This in from TJ Hart – Jan Barrett
The evening February 9, 2009, then-5-year-old HaLeigh Cummings was seen for the last time by her babysitter-turned-stepmom-now ex-wife of her father, Misty Croslin, who was just 17 at the time.
Very little information about what happened to HaLeigh and who might have taken her has been made public since the first 24 hours into the case despite the thousands of tips and numerous ground searches.
The original Putnam County incident report stated that deputies Nelson and Bridges arrived at the home of HaLeigh’s father , Ronald Cummings, at Hermit’s Cove in Satsuma, FL at approximately 3:40 a.m. February 10, 2009. Deputy Nelson wrote in the report that Ronald was standing in the driveway and was visibly upset.
PCSO Original Incident Report
According to the report, Ronald stated that he had just come home from work and his “dumb bitch girlfriend” had told him that his daughter was missing.
Ronald told the deputy he did not know what she was wearing and that all he knew was that the back door was open. Ronald repeatedly said someone had taken his child and that “when I find him, I will kill him.”
At this point, some have to questioned if Ronald actually knew the gender of HaLeigh’s abductor or was just saying “him” referring to anyone.
Another part of the report does indicate that the babysitter Misty Croslin had taken the children out of the home in the past while sitting with them. When deputy Nelson asked her if she ever took the children for a walk, Misty stated that sometimes she took them for a walk to see her family.
AUDIO/Text Police Radio (Audio) Transmissions and Transcript
Other links
* VIDEO/Transcript: The 911 Call from FOX News Channel
* VIDEO: Sheriff Jeff Hardy
* VIDEO: WSKY Asks Major Gary Bowling About The Updated Amber Alert and Asks About Misty’s Alleged Whereabouts
* VIDEO: The Nancy Grace Recap
* The marriage and divorce of HaLeigh’s father, Ronald Cummings, and babysitter Misty Croslin
* VIDEO: The discovery of Misty’s partying and her party pals the weekend before HaLeigh was abducted
* Various fights, arguments and incarcerations of the Croslin clan
* The Draining of The Pond at The Mondex
* A Jail House Letter
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
HaLeigh was last seen at her residence in the Hermit’s Cove area of Putnam County on February 9, 2009 between the hours of 8-10pm.
A statewide Amber Alert has been issued. An additional $30,000 in rewards have been posted.
If you have any information and wish to remain anonymous, please call Crime Stoppers at 1-888-277-TIPS (8477) or you can Text your tip by Texting “TIP231 plus your message†to CRIMES (274637).
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Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackThis past Sunday were two good radio shows, and hopefully pressure is mounting inside this case. Keep trying, somewhere in all this drama, lies some truth and learning these people will only help to put the pieces together. Keeping professional and fair til we have concrete facts of evidence keeps the sane people interested and the family/players willing to talk and interview. Thanks for not bashing any of the family, we have to leave the doors open for communication.
Thinking back on Ron’s statements to the responding officers,
It is surprising to me that Ron made the claim that “someone” had taken his Child at all let alone to add that it was a “him” that “took” her…
For all Ron knew at that point, Haleigh could have simply walked to a neighbor’s home to get away from Misty for that matter.
hmm.
Tuff Stuff said,in January 5th, 2010 at 12:44 pm Thinking back on Ron’s statements to the responding officers,
It is surprising to me that Ron made the claim that “someone” had taken his Child at all let alone to add that it was a “him” that “took” her…
For all Ron knew at that point, Haleigh could have simply walked to a neighbor’s home to get away from Misty for that matter.
hmm.
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Um, no, SHE WAS 5 yrs old AND SCARED OF THE DARK. I have a 6 yr old that is scared of the dark, and she ain’t going no where alone at night, not even the bathroom. I would know too that someone had taken her if I came home and she was gone.
My own Children are scared of the dark but yet when they think they are in danger of any sort they will go to places they are normally fearful of to get away from what they believe is some form of current danger. So the “um, no” doesn’t quite work for me.
The thing that bothers me most is that all possibilities of it being something less that being “taken” by a “him” didn’t even seem to be a consideration. It appears to have gone straight to her being taken by a “him”.
I keep going back to the beginning, sure the clues are there, the door being propped open, the laundry being done, the bed not being slept in, the argument between Ron and Misty earlier, the previous party weekend, and the words out of Ron;s own mouth, if I find out who took her, I will kill HIM. Maybe just a generality, because we surely never suspect a woman would do something to a child, but we all know it happens. It all has been swirling around in my head for months now, and all I wonder is where is Haleigh? Is she ok? Is someone taking care of her? If not, why can’t they find her? Three dogs hit on a near by dumpster, not one, not two, but three. Was it as simple as someone Misty might have run across during that “wild” weekend who over heard she was living with a man who had a small daughter? Did she even know at that point she would be returning to Ron’s house? I doubt it. So that sort of counts that out for me. But if someone that she ran into that weekend HEARD she went back home, how would they have known to count on the fact that she would be so passed out that night, they couldn’t have known she and Ron stayed up all night talking. And would they have known Ron’s hours? I always thought Ron had to work the overtime hours unexpectedly, but then was told he had been doing it for some time.
I don’t know.
My gut tells me that yes, a stranger could have come into the home and taken Haleigh, but logic tells me that that didn’t happen, it would have had to be the “perfect crime” with all the stars and the sun and planets coming into alignment at the same time…….you get my drift?
I do not doubt for one moment that Ron Cummings loves his children. I don’t doubt that even Misty might have held some affection for them. I don’t think that something intentional happened to Haleigh, I believe that whatever happened was a terrible, tragic accident. I wish the parties involved, and I believe there are only two, three at the most, would step forward and own their guilt. But I think, and this is my own opinion, I think that the responsible parties have been getting away with not owning their guilt about alot of things for alot of years, and they believe that what’s done is done and no reason for everyone to go down with the ship. I know that sounds harsh, but there are people in this world who have no conscience, and will do anything, or nothing, to save their own skin simply because making a confession won’t change anything.
That being said, I don’t think this case will ever be solved. I don’t think she will ever be found, and without Haleigh, no one will ever be charged for whatever happened to her.
I am, at times, enough of a romantic to believe that she is living out her life with people who love her, and will take care of her, and give her a chance. The there are other times I am enough of a realist to know that this probably didn’t happen.
If the sheer power of people caring could bring her home, she would be back by now, and the people who blog here so faithfully would be largely responsible for that.
Why go straight to she was taken by a “him”?
Why would he not even consider the possibility at that time that Haleigh’s own Mother, Crystal, might possibly have taken her?
Which also brings me to wonder why Ron didn’t call Crystal at jump street just to be sure and rule that out?
Did Ron for sure say him and not ‘em? I’m going to shoot ‘em. I say it all the time,just my southern dialect I guess,LOL
Even Crystal and Marie said she would never go outside in the dark.
Tuff Stuff said,in January 5th, 2010 at 1:05 pm My own Children are scared of the dark but yet when they think they are in danger of any sort they will go to places they are normally fearful of to get away from what they believe is some form of current danger. So the “um, no” doesn’t quite work for me.
The thing that bothers me most is that all possibilities of it being something less that being “taken” by a “him” didn’t even seem to be a consideration. It appears to have gone straight to her being taken by a “him”.
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Whatever, I don’t really care “what works for you.” My child has never been “in danger” nor do I believe Haleigh thought she was “in danger” that night, she was 5 years old not 15. I don’t think most people stop and consider all the “possibilities” of who took their child when they come home and find her gone. I’m sure RC did not consider that his every word would be analyzed to death on the internet. Geezus.
Tuff Stuff said,in January 5th, 2010 at 1:05 pm My own Children are scared of the dark but yet when they think they are in danger of any sort they will go to places they are normally fearful of to get away from what they believe is some form of current danger. So the “um, no” doesn’t quite work for me.
The thing that bothers me most is that all possibilities of it being something less that being “taken” by a “him” didn’t even seem to be a consideration. It appears to have gone straight to her being taken by a “him”.
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Whatever, I don’t really care “what works for you.” My child has never been “in danger” nor do I believe Haleigh thought she was “in danger” that night, she was 5 years old not 15. I don’t think most people stop and consider all the “possibilities” of who took their child when they come home and find her gone. I’m sure RC did not consider that his every word would be analyzed to death on the internet. Geezus.
Good question Vaquera.
It is possible that Misty were asleep but what if Haleigh had picked up the phone and called her Mother or ran to the neghbor’s hosue for that matter because she was afraid of something and possibly Misty wouldn’t wake up? There is many possibilities to think of than to just go straight to the claim that a “him” “took” Haleigh.
Wow Karen that was rather dismissive. Thanks. I thought we had a good conversation going. I live in an area where there are wild critters snakes, coyotes, scorpions etc… My Children will and have run out into the dark outside at night when any one of those creatures may possibly venture into our home. It has happened more than once. (Vinagaroos are not much fun neither.)
I posted the following in my group and I am reposting it here as well.
Revisiting Original Police report and the week before Haleigh went missing.
PCSO Original Incident Report
“snip” pdf.putnam/2009/images/02/13/cnn.turner.com/cdnhttp://i.
In the original report it states that Haleigh is a male?
It also states that Misty put both children in her bed at approximately 8:00PM. Misty then stated thats when she herself went to bed at 10:30PM they (Haleigh & Jr.) were both still sleeping.
In the 911 call she tells the operator that they were cleaning/sleeping around 10PM. Was this a slip? (
htm.haleigh.com/search-results/m/21859053/where-is-foxnewshttp://www.)
Who would they be?
Tommy said he went to the home around 10PM and nobody was home?
Misty claims that she woke just before 3:00Am to get a drink of water and noticed Haleigh missing.
She then states she ran around the home frantically searching for Haleigh, and that she noticed the back door was open. She stated the back door had been locked “PRIOR TO HER GOING TO BED”.
Misty also stated that 5min after she noticed Haleigh Missing Ronald got home and that as soon as she told Ronald Haleigh was missing he told her to call 911 and she did. It just happens that Misty turned her phone back on around 3:15AM.
Hmmm….we learn that Ron had a fight over the phone with Misty and claims he called her several times but could not reach her. To my understanding it was said LE did have Ron’s cell phone records, but as for Misty nothing was said. Just that her phone was off from 8:30PM until 3:15AM right as Ron pulled up to the MH. Hmmmm…
Something else I found to be very odd was that LE stated they could not get any useful information from Ronald because of his emotional state. Well, how many missing children cases are out there that the parent, regardless of there emotional state can give LE useful information? To me this was an easy cop out for Ron so that he would not have to answer any questions from LE that may come back to haunt him..so what does he do? Lets Misty do all the talking…
I also noticed that on Pg 3 of the report they blacked out some information.
Right after the paragraph of TN arrival, it is blacked outed under that section.
Also, If you notice the paragraph that talks about the path the dogs tracked down, part of that info was blacked out. I wonder why?
It is also stated on this report that there is additional information included on a continued report.
In the original police report it was said that Haleigh was last seen in Pink T-shirt, and Tan Shorts. Now, Misty later on found that pink t-shirt when LE took her back into the MH. What I find odd is who would put there child to bed with a Pink T-shirt, and Tan Shorts in the middle of winter? Misty also said she put Haleigh to be in her Pj’s in another interview (http://www.foxnews.com/search-result…mber-alert.htm)
My question would be, what Pj’s did Haleigh have on?
I have always felt that Haleigh-JR. were not home that Monday morning and that is why she didn’t take the bus to school. I have always felt that Ron was out looking for Misty and Haleigh was taken to school by GGMA, TN, or later by Ron and Misty after he picked her up.
She took off on him that Thursday after their fight. Maybe Misty took Ron’s gun that day and on Monday early morning after 4am Ron caught up with her and she told him that Joe took it?..Maybe that incident when he almost runs some off the road at the bus stop was because he was rushing to go locate his Gun and/or Misty?
