly goods with all proceeds of the sales going for Aaliyah. I can’t in my wildest imagination think that a mother who does that, would waste one cent of any money she gets her hands on.
With all that said, Rumor, I hope you take this in the spirit I’ve written it. I’m not sure telling people who have sent their hard earned money, its a randon detail that’s over and not worth answering how it has been used, because its irrelevant.
I can assure you, its not unimportant to the donors. There are still many numbers of people STILL screaming this is a hoax and scam. Connie may need additional help before this is all wrapped up and I would HATE to see her needs be ignored. I don’t know if it was your intention but your post seem kind of ungrateful. I could be wrong, but I have been a supporter from the start, and I kind of feel like I’m being slapped in the face.
Perhaps its just me, maybe I am extra sensitive today. I could be wrong, I hope I am wrong. It’s almost like we are being told, we took your time, efforts and funds and now you all need to mind your own business. So far this feels like a very one sided relationship, we give and the Bedwells take.
We are not really asking for a lot. People who sent money, would like some accounting for how their funds were being used and others want to know Aaliyah is safe. Please forgive me if I am wrong, it wouldn’t be the first time. Maybe others feel differently. With all the controversary and doubts some have had, I would think the Bedwells would want the facts told.
No part of Aaliyah’s abuse was held back so why does it feel like her rescue is top secret. I will let others weigh in all this, as I said it may be just me. I remain willing to do whatever, but after your posts, I hope others are as well.
Spacely Simon did talk to the newspaper office in Auburn, The Auburn Journal. The first time she told us she was aware that there was a case but she hadn’t had the chance to check into it. This was on a Friday but she promiised to get back to us on Monday. When she never called back so we called her back instead. This time her whole attitude changed and she told us they have to stay in good graces with the police department and she clammed up on us not wanting to discuss it any further.
This is the same attitude we got from the Auburn Police Dept. The first one we talked to said they heard about it and then put him on hold and when someone else came back they couldn’t or more than liked wouldn’t tell us anything but took our number to call us back and we never heard more from them. How can anyone find out anything from Law Enforcement if they refuse to talk to reporters?
But I can assure you we haven’t given up!
Thanks everyone!
Jan
Rumor, are you asking us to protest in front of our courthouses? Because, I don’t live in CA. I had mentioned to someone in the Bedwell family to get a protest going infront of the courthouse, APD, news stations and such, if that’s what you mean.
ITA Anne. I’d like to see the new funds sent right to the lawyer now that she has one.
No more reason for it to go to a personal account. It will add to Connie’s credibility and others may stop screaming that she just wants to profit.
Anne I was speaking to the people who were asking irrelevant holly wood drama type questions. I have donated over 500 dollars and I am not done.
You are wrong to take it as a slap in the face.
Jenny here in CA all family law cases are CONFIDENTIAL.
I do have to go now but I will be back on later tonight , I know I will have a lot to read…. thinkdeeply the account thing had already been taken care of.
Jan, thanks for that info.
The part about the police is what really concerns me in this case. I can understand the paper’s attitude if they are financially dependent on the good graces of the police dept (although that is a whole ‘nother issue that seems to destroy the purpose behind the free press). But for the police to refuse to talk to the press period is baffling.
Keep up the good work!
I am going to have to agree with AnneA on this one.
At this point, nothing is irrelevant.
Connie is not out of the woods and she is not on the way to the promised land. However, a path can now be seen and hope is much greater than ever before, at least in the time that I have been following this case.
I would suggest that Connie give any details of donated money to Jan and Simon to print for the many donators to see, as well as the doubters. I personally see no reason that this should be private since the funds were requested from the general public.
I see Rumor state that the issue is now handled? Does that mean a trust was set up? I personally believe a wave of new donations will begin as soon as clear evidence emerges all funds will be used for the intended purpose.
Please understand, I am in no way trying to begin an arguement. But right now, Connie is facing a public perception problem that could easily be cleared up and the faster, the better for her child.
I also think that as much transparency as possible will entice national mainstream media to take this case seriously and begin to invest their resources into finding the truth behind the justice system in Placer County.
YEA!!!! sorry ive havent felt well latley..but maybee something will be done to benifit Aaylia instead of the father….im elated!!!!!♥
Spacely precisely what I was trying to say, you said it better and more to the point.
Thank you. I just want to KNOW this child continues to get the assistance she needs.
YEA!!!! sorry ive havent felt well latley..but maybee something will be done to benifit Aaylia instead of the father….im elated!!!!!♥
Rumor,
I do understand and appreciate what an emotional turmoil all of you have been under. Knowing a child is being sexually abused and we are powerless to stop it, kills our souls. I have not seen the “Hollywood” questions you are referring to. I’m not saying they aren’t here, I just have not seen read them yet.
Aaliyah is known to you, you love her as a little person, with her own personality. We don’t even know what she looks like but trust this, we care SO MUCH about her safety.
Karen and I talk on the phone several times a day about this case. We are still not sleeping much. I don’t know how much weight she has lost but I have lost 17 pounds as of this morning. The outcome of this does matter to us.
Things can change so quickly, I fear Connie could find herself in a bad way again. Predators are capable of almost anything and nothing this man might do would surprise me. Connie has just recently gained some REAL support. I don’t want anything like a misunder-stood post, preventing her from keeping that support, should she need it again.
Until Aaliyah is OUT of his house, I feel like we are only half done with this mission. We are on Aaliyah’s side first and foremost. Some folks have not followed this from the beginning and their questions are real. They may be very helpful at some point. I didn’t intend to offend anyone and if I did, I’m sorry.
Rumor
I didn’t tell you what I meant to say in the last post to you.
I know an elderly lady who sent a portion of her prescription money to Connie. It was no where near $500.00 but in a way it was more. It was all she had and it was earmarked for another important use. It is people like that you may feel better if they KNEW, the money was spent toward saving Aaliyah. I have NO doubts but I will refer back to Spacely’s post regarding the reason an accounting would be in order and appreciated.
Thinkingdeeply
Yes things get leaked but it serves no purpose and is not acceptable with a child. We should not expect any documents about a child’s case.
I personally feel better knowing she is being given at least that in the way of protection.
To those wanting a trust fund set up for Aaliyah. I know in many states a child’s trust fund is CONTROLLED by the custodian parent. If that is true for CA. that would mean that the dad would be in charge of how ALL money was spent and I can PROMISE he would NOT allow one cent to go to obtain an attorney for Mom.
The exception to this rule in most cases is if the non custodial parent is the person putting the money in the trust fund from their own sources and not from outside sources.
My day has come to an end.. Hope everyone has a wonderful evening!
Anne A said at 3:09 pm
We don’t even know what she looks like but trust this, we care SO MUCH about her safety.
I have been watching this case, too. But there are 2 pictures of her on the internet. What do you mean you don’t know what she looks like? No offense meant in this post.
Pictures:
saveaaliyah.com/
freeaaliyah.webs.com/apps/photos/
Tori
No offense taken. Yes I have seen photo’s on the site but the pictures I saw was one of when she was a newborn and another that showed her but not a close up. Kids looks often change a lot over weeks and months. I mean if I saw Aaliyah on the street, I don’t think I could pick her out of a group of children. I have a granddaughter, I recognize her a block away. That is all I meant.
Its like people saying they love these kids like their own. I don’t understand how that works either. I mean I love all kids but I don’t love these kids in the same way or with the same passion, I love my own. Loving a child comes from knowing them, watching them grow, talking to them, caring for them. I don’t know how anyone can say they love these children they have never met, just like they love their own. I don’t love any child, the same way I love the kids that are close to me. The ones I know personally.
Ok find the tree and rope and string me up, I am just being honest.
I don’t want to find a rope. I am not a part of a lynch mob. I know what you are doing is coming from your heart.
bye for now.
Tori
Ok I just learned there is new pictures of Aaliyah that have been put up. I have not been on that site since the first week this started. Sorry I still don’t know if I could pick her out of a group.
Thanks for speaking up, if you hadn’t I wouldn’t even know things have been added to that site. Thank You
Tori
Thank you for saying that, I really appreciate it. My heart hurts for any child being abused in any way. I guess that is why I haven’t gone back to Aaliyah’s site, it is painful to watch. I can’t even imagine how her family feels nor how they cope with what they know is happening to her. I admire their strength but at the same time, I doubt I could do it. I fear if my child was going thru that, I would be wanted by the FBI cause my heart would over-ride my brain, I would still be running and hiding out with my baby. Connie is doing the smart and legal thing, I don’t think I would.
I thank God, I am not in her shoes.
To AnnA,
No one who supports Aaliyah, Connie or the Bedwell’s would say such a disrespectful, unthankful thing as “how the donations have been spent is irrelevant”. That is and would be a slap to the face of all who helped them whether through monetary donations or donations of their precious time. This certainly is not the attitude of the Bedwell’s! The only ones crying scam, hoax, and fraud are the supporters of Dustin David Thompson the child molester.
NOT ONE DONATOR HAS ASKED FOR THEIR MONEY BACK!
People who come in here and post all the nicest, dearest hopes and wishes towards Aaliyah and the Bedwell’s and then at some point along the way state such a vile offensive comment is only to start division and then the fiery rage of controversy and then division is started.
The Thompson’s strategy is to divide and conquer those who support Aaliyah and Connie. The most sensitive topic they can pick is people’s donations of time and money.
They attack the authenticity of the video and that’s fine, everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Their request of law enforcement to investigate the claims of fraud should bring about a comprehensive investigation as to the authenticity of the Daddy’s Worm Video. Connie and the Bedwell’s would happily cooperate with and support such an investigation. When telling the truth positive and/or negative attention only brings out the truth. The Bedwell’s have nothing to hide.
Don’t be fooled by people who come in here to post pro Aaliyah/Bedwell camp statements and then pop off with such vile disrespect to all those who have given so very much to this effort. The pressure brought bare by those who have been so active in this cause is just starting to bring results. Thompson’s and their supporters are desperate to shut it down.
As previously stated by the Bedwell’s; The donation account will set up in such away that it will take two signatures, one from counsel and one from Connie for use of any portion of the donated funds. As soon as this is finalized a statement with exact specifics will be released.
