According to People News, Madonna and Guy Ritchie have been seeing a marriage counselor.
The relationship has been pretty rocky for awhile, do to Madonna’s fame, need to appeal to her fans, and neglect Guy in the relationship. The teetering relationship spiraled down to rock bottom after:
A NANNY walked out on the couple complaining of the superstar’s bossy manner.
FURIOUS GUY shouted at Madonna in front of shocked friends: “I’ll get on my bike if you want me to.”
THEY DISAGREED over Madonna’s determination to adopt a SECOND child from Africa.
THEY CLASHED over her fascination with the Kabbalah Jewish sect which Guy believes has become an obsession.
HER CAREER continues to soar while Guy’s has stalled.
Apparently, Madonna thought that adopting a child would help their marriage. But adopting a child is a lot of work and responsibility. And since she already has two children, a husband, and a career, and in the process her MARRIAGE was starting to go down, maybe this adoption is too much for her.
However, according to the Philadelphia Inquirer adoptive parents are often overwhelmed and unprepared for the challenges of adoption. Some problems, such as with overseas adoption include a language barrier, children are upset for losing their natural families, homes, cultures, and language and are forced to adjust to a new place without any of these comforts.
So, Madonna is not alone in having difficulties in dealing with problems associated with adoption. However, experts say that an adoptive parent needs to be at an emotional stable place in order for the adoptive parents to properly help the adopted child, and oftentimes, as in the case of Madonna, this is not the case. So, while Madonna tried to get the media to say she was doing this for David, perhaps what she was really doing, was trying to save her marriage. This is no reason to adopt a child, and with human rights organizations investigating her, the adoption may not go through.
What could she do to rectify this situation? Maybe the best thing would be to give David back to his father, and give him enough money to support David himself. That would be something that all would truly benefit by, and then maybe her fans and the public would look at her in a positive light again.
Heather Kuhn is an author who blogs at TodaysNews and Blogger News Network
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Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackThis is a load of crap, her fans if they are her fans know her better than this, and its sad how the same rules do not apply to Madonna on anything. Maybe everyone who wants to adopt should just go and support everyone else instead? Its not her responsibility to support a grown man, even though she was stupid enough to offer that option to him in the first place –a fact the media likes to leave out. If the public thinks Madonna should support grown men and women instead of doing what is truly a great deed by adoption then each and every one of them are stupid… That is not what adoption is, regardless she did offer to support him and his child he refused, most kids are up for adoption because the birth parents did not want the responsibility –that is the real issue not Madonna opening up her home to a child in need. I think Madonna’s only stupid move was to offer to support the father and his child, now instead of people giving her the credit that she once again deserves it gets turned into a circus act of the media making up a bunch of bull crap.
Madonna has been helping others since her career began, get over it people, stop whining and do something yourselves.
Madonna is a class act when it comes to helping others, you may not like what she does with her career but that is business not Madonna the person..
Long Live The Queen..
What could she do to rectify this situation? Maybe the best thing would be to give David back to his father, and give him enough money to support David himself. That would be something that all would truly benefit by, and then maybe her fans and the public would look at her in a positive light again
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