I always felt he was trying to track her down all weekend and since it was not CS weekend to keep the children he pawned them off on TN or GGMS. It has never been revealed who had the children that weekend…some of the police report has been blanked out and I wonder if it mentions where the children were prior, it must be one of the questions LE would ask I would think.
I also hope LE was able to get some answers from JR, like where was he that night and weekend and with whom.
Ron claims he went to GGMS to get Haleigh an outfit that morning and that is why he was in such a hurry….GGMS comes over the night Haleigh goes missing around 7pm to bring over clean clothe. Sounds to me like someone was already creating an alibi. GGMA didn’t come out and share this information until after the reports of Misty not being home. First TN said she sent someone over to check on Misty, then GGMA all of the sudden takes clothe over?
I truly doubt that someone as strick as Ron that will hit his children the way DCF says (BS “IMO”)he can, would rush over to get Haleigh a shirt from GGMS house.
Yet, he did not come home to check on them after Misty stopped taking his calls that night of Feb 9th after their big fight over her wanting to watch someone elses children.
Wonder if LE got his cell pings for his cell phone? I really wish they would throw us a bone. At least with pings from Ron and Misty’s phone we could try to establish a time line and what all they were doing that week.
Heck, give us Nay Nay, WBG, Amber, and the whole family….
Also,
Ron was to get off work at midnight, that is when his shift ended from what his attorney had stated on NG a while back if I am not mistaken. He decided to work the extra hours the night Haleigh went missing…even after having a fight with Misty and her turning her phone off at 8:30PM. Instead of dashing home to check on his children knowing he left them with someone who was out on a alcohol/drug binge for 4 days straight, he works the extra hours?
Again, Hmmm… GGMS came over and brought clean clothe for the children that night, she didn’t mention that Ron had came over that morning to get a change of clothe for Haleigh though. She only mentioned that she went to the home that evening at around 7PM and sees the children eating dinner outside on the porch…lets not forget it was dark and cold why would anyone not say anything? She just drops the clothe off and leaves and sees nothing wrong with the children eating outside in the cold? Did the children stay with her that weekend and that is why she had to bring clean clothe because they had left their clothe there from the weekend?
So many questions and little answers….
P.S. Not sure if this is the right person in office this year…
I wonder if we all sent a letter to George H. Sheldon regarding all the DCF reports that have been filed and cleared in the Cummings case if he would investigate the matter herself?
It seems no matter what others say or what Ron or Misty do, DCF still feel it is OK for JR to stay in Ron’s care even after Haleigh went missing. I have always wondered if DCF would of done their job right would Haleigh still be around?
It’s been 11 long months and it seems LE is no closer to finding Haleigh now , then they were Feb10, 2009.
If I am not mistaken, from what someone told Art Harris, Ron tried to get someone to back him up on his DCF investigation.
My main reason for wanting someone higher up to take a look at all the files is because it is said that Ron has connections with DCF or knows someone from DCF in his county?
There was an interview from someone right after Haleigh went missing on ArtHarris.com. I thought it was said that someone that works for DCF or knows someone from DCF was contacted by Ron?
Ron asked him to help him out with the investigation that was going on at the time. Well, the guy said he didn’t, but the file was closed.
Now, the new investigation is regarding Ron putting a gun in his mouth threatening to harm himself in front of JR. That report was made by Tim Miller of TES? I fear that if the same people from DCF investigate Ron will get off again.
Then the road rage incident…who were the two children under 5 in the truck?
Bottom line is that there were several reports to DCF before Haleigh went missing from what has been said and all were closed. “IMO” I feel that if DCF would of done there job Haleigh would not be missing. I fear that JR will end up getting hurt next if someone does not step in and it seems that the local DCF is doing nothing at all.
By this time they should of charged Ron and Misty with child endangerment. Reason is because Ron knew that Misty had a drug problem and that she left the children alone in the past and he still left the children in her care the night Haleigh went missing, knowing she was coming down from a 4 day drug bindge!!
He knew there were problems in the home because he tried to contact Misty that night and she turned her phone off from 8:30PM to 3:15PM, right when he pulled up to the mobile home is when she turned it back on.
Instead of coming home to check on the children Ron worked extra hours that night and made a bear, cig, and nut run. I find it very odd that he would not rush home to check on the children knowing that Misty was coming down from a drug binge the night before.
What I posted above is not all proven facts-just my thoughts and opinions which we are freely able to express here!
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no, 5 year olds don’t just leave, or walk off to get away from someone. No, Haleigh didn’t leave to get away from Misty. Ridiculous. She’s five people. Someone came in the middle of the night and removed Haleigh. Period. That’s a fact.
No new information here.
That is a fact, kool and it had to be someone she knew
I agree with you that I do believe that someone removed Haleigh, Kool.
My hypotheticals were to point out that there are other possibilities that “could” have been considered but they apparently just were not even a remote consideration for Ron when he was speaking to the responding officers at the scene.
BTW my then 5 year old (now 6) even scaled a 5ft. chain link fence one night so that is why I believe anything is possible. (Remember too, I was speaking in hypothetical terms.)
I think some time must have elapsed – even mere seconds – but some time between when Ron got home and found out Haleigh was gone and when we hear him over the phone. So her being taken by “him” or “‘em” may not have been his first or only thought before we hear him saying that.
But I can believe that to Ron it was most likely – he knows his daughter and that she doesn’t like the dark and at the time did not think that Misty did anything to her. So, somebody taking her was the most likely thing.
I still wonder why was there an officer at 116 tyler that night? And whose name and statement is blacked out on the report?
Why are the kids scared to sleep in their own beds? That always kinda seemed a little out of the ordinary that they would not be in their own rooms. If she was scared of the dark maybe she turned the kitchen light on.imo
Jail Deputy Charged with Child Sex Abuse in Baker Co.I wanted to share this.
http://www.thesky973.com/pages/6038212.php
Does anyone else think there might be an important clue in Misty saying Haleigh wet the bed after all the other family members said she didn’t do that anymore? Could her bedwetting have been a result of bladder loss due to a severe spanking? Remember, Misty alledgedly had permission from Ron to spank her if she didn’t behave.
tuff said, I agree with you 5 year olds are very adventurous. In the daytime, some even at night. But, what we have learned about the relationships and personalities of these people and Haleigh, she didn’t leave. Someone took her out that home. We just don’t know who. Ron’s response to the officer, most of us do think of crimes being committed by males. Today, females are committing like crimes moreso than in the past.
I just don’t think we ought to hold everything as pure concrete stone that was flowing out of his mouth as soon as he got home, He was pumped big time. Rightfully.
i can’t remember. did h.c. watch the movie in the big bed that night before she went to her own little bed on the floor?
I don’t think Misty is the key,I think she’s the fall girl and the weak link to point at.
HaLeigh/Caylee
Ann Marie/Marie
both birthdays in August
HaLeigh was taken early morning of Caylee’s Memorial
This was thought up and planned,question is by who or how many people?I believe it even more now.
Kool,
You said:
“Someone took her out that home. We just don’t know who. Ron’s response to the officer, most of us do think of crimes being committed by males. Today, females are committing like crimes moreso than in the past.”
I most definately agree with you there. No doubt about it! Just look at the Sandra Cantu case.
I still wonder why Ron didn’t call Crystal Scheffield right away to rule out the possibility that she may have come over that night and taken Haleigh herself.
I agree with you 100% on that aspect.
Tuff Stuff said “Thinking back on Ron’s statements to the responding officers,
It is surprising to me that Ron made the claim that “someone” had taken his Child at all let alone to add that it was a “him” that “took” her…
For all Ron knew at that point, Haleigh could have simply walked to a neighbor’s home to get away from Misty for that matter.
hmm.”
Yes, in this respect the case has striking similarities to the disappearance of Maddie McCann. Her parents have maintained from the offset that their daughter was abducted; never once have they considered the idea that she might have wandered off!! Despite the cadaver dog indications within the apartment…
Yep,saw that yesterday Anne.His wife found a disc with her daughter on it,the lowlife pig had some other porn pictures.Crews,myspace was deleted of all info the 3rd.These pieces of garbage need to be castrated and put away from society.
DramaQueen @ 3:38 – Yes, I’ve wondered about the bed wetting too since others said she hadn’t done that in a while. One reason could be that she got an awful fright. Another that she was hit/hurt. But why would Misty mention it if she (or something bad) had caused it?Perhaps in case Ron noticed that her bed had been re-made with fresh sheets? Perhaps in case the wet bedding was found?
Misty says she did that when she put Haleigh to bed, right? So supposedly Haleigh wet the bed the night before? Am I remembering that correctly? If so, then why hadn’t anyone noticed the wet bed all day? Oh, well, I guess we know Misty’s housekeeping wasn’t going to win any prizes.
But yes it’s worried me too.
I am thinking the same thought DramaQueen. Misty and Ron were fighting. Probably all week since Misty seems to have been the ‘passing dish’ at the drug and sex party the weekend before. The night sweet little Haleigh goes missing they are at it again….Misty is a 17 year old teenager, immature, uneducated, jealous, a drug addict, angry and violent when upset… probably wouldn’t take much to set her off…she either did something to her or most definitely knows who did. She was the last one with her. It makes me wonder how these people are out smarting the entire police force. How is it that this isn’t over with yet? Where is Haleigh?
Bradford said,in January 5th, 2010 at 4:12 pm
“Yes, in this respect the case has striking similarities to the disappearance of Maddie McCann. Her parents have maintained from the offset that their daughter was abducted; never once have they considered the idea that she might have wandered off!! Despite the cadaver dog indications within the apartment…”
Right. Possible that there is both a male and female suspect in that case. Just thinking out loud. Where do you believe they could have taken their Daughter?
(Oops my appologies, this thread is for Haleigh.)
Tuff Stuff @ 4:11 –
I thought about that, too, about if Ron thought about Crystal having taken Haleigh. But from what we’ve heard it seems like Crystal wasn’t that interested in the child. They were not in the midst of a big custody fight at the time – just the money Crystal owed which would not be changed by Haleigh going missing. So I can understand him not thinking of her doing it.
But I still wonder about a relative of Crystals who might have done it for any number of reasons from RSO to hating Ron to putting a stop to the custody payments. I don’t know. Just a possibility.
Hi, Jules @ 4:17 -
I know plenty of people said that Misty and Haleigh loved each other etc. But Haleigh could be a handfull as most 5 year olds and we know Misty asked Ron how to cope with her on at least one occasion and the answer was “smack” her or something. I can also see Misty driven to the “edge” and just smacking her a little too hard, over she goes, hits her head and that’s it. Brother is called, etc etc.
No one the wiser.
I wish we had phone records but of course the cops do so they should know who she called that night.
I am only mentioning this as a theory not to try to talk anyone into it. Just one explanation of what could have happened. I also believe it’s perfectly possible that an RSO took Haleigh. Just because the known local RSOs were accounted for doesn’t mean another one wasn’t around.
IMO, i always thought that Haleigh’s abduction was premeditated. Look at all the distractions.
Follow the shoes and the money trail.
I think using “him” would be right. It is usually a man who abducts a child for wrongful sex. If it was my child I might expect the worse, and I would be really upset and talking off the top of my head. I wouldn’t worry if I was offending men by saying “he” when trying to describe my child’s abduction to LE.
Just a thought but I wonder if the dogs could have possibly detected another persons scent when they followed the scent trail around the area of the MH. If so I wonder if the dogs are able to go by that scent to identify the other person or person(s) who may have been walking with Haleigh?
And if that’s possible wouldn’t LE already possibly know who the person or person(s) were who were on that scent trail with Haleigh?