THE BEDWELL’S ARE EXTREMELY THANKFUL FOR ALL THOSE WHO HAVE AND DO CONTINUE TO SUPPORT THIS CAUSE.
To AnnA,
My previous post was not directed at you, but in answer to your post to Rumor. Just clarifying.
Tori
The tree and rope was just a joke.
LOL! I could just see AnneA’s face right now if you didn’t clarify that Mr. Bedwell! Sorry AnneA, I know it’s not funny, really, but I could only just imagine……I needed a laugh, Thank you!
So my questions earlier now make me a bad person siding with the father? That really hurts someone who wants justice for Aaliyah.
I’m not sure why it’s wrong to ask about things without making some people like me appear to side with ‘the other side’.
I think a lot of people over the past week have walked away from Connie & Aaliyah because they felt the way I do now. I’m not sure why Jan has her blog open without clear rules at the top. My questions have been sincere and wanting to get to the truth just like everyone. I didn’t donate but a friend did and she is wondering how her money is used. That makes her somehow bad? I’m not sure why its necessary to make us feel bad for asking anything including the donations. 🙁
Mr. Bedwell,
After reading back, I did notice Rumor kept saying they were in ‘inner circle”, never stating which side they are on. I did wonder if maybe….but then to have questioned their motives, could cause controversary. We have had more than enough of that. Honestly, Karen and I were on the phone, and thought Rumor was kind of flippant. They did not sound like any Bedwell we have been dealing with. Thanks for clearing that up. No doubt they will be back with the same game, and a new name. Those folks are persistant, not right, but gall dang determined!
AnneA I know what you exactly what you are saying. I think most people just feel such a passion for the innocent ones being hurt that maybe they feel an exaggerated sense of love and sympathy for them. I know I feel large passion. I know I love my children and grandchildren like no other!
Mr. Bedwell,
Karen just called me and we are confused. Is Rumor pro or con? If they are part of the Bedwell group, please read the post above on 5-13-09 at 11:48 a.m. and tell us what they are saying.
It don’t matter who says what ever, just know there are some who absolutely believe the video, you and your family. I have been told I can have tunnel vision in some cases. I can, and this is one of those cases! I have not doubted this for one micro second and neither has a few others. We will do whatever is needed to help Aaliyah.
Pattianne
I am so glad you understand, I was thinking maybe there is something wrong with me. I just know the more I am around a child, the closer I feel toward them but I don’t instantly love them, like I do mine, the ones I have raised.
And yes when a child is being abused, our protective instincts kick in and we have the hearts of lionesses defending our own cubs. But absent that emotion, it’s not the same for me. Can you imagine what Christmas shopping would be like, if everyone REALLY loved other people’s kids like their own. Donald Trump wouldn’t have enough money to pay those credit card debts. LOL
To thinkingdeeply,
If your friend who’s donated desires information on the statis of her/his donation have her/him give the reciept # and we’ll contact them and provide the information they request.
Thinkingdeeply,
I don’t think anyone is saying you are on the father’s side. I don’t see that posted anywhere. I think most questions asked here today have been honest and serious question with the only motive being a desire to know.
Some questions I think were asked to inquire to make certain all avenue’s possible have been explored. I think there are a lot of folks who have a real desire to help this child. NOTHING can possibly be wrong with that.
The Bedwells have invited all questions and been extremely forthcoming and gracious about all of this. We all just want Aaliyah safe.
Well Miss Karen, so glad I could amuse you. Just remember I am a NATURAL blond so I was 2 posts down before it hit me….LOL
Blogging is so hard cause words without the facial reactions and body language is much harder to read. I can see how things get so easily off track for some.
Like I said being a blond helps, see by the time you get mad, your 2 posts away and already mad about something else!! Hey it works for me.
To Thinkingdeeply,
This is to ANYONE who’s made monetary donations for Aaliyah…if you wish to know it status please publish your receipt number here at BNN and we’ll answer your questions.
Looking forward to hearing from your friend thinkingdeeply.
AnneA- hahaha right I hear that I want to buy my grandkids stuff all the time its hard to control myself if i let myself get that carried away I def go broke lol! Cant save em all! So I pray for them. Hoping that helps some.
in re to Tim Bedwells statement, I want to say I feel the same way, it is all about how they can divide and conquer the support that is so desperately needed for Aaliyah and Connie (and the rest of you who are close to them).
It angers me that people would be so petty as to argue over financial statements on donations at a time like this.
WHO ARE WE to decide how the money is spent, as long as Aaliyah and Connie have the funds available they can get more help, which no matter what side of the fence you are on, I think we can all agree on that!
If those funds are not available they may not get the help they need. THAT you can count on as Fact!
I can think of Many people who have blindly donated toward psychics and the like, and who have No Real Proof for what their ‘donations’ have been spent on, they sometimes are involved with missing children cases, etc.
Sometimes It is all a matter of what You feel is right about whether you or others should donate. Screaming hoax and scam will do nothing but ruin what credibility Connie has managed to hang onto and that will do Nothing to help Aaliyah.
I think most of us want what is best for Aaliyah and that is Justice.
It is simple, if you support Connie and Can donate then do it, if you have any question then don’t. Isn’t it nice we all have a Choice?
Don’t discredit Connie by arguing over a moot point.
Rumor Control said,in May 13th, 2009 at 11:48 am Thank you. I will answer questions the best that I can. But I will state that random details of what the child may or may not be calling the boyfriend or where the money is going or any thing negative is OVER. All of the bickering and accusations are….
Irrelevant!
Tim Bedwell reply,
To AnnA & Karen,
Rumorcontrol is NOT KNOWN to be in our camp though it appears that what she leads to people to believe… I will not comment on what Aaliyah calls Connie’s boyfriend due to the Thompson’s actively brainwashing Aaliyah to confuse her. It’s logical that this is information they want to know for that purpose. Please refer to my 5/13/09 – 4:39 pm. post, third from the last paragraph. It fits Rumorcontrol to a tee.
Pattianne
I have the same problem, when my kids was at home, I never spent money on me. Thought once they were all grown, it would be my turn. NOPE they went out and had kids cuter then they were and well anything extra goes to the grands, heck sometimes I get carried away and my christmas club deposit don’t make it to the bank. Have to double up the next week. Vicious cycle I tell you.
Mr. Bedwell, now I am kicking myself because I was trying to be “nice” to Rumor Control, but when I first read their post I wish they were sitting right in front of me to slap the flippant attitude they had. But, because of who I am, I did not. Thank you for letting us know.
I have forwaded your comment to her email. I’ve asked her to email the site with her receipt # too. ty
Mr. Bedwell,
I know what Aaliyah calls Connie’s boyfriend ONLY because she mentioned it to me in conversation. I can tell everyone, Aaliyah KNOWS very well who the boyfriend is and who worm daddy is. This child is NOT NOT NOT confused about who is who. EVERY child molester tries this same type of deception. They WILL DO ANYTHING to confuse the child. Worm daddy if you are reading this, you are NO different then the others. You are a bigger creep tho, doing this to your own daughter. Do you really think the judges and prosecutors will find this new and unusual? They WON’T!!!
Any hope you ever have for any kind of redemption will be gone. Not only have you sexually abused your little girl but you add insult or injury by lying about it.
BTW my conversation with Connie was prior to the gag order she is now under.
AnneA-exactly I have 5 grandkids so the more there are the more it costs since you know they kind of keep track on what each other gets from nani n poppi lol!
Family Law records are typically public in Placer County not cofidential like Rumor said. The county has however made some files confidential (as they see fit). I don’t know if that is the case here but would assume so due to all the controversy and accusations regarding how they are handeling the case.
I don’t know any of the involve parties but have personal experience with Placer County. My experiences have proven to me that the county judicial system, CPS, the Step program, (and likely the police enforcement as well, don’t have first hand knowledge of them) are all corrupt. My attorney has told me time and time again that if I don’t play by the rules of the gang (the “inner circle” everyone keeps refering to) that I might as well not even bother going before the courts. I didn’t believe it at first and didn’t listen and was blasted by the courts and the children’s court appointed lawyer for trying to protect my kids. I even got blamed by the courts for referrals to Placer County Access (what Placer considers CPS) by the children’s counselors, doctors, teachers, and school principle.
I was threatened with losing custody of my kids because mandatory reporters were reporting abuse and I was somehow responsible supposed to control my kids and keep them from talking to the court ordered therapist, their teachers about the abuse and I shouldn’t have taken my child to the doctor to document the bruises she had and claimed they were at the hands of her father. Dad worked for the county and had everyone wrapped around his finger.
So my point is YES I believe Connie. I can understand scepticism as this isn’t the way the legal system should work. Connie is up against a huge battle, even with a new judge I would be very sceptical that this new judge wouldn’t be impartial at all. I certainly hope that the new judge isn’t from Sacramento County either. I have heard better things regarding Sacramento County but have also heard of some pretty odd ruling coming from there, and the two counties are too tied together to get impartiality there either. Most attornies used to practice in both counties, many have since refused to practice in Placer because they refuse to play the game and know that any Placer county client they would represent would be unfairly treated as a result.
I pray for Aaliyah to be safe, and I feel for Connie and her family. To be in such a defenseless situation with nobody in power that cares almost feels like you are the helpless child being abused, wondering why nobody wants to help.
My kids will probably be in therapy for the rest of their lives trying to sort out what happened to them and what parts were considered okay and what parts weren’t.
Poor Aaliyah will likely need many years of therapy as well to recover from this tragic experience. I wish Connie, Aaliyah and the rest of the Bedwell family the best of luck.
Does anyone know what time and what department the hearing on the 26th is in?
ALL MONETARY DONATIONS ARE GOING TO, AND HAVE GONE TO, CONNIE’S ATTORNEY RONALD BRITT.
Thank you to ALL who have donated their time and money.
If you don’t want to keep being sucked into the Thompson B.S. Take to heart only the information updates posted by the Bedwell’s and BNN KarenCCC & AnnA as credible….WE ALL POST BY OUR NAMES.
The Child Molester and his attorney Sandra Amara again filed another Ex-Party hearing that was heard this morning before the new judge. The issue is unknow at this time, but not hard to guess at!
