Posted by Charles S on March 23rd, 2007
“Be happy, not gay”. This simple phrase printed on a T-shirt was enough to trigger a lawsuit in Illinois, after a student was told she could not wear the shirt because it may “upset” other students. Heidi Zamecnik of Neuqua Valley High, is now asking the courts to intervene on her behalf, claiming her First Amendment rights would be violated if the school were allowed to prevent her from wearing the shirt. World Net Daily is reporting:
According to the lawsuit filed on behalf of Zamecnik and a freshman student, the “Day of Silence” “encourages students to show visible support for homosexual lifestyle by refusing to speak during the school day, while conveying written messages in the form of T-shirts, buttons, and stickers, all of which promote homosexual behavior.” The Sun-Times reported Zamecnik did not outwardly object to the event during her first two years of high school, but in her junior year she wore a shirt after the “Day of Silence” that read, in part, “Be happy, not gay.” The suit claims Dean of Students Bryan Wells told Zamecnik the shirt offended others and she had to remove it or go home. Her mother, Linda Zamecnik, was called when she refused. Wells and Linda Zamecnik agreed the shirt’s message could be altered to read “Be Happy. Be Straight.” The lawsuit, however, contends the agreement was breached when a school counselor crossed out “not gay” in black marker, but did not replace it with the agreed phrase. The principal and superintendent, the suit states, told Linda Zamecnik their staff did nothing wrong.
At issue in this case is what constitutes offensive language, and to what degree does the school system have a right to censor such language. There is currently a case before the Supreme Court which has received plenty of media attention Morse v. Frederick, also known as the “Bong Hits 4 Jeses” case. In this case the ACLU issued a press release recently urging the Supreme Court not to abandon landmark student free speech case.
The American Civil Liberties Union today urged the U.S. Supreme Court not to abandon its famous 1969 ruling that students do not “shed their constitutional rights to freedom of speech or expression at the schoolhouse gate.”
The “Bong Hits 4 Jesus” case is one of the few times I am in agreement with the ACLU’s position, however I do not expect them to speak out on behalf of Heidi Zamecnik in this case. Based on the Supreme Courts ruling in 1969, it is clear that Heidi Zamecnik does indeed have a constitutionally protected right to wear a t-shirt that says “Be happy, not gay”. By allowing students to wear pro-homosexual shirts one day, while denying students to wear anti homosexual shirts the following day, the school is censoring speech based on its disagreement with the message. The school system will arguee the t-shirt is offensive to some students and therefore against school policy. However there is another side to that argument, one which very rarely will be brought up in a court of law. There are those who find pro-homosexuality t-shirts and buttons to be offensive as well. School systems throughout this country have gone out of their way to promote homosexuality to children as being a normal and accepted way of life. They do this in the name of “tolerance” and “equality”, arguing it is necessary to teach young children pro-homosexual ideas in order to prevent them from being prejudiced to homosexuals as they grow older. If our school system truly wishes to teach our children tolerance, they must realize it is a two way street. By allowing one side to express their views while preventing the other side from doing the same, the school is not teaching tolerance, it is teaching censorship















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Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackThis is tough for me because I am gay, and I think it is terrible that people in this day and age still have a problem with gay people. I choose not to associate myself with such people, and I try to do everything in my power to stamp out this hatred– and be clear, it’s hatred. However, that being said, I believe that this girl should be able to wear that shirt. I would ask however, if she wore a shirt that said, “Send the Blacks back to Africa,” would we be having this discussion? (Before someone reads this wrong, I ABSOLUTELY DO NOT hold this opinion, and I have no problem with Black people, however, some people do). Although I find it appalling, I believe that someone should be able to wear that hypothetical shirt too. We are either going to supress hate speech or we aren’t. Because I am an advocate of free speech, I believe these shirts should be allowed so everyone knows where people stand on such issues. If I were a gay student in her school, I would be glad to know that she hates me so I can stay away from her.
Gender-exclusive homosexuality is totally intolerant of sex diversity and equality when it comes to ‘love’.
It’s not hate to be against same-sex diversity intolerance and to promote the gender-inclusive sex equality and diversity of man + woman.
Shouldn’t everyone be inclusive and diversity oriented like woman + man in straight heterosexuality?
“Equal Sexes”: What a ridiculous thing to say. Just because I prefer to love people of the same sex does not make me intolerant of different sex relationships. I am not suggesting that everyone be homosexual and that heterosexuality is bad. Just as I personally am not usually attracted to people of other races doesn’t mean that I think other people shouldn’t be able to love across races and ethnicities. Taking your reasoning to the next logical step, you shouldn’t be allowed to marry someone of your same race because that would promote “same-race diversity intolerance.” Your reasoning is yet another ridiculous attempt at an excuse for denying people personal rights that don’t affect anyone else.
John, why do you assume this student hates you because she wears a t-shirt that says, “Be Happy, Not Gay?”
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These people are fighting in federal court to allow their 17 old daughter, Heidi, to wear a shirt saying “Be happy, not gay”. Do they think they are godly? What kind of lesson is it to teacher your child hate and in intolerance? If they wish to make their simple mind views public I think everybody should know and be able to respond to them!
The case of Heidi is similar to several other free speech cases that have become news of late. The matter to be considered is not whether or not Heidi likes or dislikes homosexual, or “gay” people, anymore than whether the “gay” people in her school hate the “straights.” The issue is whether she or they have a right to say what they believe. The answer - as enshrined in the constitution and endorsed (thankfully) by the Supreme Court - is that they do. It is both empirically wrong and legally wrong for a school system to support one religious viewpoint over another. The Supreme Court has also ruled on this: specifically, that a school may neither endorse a particular religious viewpoint nor be hostile to it; either way the school would be promoting religion.
Concerning offending someone, both the legal brief and one of the bloggers had it correct; a school cannot cry “offensive” for one message but overlook the offensiveness of another. Although we, as a society, are too easily offended by everything, anyway (witness the “Happy Holidays” controversy), if we are going to cry “tolerance,” then both sides need to be tolerance, not just the “other side”; if we are going to cry “equal rights,” then those rights need to apply to everyone, not just the prevailing political correct wind of doctrine; and if we are going to have a free nation of free-thinkers and intelligent discourse, then we must uphold the constitutionally protected rights for everyone to engage in free speech, regardless of whom it offends.
Remember: the speech of America’s founders offended the King, the Parliament, and approximately one third of the colonists (who were “loyalists”). These same “offensive” people wrote the First Amendment into the constitution; they knew some people would be offended by the speech of others, but they also knew that democracy depended on everyone being able to speak freely his or her own mind, opinions, and beliefs. Christian, Muslim, atheist, homosexual, heterosexual, or asexual - all are entitled to the same freedoms of speech; it’s about time the schools and society recognized that.
I couldn’t agree more with you, Anthony. I personally do not support homosexuality, but I believe all people should have the freedom to express their opinion. I’m sick of this idea where we can’t “offend” each other. I have very strong beliefs about numerous things and I would not want them to offend someone, but there is no way I’m going to keep quiet in case someone doesn’t agree. As stated above, I in no way support homosexuality, but I would never try to cut off homosexuals freedom to express themselves. It’s people like Heidi Zamecnik that we should all appreciate and be inspired by. Regardless of her message, she stood up for what she believed in when no one else would join her. I know that that takes courage and I admire her for it.
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