I would think so?
Just a thought.
blstarke: Yes a possibility. By money trail do you mean the miraculously paid back custody payments or the efforts to collect donations or something else?
I am reading between the lines in this report. are we to assume that Misty may have taken the kids to 116 tyler like she did other times and that is possibly why the dogs followed that trail. And maybe she left them there and walked up to bufalo road to meet someone? That would explain why the dogs had scent trails to tyler and to the tracks and then they stop.
That would also explain why Tommy knew Misty was not at the MH.JMO
And that Ron says him because he knows the him or suspects a certain him ? jmo
I also noted that the very first piece of evidence taken was a white CD OR dvd, I beleive that would be the movie that was in the player? The one that doesnt match with Mistys acount, wonder whos finger print are on it? jmo
Also her shoes are there. Whoever took her left her shoes or brought them back without her. jmo
Good god, there is so much picking apart of what Misty and Ronald said on the night Haleigh went missing. All-To find your 5 year old missing in the middle of the night is horrifying. There is expected to be confusion, misspoken words, etc. None of you have gone through this, so it is easy to just sit back and second guess everything, finding sinister meaning in the most innocuous statements. NOTHING that Misty or Ronald have said would lead me to believe that they had anything to do with Haleigh’s disappearence. I am waiting for LE to get off their collective dead, dumb a**es and produce EVIDENCE. Until that happens, all we have is speculation that will go on for years and years and years.
I have a question that has beeen bugging me.
If Lyndsy was at school or work that night until around 10 did she drive herself or did Tommy need to pick her up? The van was at Timmys house so that only left the red truck at Tommys. If he picked her up they need to check the route he took to get her.jmo
Picking apart what people may have innocently said may very well be critical in finding out the facts of what truly happened.
I guess by my questioning why Ron would go straight to the claim that it was a “him” that had taken Haleigh I suppose that some might think I am attacking Ron. Not so. I am wondering if there were something said along the way prior to LE’s arrival that lead Ron to believe that it was indeed a “him” that had taken Haleigh. SOmething maybe Misty had said or?
Anyhow if we are not allowed to consider all possibilities involving this case then why bother looking at all?
Tobias, I had never even considered that. Also did someone else drop her off and if so whom?
Tuff Stuff said,in January 5th, 2010 at 1:55 pm Wow Karen that was rather dismissive. Thanks. I thought we had a good conversation going. I live in an area where there are wild critters snakes, coyotes, scorpions etc… My Children will and have run out into the dark outside at night when any one of those creatures may possibly venture into our home. It has happened more than once. (Vinagaroos are not much fun neither.)
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It was and I apologize. I am jaded towards anyone who thinks RC killed Haleigh and I took it out on you. Again, I apologize. Truce?
Truce.
bjb, You dont think calling someone you profess to love and believe a dumb@z b to LE not telling? He blamed her right away even though she explained what happened on the 911 call while he listened, and even after the LE arrived he blames her for letting someone take Haleigh. Why and what changed all that?jmo
I believe that in the heat of the moment things get said that can be very telling about a persons true feelings and then they try to cover it up and say they were just under pressure. jmo
I do not believe Ron or Misty directly did anything to Haleigh. I believe their actions before that night led to whatever happened that night. Remember when Misty says she didnt pass the poly because she felt guilt even though she didnt do anything. That statement could mean a lot, they could have just messed with the wrong person and they took Haleigh. It would be just one of many theorys. jmo
I dont see the point of a public dissection of every bowel movement Misty and Ronald have. I am waiting to see one thing (anything) that can be used to point LE in the correct direction(s)to finding Haleigh. So far I have seen nothing but a soap opera, high drama hijinks, nothing more, and certainly nothing that would help in finding Haleigh. Yes, looking at everything IS the correct thing to do in an investigation, however, lets not forget it has been close to a year, and still no direction for LE. LE HAS looked at everything said and done by Misty and Ron on the night Haleigh disappeared. They have obviously concluded at this point that there is no one to arrest, hold for more questioning, and more importantly—-NO ONE TO HELP THEM TO FIND HALEIGH. Unfortunately, the longer the wait, the less the chance of ever solving this case.
Also LE is not going to let these families know who they suspect because they are all volitile. They need to be sure and arrest them before someone finds out and maybe shoots an innocent suspect. jmo
The thing is ,Ron did not suspect Crystal from the start. If he would have, he would have said she or her instead of him or he. jmo
bjb,
I can tell by your response that you are as frustrated as anyone else who has been following this case.
(The bowel movement part gave me a chuckle though.)
Bonanzajellybean – I agree. It’s so sad but I really don’t think they’re any closer to an answer than they were that first night.
But who knows? We can only hope!
The 20 calls still bother me too. Then the one to Tommys house. were they all from 8:30 till 10 then he called Tommy? He must have assumed that if she wasnt at Tommys that she was still mad and had shut her phone off? She never does explain why she shut her phone off to this day.jmo
Also funny how with all the interviews NG did she never asks Ron about those calls. She talked about them to Art Harris and the panel but never to Ron directly WHY IS THAT? IMHO
GOOD NIGHT ALL PRAY FOR AN ANSWER AND FOR hALEIGH.
Good Night Tobias. Will do.
Lindsey was at school,but the van was at Timmy’s,not Tommy’s.That is a thought though,Timmy said he went to the MH around 10:30.I’m wondering if he went over to the MH after picking Lindsey up or her getting home from nursing school around 10:00.That might have been the reason he went at that time.He couldn’t leave his kids alone,they were probably sleeping,Lisa was at the hospital with Hank Sr.So,he had to wait till Lindsey got home to check on Misty.IMO He was at the MH that evening with his kids,not sure if he walked home with the kids or drove home.
Here’s my theory. . .
Misty had some ‘Tom Cat’ (boy/man) stop by. She leaves with him (may not have left the trailer park but leaves the house) after the kids are asleep. When her brother, Tommy, comes over to do a ‘welfare’ check at the request of Ronald, he sees the back screen door propped. He goes into investigate and realizes Misty isn’t there. He then seizes the moment and either takes Haleigh then or parks the van in a remote wooded area which scratches the van and comes back on foot to get Haleigh (which would explain the child foot print).
Misty claims she was there that night with such confidence because she didn’t leave the trailer park. .she was sucking face in a car in the dark.
This case has frustated me from the beginning. I suppose what horrified me the most was Crystal’s acting as though she were a MOTHER!!
She is a druggie, an out ot touch person, selfish, crude and….. I don’t think I want to post many more words, only because of Junior and Coele. BUT I WILL SY THIS, SHE SPREAD HER LEGS, BUT NOT ANY WARMTH, AFFECTION, LOVE, ATTENTION, ANYTHING TO HER CHILDREN. HOPEFULL THERRE IS A WAY THAT SHE WILL NEVER PRO-CREEATE AGAIN……………..EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why is it people always say the woman is like this,when the guys are the same,multiple partners and such?It’s a way of life there with most of the friends and relatives,not just one person.If you go by the drugs and violence with most of them,none of them should have anymore kids.Cute kids,too bad their parents don’t change thier lifestyles for thier kids sakes.
Who takes children? From their homes at night?
Funny but I have never heard of a woman talking a girl in the night. Why is it so wrong for Ron Cumming’s to assume it was a man?
His child was afraid of the dark and loved Misty. He knows Haleigh better than you do.
I am sure Haleigh would love to read this mess of crap that Bio Mom and her family have put all over the internet. Haleigh was reported missing and mom was called by 4 am. She showed up around noon. Give me a break. She also said the reason she did not come was she thought it was a joke. Even though her own father got there at 5am and told her it was not. NICE
Dan,
The second part of your post is completely inaccurate. The mother didn’t show up at noon. She initially thought that it was a joke because she was in shock.
4Pirate,
You’re out of control and your response is unreasonable. You don’t know Crystal. You might think you have some idea what she is like, but you don’t. Maybe you should focus on the disappearance of HaLeigh instead of your hatred for the mother.
4 Pirate…who is Coele?
Here is my opinion for what it is worth. As 10 months have gone by we are trying to put anything into any thing and are forgetting to maybe keep it simple. My SOP. is that it was a regular thing for Ron and Misty to give both kids something to put them out when they needed it. (tylenol, nyquil.zanny the nanny,whatever this decaide says is socialy okay,in secrate.) Misty gave thee 2 kids whatever when she went out to play, shut the phone off because Ron knew that she would play to pay for her drugs just like she did the 3 days before. Misty put the block up so that she could get both kids in the house, so she wouldn’t have to shuffle the door twice. Prop the screen door because it shuts, just nuge the main door because it doesn,t shut all the way. Got the kids in foud out she (they) gave Haleigh to much, wasn’t breathing, (if they were in the van the whole time while Misty was with her friends,and the van was running would that not make the situation worse?) She gets home, gets out of the van, props open the door so she can get both kids in without faultering with the screendoor. Gets them both in(J.R. is drugged but somewhat coherient which exsplains his somewhat wiered (groogy exsplaination of the “black guy”) but Haleigh,Oh no. The fumes from the van and whatever Misty gsve her to sleep killed her. Misty didn’t know it until she carried Haleigh into the house. Then calls whatever,blah ,blah , blah.
Peggy, maybe…It is a very detailed opinion….and do we KNOW that they “knocked them out” with meds on a regular basis? Maybe they did,that would explain the bedwetting. And it would explain the washing of the blanket, etc. We all know, when someone passes, they lose control of their bowels…
I have something else, another theory, but I am still working on it. I see a lot of unfamilar folks here tonight…you all from Putnam County by any chance????
Has anyone considered that maybe they are narcs, Misty and Ron or Misty or Ron? Ron seems to be somewhat of an upstanding person in this neck of the woods, he has (had) a good job, he has (had) custody of his kids…yet he involves himself with drug addicts…or at least is tied to them in one way or another. He is the PRIME candidate for a narc. Who’s to say he was not “holding” inventory, Misty told someone (maybe a relative that recently moved out of state), Maybe that is why they were fighting, someone lured her out of the house and stole the stash. NOW, there are perhaps…oh maybe… let’s say approx $35,000 (ring a bell) of drugs missing, and now someone needs to pay. What if Ron was working with Undercover cops? What if he still is? What if they know exactly who took Haleigh, they just don’t know where she is? Why are they so Freakin quiet? Why did TES and Laura get pushed out of the picture? You wanna know why???? ALL OF THEM KNOW EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED, WHO TOOK HER, AND WHY!!!! They will all be “under the bus” if anyone other than their corrupt asses are working this case….IMO!!!
Bluemoon, Iget what you are saying. Spacificaly about the narc thing. I think Ron is and has been, her in Ks. the only reason someone can be busted an get away with that many buswt tis to be a narc. We just had a guy, Gary Emery, that was along time thug got off on everything, messed up and went into a county that could care less and is doing 10 yrs
Thanks Peggy, I really think it would answer a lot of unanswered questions, if he was in some way or another, at some point, in some capacity working for/or with LE on something prior to Haleigh’s abduction. It would explain a LOT of things and point us all in a different direction.
Tuff Stuff said,
in January 5th, 2010 at 4:11 pm
Kool,
You said:
“Someone took her out that home. We just don’t know who. Ron’s response to the officer, most of us do think of crimes being committed by males. Today, females are committing like crimes moreso than in the past.”
I most definately agree with you there. No doubt about it! Just look at the Sandra Cantu case.
I still wonder why Ron didn’t call Crystal Scheffield right away to rule out the possibility that she may have come over that night and taken Haleigh herself.
I agree with you 100% on that aspect.