Mr Bedwell
My prayers are with Aayliah May God be with her and bring her to safety once and for all!
good evening everyone
Another ex parte hearing huh? Now, I’ll admit most of my knowledge about such things is only from what I’ve seen on television shows so take that for what’s it worth but it seems to me that judges usually will refuse an ex parte hearing because of the perception of it being behind the other party’s back and very unfair for the other party to not be there to hear what is discussed. At the very least, the other side’s attorney should be entitled to receive a transcript of what was discussed.
Wow, I came home to find out that Rumor Control may be from the other camp? It really makes sense in hindsight. Like Karen, I found some of the remarks to be very flippant. I felt like he/she was telling us “We don’t need you people anymore” (in so many words). Now the remarks make sense.
I was a little taken aback. Thank you so much Tim Bedwell for the heads up.
To placerresident,
We will inform you if you would like when we know.
Placerresident, hmmmmmmm……
Sassy, I know, that’s EXACTLY what I thought he/she was saying. I bit my tongue hard on that one.
Just to remind everyone- I have been dating Connie for over two years, and have seen EVERYTHING that has happened. The only thing Aaliyah has ever called me is Darrwwoll- since she has trouble pronouncing my name! She has NEVER EVER once referred to me as anything else! She has known who her father was the entire time, and she knew who I was the entire time- and in no way was she ever confused about this. I have NOT seen Aaliyah- or has ANYONE in Connie’s family in ten months, since the pedophile gained full custody. He will not allow even Aaliyah’s Aunt who she was VERY close with to see her. We all know that this is a way for the pedophile to keep her quiet, and to keep control over Connie and Aaliyah, by NOT allowing anyone who loves her to see her.
Now for the second thing- we are currently trying to NOT post too much info on here or anywhere else as we do not want to upset the father so he does not take it out on Aaliyah. Yes Connie did have an ex-parte hearing yesterday which the judge from Placer County excused herself, and yes his lawyer was pissed! My personal opinion is that this may have had A LOT to do with a few different reasons:
#1- the fact that Connie was able to gain enough money to pay a lawyer named Ronald Britt to represent her-
#2- the fact that MANY MANY people have spent there own time emailing everyone in Placer County asking for help and stating reasons HE should be in jail, which I believe is putting A LOT of weight on certain people in the county to actually do there jobs-
#3- I believe this judge may have actually looked into how many people are following this case and realizes how high-profile it is going to become, and does not want to make ANOTHER mistake like the one she made by issuing the restraining order against Connie by violating her civil rights.
As of right now- Aaliyah is NOT SAFE- she is still with him, and Connie has a meeting with her attorney tonight as to which direction there are going to head with trying to get Aaliyah removed from his house- even if it means she will be put in a foster home until the false accusations about Connie are cleared up.
ALL of the donations from saveaaliyah.com have gone STRAIGHT to the attorney- and will continue to go directly to him to fund the fight against the pedophile! We will be in contact with Jan and Simon after we receive the receipt from the attorney so they can see everything and know UNDOUBTEDLY that ALL of the money is used for the attorney.
We absolutely appreciate everyone’s help- whether it be by donations, by contacting everyone in placer county which we have asked to be contacted, or even by talking about this case with friends or online- it REALLY helps just to keep the movement going and to keep the pressure on the authorities to do their job properly and protect this innocent baby girl!
I just want to also say thank you all for understanding that a lot of this information with this case is very sensitive- and we really do have to watch what we post as every word we write has an effect on Aaliyah’s fathers attitude- and if we piss him off he may be likely to take it out on her– But we will answer as many questions as it takes to show all of you we are speaking the truth and fighting for Aaliyah’s safety. If you really focus on what we are writing- it’s farely easy to see who actually IS part of our family and not someone acting like they are on the inside to try and start controversy and disbelief.
Placer resident- just to let you know- we did deal with the VERY corrupt Step program in placer county, and at court two weeks ago we were informed they had lost there funding and are no longer!
Rumor Control said,in May 13th, 2009 at 2:17 pm Anne I was speaking to the people who were asking irrelevant holly wood drama type questions. I have donated over 500 dollars and I am not done.
You are wrong to take it as a slap in the face.
Jenny here in CA all family law cases are CONFIDENTIAL.
Tim Bedwell says,
Rumorcontrol please provide your reciept # on this BNN thread of your donation for varification.
Thank you
Thank you
Jan and Simon:
I haven’t posted since I was treated rather poorly and accused by someone on the BNN website of being someone I wasn’t – but I still have been watching from afar, waiting for an opportunity to offer help, if needed.
I waited for you to respond to the email I sent to you previously, but never received a reply.
I know someone with lots of national media contacts who may be interested in covering this case. This person covered an extremely high profile child molestation case and worked doggedly to uncover facts the prosecution later used in their case against the accused defendant.
I know this to be true, and put my trust in this person because I was a witness for the prosecution in this case.
I don’t believe this person would step on BNN’s toes … in fact, I think they would work diligently with you to enhance your efforts.
If you would like me to contact this person, please drop me an email and let me know.
Darrell, does that mean the ex-parte went well this morning if Connie is going to be speaking with her lawyer tonight?
That’s good news about the Step program. They had too much power and are not looking out for the kids just their paycheck in my opinion.
I actually was sucessful in convincing one Placer county access social worker to investigate at least one of the referrals and they did tell me that they had decided the abuse was founded. The judge still didn’t care and wouldn’t order supervised visits. They did however reverse their 50/50 order they implemented when they threatened me with losing custody because of the referrals. So now my two kids are ordered to go over everyother weekend. I fought this for the last six years and have come to the conclusion that the courts are not interested in helping the kids ecsape the abuse. The social worker told me my only choice was to fight it in Family law court because their burden of proof is so high they can’t fight a case in juvinal court unless the child is seriously injured first. This is sick in my opinion.
I hope that Aaliyah’s story turns out differently and the new judge actually does something to protect this innocent child.
I don’t remember if it was Tim or Darryl who said they would let me know about the hearing. I am interested to know and am interested in attending if possible. However I attended a hearing two weeks ago before Frances Kearny in the old courthouse and it isn’t really condusive to outside spectators. The new Santucci center has more space. I wasn’t sure, due to the publicity, if they would try to make it a semi-private hearing with its own calendar though. I understand if you would rather not post that here. I am willing to give you my email address or I can drag my lazy self down to the courthouse myself and check. I’m sure you have enough on your plate already.
I hope everything went okay today at the new hearing. Thanks for keeping us posted.
Concerned for Aaliyah! and using my real name like asked.
Darrel; a piece of quote from you 7:51 pm “and we really do have to watch what we post as every word we write has an effect on Aaliyah’s fathers attitude- and if we piss him off he may be likely to take it out on her”
Your words scare me when I then read others calling him a pedophile and child molester too. Won’t that upset him the most? What if he takes off with this girl? If his family has that much money, it’s a scary thought. 🙁
Hague Convention. 😉
Is my post funny Momof1? Maybe new people need to keep quiet then. 🙁
Darrel, regarding part of your comment at 7:51 pm ” and we really do have to watch what we post as every word we write has an effect on Aaliyah’s fathers attitude- and if we piss him off he may be likely to take it out on her–”
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The way this is being talked about by the public could be ticking off the father and putting Aaliyah at risk. I’m not sure he’s going to care whether a friend/family member of Connie’s said something he doesn’t like or a member of the public did. But if we let that influence us then we’d have to stop talking about this and stop demanding an investigation and justice. And of course we can’t do that.
I am praying that by bringing this situation out of the darkness and into the light – the public spotlight – that the father will have the sense to know that he better see to it that NO harm comes to Aaliyah now. He better pray she doesn’t even fall off her tricycle by accident and bruise her knee.
If he has one working brain cell in his head, he has to know that the authorities could arrive at his home at any minute of the day or night to investigate and/or to take Aaliyah to a place of assured safety while the situation is investigated.
I hope he has enough brains to know what is DEFINITELY coming – ANY moment! And that is an investigation. I am sure of that. He better be making it his top priority to see that no harm of any kind comes to Aaliyah now – for his own sake if for no other.
I HAVE BEEN CORRECTED; RUMORCONTROL IS “IN THE KNOW” AND “WELL WITHIN THE INTER CIRCLE”. RUMORCONTROL IS INVESTIGATING AND REVIEWING THIS CASE! I APOLOGIZE FOR MY INSINUATIONS.
I am a little weary and I think I speak for all who took up and supported this cause from the beginning. Please forgive me I was the last to know.
It looks like maybe I’m not in the inter circle????
Pattianne – Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.
Tim & Darrell,
It would seem Connie scored some what of a win in the last court battle. This is only the first of what may be many hearings. Having a positive outcome is great but it by no means wins the war.
We are here, standing at the ready. For me personally, I have NO intention of walking away, until Aaliyah is safely back in her Momma’s arms. It’s where she belongs and should be.
The eyes of the world are now on Placer county. I would hope they dp not intend to compound their mistakes of the past. It is time to accept the responsibility for their wrong doing. Yesterday can’t be changed, but this is a new day. Some people may be able to claim ignorance for prior errors. As of today, that excuse is no longer acceptable.
It is time to do the right thing for Aaliyah. No little girl should be forced to live with a worm. It’s un-natural and disgusting. I don’t care how much influence a family has. The authorities who have kept this child in this hell, are as guilty as the pedrophile.
Aaliyah must be removed from the abuser now. I pray for her safety and her freedom. God bless this baby and each of those who fight for her.
To the the “good ole boys’ who are even thinking about business as usual, just remember, you reap what you sow. To the others let your conscience be your guide.
Mr Bedwell, are you here this morning? BTW, Rumor Control, I am sorry about what I said yesterday. You came off as flippant. Darrel, are you here?
I have not been able to keep up with every post on this case over the last week so I don’t pretend to know or understand everything.
So please don’t get mad when I ask a couple of questions.
Yesterday @ 11:18 am, RumorControl reported that “Connies lawyer has as MANY professional legal doctors look at the video and they have determined that the child was not led to say the things said on the video.”
Wasn’t it just last week that Connie went to a hearing without a lawyer? And as a result it was reported that the gag order on her was extended to her friends and family and that she was going to be held responsible for what THEY said? This week she has a lawyer and they’ve had time to get the tape to “MANY professional legal doctors” who have had the time to look at it, make a determination and report back? That was fast! How/where did they find these professional legal doctors who all came to the same conclusion? Presumably not in Placer County where everyone is conspiring against this child? Perhaps these doctors can write a note to Placer County Child Protective Services to let them know there is good reason to suspect abuse and demand a proper investigation?
And yesterday at 11:27 am the same poster wrote: “It can be proven in court if needed but the whole scam thing is just rumors and does not affect the case that Connie has with Dustin.” I beg to disagree. The father can and will throw any mud on the mother that he can find. And accusations of a moneymaking scam would be easy. Just point to the website with paypal buttons and say “She’s making money off of calling me a pedophile.’ I am quite sure that an impartial judge would want answers to that right away. Proof of where that money is going. It’s a possible motive for her to lie about him so of course it could affect the case she has against him.
And at 11:34 RC said: “I plan to bringing the “inner circle” to the attention of the U.S. Supreme Court, for all of the wrong doing they have done.”
That’s a great idea but I think before the Supreme Court will even consider hearing a case, all efforts up to and including the State Supreme Court have to be exhausted first.
One step at a time, I guess, is how it will get done.
Sorry I am confused about things. Maybe someone can clear up some of it for me. BTW – I totally support the investigation into this case and hope it moves FAST for Aaliyah’s sake.
Among the things I DO understand are Simon’s recent reports about some lawyers, LE and others refusing comment etc. I’m sure the rats are busy covering their behinds as they attempt to desert their sinking ship. But not all of them are going to be able to get off that ship and will be held accountable. And for whatever reason she did it I’m glad the last judge recused herself – as long as a really impartial judge was brought in from out of town. Hopefully that can only be GOOD news for Aaliyah.
Good morning Karen!
MrBedwell- You are very welcome , I commend you and your entire family for standing up and fighting for your grandbabies right to a safe happy and productive life. She needs to feel safe and loved. Connie and Aaliyah are lucky for one thing ….you and the power of love within a family to unite and stick together. With this support I know God will see that she is safe and justice is done. You have a very smart little baby and if she is as strong as her mama she will come out of this a stronger person yet. Good luck and know we are here supporting her too! Take care and God Bless
AnneA – I’m trying to catch up here. Is the last court battle that you are referring to the one where the judge recused herself and appointed a different (out of town?) judge?
Good Morning Pattianne, they are doing a radio show in Tampa, FL, 102.5 The Bone, I don’t know if the family is going to be on. Some interesting discussion from callers and this guy “Bubba”. Is anyone from the family on the boards this morning?
Simon and Jan! I’m listening to you right now.
I should have said family and friends, it appears that they have lots of both :).
I used to live near Tampa in SanAntonio Fl its between tampa and orlando nice area. My sis in law still lives there. Radio show sounds interesting!
Are they on it?
Yes, Simon and Jan are speaking right now. Go to http://theboneonline.com/inside/contact_us.html
This is going great, this guy (the radio personality) is on XM Radio in the afternoons, this is going to be broadcasted all over the world this afternoon! I am so excited. The heat is on!!!!
Oh my gosh thats cool! awesome!
m2c, I just read your post, I don’t have any information regarding any of your questions. Connie does now have a lawyer, but I don’t know what has been done yet. Mr. Bedwell is in Alaska and Connie’s other friends and family are in CA. I don’t know the time difference in Alaska. I hope Mr. Bedwell or someone from Connie’s “camp” will answer your questions soon. I just didn’t want you to think anyone was ignoring you.
Thank you KarenCCC. I know other stuff is going on right now. I didn’t feel ignored.
No rush. And I was so glad to hear that she has a lawyer now. That should be a big help.
Trish, you do not need to be quiet. We are all very scared for Aaliyah. My worst fear is the “father” either taking Aaliyah and fleeing or something far worse. I don’t know what momof1 meant, but you are welcome here.
m2c I am sorry I was not ignoring you either. I was not on here at the time you asked the questions.
I can only assume Connie’s new attorney see’s the need to move quickly on this case. Every minute that child is with her father, she is in real danger. At least that is what I hope that is happening.
m2c nobody is upset by the questions. They are welcomed. I know tempers flew over this stuff before but it was NOT because of sincere questions being asked. The other dynamic’s going on outweighed the questions and that is what was so upsetting.
That radio show was absolutely awesome. I really think Aaliyah will get the help she needs.
Simon and Jan you could not have been more impressive, good job. We all try to make a difference, it is so rewarding to actually help in making a change that matters.
Whats the diff between a Legal Doctor and a regular one? Sorry I am confused 😳
I think its a lawyer who has also studied medicine so they can be effective in injury cases as far as understanding damage done.
The regular doctor or attorney have not studied other vocations.
Oh okay 🙂
I sure wouldn’t want to be any ONE of the people that turned a blind eye to this case. I don’t just mean because of the trouble they will most likely be in legally. I would hate to have to try and look myself in the mirror everyday knowing I helped a man sexaully assault a baby at will for the past 2 years.
I haven’t even thought about the karma going their way. I mean I am a firm believer in reaping what you sow and getting back what you put out. There is NO way this can be a positive thing for any of the ones that didn’t respond.
Shoot if all the ones who ignored this and or helped cover this up, lose their jobs, Placer county will have a lot of job openings.
AnneA, I’m hoping that the radio show does some good. He seemed pretty angry that no one is doing anything to get this baby help. I’m hoping his expert doctors do the investigation they say they would. I’m anxious to listen tomorrow am.
“Legal Doctor” is one who is familiar with court proceedings, legal paperwork and testimony. You can google the term; never heard of it before!
True Val. Legal Doctor is a valid term. Not very widely heard or used in layman speak. For instance, medical expert witness is a “legal doctor” an accounting expert witness is a “legal accountant”, etc.
That radio show is sure taking a beating on other sites as far as the reputation and problems the host has had in the past with his subject matter and FCC violations.
How do you listen to this radio show?
I didn’t get to listen to it. I saw the post after it the interview was over. Karen had posted a link the radio station website and from there you can listen live over the internet. I believe they were being interviewed by the morning show host “bubba” something or other. Not sure. I clicked on the link but the interview was already over.
KarenCCC and everyone else here… I promise you one thing, what Bubba says is what Bubba does! Definitely tune in tomorrow! I would never have heard of Aaliyah’s plight had it not been for Bubba and I guarantee you he and his crew will not let this rest until there is a resolution and accountability to those who failed this beautiful innocent child… Dr. Saturley literally cancelled appointments today to research and prepare for Friday’s show… you can listen live online at http://theboneonline.com/ just click the “Listen Live” link at the top left of the home page…
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you fighting for Aaliyah and especially for Aaliyah and her mom! Stay strong!
And true, Bubba has gotten a bad wrap for some of his antics in the past, he can be “adult” in nature, but his adult natured entertaining antics have nothing to do with the man he is and his heart for protecting children… listen tomorrow and form your own opinions… I promise you will not find a better advocate or a stronger more powerful voice that is willing to expose the travisty going on in Placer county right now, and his call to action will have greater results than you can possibly imagine… Aaliyah just got the juggernaut that she so deserves, I promise you that!
I just found what you are all talking about. Clint? How can you label the reason he was fired as adult natured entertainment? Anything relating to describing children sexually is disgusting to me. I could never call that adult entertainment antics. I respectfully disagree with you sir. A better advocate would be a dr phil or nancey grace. where are they?
PLEASE NO ONE WHO HAS SUPPORTED THIS CAUSE LEAVE THE SHIP….THIS FIGHT HAS JUST BEGUN AND WE NEED EVERYONE WHO’S WILLING TO KEEP FIGHTING FOR AALIYAH
THANKS TO ALL THE SUPPORTERS OF AALIYAH, CONNIE & THE BEDWELL FAMILY.
Rumor Control didn’t mean to hurt anyone’s feelings or treat you supporters with indifference or that your no longer needed. This cause is just beginning to get the attention it truly deserves and it’s all because of your support and tireless work especially that of KarenCCC and AnneA and of course BNN
I’ve got to run be will be back this evening…. Thank you all once again.
Trish,
I just read the FCC violation that involved Clear Channel and various stations this show was broadcast. No where in what I read was anything said about children nor sexual acts with or involving children. I’d seen that mentioned on some other sites so I took the time to read the FCC filing for myself to see what it says. This also took place eight years ago. Clear Channel was fined (the FCC calls its forfeiture) for allowing indecent broadcasting between certain hours of the day. It says nothing about any children.
For the Record
There are legal doctors that are indeed doctors familiar with law. There are also attorney’s who are medical graduates who ONLY handle clients who are in litigation with doctors and/or hospitals. I was not aware that there were legal doctors but I did know about attorney doctors. Sounds to me like they are both people who chcose a primary profession and they study another profession to improve their ability to assist in the primary field they have chosen. Learn something new every day.
Correction on my post: There is one small mention of children in that one of the segments for which they were cited as being indecent between the hours of 6am and 10pm were voices imitating cartoon characters and the conversation was graphically sexual in nature. Due to the cartoon voices, the FCC felt it would attract children to listen to the show since the recognized the cartoon character voices.
I’m in no way condoning this or saying I think this type of broadcast is okay by any stretch of the imagination. Me personally, I’d be disgusted hearing what I read and would change the radio station. I merely want to clear up the allegations that the reasons for the fines involved broadcasting skits or discussions involving children performing sexuals acts. Nothing I read said anything anywhere near that allegation.
Mr. Bedwell,
Thank you for the kind words. Jan, Simon, Karen and I all believe Aaliyah MUST be safe and we are still fighting to make that happen.
Supporters and opponents alike have all been instrumental in getting a light shined on Placer county. We all yelled long and loud.
Placer County never heard us, thankfully others in higher places did.
Listening to the radio program this morning, I really think things are on the cusp of changing. We have been saying help is on the way. After Bubba got involved I feel like help is here. I feel so optimistic about all this now, however you are so right. Until Aaliyah is out of Daddy’s reach, I think we will all be on edge.