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It wasn’t like it was hours before she was called, he got home at 3:27 and Crystal was called at 3:49.He was busy with the police in the meantime.
skeptic said,
in January 5th, 2010 at 9:53 pm
Dan,
The second part of your post is completely inaccurate. The mother didn’t show up at noon. She initially thought that it was a joke because she was in shock
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I guess she was in so much shock she went back to sleep till Chad showed back up home from being out all night. She later said she knew it wasn”t a prank because she could hear the police in the background when Teresa called Crystal.She didn’t call Marie till 5 and then they called Johnny and Crystal did not arrive till mid morning.
The amber alert went out during Caylee’s memorial, it was towards the end of the memorial. So that would be towards 10:30 or so. The press arrived in Satsuma sometime after the AA went out Crystal was not there when they first arrived and it showed her and Marie showing up after Ron had already talked to the press one time. It was 7 hours or so before they finally showed up.
If I had gotten a call at 3:49 my ass would have been at Ron’s door at 5:49.
I was going to post to the Crystal haters….
Skeptic got to it before me and posted just how I feel… Thanks Skeptic
@dan please get your fact together before you start bashing a mother of a little missing girl..you remind me of a poster name Player.
@bluemoon I agree with Ron being a narc and some of your theory.
IMO the disappearance of precious HaLeigh happen in Putnam county and under care of Misty and Ron. If a Shefield was involve than I be looking at the one that use to live in Putnam before they move to KY.
Vaq,
If I had gotten a call at 3:49 my ass would have been at Ron’s door at 5:49.
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Agreed, so where in the hell was she, and why did she not rush to the “scene’??
BECAUSE THEY WERE ALL IN ON WHATEVER IN THE HELL WAS GOING ON!!!
When did CS move from Putnam CO? And was she ever brought in on any drug charge, even something small?
lea said,
in January 5th, 2010 at 11:36 pm
I was going to post to the Crystal haters….
Skeptic got to it before me and posted just how I feel… Thanks Skeptic
@dan please get your fact together before you start bashing a mother of a little missing girl..you remind me of a poster name Player.
@bluemoon I agree with Ron being a narc and some of your theory.
IMO the disappearance of precious HaLeigh happen in Putnam county and under care of Misty and Ron. If a Shefield was involve than I be looking at the one that use to live in Putnam before they move to KY
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So when is posting the truth about Crystal equal being a Crystal hater? Are you a Ron hater? I don’t hate Crystal I feel sorry for her but she was not really “involved” in her kids lives, and that’s a fact. Have you ever seen the birthday pictures of Haleigh a few years ago. Connie and Johnny are the ones hovering around her and helping her. Crystal is sitting looking at them like she would rather be anywhere but there..bored, no smile on her face and like she is looking at someone else’s daughter.
Blue Moon said,
in January 5th, 2010 at 11:38 pm
BECAUSE THEY WERE ALL IN ON WHATEVER IN THE HELL WAS GOING ON!!!
When did CS move from Putnam CO? And was she ever brought in on any drug charge, even something small?
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in 2005.Sometime after she left Ron she started shacking up with a guy whose name is Michael Shawn Word in Jacksonville. In fact Crystal has him on her myspace now.He has arrests and courts stuff in putnam county and a few others. Then they moved onto Bruce’s place into the little trailer she lives in now.Then I guess she got rid of him and started up with Chad.
She’s never been arrested for drugs but has been for lying about someone stealing her car to the police.
I have always believed from day one that there were drugs and/or guns removed from the mobile home before 911 was called the night Haleigh went missing. I had believed for a long time that Ron and Misty merely lied to account for the time needed to remove all illegal items from the home before le shows up.
I think this is also when Ron decided while he was out dropping off the illegals at (TN?GGMS?TC/LC?) wherever, he would also set his time line by casually stopping at the store (with a camera). For me, the delay in calling 911 could explain a lot of RC’s behaviour having had the chance to look around for Haleigh and come to the conclusion that someone had taken her before le gets there.
There is so much drama with these people all the time, it is hard to know which events, if any that were occuring around this child, pertain to her actual disappearance.
The continued drama surrounding RC lately though, is making me question more of his actions that can’t be explained by my above scenario. It is also building through these last months to portray for us a more honest version of RC than we were seeing from him in the beginning. You can only pretend to be someone else for the camera forever.
But the scrutiny isn’t going anywhere. Not for le and not for Ron and Misty. The house of lies will not stand forever, so let’s keep the wind blowing. God bless Haleigh’s army, we will keep fighting for you.
lol, supposed to say:
‘You can only pretend to be someone else for the camera FOR SO LONG’
Does anyone know if CJ was visiting Orange Park FL yesterday or the day before? I heard a rumor and wanted to know if anyone has heard. Any locals hear anything today or yesterday?
I found a strange coincidence. Orange Park is almost exactly 1/2 between Palatka & Jacksonville…..Odd or just coincidence?
To Skeptic > I am not a Crystal hater. I learned long ago hatred cannot be a part of anyone’s soul. However, as a mother myself, I find her to be horrible.
Why didn’t she clean up her act, get a job, MOVE CLOSER TO HER CHILDREN, pay the court ordered child support for her two children (you know, for food, clothing, medications, insurance, toys, shelter?) Nope, she just goes off and has another child.
Even when she was told Haleigh was missing she didn’t get out of bed and beat feet to RC’s. Her excuse? She thought it was a “joke” Does she have a brain? Wouldn’t you call the LE in Putnam County to confirm this one way or the other?! Even after her father called her it was a long time before she got there.
I don’t know how you can defend her. A mother is a loving, caring, responsible person. I see none of this in Crystal.
mariesilk, thank you for the info and the link to the article. i did not think about the fact it could be info on the sheffields. that is good thinking! my mind went right to the more obvious. i really hope pcso have something new that will help! hoping it is not a ruse like some fear. ms.p.
Peggy. I myself have posted before that I thought perhaps these children were given something to make them sleep so they could do their thing. I thought perhaps even Haleighs was administered with her nebulizer and thats why it disappeared when she did. Haleighs fast acting inhaler was still there, but not her nebulizer. My thoughts on the van was that it was used to get out the drugs in the home and thats where the damage came from. They put them somewhere they could retrieve them later. This would incriminate Ron also even though he was at work due to the fact he was aware of giving these children something to make them go to sleep. I also like the theory that this was planned due to the timing of Haleighs disappearance. Perhaps they hid Haleigh out and staged an abduction due to a drug deal gone bad and figured that Haleighs reward would be as high as Caylees, but due to the high profile status of Haleighs disappearance they were unable to bring her back and get the reward money without going to jail.
I have believed for sometime now that there was no argument with Ron and Misty in that 8:30pm phone call. I have believed that phone call was either Misty panicking about Haleigh not breathing or to make sure the plan was going as scheduled. Everything else fell into play and getting their story straight.
There is still the possibilities that Misty left and someone did come in and take Haleigh. I believe that LE does have it right though that this is no stranger abduction. I believe Misty does have the info that could break this case wide- open . I just pray that it is that they hid Haleigh and not the theory of being over medicated. In either scenario I pray they get the maximum sentence they deserve.
Good morning all, my question is, given the reported circumstances of the evening, if Misty and Ron DID have an argument that night and then he was unable to reach her by phone for several hours, does it makes sense for him to actually bypass the road to the house to go to the store before he went home, or given that the store was such a short distance away, would it have been reasonable that he would stop by the house to check on things and then go to the store? I don’t know enough about their behaviour to decide which is the most rational thing to do, perhaps Misty often turned her phone off after an argument, and Ron was used to this kind of behaviour, but common sense tells me that most people would have gone home first, on the other hand, if they were working together to cover something up, he wouldn’t surely be stopping to buy beer knowing that the 911 call would have to be made as soon as he got home. The whole thing is a puzzle to me, unless I stick with my original gut theory, which is a terrible fatal accident took place before Ron ever left for work, and the two of them covered it up. And are still covering it up.
Morning, DramaQueen!
Also, if there was a plan in place would it be reasonable for Ron to volunteer to work the extra hours instead of going home at the expected time (midnight, I believe)? He couldn’t reach Misty to tell her about that since her phone was turned off. And would it be reasonable for him to take the extra time to go to the store for beer and cigs?
Presumably there would be a record of when he left work so why would he need the extra time or need to get himself on the store’s security camera?
I’m not saying something did not happen before Ron went to work but it just seems less likely to me. As far as Misty shutting off her phone – sounds like typical teenage “I’m not talking to you” payback during a fuss with the boy friend. I don’t think anyone – including Ron – would suspect her of treating the kids badly or something happening to the kids because of that argument or because he could not reach her. Just sounds like he may have expected to get home and find a still mad Misty – hence the need for beer and cigs!
Tobias,
Where is it that HaLeighs shoes were there at home? I have been asking that for awhile now.
Morning, m2c, it never made sense tome that something could have ahppened to Haleigh in Ron’s absence and he knew about it and helped Misty cover it up. Why would he sacrifce the truth about his child for a girl he really barely knew? Doesn’t make sense. Of course, nothing about this case HAS made sense from the beginning. The poster who advanced the theory about Misty drugging the children and taking them out partying and leaving them sleeping in the van, well, that I can see, and it would certainly explain Jr’s comment about the man.
I guess my second theory about Ron being completely innocent, and Misty and another person being the guilty parties really makes more sense, in the long run, and I have no doubt that Misty would not hesitate to take that secret to her grave to spare her life.
I wish LE would release some more information. I think they really do have a good idea of what happened, they just one thing to tie everyhting together. IMO those three dogs hitting on that dumpster meant something, whether they will admit it or not.
I was thinking if it was a plan why not work over and stop by the store ,not so much to be on a camera , but to be seen coming home from work and perhaps he knew this person at this store. Then less suspicion and questions for him. What better time to call in a missing child with a name almost like the one the whole world is grieving over and watching her memorial world- wide.
DramaQueen I agree with you on the dumpsters. I would just hate to think she is gone. I want to stay hopeful for a safe return. I do realize the alternative and it hurts too much to think that is the case here.
MC2, The barge was late it was manditory overtime. He did not have a choice. If he thought she left to go to Tommys and she wasnt there, and still wasnt answering the phone wouldnt he be worried enough to call Teresa at least? 20 calls is alot. Maybe he just thought she went to bed?
I have a hard time believing that Misty didnt know what CJ and Rons problems were. They must look bad on Rons side or you can bet she would be screaming it from everywhere.
Also if Ron and Misty are still in touch why couldnt ron, with all of his relatives and friends, find her a place to stay?
Another thing that doesnt hold water in her story, she was robbed and beat, and now she is all of a sudden afraid to walk down the street?
It was all lies and damage control, she called in to make them look innocent in all of this.
I SAY BOTH PARTIES DID THE ROAD RAGE. We just dont know what led up to it. Misty was at CJs for weeks and he has a girlfriend, did Misty do something before she went back to Tyler street to make them mad? CJs mom is in jail for something is that it? jmo
Just checked on it. Kathleen Jones arrested on Dec. 30 for battery and strike. HMMMMM.IMHO
Sorry she was arrested on the 29th bonded out on the 30th of Dec. just when all this happened. Does anyone know who she was fighting with? jmo
I also think Crystal didnt really care too much after she lost custody of the kids.
That is the reason I dont think she was involved, she never was. She tried to hide the fact that she was an uncaring Mother, thats all and I believe her mother pushed for the custody battle for Junior. I am surprised that Crystal didnt sign over the kids if she was worried about the child support. That is what alot of men do when the Mother remarries and they dont want to pay support. jmo
Tobias, I agree with you both paties are guilty in the road rage incident, and Crystal has always seemed to me to be an uncaring mother.
m2c,
I agree. I see so many going on and on about why would he stop on the way home? why was her phone off? why why why, and I have to look at my own life and my darling man.