ENOUGH ALREADY! This INNOCENT CHILD’S NAME and FACE are going to be broadcast to the WORLD where SICKO’S can get off reading this trash.
Does Aali NOT DESERVE HER PRIVACY? This is a MINOR CHILD here. A minor child who has NO choice in how her NAME and FACE are going to be coming up in searches with words like ‘children performing sexual acts. And guess who is looking up ‘crap like that. Go ask your buddy Joey.
Do you people have NO DECENCY whatsoever?
NOW who authorized this Howard Stern like shock dj to be a voice for Aali?
What do you think PLAYDATES are going to be like for this girl? Shouldn’t she be starting preschool about now?
I hope EVERY ONE OF YOU. Who perpetrated this nightmare for this. NOT ONE OF YOU HAVE THE DECENCY to leave this childs name out of thise. Let the new judge, NEW ATTORNEY, do their jobs!
This needs to stop NOW!
BEDWELL FAMILY, you have done MORE HARM to this little girl than you will ever imagine.
I can not see how a sane judge in ANY jurisdiction in this country would not terminate Connies parental rights entirely after this crap. And if- IF- the allegations you made against her father are true. She is better off WITHOUT ANY OF YOU and placed for adoption with a family who will love her, respect her and allow her to grow the innocent little girl she deserves to be.
Jan, Simon- if you were looking to bring the circus from Orange County to Placer, I think you did so this morning.
I am finished.
momof1, please understand that they have nothing left to do but to take this to the public. If you could hear the voices of this family, their desperation, maybe you can understand. No one is listening. I just found out today that the new judge is acting JUST LIKE the other 7! SEVEN!!!! No one is listening and we are going to make them. I don’t know anything about this Bubba guy, but he has the number 1 radio show in Tampa and has his show on XM Radio. The whole world needs to know and see what is going on with this child. I do understand your opinion. I can feel your frustration. The baby needs help momof1, whichever side of the fence you are on. She is not better off without us. Before we all became involved there wasn’t any hope. I’m not even sure what type of hope is left, but at least people are hearing and seeing finally. The police, CPS and the DA NEED to be doing THEIR jobs….and in the case of Aaliyah, they are NOT! How come that doesn’t infuriate you as Aaliyah’s face in public does? I just don’t understand that. I really am not arguing with you. I hear your pain in your words, just please try to listen to the families pain as well. That’s all I ask of you.
Are you saying that the out of county, impartial judge is the same as the rest? That’s mind boggling!
Val, as of yesterday, yes….but I don’t know all the details. The only thing I know is that the judge ruled on the restraining order without reading their files in the case. I’m hoping Connie’s lawyer can stop this.
Very well said, Karen CCC.
007, thank you.
Karen,
While frustrating, I wouldn’t read too much into that just yet. It would seem normal to me for a judge to uphold a previous judge’s ruling, at least temporarily, until they do have time to review all the files and case history. I can’t imagine the new judge has had sufficient time to do a thorough review of everything yet.
This could very well be what the father requested an ex parte hearing for yesterday morning.
I think we’re all trying to listen and sort it all out. I’m not sure much more can be done. A new judge put in there should resolve it. I will not believe he would make any rulings without reading evidence placed before him. This has become to serious not to do that. I don’t think I can be much help for this darling child if the new judge decides otherwise. 🙁
goodbye all, prayers for Aliyah, good luck in your cause.
Talina, I know, but it seems as if the cycle is still flowing when a judge upholds a restraining order without even reading the files. I’m not giving up, by no means.
Trish Mac, your prayers and wishes are welcomed.
momof1,
What happened this morning that has you so upset? The radio show perhaps? The world looking at Placer county, how can that be bad?
Your name tells me you have one child. What if someone were sexually abusing YOUR child? What if it were the other parent and nobody would listen to you? How would you stop the abuse of your child? How is the mother’s efforts to STOP this abuse in any way unfit? If she knows about it and does nothing, then people would be coming out of the woodwork at her.
When a father abusing a child physically and the child ends up hospitalized, the first thing EVERYBODY asks is where was the mother? How is this different because the abuse is sexual and BTW, a less published fact but still true, is the fact Aaliyah is also being physically abused. Bruises are documented but that abuse has taken a back seat to the sex abuse.
For 2 years this mother has tried to do this in the courts and nobody will listen. The garbage about this mom just wanting to keep the kid from dad, don’t fly either. She was in Alaska and went back to CA so Aaliyah could spend time with her father. She had the courts word, Aaliyah would be protected. NONE of that turned out.
You can scream at us all you like, I refuse to feel guilty for trying to stop this grown man from using his child as a toy and a weapon. You momof1 may be well meaning but your wrong.
This baby WILL be safe with her mother. Saying the mother is unfit because she talks about the fathers abuse is nuts. The ONLY ones wrong in all this is daddy and his enablers.
Oh yeah you say you don’t know much about this family but how is it, you know Aaliyah’s nick name? All of us that have been talking to the family personally and so involved with all this, don’t call this child by her nick name and yet you have done it consistantly from your first posting. Not accusing, just curious
KarenCCC – Is the restraining order a different thing than the gag orders I’ve heard about recently? Is the restraining order one that prohibits Connie from seeing Aaliyah except for certain times?
m2c, the restraining order is the “gag” order. It prevents Connie from saying anything about the abuse. It prevents Connie from speaking to her family and friends about the abuse. If Connie asks for help outside of the judicial system, she can be thrown in jail. Her civil rights are being taking away from her. ALL the authorities have to do is do an investigation, and they won’t. From what I know about the visitations is that because Connie will NOT stop trying to get someone to investigate these allegations, she was placed on supervised visitations. I’m not sure if that helped???
Friends, I think we may have two issues here.
One is helping to investigate this situation with the goal of protecting Aaliayah.
The other is HOW to help – both how Connie has gone about it and how we are going about it.
As far as Number One is concerned it’s not an issue for me. Yes we do need to investigate this to help protect her.
But Number two is debatable in some ways. Normally the photo and name of an abused child is kept out of the press because they are a juvenile. However in this case Aalaiyah’s photo is on the web in several places I understand and her name is widely known because of all the info her mom and family and supporters have published for a long time now.
Unfortunately it’s probably too late to go back. What’s done is done and the info is out there. Could Connie have gotten this far without publishing photos or using Aaliayah’s real name? Possibly. I don’t know. It would have been better for Aaliayah in some ways. I just don’t know. But I do understand some people being sensitive to the fact that this child’s privacy is gone. It would have been great if this much could have been achieved without sacrificing that. But it’s too late now I guess.
m2c, I agree with you. It’s too late now, so I don’t understand why fight about it. You know, I don’t even know how old Connie is, but she’s obviously young and she what she did was out of pure and I mean pure desperation. I often wonder if Aaliyah will mind that her name and face is out there if it meant getting her out of the the pain she is enduring? We will only know when she is older. I’m hoping to know her then too.
I am sooooo excited about the update!!
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Jenny, I am too. XM Radio is world wide. I just can’t wait to see the results. They will be speaking about Aaliyah tomorrow am as well. He is on from 6am – 10am and then rebroadcasted in the afternoon on XM.
And we took this story to Bubba? Why not Howard Stern? I see no code of ethic is used to whom reports this story….any will do right? Remember, the company you keep tells a lot about you.
Chipotle, I have no clue how this guy Bubba got this story. I wish I did.
Chipotlespice,
Why does it matter how Bubba got this story? He has it and is putting scores of HIGH level doctors and investigators on it. All we say is we want the truth, if he has the connections to get to the truth, why does it matter?
When the messanger garners more attention than the message, there may be a problem.
Anyone hearing the radio show this morning after the interviews of Jan and Simon would have heard how this man feels about child molesters. He went on a tirade which lasted several minutes and he don’t think they belong in our society at all. He can’t be all bad.
Allegations true or not, the ENTIRE WORLD will believe she is a victim.
When she gets her kindergarten class picture.
When she has her first crush.
When she graduates middle school and starts HS and starts becoming interested in boys.
when she graduates HS, College, marries… When she has children of her own and they learn their mommies name.
This part of her life, whether real or not will be known to the world. Why? Because her mother did not have the common sense to get this story out there without giving any of the above a single thought.
IF these allegations are proven to be untrue then what does this say about my mommy who put my name and face out there for the world to see?
It’s not even close to responsible.
Her name. Her name. What she identifies herself with.
Anyone with ANY integrity would have protected this childs identity and face and could have done so IF that is, they were putting Aali first. A pseudonymn name…. there is a reason media blurs or does not release minor childrens names.
The Bedwell family has no one else to blame for Aali’s privacy being gone but themselves.
We have RSO lists… ever see the victims names attached to them? I didn’t think so.
But, if you all think it is too late. Keep using her name. I’m sure she’ll appreciate it as she goes through life.
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And lets not forget when she applies for her first job.
Great job!
momof1
My my you really think people will have no new stories to talk about?
In 1995, Susan Smith killed both her children and then blamed a black man. The story was HUGE. It is all we heard for nearly a year and a half, the other day I brought up the Smith tragedy and the person I was speaking to said, Susan who????
This child HAS NO SHAME IN THIS!!!!!!!!!!!
NONE NONE NONE. The shame is her father’s!! She is an innocent. Only very small minded idiots or perverts would EVER lay this at her door step.
And I would still like to know, how you know a nick name that is only known by people personally involved in this case.
I think the mother DID try to remain somewhat incognito. However to get help, some people demanded identities be revealed. It was being said this was a scam, a hoax and a lie. The mother has done ALL she can.
I think the mother was so desperate to stop the abuse, she took the LESSER of 2 evils. If you would prefer your child be sexually abused than reveal her identity, I seriously question your wisdom.
momof1
I love the way you blame mom for everything. Not ONE word against the father abusing this child. It is this kind of thinking that has allowed children to be abused and women to endure rape throughout history. Forgive me if I say the victim is NOT the one with something to hide, nor the one who carries the shame. I lay all the guilt on the predator. Thank God others agree with me.
People in a close community will probably remember her name; not to be malicious, but just a mental note about that family. A casual comment, from parent to child to Aliyah in the classroom would make her feel like she is guilty of something because children react that way. Other kids are immature and can be hurtful over the slightest thing. She has bigger problems than worrying about a stigma, I fear.
I personally would be proud of my mom and my family for fighting so hard for me. The Bedwell’s have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.
Momof1, that is enough… I would rather see this child’s name in the spotlight than living in fear of her father every day of her life. I would think that would have much more effect on her life in the future
I may sound like a broken record but I will say it one last time, if there is a grain of truth in this story and we believe there is, it deserves to be investigated. Using the child’s name was necessary to get the story out so they could get help. I am pretty certain that IF the child lives to become an adult she would likely thank everyone for saving her life
What we could do – if Jan and Simon agree – is we could start using only Connie’s name and use either a made-up name or call the little girl “A” or “the little girl” or something. Maybe others have a better idea for that.
I don’t think it could do any harm now for us to stop using “A’s” name. Just to show respect and give a nod of some kind to her right to privacy. What do you all think?
When the case gets national media attention then maybe they will follow their usual practice of not naming the child – and we will have led the way.
Of course the family can do what they want. I’m not trying to influence them. I’m just talking about what we do on this blog.
What do you all think?
Hi, Jan! I was writing my comment so did not see your note before I posted mine. I agree with you. I was just making a suggestion. Certainly not pushing the idea on anyone. Just thought it might be a compromise at this time if folks want to do it.
Saving this little girl IS the most important thing. No question.
Upon further reflection (always a good idea – if only I could remember to do it before I write something! LOL!) it probably isn’t any use for us to stop using her real name if the family, friends and other supporters, bloggers, web sites do not. In fact it could backfire because BNN would not show up (possibly) on a google search for Aaliyah which is probably what most people would use to find out information on this case. And as far as I’m concerned BNN is the ONLY entity reporting on this whose news I trust.
m2c, I was just going to say something in regards to that. And I hope Jan and Simon stay with this story. I’m glad Bubba is involved, but I don’t “know” him. And Jan and Simon put a personal touch to every article they write.
hi m2c, We could do that but I am afraid her name is out already, so there is no hiding it. If the family wants to continue with it then that is up to them. I know if this were my child, I’d be screaming out her name, social security number, her weigth, eye and hair color and naming every scar she had on her if I thought it would help to get her out of that house. If they can get this child into a third party home where she is safe until the matter is properly investigated there would be time to save her from any psychological problems she has from all this. With proper therapy she can still live a normal life. By the time she is a teenager no one will think any less of her from this.
Karen, Simon and I are not going to give up no matter how much certain people try bullying us. We won’t stop until this child is saved. We are going to be working with Bubba on this. Let’s just be thankful that finally the word is getting out. Thank God for that!
Jan, I am very thankful. And am glad you and Bubba are going to work together.
Jan @ 5:40 – I agree. And another reason we can’t stop using her name is because we want people to find BNN to learn more and possibly help! One step at a time – get her to safety first and then begin the healing process for her. Thank you SO much for all you and Simon are doing! I hope you will let us know when and how we can help!
Jan & Karen,
I am right there with you. Plaster her name & picture on every tree and post. Make sure people know who this baby is what is happening to this her.
There is NOTHING this focus could do to her to cause the damage of the sexual abuse.
m2c you really had a good idea but it’s a little to late to try to keep her identity a secret now. Thank you so much for caring, I really am glad to see your imput. I am proud of all those who care so much.
Jan and Simon- there are no words that describe how much we truly appreciate all of the help you have given us- this has been going on for two years now- and Connie is constantly hurting emotionally by the thoughts of what is happening to her baby girl. The two of you have brought this in the eyes of the public more then we could do on our own in over two years- and now with the addition of Bubba and his highly followed show we are praying that the truth will finally be revealed and Placer County will be forced to FULLY investigate all of our evidence!
Connnie had spent an uncountable amount of hours trying to get help, or advice, or even support to help her daughter- but it was all to no avail. Posting the video on myspace (which he managed to get deleted) and eventually youtube was one of the final hopes she had- she did NOT want to do it, but it was the only thing we could do to try and get exposure and ask the public for help. We are doing EVERYTHING WE CAN to protect Aaliyah and keep her safe, and by posting her name and pictures- we are stating the truth and showing how innocent of a child she is. I know that if it was me in her situation, I would DEFINITELY want my name and picture posted if it was a way to get me help and to protect me…
I am sorry I do not post too much on here- between working long hours, and how much other work we are doing with this- sending letters out, emailing people, answering questions and phone calls, etc etc etc it does not even leave time in the day to sleep! So please bare with me and I WILL try and answer questions as best as I can on here!
Darrel, I don’t know why you have the need to apologize for not posting here often. You do what you need to do there, if there is a question that we can’t answer, we’ll wait patiently for the answer. Get that baby out of that home!
To Momof1 and those who agree with you;
SHE IS A VICTIM!!!!!!! Your illogical reasoning is exactly systematic of what’s wrong with this corrupt system. Are you sure you don’t work in the Family Law Division in Placer County, CPS or STEP, or with “About The Children????
Let’s place blame where it belongs!! Let clarity of the situation dictate the actions. Spell it out for us how it should have been done in the same circumstances.
Tell me how does using her face and name compare to the damage of his sexual molestation, the innumerable counts of physical abuse, emotional abuse, all at the hands of those who are to protect her, love and cherish her purity?
Ask yourself the same questions you’ve posted related to her future prospective of her life and future, and how she will view men, self worth, etc, etc, etc., even if this travesty were to end today.
I guarantee when she old enough to realize how her mother, family and friends from around this world have fought for her she will realize it’s a small price in comparison to what her Worm Daddy, grandfather, and their enablers have already done to her!
People with your putrescent logic are the problem, not the cure!
As for the use of her name, AALIYAH can go by her middle name which has never been used in any statements. Right Thompson’s? Many of you use your middle name as your first name! Aaliyah is two years away from preschool. Looks change. All a very small price to pay compared to the alternative.
Mr. Bedwell, eloquently put. I can’t wait for the day to when you do not have to defend yourself, Connie and Aaliyah!
Well said Pa Tim!! xoxo
I agree that when Aaliyah is older she will feel that people “knowing her story” is a samll price to pay to be free from her “father”. People who truly care about her well being recognize the fact that using her name and pictures has not been an easy thing for the family to do but it is necessary.
Sarah and Mr. Bedwell,
Simon has published a new article have you seen it?
The article is Aaliyah Bedwell–Accused’s Lawyer Plays Dirty thread # 120882. Read it you will enjoy it. Hope you all are up in time for the radio broadcast in the morning. I wouldn’t miss it. Can’t wait.
Sarah has Christen contacted you RE Saturdsy??
I love you and miss you too … thank you for stand up for the truth and taking the heat for it
Love you … Aali’s Pop Pop
Tim Bedwell said:
People with your putrescent logic are the problem, not the cure!
I’m glad you feel that way. It tells me you are confident in the choices and decisions your family is making regarding your grandaughter. Including the following- I’m sure you all did your homework on Mr Sponge Love- your new window to the world.
1)When one reads Bubba Sponge Love Clems comments regarding Mr. Mark Lunsford, exploiting his daughters murder and the details of the potential lawsuit Mr. Lunsford it should not be of worry or concern to your family. (Nor should we question the decisions on moving forward with Bubba Sponge) Just google, Mark Lunsford alone, second hit- I’ll make it easy.
2)When your granddaughter IS safe in the best possible place for her to be.. that concern that some sicko who got turned on by the daddy’s worm video, along with your granddaugthers picture and ALL the details of the families personal information, her granddaddy, Aunties etc… and some sicko approaches her with some comment about to engage her trust because he or she must not be a strantger because they have my name, and ALL my families name…… I PRAY that is only speculation and MY two sleepness nights over YOUR granddaughters safety and the swollen blood shot eyes I have from BAWLING my eyes out for hours this afternoon just after coming across your Bubba’s comments about Mr. Lunsford now being a voice for your granddaughter.
I AM in fact the problem. Please do not come back to me with some statistics about how MOST pedofiles are family members or friends of the family. Yes, those are clearly the odds.. however the information and personal detail you and your family are clearing increasing the potential odds for your granddaugthers safety. Let alone credibility. But again, it sounds as if you have dug your boots into the mud and you are moving forward from where you all have agreed.
I hope your granddaughter is and remains safe.
For AnneA. You asked how I knew of a nickname only the family knows? It is part of the information the family has released on the internet. I think it was in Connies timeline over at CPS… it’s all linked into so many blogs now all going back to Simon it is hard to tell. I hope that answers your question.
Good Luck! Hope the show goes well in a half hour. I won’t be tuning in. Mr. Lunsford happens to be someone I have deep respect and compassion for. And I hope this Bubba doesn’t pull a shock to you and your family. He sure shocked me this afternoon. (And I thought Howard Stern was offensive- boy was I naive!)
heres a better one regarding the lawsuit Mr. Lunsford may or may not have filed against Bubba.
From baynews9 Feb 2008
Mark Lunsford versus Bubba the Love Sponge
Friday, February 29, 2008 google if you cate to read it.
however the information and personal detail you and your family are clearing increasing the potential odds for your granddaugthers safety
should read increasing the potential odds against your granddaughters safety.
Mr. Bedwell.
I am sorry if that offends or angers you, but your emotions due to the situation regarding her father are clouding your perspective on other possible holes in safety nets. You should be happy people here care enough to remind you of things you may have overlooked or not considered. If people didn’t care they wouldn’t be here…. If people didn’t care emotions would not be running high….. Please think about that before you point fingers at those you call part of the problem.
momof1 – I’m not sure what you are trying to say about the lawsuit with Bubba and Mark Lunsford. From what I read, all it is about is Bubba questioning Mr. Lunsford spending of the funds donated to the organization he formed. What am I missing?
NO AMOUNT OF PUBLICITY WILL EVER EVER EVER BE AS DAMAGING TO THAT BEAUTIFUL BABY AS THE ABUSE THAT HAS BEEN INFLICTED UPON HER BYTHAT SICK FREAK.
period.
By God, if it will save her then let us all cry her name, from watchtowers and in the streets, on the radio and on CNN.
GET AALIYAH BEDWELL AWAY FROM HER ABUSER, DUSTIN THOMPSON.