We argue, we hang up on each other, we don’t answer calls, we’re mad, we’re not talking, and I STILL am at work, (I work nights) and at 1:30 or 2:30 when I get off and YES, sometimes I have to work later than I anticipate but will I call him and tell him? No, he knows the latest I will get off and I do not want to wake him and my daughter up. I always assume my daughter is asleep in bed and we’re not talking anyway, so everything is fine. I make the stop for the milk I know we are out of, and it takes me an extra half hour to go out of my way, I have to travel four miles off the highway on the way home to get a 24 hr. place. I stop and look to see if there’s a new book I have to have or I look to see if there’s a dvd that’s been released. It’s the middle of the night, everyone I know is sleeping. Meanwhile husband and I are angry with each other, but I don’t worry. I know he’s taking care of our daughter and I know I’m going to go home and we’ll either still be fighting or we’ll make up the next day. Does this make me a bad mother? Is this weird? I just don’t understand why some think it’s so strange. If he’s been drinking with his buddies all weekend, I am NOT a happy camper, and he knows it, but that is between us and I expect him to take care of our daughter NO MATTER WHAT. (he damn sure knows he won’t drink while he is taking care of her, and he’s not an alcholic either, I’m talking once in a blue moon he hangs out with his uncles and Daddy and Grandma watches our daughter) I figure they went to bed early if he’s exhausted. Do I make twenty calls in a row if I’m really mad at him? Maybe if I have to tell him something or if I think he got the last word. LOL And will I finally call his mom to make sure he’s home and all is well? I have. I won’t deny it. I’m not perfect. I am a good mother. But I’m trying to look at the way I would do things…and I don’t see this as being such a strange thing for Ronald to stop on the way home. Do my husband and I act like children at times? Yes. I’m not going to deny it. Throw things at me if you will, but I’m being honest.
And YES, we have a beautiful loving relationship. I love that man no matter what. But at times, we DO act like kids. heh.
OMG. I wish I wish I wish Haleigh were home. RIGHT NOW. Yesterday wouldn’t have been soon enough.
Tobias, boy these people really bond out fast. I’ve never known anything like it!
Misty has CJ on her voice mail, why didnt she have her phone on voice mail the night Ron called 20 times? And if she is so destitute how can she afford a phone? jmo
4Pirate, I have been noting that fact lately, too, some within like 20-30 minutes! It’s amazing!
Pirate, I am sure whoever was there when she was arrested called A1 or Chucks before they even left the residence. I am just curious if this involved Misty or one of her friends and thats why she was out on the streets again. jmo
Bunny,
You want to make a man livid,unplug the phone.LOL
Women will hang up in a heartbeat and turn the phone off.It’s a way of shutting them up,and winning the argument.Pfffttt!The last thing on a person’s mind is something would happen to a child over a phone argument.
Hi, Tobias! @ 11:53 am.
There are a lot of different people in this world who react to things differently. I do not expect anyone – especially in this bunch of characters – to react in the way I would or you would or even in any logical way. I’m sure Misty and Ron had had fights before and Misty did not cause harm to the children. It’s understandable to me that that would be the farthest thing from his mind.
If he did call Tommy he might have been sort of trying to find out if she’d dumped the kids on him or if he knew anything. But I do not see any sense or reason for Ron to “panic” and run home. It’s not like he left the kids with someone prone to violence or who had abandoned the children before. Remember, Misty supposedly loved the kids and vice versa.
One other thing you mentioned was about Crystal. I do not think she herself had anything to do with this – she doesn’t have the energy. But I can see a relative or friend doing it.
You mentioned that Crystal could have “signed over” the kids and gotten out of paying custody? I’ve never heard of that. The bio parent has to pay no matter what (a) as long as the other bio-parent does not “excuse” them and (b) especially if the parent with the children is getting any state assistance (I don’t know if Ron was or not.) But I can’t imagine Ron (or very many parents) letting the spouse off the hook for some kind of $ support.
also, can someone tell me where the information came from that Ron called Misty 20 times? I don’t remember and I just want to make sure that it’s not a rumor that grew legs and is walking around like a fact now. lol!
Can anyone tell me about the woman from Texas who paid off Crystal’s $12,000 child support? Is that just a rumor?
This is racking everyone’s brain.Noone wants this to go unsolved and keep wondering what happened,where is HaLeigh,who took her.I just know there’s more and people will come out of the woodwork as CJ has,so this could be something we haven’t thought about or know any other circumstances yet.
I believe she was a poster named Barbara.
m2c,
I am trying to throw out everything we’ve heard,since most of it is rumor and find out only facts.When I do that,I can count what we really know on one hand.
DramaQueen said,
in January 6th, 2010 at 10:16 am
The convenience store was on the way home not far from where he worked. He didn’t bypass his street to stop at the store.
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m2c where I live you can sign your rights away if the other parents agrees and it stops all child support payments. My niece’s ex did that to his ex wife and kids. He signed his rights away or gave up parental rights, whatever you want to call it, and he no longer had to pay support.
I would never agree to something like that. They are either going to pay or sit in jail,their choice.
Vaquera, are you sure about the location of the convenience store? Because I distinctly remember reading that he had to actually drive past his street to go to the store. Of course, like so many other tings in this case, that could have been a wrong report.
And yes someone really did pay off the back child support, and yes, she was posting, there was more but I would have to ask CC to really remember all of it.
4Pirate said,
in January 6th, 2010 at 1:31 pm
Can anyone tell me about the woman from Texas who paid off Crystal’s $12,000 child support? Is that just a rumor?
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In Kim’s bar complaint rebuttal she says it was a Barbara E. Johnson. I did track one down that lives outside of Houston proper. A Ellen Johnson, a person that works in the oil business in Houston, gave an interview with a paper in FL about following the case and her twitter acct., HaleighNews, which is no longer, and I’m pretty sure that is the same person. I bet she wishes she had the 12+K back.
Bunny, I agree I dont find it odd behavior! I to sometimes will stop at the store and wind down after i get off work at midnight to pick up things i know we need! Also im a fountain pop or soda fanatic I will admit it im addicted to Dr. Pepper! Haha! I always stop for one of those wether my man and i are fighting or not! Im 24 people would say im still a kid! So no i dont think that makes me a bad mother of 2!
I still think the call into Levi was Misty doing damage control. She called into 911 on CJ and she didnt think we would all know it, really? If she was more concerned about harrassment she would never have made the call.
That was an after thought. Like oops he isnt going to get arrested and now we are going to look bad to everyone online. They wanted us to believe people are out to get them instead of them acting wreckless with 2 kids in the car.
When it appeared to be backfiring she hung up.
Then she called in and did damage control saying how scared she is of CJ. She know more than she is willing to say because she or Ron would look bad. We also are taking her word for the 2 kids, when has anyone gone in a car with 2 little ones and its been that quiet? Kids talk and when you run off the road and sart yelling they cry or start screaming. jmo
Afternoon all. Just catching up.
M2C asked at 10:48am:
“Presumably there would be a record of when he left work so why would he need the extra time or need to get himself on the store’s security camera?”
Good thoughts. I just wondered, with Ron being a less than stellar driver he could have shaved some time off the drive home from work. Long enough to remove some drugs/guns from the home. Say, 15 minutes? This could put Misty calling Ron as he pulled in the driveway when she first turned on her cell phone. We don’t know for sure who was called when that night.
To add further, perhaps there was drug money or drugs that were taken with Haleigh that R & M haven’t told le about. They are lying about something…..I wish we knew what. I am still not totally convinced one way or another, this case has me in circles.
On another note:
When a certain Haleigh site that was shutdown before Christmas there was a member who would go and take all the pics of the places in the case. Kind of kooky, but I did check them out here and there to see how things could fit. Any way, she did the drive from Ron’s work to his home herself at the 3 in the morning and stopped at the same store Ron did. I believe that the drive was about 1hr 15min. (My fiance could shave 15 minutes off that like nothing) and the store was on the way home. Of course, I can’t link to the site, as it is gone, so did anyone else see that? Or know the time it takes to get from Green Ln to PDM?
TIA
Mariesilk, I know the site and the photos you are talking about, but wasn’t PDM Bridge only about a 20 minute drive from Ron’s house? IIRC
From green lane to pdm bridge its 17.75 miles
and 33 minutes.
thank you Tobias
Oh, geez. I guess my memory is already going, lol.
Another theory bites the dust.
On to the next:
There were witnesses that stated that Misty picked up Haleigh from the bus that Monday and headed away from Green Ln. And that Ron came along behind her. What if they had some vehicular mishap (side swipe?) while trying to communicate driving side by side. It gets out of hand, Haleigh is not restrained (which seems the norm around this bunch) and hits her head. Of course, at first she is fine.
Hence Misty’s comment about Haleigh doing wheelies and how she was ‘doing fine’. But head wound trauma can often show up later.
I don’t like to think it, but if Haleigh passed during her sleep she may have vomited and she would have voided her bowels and bladder. Thus causing Misty to have to wash and/or switch around blankets and feel the need to overly explain why the blankets had to be washed.
This could be with or without Ron’s knowledge if Misty thought it was something she had done to Haleigh and not the injury she may have called her brothers to help clean up. Or she may have told Ron and they knew it was from the injury and chose to cover it up together. I still believe they had to move illegals out of the mh before calling 911, so did he lie about what they hid or is he lying about what happened to Haleigh? I fear the second.
In this theory, GGMS and auntie nurse coming by would play a big part if Haleigh was showing some signs of having a concussion. Perhaps at this time the aunt declared Haleigh OK, only to later have her pass away and have to be covered up?
Have at it…
Tobias, I have seen first-hand close up a crazy woman at the wheel of her car in a screaming match with someone with a toddler in a car seat in back who was stunned, shocked and frightened into complete silence. Not a peep out of the little guy with all that commotion going on.
Also some kids can sleep thru anything and neither Ron (in the background) nor Misty really sounded like they were yelling to me on the 911 call.
I still think that Misty was trying to report CJ for the road rage and expected help to come and thought the op was saying no we can’t help.
There is no other point to her calling!
Thanks Vaquera for the info on the Texas Women.
Also, does anyone know if Misty is living with Ron at GGM’s house. And where is Ron’s father? I don’t think we’ve heard from him, how come?
Winterrose,
agreed. Almost everything I have read is rumor—someone’s “hunch”–based on nothing. There is nothing in this case to even form a rational theory.
Are we sure about the time Ron left work? Was it 2:30 am or so? Then he goes a few minutes out of his way to the store. The timeline adds up to me pretty well.
I can certainly believe that “stuff” might have to be hidden before LE arrived, though. It must be very inconvenient to have to call LE if one has illegal anything in the house but there doesn’t seem much time to take it very far.
Also why would Misty take the kids with her if she went out to score dope or party? It’s a pain to lug them around and the kids might tell Daddy. It’s much easier to leave them at home and she might not have expected to be gone long. But that’s all it would take for someone to go in the house and take Haleigh either because that was their purpose or she got in the way of a robbery or something. (And yes Ron or Misty might have had “stuff” stolen they don’t want to tell about.)
bonanzajellybean @ 3:33 pm – I am afraid you are right and that’s why I haven’t really formed a theory – just considered a bunch of them. We don’t have the info needed. I only hope LE does but after this amount of time I fear that they don’t.
Vaquera: I only hope that LE thoroughly investigated whoever paid that money. It would be the perfect way to funnel/launder money for a “sold” child or other purpose.
Vaquera: But your niece had to agree to it, right? (severing the father’s rights)
If the subject even came up I don’t know why Ron would agree. Crystal wasn’t hassling him for custody and why should he let her off the hook? Plus I’m sure Marie would have had a fit. It wouldn’t look good for a mother to give up rights to her children. And a grandma might not appreciate it either.