Can Connie and her atty request an ex parte hearing to have aaliyah placed in a seperate residence?
That seems a helluva lot more important than soem stupid gag order.
The system fails, as is so miserably proven in this case, and in the case of many other children. (google tyler and ariana payne.)
I had never heard of this, but saw the video on Youtube, and now I (a sacramento county resident) am FIGHTING MAD.
I will be writing letters and making phone calls in the morning because something must be done. I vote for these people, and my taxes pay their mortgages. I expect them to protect Aaliyah, and fully intend to tell them so.
Why hasn’t the Sacrament Bee covered this?
Talina: I think it depends what side of this issue Bubba wants to take. It looks like he’s on Connie’s and Aaliyah’s side.
But if he chose not to be on their side or just took a different approach he could criticize and question Connie about the funds she’s collected (as he did Lunsford, the father of a murdered child).
Bubba also criticized Lunsford for trying to sue the local Sheriff’s department for incompetently handling the child’s disappearance from Day 1. And here Connie is implicating the whole of Place County LE and CPS etc in what’s happened (and not happened) with Aaliyah.
So I think what Momof1 is saying is to be careful. People with large audiences – like Bubba – could choose either side of an issue and be a help or a huge hindrance. I think Bubba and his listeners are helping though which is good. Momof1 – If I’ve misunderstood what you’re saying, I’m sorry. Please correct me.
m2c, thanks. That makes sense.
M2C, yes, thank you for explaining that in different words.
All that matters is Aaliyahs safety and well being. Whatever it takes. No stone unturned. When emotions and stress run high it is often difficult to recognize something that comes at one blindsided.
I hope the Bedwells understand we recognize tht. Emotionally exhausting debalitating stress comes at us all at sometime or another.
Wondermom- Many things have been done but please see here why this case is so corrupt.
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/43819/placer_county_judicial_system.html?cat=17
When I spoke of inner circle I was speaking of that article NOTHING else. Placer County and their “inner circle” which I plan change with the help of others. One person cannot do this.
“It takes a village.”
And in a corrupt village it takes a nation.
Possibly the world on this case and we have NO INTENTION of (excuse my french)
But we have NO INTENTION OF BENDING OVER.
Tim Bedwell says: Tim Bedwell – To Momof1 and those who agree with you;
Mom0F1 has her opinions and just because she has opinions on a case that is at best “shady” to the public right now does not mean she endorses; child abuse or corruption.
Logical…..No one save for you or your family has the facts which are not being given to the posters or commenters. People know tit bits of information even if the alleged is true.
Logical, everyone here cares about the outcome of this case for Aaliyah.
Folks, ratings sell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PERIOD!!!!!!!!
Bubba is getting some major discussions started this weekend, come Monday this thing will be like a ticking time bomb!
Think about it and go back and see how many replies he has gotten on any other story? 1 comment on the craigs exotic services list atricle, how many on the others?
The Aaliya has all the ingredients of a major movie, it is heart breaking, but this thing is grwoing now. I was at first upset too, yet I stopped and thought about it, this thing is getting him and alot more people more feedback than anything else on right now. He ran an hour over the first day! It is obvious that this will continue Monday and with an even larger more captivated audienece. That means ratings, and folks let me assure you the media does not pick these things up without it bringing those. No ratings no story! PERIOD!!!!!!!!!
If that is not true, then where are all the thousands of other chidren who suffer this abuse daily?
Where is there stroy, why does one get more than the other? RATINGS!!!!!!!!!!!
This is going to come to light, uyou noticed the Bubba article has not been taking down?
Or that the link to donate has not been changed either?
Or anything, the only things changing on this are the number of comments folks!
In the words of a famous Johnny Cash, I hear a train a coming!
Aaliya is getting help and more so now than ever, I could just hear rears clamping shut in Placer County!
I take my stand where I started with this, there is some abuse one way or the other, I personaly believe the mother. I will not waiver on that gut instinct.
Joey Tillman
The Child Protection Community
Mr. Tillman; This note is kind of on the theme of “be careful what you wish for.”
Mainstream or national press of any kind is very powerful but not controllable. We don’t really know how they will treat this situation. There are very few “facts, documented reports etc. Some of what is available could end up making Connie look bad.
For example, a myspace that I understand has some questionable photos and references to alcohol. Plus the PayPal page has always caused heated debate and question. So personally I am hesitant to count on such publicity actually helping her. Both those things – and more – will become public knowledge way beyond the net when certain media get hold of them.
Perhaps such publicity will point out the need for an independent investigation by agencies with oversight and power over the local Placer County people. That would be a start anyway.
But meanwhile I think the media will – as usual – just capitalize on a sensational story with or without any real facts and when they do that who knows where the chips will fall?
Mr. Tillman I just saw some comments on article # 120882 that explain much better what I was trying to say above. Please see Talina @ 1:17 pm and Spacely @ 1:32pm and AnneA @ 2:01 pm. Everyone of us has Connie’s best interests at heart.
So this is where everyone is hiding. Simon has posted a blog on thread # 120882. Not sure of the time but its at the lower portion of the page. It’s very close to the bottom. It is an update about Bubba’s radio broadcast this morning.
Concerning explanations about frequently asked questions is posted by me AnneA. at 1:14 p.m. on the same thread. I hope someone from the Bedwell side reads it and if any of the facts are incorrect please correct me. Thanks.
m2c you are right. The mainstream will embellish and insinuate what ever it takes to boost their ratings. Sad but true. Now is the time to exercise caution. We need mainstream media but it often comes with a price. In this case that we need to concentrate on the Worm and his actions NOT Connie. We don’t want them to be able to say anything at all that may be construed as negative. We need to go after the worm.
m2c- It was publicity that got her a lawyer. How do I know? cause IM THE REASON SHE HAS A LAWYER NOW.
Lawyers dont normally just pick up a case like this for less than 10,000, or 5,000 retainer fee.
I saw the video read everything and made a PROFESSIONAL opinion.
This would not have gone this far if it was NOT TRUE!
helpisontheway – No argument here. I think you misunderstood my meaning. National publicity is unpredictable. THOSE “professionals” could come down on either side of the fence or both or neither or play the sides against each other – whatever they felt was better for their ratings, who knows? I am not against publicity at all. I was just cautioning Mr. Tillman that some of the mainstream/national media that may soon take up this story might be a disappointment – not as much help as we hope and possibly even do some harm.
helpisontheway – No argument here. I think you misunderstood my meaning. National publicity is unpredictable. THOSE “professionals” could come down on either side of the fence or both or neither or play the sides against each other – whatever they felt was better for their ratings, who knows? I am not against publicity at all. I was just cautioning Mr. Tillman that some of the mainstream/national media that may soon take up this story might be a disappointment – not as much help as we hope and possibly even do some harm.
helpisontheway – No argument here. I think you misunderstood my meaning. National publicity is unpredictable. THOSE “professionals” could come down on either side of the fence or both or neither or play the sides against each other – whatever they felt was better for their ratings, who knows? I am not against publicity at all. I was just cautioning Mr. Tillman that some of the mainstream/national media that may soon take up this story might be a disappointment – not as much help as we hope and possibly even do some harm.
Good heavens! Very sorry for the triple post! Don’t know how that happened! EEK!
Thank you for your kind words Chipolte.
Joey is correct. This story is captivating. I’m a stranger 2000 miles away. I have gone through the circle of emotions praying and aching for this little girl. I am glad the story is getting the attention the family was pleading for.
Thank you to the poster that helped secure the attorney! The word is getting out.
M2c- THOSE “professionals” are coming forward just because its not posted here yet or at all does not mean it is not happening.
We are “professionals”. And feel no need to explain our selves accept for in the court of law.
There are parts that are confidential.
Thank you for your concern.
To Helpisontheway,
We wondered how Connie came up with a lawyer. I mean one minute she was facing it without representation and the next thing the family says is she was represented.
Is this attorney a really good one? I only ask because so far she is still on the defensive, and then she was denied her scheduled visitation yesterday. Her attorney needs to take care of this yesterday.
Those people have gotten by with so much, they think they are entitled to bend or even break the law.
This attorney isn’t just fighting the father, the whole system is part of this battle. Connie’s constitutional rights have been and are still being violated and that needs to stop as well.
I am not just being nosey, I am so vested in this case, if is affecting my daily existance. I just want Aaliyah safe. Actually that is not really true.
I won’t rest and stop fighting this fight until Aaliyah is safely back in the arms of her mother. Connie lost her rights because she was fighting a corrupt system. She was fighting for the safety and even the life of her child. She is the BEST kind of mother. She did NOTHING wrong, if she knew her child was being violated and said nothing, she could actually go to jail. She spoke up and has been punished at every turn.
I can see Aaliyah going into protective custody today, but, a force of investigators need to be assigned to this case and turn it every way but loose. A judge needs to give those people a SHORT time limit to verify the allegations. Then Aaliyah needs to go home to her momma, back in momma’s arms. This child has been damaged badly and NOBODY can comfort her and give her the security she needs, like her own mother can. We need to understand, it is about what is best for this child. In the best interest of this child, in the hope that Aaliyah can recover from her nightmares, this baby girl NEEDS her MOTHER. Yes the mom needs the child but more importantly Aaliyah NEEDS HER MOTHER’S LOVE AND SECURITY. There is nobody on this planet that can expedite Aaliyah’s recovery as fast and complete as Connie. A mother’s love can heal almost anything. Connie has been away from Aaliyah far to long already.
I guess its not hard to figure I am NOT on the fence. I jumped off that fence the second I heard Aaliyah describing her abuse. I may be wrong and even some think I am unfair to the father, it don’t matter. I am on Aaliyah’s side and I believe that automatically puts me on Connie’s side. Connie is the parent who should have Aaliyah. I have never found the fence to be a comfortable place to sit.
I will not go in to details as it could affect the case, but the steps are being made. Thank you.
Anne- Is he a good one? Let’s see his first show on the ex-parte the judge with drawed and a Judge NOT FROM THE INNER CIRCLE COUNTY will be the new judge…
you tell me.
😀
Please do not stop fighting for Aaliyah. She needs us all.
helpisontheway – I was clearly referring to the “professionals” in the media – which include the likes of Geraldo for example. Those are the people who can take a story like this national and possibly to some good or some harm.
I was not talking about concerned professionals in other fields who might be trying to help which is what I guess you are talking about.
helpisontheway – I was glad to see your 4:25 post because I thought you were telling us to butt out because you all had it under control.
Do you have any suggestions for what we could do that would be of help. It seems like hundreds of people are running around doing all kinds of different things and many are doing the same thing dozens of times (with what effect I do not know).
Helpis, I don’t understand why people such as yourself come on the blogs to post and be rude to everyone. What are you doing here? Good, you got Connie a lawyer, thank you very much. I personally don’t care who got her a lawyer, I’m just glad she has one and can now FIGHT!
m2d, I think that if Help is the professional they say they are then they should go get a cop and the CPS to listen to her/him and get Aaliyah out of that home. Why they are here on the boards and causing unnecessary tension is beyond me. If I had the power she/he says they have then go use it!
Sorry m2c, I am just so angry at all of this. And feel even more helpless than I did two weeks ago.
oops, sorry I spelled your name wrong, I think my fingers type faster than my brain is speaking to them.
I agree, KarenCCC. And how would we know if the judge recused herself because of the new lawyer? No way for us to know that.
I assumed the old judge was getting out of the line of fire! For whatever reason it happened I’m glad it did!
KarenCCC – I understand. Try to take comfort that MUCH is being done by others who are in better positions to do some things than we are. Like Jan and Simon for example. And perhaps “Helpis” is right about other professionals going to the rescue that we know nothing about yet.
I wish someone would give us some suggestions on what we can do that would be effective.
Possibly get a writing campaign going for example – a directed one not a willy nilly approach. Or give us a list of media to contact that we can split up the work and write to.
We have a good group here willing to do stuff but no real direction. I do feel confident that ALL the individuals and agencies that could be of help from the US Pres to the CA Gov to local LE and newspapers have been contacted – and more than once that’s for sure.
m2c, I agree. I have asked for direction from a few people and have yet to receive a response. I will give your suggestion to someone in the Bedwell family and see what they can come up with. Maybe Connie’s lawyer can tell us what to do.
“helpisontheway” reminds me of “rumorcontrol”
Talina, I agree.
Helpis, no one will make me stop fighting for Aaliyah.
helpisontheway said,
in May 15th, 2009 at 4:25 pm
Please do not stop fighting for Aaliyah. She needs us all.
this statement is very true, and we need to stop and focus on this child, not on each other.
This is more important than changing the words and opinions of others. Write those letters and email, make those phone calls, keep the pressure on the county and state officials who can make a difference.
Hey guys,
i sent an email to the DA’s link on saveaaliyah.com as requested by that page, including a link to the youtube video, but then i thought that i would go a bit further and have thus forwarded that email and the information associated with Aaliyah’s case to Senator Barbara Boxer.
Has anyone else gone that route?
What else can I do?
Wondermom, I don’t know if anyone contacted the Senator. I’m guessing it wouldn’t hurt. Let us know if you get a response from the DA and the Senator. Thank you for your help!
my husband’s ex-stepmom is an attorney in sac county, and i have heard numerous stories from her about Placer County’s Good ol’ boys club. It sickens me that an entire justice system could be so corrupt that they are willing to ignore the pleas of this innocent baby to protect an obvious deviant pedophile just because they know his freakin family.
There is a site called pysih.com
“People You’ll See In Hell” .com
and they do a LOT of features on people such as (Blech) Dustin Thompson (Blech).
Might be another avenue for recruiting more advocates for Aaliyah.
If i get a response from anyone, i will post asap.
I also intend to keep writing to anyone and everyone that I can think of who might be able to give this little girl and her mom a fighting chance.
Best to You All….
Wondermon,
Thank you for the info on Placer county. One more confirmation from someone outside this case about that county’s corruptness.
sry “wondermom”, not “wondermon” – still waking up. 🙂
Not a prob, Talina.
I have a question from someone i have contacted about the case. He wants to know why Connie lost custody. I was wondering if anyone can tell me the courts’ “official reason.” I have NO DOUBT that the real motivation was corrupt, but does anyone know what the formal reason was?
The fellow who is asking may be able to help.
Thank you.
There is a newspaper article in the Auburn Journal. You can read it at: auburnjournal.com
wondermom, from the way I understand it she lost the baby when she kept making accusations on the father and they ordered her to undergo evaluations. At this point that is how we understand it. They continued saying she was crazy (maybe not in those very words but that is what they meant)
interestedparty… we have seen the article and it is interesting but those that are believing this to be a hoax are only seeing one little sentence in there. They haven’t stopped to think this was the mother saying that that is what they said the baby said. If she was hiding it she never would have told a reporter that part. She just wants it all to be told honestly
One little sentence? what about the detective saying a thorough investigation was done. The father was CLEARED of ALL allegations?
I suppose the media is now corrupt too?
I think Connie or someone in that camp led the path for that already. Saying the media needed to keep the police happy, or something like that. I can’t believe no one can see the path laid out to explain the lies before more and more information comes out to prove this is a hoax.
Connie needs to be held accountable to the full extent of the law for the abuse her child has faced at her own hands as well as any criminal or civil charges for libel and false allegations against the father.
MOO
momof1,
How is an investigation thorough when the police and any other investigators only talk to one side? By anyone’s definition, I don’t see how that could be considered thorough.
Also, this same newspaper reporter told Jan and Simon herself that the newspaper needed to stay in the good graces of the police. It was not Connie that told them that. Jan and Simon have stated that more than once on these blogs they were told that directly by this newspaper and yesterday after the article printed, Simon said it was this same reporter that said it to him and Jan.
As far as Connie being held accountable to the full extent of the law, I’ve seen many people on here who are in full support of her saying that exact same thing. If this does prove to be false allegations then they are saying they will lead the charge to get her up on charges.
I will agree with those that have posted their preference that the accused be called that or alleged pedophile or abuser. He has not been convicted of anything yet. But then again, neither has anyone in the Anthony case or the Cantu case yet alleged is not used with them either. Granted a lot of evidence has been released due to the sunshine law in Florida as it relates to the Anthony case but very little evidence has been released on the Cantu case. I’ll probably take some flack for that but that’s how I feel about it.
It cannot be called a “thorough” investigation if the only people APD or Placer County spoke to was the alleged abuser’s list of contacts. To my knowledge, no one that Connie listed as a witness has been questioned. When the tape was handed over to the police it wasn’t viewed. Darrel called 5 months later wondering why he hadn’t been contacted, and at that time asked the detective if he’d watched the tape. The detective said he hadn’t. Some investigative work, huh?
I have a copy of a letter written by Darrel to authorities, stating, under penalty of perjury, that his account of what he has witnessed is true and correct. AND STILL NO ONE HAS CONTACTED HIM to conduct a “thorough” investigation.
I think we can all agree that no matter what the truth is, the priority is the safety and well being of a young child.
Though the article was “neutral”, I don’t think it properly painted the picture. Hopefully it will, however, spark more interest and lead to a resolution that puts the child’s best interests first.
I just recently found you show and blog on the web and am so glad I did. Thank you for all you that you do. As a survivor of childhood abuse I wanted to thank Jan for sharing her story publicly while discussing this case and thank you for bringing light to what Connie and Aaliyah are going through. That old saying of it’s not what you know but who you know comes into mind and that’s infuriating, especially when it comes to a child. I know you will keep on this story until there’s some kind of resolution and that gives me comfort. So many news outlets go for the quick blurb and then on to the next one. Again thank you for all that you do.
I just learned Connie Bewell has been pregnant 3 times and the last pregnancy was in Jan/Feb this year 2010. I wonder why she had to have the baby removed or is she just being a High and Low. Is Connie Bedwell making up losing babies now on Aaliyah or the internet because of stress? Can Dustin ger the reports if she was Pregant? Does Dustin really want to have this woman in her life for good and why is he not using something. She will obviouly claim abuse on Daryll instead.
Retract. Can Daryll handle a woman who keeps lying? Why would this man want to have a child with Connie Bedwell. They should put her on a table and rip out her womb.
It’s not a case about a molester. This is all about justice and the father has passed every court order and social service request.
“Mommy made me say that.” Aaliyahs words when asked the truth.
It is obvious Connie will not take no for an answer and if I were Daryll I would run for the hills. How are those donations going? without medical I guess they are going for doctor bills and will help raise a child is one of them would want her as a mother.
I also just learned Daryll has a daughter. Does the mother of his daughter know what this woman is doing and does she allow him to have visitations with Connie? Does he pay suppport? I heard he is a contractor earning a large sum of money. Why is Connie looking for donations if he is rich.
Why is Connie posting she passed a lie detector test wheh she only passed a test with 4 questions?
All pertaining to what the police asked her to say and do in the video. They will not accept the tape because she went outof the rules they gave her. It was to be in full daylight and Aaliyah had to bring it up, not staged. If Aliyah brought it up they would have to grab the camera and allow her to speak.
The PI never asked her if she lied about child abuse. Connie refused to take the second polygraph that would include all allegations, not just what a policeman told her. Proves nothing.
Connie has as a big mouth and as a previous connie bedwell suporter on FB, all 70 of us have been gaining our inside info and all connie bewell does is hang out with a few groupies and her jewish community for spiritual support.
Why is Connie Bedwell lying and Dr. Phil will eat her up if she went on his show.
I can only hope Wayanne Kruger did not set that up, if she did, I hope she calls the producers and have then spit in her face for uploading Daddy Worm with a gag order.
I thinks its funny Connie thinks Dr. Phil would be nice to her. He wants her on to be the “mother who lie” while the real mothers are being supportive for their behavior and real fight.
Where is Connie’s mother and father now? I wish he real mom would come forward and tell everyone what she was like as a teen and if she lied all the time.
I would also like to say, Wayanne Kruger dropped her case fast. The second she found out there was a Gag order, she complied with the courts out of respecrt so whetever Connie or Troy says, its bogus. Connie has lied to all of us and I am shocked to learn the above by a person who is still on her FB. All she does is Yack, yack, yack…Keep emailing Connie, it is giving us the realy story of who you are.
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