My theory still holds water. Misty places Tommy at the MH after Ron leaves for work and the door has been checked on his way out(he says he does this every night). While there he has opportunity to unlock it. Later he places himself there at the MH ( In a signed statement to LE) this gives him opportunity to enter the backdoor he unlocked earlier. He know Misty sleeps soundly. He is alone or with Joe and there to steal from Ron. Haleigh wakes and thinks her Dad is home and walks in the kitchen and turns on the light this startles Tommy and Joe and the bad thing happens. Misty wakes up .Nothing she can do but cover for her brother who claims it was an accident. She washes blankets etc. They get rid of body and scratch the van. Misty later calls Tommys house(told police she called her mother) to see if they are back. She then tries to call Ron as he comes in driveway and we know the rest. THIS IS JUST A THEORY.
Yeah, the store probably has nothing to do with that night. I guess its just the odd, vague statements made by le and Shoemaker as to RC’s work hours. If Ron would have normally got off at midnight, he would have had to start work at 4pm to make that an 8 hour shift. He would have had to leave for work at AT LEAST 3:30pm, given traffic was good to arrive on time. But wait, Shoemaker offers up he was 1/2 an hour to 3/4 of an hour early, bumping his time to go to work up to 2:45 to 3pm.
Does anyone know what time Haleigh got off the bus?
Not alot a grandparent can do except inforce grandparents rights to visitation. Does Florida have this? Some States do. Alot of guys do this if the mother is getting married and the child is young. That way the stepfather can adopt. My brother was divorced and he had the kids when his ex found out she had MS she gave up her rights so his new wife could legally adopt. That way if something had happened to him they would be taken care of by the step mother. jmo
I like that mariesilk, it answers the question of the nurse relation coming with grandma and she tried to blow it off by saying they were delivering clothing……or Haleigh could have hit her head earlier in the day playing on the trampoline at Tommy’s house
I think they brought the clothes because Ron had been there earlier to get clothes for Haleigh to wear to school. She washed some for the rest of the week and was dropping them off. Odd that with Misty saying she was cleaning those clothes were said to still be on the counter by LE later. jmo
4Pirate said,
in January 6th, 2010 at 3:26 pm
Thanks Vaquera for the info on the Texas Women.
Also, does anyone know if Misty is living with Ron at GGM’s house. And where is Ron’s father? I don’t think we’ve heard from him, how come?
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You’re welcome and no she’s not living at the Sykes. I am sure she is still living with Tommy in that 2 bedroom mobile home with his wife, kids and parents. Nothing says love like 7-8 people living in a small trailer.
Outside of seeing Jack Lester when he almost gave Geraldo a second broken nose,
he hasn’t been in the public eye.
m2c♥ said,
in January 6th, 2010 at 3:45 pm
Vaquera: But your niece had to agree to it, right? (severing the father’s rights)
If the subject even came up I don’t know why Ron would agree. Crystal wasn’t hassling him for custody and why should he let her off the hook? Plus I’m sure Marie would have had a fit. It wouldn’t look good for a mother to give up rights to her children. And a grandma might not appreciate it either.
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The niece’s ex’s 2nd wife,LOL yea you have to agree to it which she did. My friend”s daughter’s ex tried that and she said hell no, you pay or go to jail.
you are right about Marie, no way she would allow that, she runs Crystal’s life, guess she was to busy not being a mom when Crystal was growing up.
One thing we know for sure is she did not walk out of the MH. She had no clothes on and her shoes were still there. No one has said that any clothes are missing . I know all of my kids clothes. Surely Ron would know or Misty.
Her pink shirt and tan shorts were found in the dirty laundry. Did you ever try to undress a sleeping child to put on their pjs its not easy. Especially if they were trying to abduct her. jmo
I dont think Crystal cared enough to fight for Haleigh let alone steal her. None of that makes any sense to me sorry. Now if they were in a bitter battle at anytime in the 4 years Ron had the kids that would put a new light on things. But we dont see any proof of that. She followed all the visitation rules except for the child support. And I think that was because she had no job and was pregnant with Chloe, she also had some accident I think while she was pregnant. And at the very first few days Ron and Crystal were getting along.
Then after a few days they started with the seperate tents etc. Right after the first vigil I believe.jmo
I never thought Crystal took Haleigh, she’s to uninvolved with their lives and real lazy. That would take some planning and gumption which she doesn’t have but I do think someone in her family did. It sure did stop the court proceedings that probably would have put her in jail plus all the court costs and back CS that would have had to be paid before she got out of jail.
That’s right, Vaquera! And Crystal may not even know about it.
If it was a “friendly” kidnapping, Marie might know about it or have masterminded it. But if it was not, it could be another family member or friend/associate. So far nothing rules out something done by the bio-mom’s side (just that none of us think Crystal masterminded it! lol!)
Were Hank Sr and Lisa living with Tommy and Lindsay at the time? For some reason I don’t think so. They moved in with them when Lisa got hauled back for check forgery.
Does anyone remember for sure?
There is no mention of them living anywhere except with Tommy.
I wonder what is in the incident report that is blacked out? Was it ever revealed? jmo
I am curious about Amber Brooks. She got bailed out with NayNay but we never hear anything from her. Nay Nay tells all about the wild weekend and the fight with Misty and Amber but not what it was about. I can see her being angry, Ron left her and Jordan for Misty.
Then Misty leaves a message on her myspace saying I got your man and they even took Jordan for one night. They must not have liked the idea of taking care of a disabled baby?
And why hasnt Ron paid child support for Jordan? Did he sign off on the poor kid?
Takes nerve in my book when someone askes you about one of your kids and you say possibly
hes mine.Wow what a shame. jmo
Why was LE going to CJ’s house today,anyone know?
Tobias, Ron may not KNOW for sure that he’s the father.I’m sure he’d have to double-check with Misty if (God forbid) she got knocked up.
As I understand it there are several candidates for the father of Amber’s child. Why would Ron pay until he knew? And it can be decided by the court if Amber wanted to press the issue. Swear it’s him and demand a test to prove it. She can do that.
Also do you know what kind of disability Jordan has?
I am wondering if Kathleen Jones is his mom, she was arrested on Dec. 29 right before the Dec. 30 roadrage incident. She was arrested for battery touch and strike. Bailed out on the 30th. Maybe that was the scanner report? Just dont know for sure.
Just checked it out in the court records she is his mother. She lived in Pamona and Satsuma
at one time.jmo
Tobias, you said, “Takes nerve in my book when someone askes you about one of your kids and you say possibly hes mine.”
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What’s Ron supposed to say if he doesn’t know?
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And you said Ron and Misty took care of Jordan for one night and “They must not have liked the idea of taking care of a disabled baby?”
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How can you say such a thing? Ron does not KNOW it’s his baby and Amber may well have decided that she didn’t want Misty (or maybe Ron) to take care of the baby again. Haleigh has medical issues and Ron actively wanted custody and took care of her practically her whole life. Whether or not what I’ve suggested is true, it’s just an awful, unfounded hurtful leap to say they didn’t want to take care of a baby with a disability. It could be true but there is not one shred of even a reason to say such a thing other than to pile even more s**t on R & M.
Yep,that’s CJ’s Mom.From what I can understand,Amber’s grandmother is raising Jordan and they do not want child support.
Thank you for the info, WinterRose! That clears up a lot (about Amber etc)!
I wonder who CJ’s mother hit?
All of these theories are simply what people dream up—-there is no basis for any of them. Arguing about which theory is correct is pointless, as one theory is as good (or bad in this case) as the next.
bonanzajellybean you are absolutely 100% right. But if some folks didn’t speak up there would be only ONE theory (with a slight alternate) mentioned on this blog.
The State of Florida pays for Jordan, why wasnt Ron given a paternity test? The State of Florida will demand child support from the father to offset the money they are giving Ambers grandmother for raising him. If they find out he is the father there will be back support he will have to pay. From the time the state started paying checks until current.It would be in his best interest to find out. jmo
I think the state of Florida would need some help from Amber to go about the process of demanding DNA tests from anyone. Obviously she is not cooperating. The state can’t run around testing every guy in the county. Or are the payments related more to the baby’s disability issues? Do you know what disability it is?
Hydrocephylic. I need spell check be right back with the details.
Tobias, I’m sure that applies to several other guys too. Maybe Amber could have a DNA party and invite all the candidates! Otherwise I’m not sure that the state can require back payments from a guy who never knew he was the father especially if the mother is not officially naming him as the father. That doesn’t make sense to me.
But there is no evidence to suggest that even one of these theory is plausible. That is the frustrating part of this whole case. I keep reading, with hopes that there will be evidence presented to form some conclusions. Unfortunately, I keep reading nothing but speculation, rumors, “I think it happened this way…..” with absolutely nothing to back up why. It is very frustrating. much like the case of Jonbenet Ramsey. Her case and her family were picked to death in the public eye and by LE for years and years (I believe 14 years). Still no one arrested.
Tobias,
How do you know the state of Florida pays the grandma? Did you even know the grandma raised the
baby??
The prognosis for individuals diagnosed with hydrocephalus is difficult to predict, although there is some correlation between the specific cause of the hydrocephalus and the outcome. Prognosis is further complicated by the presence of associated disorders, the timeliness of diagnosis, and the success of treatment. The degree to which relief of CSF pressure following shunt surgery can minimize or reverse damage to the brain is not well understood. Affected individuals and their families should be aware that hydrocephalus poses risks to both cognitive and physical development. However, many children diagnosed with the disorder benefit from rehabilitation therapies and educational interventions and go on to lead normal lives with few limitations. Treatment by an interdisciplinary team of medical professionals, rehabilitation specialists, and educational experts is critical to a positive outcome. Left untreated, progressive hydrocephalus may be fatal. The symptoms of normal pressure hydrocephalus usually get worse over time if the condition is not treated, although some people may experience temporary improvements. While the success of treatment with shunts varies from person to person, some people recover almost completely after treatment and have a good quality of life. Early diagnosis and treatment improves the chance of a good recovery.
Bonanza
Better to keep the theories and info out and someone might come by with some info they know.It’s better that the rumor bs we used to have to deal with.At least people are discussing thier different opinions here.
bonanzajellybean: I agree 100 % again.
But absolutely nothing will stop some folks from speculating – it’s been this way since the beginning. And unfortunately since the beginning most of the “theories” have gone one way. Frankly sometimes that’s the only reason I chime in – is to suggest another possibility.
Because I really don’t want to see this blog become like some others we’ve seen (mostly in the past I think – I hope) that were unbelievable bashing free-for-alls insisting on only one or two people being responsible for it). So I’m grateful for the discussions because they at least open possibilities.
Shoot,typed too fast,it’s better than the rumor bs we had to deal with before.
Actually WinterRose said it better @ 6:35pm
M2c
Yep
BJB, What are we to do just keep writing Where is Haleigh all night? You arent going to get anywhere doing that. We are studying the facts and making theories that may have really happened. That is exactly what the profilers do. Why is it so wrong? jmo
Oh,I didn’t mean yep to me saying it better.LOL I had posted and it didn’t post right off.I meant yep to agreeing with you saying,this blog not becoming like the free for all as in some others.
It was reported on when Ron and Misty went to her house and sat in the parking lot. There is even a 911 from the grandma. Cobra also talked about it. jmo
I think some people have a theory they favor or maybe even are convinced of but are still able to discuss and share in a good way with others who have several (or no) theories.
As long as it’s not hurting anyone (or too bashing) it can be productive in a way and it’s a good way for us to “get together” and at the very least remember Haleigh and hope and pray and sort of “work for” her return.
AND it lets LE know we’re still on the job and they darned well better be! lol!
Tobias,
There are few facts that pertain to this case. Therein lies the frustration. I have seen cases like Jonbenet go on for years and years, with no resolution. It is not really a commentary on the bloggers with their theories, but rather on LE, who seem to be doing little to find Haleigh.
No worries, WinterRose, I knew what you meant! I thought my comment in the middle made it funny – as if I liked you wording it wrong better! lol!
Tobias, I’m lost. Sorry. Your 6:44 is referring to what? Ron and Misty in who’s parking lot and a 911 from who’s grandma about what?
tobias 3:52
My theory has facts in it. Tommy was there at around 3 to 5 Misty stated that. Tommy was there at 9 or 10 Tommy stated that to police.
The backdoor was locked when Ron left, he stated that he always checks it before leaving.
Misty says it was locked. There was no forced entery on the door. The van was moved and scratched, Chelsea,Misty and Lindsy reported that,LE took it.It was stated that Mistys family says she is a heavy sleeper ,Tommy knew it, Lindsy states that she would fall asleep watching their kids. These are known facts that I used in my theory.
That is so true, bonanzajellybean. Probably half or 3/4 of the info we’re working from is rumor. LE has released just about nothing and I don’t know how they could expect us to blindly believe they have much more than that themselves. Maybe they do. But until they find Haleigh I’d like to keep nudging them and also join others in keeping the options open.
I really don’t like lynchings – even “on-line” lynchings.
It is a huge leap to the conclusion.
Tobias, I and others can take those same “facts” (some of which are still questionable) and come up with totally different theories and possibilities.
Yours is one way of putting together and interpreting those “facts.”
Someone asked me how I knew Ambers grandma was raising Jordan and how I knew he had a disability and how i knew he was getting State money. Its because I have followed this case very carefully. There was a 911 call from the grandmother that ron and misty were in the parking lot and cobra talked alot about it on the show. And a reporter asked Ron if he had any other kids and he said quote possibly.
It was stated that he lived with Amber until Oct. and Misty babysat all the kids even Jordan. Then Amber and Ron had a falling out and Misty moved in. jmo
Tobias, the problem is when someone is completely convinced of a theory and then tries to shoehorn in every other “fact” or event or statement so that it supports that theory.
You have chosen to believe one thing Misty said and then called her a liar other times so that your theory will still be valid or supported. Or because it doesn’t fit your theory.
I’m not criticizing you. Just trying to point out how things happen sometimes.
i agree if ronald came and took jordon for the night, he must beleive that child is his. i suppose, mary could be lying about that. i thought mary said ronald is on the birth certificate?
jbob, mary spoke to art harris. there were statements on art harris about the child getting state help, i thought due to small head or brain. mary said something about how the baby was normal to her, but the state was helping due to diagnosis??? it sounded like mary was a blessing in this child’s life, she really loves him.
I do not believe my theory is the only possibility and I have never attacked anyones theory, Why do you think mine has no possibilty of being right? jmo
Tobias @ 7:05 pm – That’s fine. But you take that info and speculate about it’s meaning without really knowing.
And if Amber and her mother do not want to claim Ron as the father, that’s on them.
And fine if Misty baby sat all the kids and then Amber and Ron broke up. Nothing about that justifies saying that Ron and Misty don’t want to help a child with a disability.
It’s the huge leaps and amazing interpretations of one small piece of information to a conclusion that just doesn’t have any real foundation.
It just puts Ron on the same level as Crystal in the not supporting your child. That is if Jordan is his, why hasnt he found out? Does he even care? JMO
Tobias, I am really glad to hear that you don’t think yours is the only possibility. I did not know that.
And I do not think that your theory has no possibility of being right. It could be. But I have never ever seen you NOT take the opportunity to blame something on Ron or Misty. They always have to be in the wrong.
And I’ve never seen you comment in any other way than whatever supports your theory.
Ms. P – I think the state support may be for the child’s disability and not typical child support payments. If Ron’s name was on the birth certificate and IF Amber was getting child support from the state then I’m sure the state would be after Ron to make the payments.
States are getting much more aggressive about going after the fathers but the state has to know who the father is and the mother has to be getting child support (not disability) from the state before anything like that will happen.
m2c, Do you have a theory ?
sorry everyone i keep getting kicked off tonight. one of many reasons i get behind. i just wanted to say one other comment.
looking for justice said,in January 6th, 2010 at 9:53 am
one thing i would like to add to your post if i may, the walls removed in the bathroom by the water heater may not have just been removed to see if haleigh was hiding in there???
“… I just pray that it is that they hid Haleigh and not the theory of being over medicated. In either scenario I pray they get the maximum sentence they deserve….”
just would like to say i am praying that too.
Tobias, please see my 7:20 in regard to your 7:18. It’s a perfect example.
We do not know that Amber OR her mother want Ron involved at all. They may not know who the father is. I don’t see why you expect him and every other guy Amber had sex with around that time to line up for DNA tests whether Amber wants them to or not. But gosh it’s another chance to bash Ron so go for it.
Here’s a theory:
Has the AC guy ever been ID’d? Maybe CJ’s the A/C guy?
Just my brain going in circles again. Just throwing them out as they come. It would explain a lot of the antics going on.
Tobias, I am convinced you don’t read my posts. That’s okay.
I’ve said dozens of times that I have no theory – I have a dozen of them.
As I said a little while ago we can all take the basic info we have (a lot of which is still questionable) and develop a bunch of different theories from it. There is virtually nothing to rule out most of them.
I am trying to keep an open mind because so far – as bonanzajellybean pointed out – there is not enough factual information for us to go on.
mariesilk @ 7:27 – Yes LE ID’d him and interviewed him but I don’t remember who he was.
If I had a child I would want to be a part of his life disability or not. And I sure would find out if I were the father. Why is it wrong for Crystal and not wrong for Ron? I am not bashing anyone just saying fair is fair. You cant blame one and not the other.jmo
Maybe Amber and her mother do not want Ron involved. Why should he force his way into a situation where he’s not wanted?
And I do not see the comparison with Crystal here.
And I am sure that you are a much better parent than most in Putnam County. I, too, have found that a lot of people in this world don’t do what I think they ought to do but then I’m reminded that I am not them and I am not walking in their shoes and I try not to judge too harshly because of that.
The theory of crystal and her family taking Haliegh could be right, but with Crystal being on drugs even when she went after Junior with Kim P. The theory that she would gain custody of both if Haleigh was found would not have worked.She was on drugs. And the grandparents would not be able to get custody either. Why would they have taken Haliegh? They cant get custody unless both parents are found unfit and then they would have to fight Teresa. Also what kind of Grandparent would put her through that. jmo
I believe we hold on to that theory because that is possibly the only theory that she is alive. And I would like that to be right, I just have my doubts. sorry jmo
Tobias, thanks for the info on Ron’s dad. Also, I read somewhere that Ronald made an appointment for a DNA test and Amber never showed up. She doesn’t want him named as the father.
What a bunch of sorry losers they are!
Tobias, please understand that I know you have every right to your theory and thoughts and opinions. But when yours and some others are always negative interpretations or assumptions or conclusions that blame Ron and/or Misty I sometimes feel I have to speak up in order to point out that there are other possible interpretations. That’s all I’m trying to do.
well why did ron go and take the child for a night? it was on art harris that mary said that r.c. came and got the baby for one night and then suddenly returned him the next day. and that mary (a.b.’s grndma) let r.c. take the baby. why would she let anyone come and take the boy. i was surmising mary thinks r.c. is the father as well as r.c. mary is amber’s grndma, not mother.
i was thinking if someone threatens to take your child from you and you are not participating fully in your own child’s life, this could really scare a mom if she does not want to lose him altogether. she could be judged a “bad mom” by the courts, or just that the father is a better parent by the courts. and r.c. already has a history of winning full custody of his children. so if it is true misty was threatening amber and ron then went and took the child???? maybe amber really felt threatened. could this either mean something directly abt h.c. being missing or could it even mean this is how r & m deal with people and others may feel threatened or angry enough with either r or m to retaliate against them in some way. this is all just thoughts – of course.
Pirate, They would not need the Mother to do a DNA test. The baby has both DNA the fathers and the mothers. Jordans DNA would either match or not to Ronalds.
Tobias, relatives including grandparents put children thru H*** all the time because of their own selfish reasons or they believe it’s in the best interest of the child.
Crystal’s family could have taken Haleigh to live elsewhere hoping to get the custody payments stopped and to make Ron look like a bad father. And no one knew about Crystals drug taking until KP found out so maybe Crystal would have gotten Jr if KP had cooperated. That’s the first thing the bio-mom’s side tried to do was gain custody of Jr and that is a fact.
I have to go for now but I do wish you a good evening, Tobias. Sorry I’m so contrary but like I said I’m just trying to add some other possibilities into situations to get some balance and fairness.
oops yes m2c♥, yes i think it is disability. i thought she also got support. so mary is not getting child support from anyone to take care of the boy? it must be tough. i hope things are different now.
MC2 i would still like to hear your theory. All you seem to do on here is intervine. You claim we are always bashing someone but you are always sticking up for everyone involved. If they were all perfect then Haleigh would be home where she belongs and we would not be here. If we all sit here and dont say what we think nothing will come from it.jmo
Mc2, opps I think you just bashed the grandparents. jmo
MADJGNLAW I truly believe you are thinking in the right direction
ALSO m2c My theory does not blame Misty of any wrong doing, just covering up the wrong doing.
In my theory Ron is not even involved.jmo
ms.peridot19 said,in January 6th, 2010 at 7:54 pm
well why did ron go and take the child for a night? it was on art harris that mary said that r.c. came and got the baby for one night and then suddenly returned him the next day. and that mary (a.b.’s grndma) let r.c. take the baby. why would she let anyone come and take the boy. i was surmising mary thinks r.c. is the father as well as r.c. mary is amber’s grndma, not mother.
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I don’t believe much of anything on Art Harris’s site. Wasn’t he paid by KP to make CS look ‘good’. Apparently the easiest way to do that was to make RC look bad. He also reported, IIRC, that RC sent Jr to the door to see if baby J could come outside. GMAB.
Art Harris was paid by Cobra to do the videos and interveiw with cobra. He also has been fair to the Croslins and let Chelsea have her say on past events involving Tommy,Misty and their dad. jmo
Art Harris is mostly on Nancy Grace and we all know what she thinks of Crystal. jmo
And after Hank was arrested for doctor shopping I dont believe Art has reported on anything himself just passed on other info. jmo
stg said,in January 6th, 2010 at 8:11 pm
hello stg, i don’t have a clue when people are telling the truth in this case. this is where i read about the junior part.
the following is part of an interview on a.h. site ———–
In an interview Wednesday, Brooks told me her youngest daughter, Renee, 25, had come rushing into her house and said, “Mom, Ronald (Cummings) is riding around in his car, in parking lot,’ And I said, ‘You gotta be kidding me!’” But it wasn’t until an hour later, after a thin black man she didn’t recognize knocked on her door that she called police, fearing he might be scouting for Ronald.
Tipped to the incident Sunday night by William Staubs, a tireless bounty hunter and private eye nicknamed “Cobra” who is working pro bono on the Haleigh Cummings mystery, I called police, then a source who said he’d earlier told Cobra he’d heard over a police scanner that Cummings’ son, Junior, had knocked on the grandmother’s door, asking to see his brother. The source is a local preacher who monitors police radio traffic and has been reliable in the past.
Only the Junior incident never happened, I can now report. It’s not on the police audio tape I obtained, and, while authorities are checking the radio traffic, Mary Brooks tells me, in an exclusive interview Wednesday, she never saw Junior. (***************************)
“I wish I had seen him, I miss that little rascal,” said Amber’s grandmother, Mary recalls putting out crayons and coloring books for Haleigh and her little brother, Junior. Amber and Ronald would bring them to visit, she said, when Amber was pregnant with Jordan and living with Cummings. “She watched Haleigh and Junior all the time.”
http://www.artharris.com/2009/04/22/exclusive-bolo-for-haleigh-cummings-dad/
To be truthful no one else but TJ Hart is still on this case, unless its breaking news and then its just news paper reporters. Not national news people like before. We on this site have the most activity that I know of. Does anyone else know of a more active site online? jmo
In our interview, Mary Brooks told me that she’s has the birth certificate that names Cummings as the biological father, and has been caring for the baby for several months after Amber tumbled into an abyss of drugs and partying.
same interview
http://www.artharris.com/2009/04/22/exclusive-bolo-for-haleigh-cummings-dad/
tobias, i hope i am attributing the right question to the right person. i believe you asked what misty and amber were fighting about the infamous party weekend. that is also mentioned in the above art harris article.
…”Witnesses tell me Misty and Amber nearly came to blows at a party that weekend, with Amber smarting that Misty had not only stolen her ex, but concerned she was threatening to take her son, Jordan. “…
same art harris article
Exclusive: BOLO For Haleigh Cummings’ Dad?
i guess i was/am trusting that mary is telling the truth and art reported this correctly. but, i realize we have to question everything!
“…When Amber left the baby with her grandmother when Jordan was three or four months old, Mary Brooks says she got a call from Ronald. “He said, ‘I want to see the baby. So he came over and took the baby. The next day he was back at my house with Jordan and all his things.” She says that was his father’s last visit… ”
“…She was also worried when a man knocked on her door Sunday night, an hour after Cummings did his drive by. Mary Brooks says she told police she feared he was sent by Ronald to take Jordan, who she adores and draws a small government check for his disability…”
it stuck in my head, she sounds like a wonderful grandmother to amber and to the boy.
some grandmas really are grandma angels!
OK, I give up. I can’t seem to find anywhere that the A/C guy was identified by anybody.
Does anyone know where I can find the ID of the A/C guy?
Also, does anyone know when Haleigh got off the bus?
Sorry mariesilk, All I know is LE cleared him and I think Misty said at one point he was somehow related to Ron an ex of someone Ron was related to. Thats why she gave him the phone to talk to Ron.jmo
Some people on here say we bash Ron and Misty.
They should see some of the other sites like Satsuma topix wow theres constant bashing to the extreme. Maybe they should post on there and straighten them folks out lol
4Pirate is right on the money. I’ve also heard that Ronald accepted the baby as his while the mother was out running around.He got the money together for the test, they had an appointment, he went and he waited and waited for her to show up with the baby. Finally she called two hours or so later and said the baby wasn’t his.
Maybe Amber can finally see Ron for what he is and knows that the boy is probably better off without Ron as a dad. Not a great role model, right now at least.
mariesilk said,in January 6th, 2010 at 8:52 pm
i don’t have a link for you. i just remember the “le” statement that he had allibi. i believe they deliberately did not release his name due to a solid allibi maybe with witnesses? of his whereabouts at the time haleigh went missing.
here is a statemnt on amw site
Merchant confirmed that and air conditioning repairman did visit the home at 5 p.m. on Feb. 9, 2009, the day before Haleigh’s disappearance, but police are confident he was not involved.
http://www.amw.com/missing_children/case.cfm?id=63252
This is still the most fair site to post on.
I hope it stays that way for Haleighs sake.
Other sites have very little activity because of the fighting, no one wants to argue with the
other posters they want to help solve this and find out what happened to Haleigh.And if we go away then what? Does it all stop? Does LE feel any pressure to solve this case or do they file it away as cold because no one cares?
Will any news get posted if we arent here to read and comment on it? jmo
Good night everyone dont forget to pray for Haleigh and for Junior too.
Tobias, Amber would have to give her premission for a DNA test.
You asked for another site, try:
Websleuths.com
thank you thunderbunny,
ThunderBunny said,in January 6th, 2010 at 9:04 pm
so maybe r.c. was put on the b.c. believing the boy his. probably after he went and took jordan for the night he went and tried to take a test. and then amber said the boy is not yours. either because r.c. is really not the boys father or a.b. wanted r.c.’s out of her son’s life and didn’t want him coming and taking the boy anymore.
so that makes sense about what tn said.
Tobias @ 9:04 pm -
I have seen sites like that and I’m glad that this one has not turned into the same.
But it’s not to be taken for granted. Just the other day some people were called “excuse-finders” for offering alternate explanations for things that were being blamed on Misty and/or Ron. So opinions OTHER than ones against R&M are not always welcomed here.
I really really appreciate your understanding about this, Tobias. I really do. I know you don’t see things the same way I do but we’re individuals and that’s to be expected. And I really am not trying to rain on your parade or shut you up or anything – just trying to be able to discuss different points of view on things.
MarieSilk, I’m not surprised you’re having trouble finding out about that AC guy. Not much was said at the time and he kind of disappeared off the radar real fast. If I can remember when or where I read about it I’ll look for it.
I thought Art Harris was initially involved as a public relations kind of person helping KP and Crystal (as well as taping for Cobra). So I can’t trust anything he said in his early articles.
I guess I spoke to soon, Tobias (re my 9:19 pm post). I just saw your 8:03 and 8:04 posts.
I’m sorry I can’t seem to make myself clear to you. Maybe we’ll try another day and I can try to explain better.
I’m also shocked to hear that you don’t hold Misty or Ron responsible in your theory. All I’ve ever heard you say about them are bad things! lol! But I guess one can have a different theory but still despise them or find fault with everything regarding them? Is that it?
m2c♥,
of course people should take that into consideration. i don’t really see this article as c.s. p.r. but maybe it is. i thought it was made due to a police call becoming public. i too am questioning everything. i am INCLINED to believe mary, because of why she called the police. it sounded like the truth when she said r.c. came and took the boy for the night. but, i have never met anyone involved here, so i am only interpreting the best i can from what i am reading. not saying anyone else should think the same. just my were my thoughts. good night everyone. praying for haleigh.
Ms. P – I can’t believe it but I found something on the AC guy. It’s from another blog but it quotes Jane Valez Mitchell:
http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=80468
Sorry, my post above about the AC guy should have been addressed to MarieSilk! Apologies!
Obviously I’m too tired to “blog safely” so I’ll say “Night all! And prayers for Haleigh.”
|-)|-) |-) me too!
i must be even more tired, i thought you did? :^)
good night!
I just can’t get past the background of the 9-1-1 tape the night Haleigh went missing. Why would Ron be helping cover-up, even then? I believe he knows what happened, and he is still helping Misty cover-up. Remember how he let Misty know that the woman from Equisearch was working undercover trying to get information from her about Haleigh. Was he that crazy about Misty or would whatever happened to Haleigh get him into some kind of trouble with the law?
He was saying, “Why did you let my child get stole, B—–?” I have wondered if someone was threatening to take her to get even with him about something. He has a reason to keep this quiet, I believe. I believe Misty has a reason, also. Maybe this new info the police have will tell us something.
4Pirate said,
in January 6th, 2010 at 7:50 pm
Tobias, thanks for the info on Ron’s dad. Also, I read somewhere that Ronald made an appointment for a DNA test and Amber never showed up. She doesn’t want him named as the father.
What a bunch of sorry losers they are!
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That’s exactly what happened. Amber didn’t show up for the scheduled DNA test, that tells me all I need to know.
m2c♥ said,
in January 6th, 2010 at 9:22 pm
MarieSilk, I’m not surprised you’re having trouble finding out about that AC guy. Not much was said at the time and he kind of disappeared off the radar real fast. If I can remember when or where I read about it I’ll look for it.
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He lives in the area and works for Arctic air and he does the maintenance on all the Bard’s properties. The police have cleared him.
Tobias said,
in January 6th, 2010 at 7:56 pm
Pirate, They would not need the Mother to do a DNA test. The baby has both DNA the fathers and the mothers. Jordans DNA would either match or not to Ronalds.
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No you don’t but you need the mother to bring the baby to take the test.
Tobias said,in January 6th, 2010 at 8:30 pm
“To be truthful no one else but TJ Hart is still on this case, unless its breaking news and then its just news paper reporters. Not national news people like before. We on this site have the most activity that I know of. Does anyone else know of a more active site online? jmo”
Websleuths (not a great idea, they’re watchingtheir Ps & Qs now, but still can be a bad forum), Scared Monkey’s (Alot of debating, some argueing-some posters are all over the web), and a few others. I’ll lelt you know if I find a good one.
The court will order the DNA test from AMber, whether she likes it or not IF they kee recieving assistance from the State of FL, whther that is SSI, Disability, or other assistace programs. He is recieving Medicaid, so he & she will have to be tested. The state will not wait forever. They are usually so back-logged that it takes until the child is approx 2 before the DNA is ordered. Even if Amber mised or skipped the aappointment, she will eventually have to give a sample. It’s not like her family can support a special needs child with all his medical exspenses by themselves. It’s all a waiting game. Once DNA is done and paternity is established Ron immediately has 1/2 rights to the child. Until a judge orders whom the primary custodial parent is, either one could refuse to give the child back and there is nothing the mother or father can do about it. But only after the DNA is proven. So, if I were Amber, I would be afraid of the DNA test too just based on those grounds alone. You can argue that I’m worng, you don’t have to believe me. However, I do live in FL and I have just been a witness to such an instance with my own grand daughter. Believe it if you want, or not.
m2c:
Were you referring to me then when you say ‘I guess I can’t make it clear to you’?
I am only trying to think beyond the same theories we already have. Three months ago I was looking for answers about the supposed staged search by Marie and felt convinced that Haleigh was being held in a wilderness cabin along the river, either family or otherwise. My theory above may or may not have included R & M, and so what. Its just a theory. I don’t know why you get so upset all the time, its not your job to police the forum. Just relax, we are all on the same side.
And by the way, I too think for the most part that this is an open place to blog. Despite a few, and of course the occasional troll, it is a good meeting place.
I do hate when everyone gets on the train of ‘theories mean nothing’ or ‘its about Haleigh’. We come together here to discuss aspects of the case, we may not all agree on everything, but it gets the thoughts flowing which is good. And its ALL for Haleigh.
Lets keep thinking and working through the same old things. You never know when that little overlooked detail can pop out at us, or where it may come from.
Umm….yeah, m2c so you weren’t talking to me, but I still say you could relax on all of us a bit. I feel most people are quite fair, just not in agreement.
I now see I am blogging past my bedtime and going off over nothing.
Goodnight all, God bring peace to Haleigh and watch over her soul and all the souls of the missing and lost.
File Date: 2009-12-30 Judge: PETER T MILLER
Defense Atty:
Defendant
JONES, KATHLEEN CARMEN
Alias
JONES, CATHLEEN
Date # Docket Description
2009-12-30 1 ARREST REPORT – PCSO/ TAYLOR (ARREST 12-29-09)
2009-12-30 1 BOOKING NUMBER: 09-05277
2009-12-30 1 BATTERY / MATTHEW MULLINS
2009-12-30 2 DEFENDANT PRESENT FOR FIRST APPEARANCE HRG 12-30-09
2009-12-30 2 ADJ INS P D APPOINTED AT FIRST APPEARANCE HEARING
2009-12-30 2 SUFFICIENT PROBABLE CAUSE FOUND
2009-12-30 2 $1004.00 SECURED BOND SET
2009-12-30 2 NO CONTACT WITH VICTIM
2009-12-30 3 AFFIDAVIT FOR CRIMINAL INDIGENT STATUS
2009-12-30 4 ORDER APPOINTING PUBLIC DEFENDER AT FIRST APP HEARING
2009-12-30 5 $1004.00 A-1 24HR CITY BEST BAIL BOND#2246345 12-30-09
IMO opinion Ronald has nothing to do with his daughters disappearance. These people are highly vulnerable and suspicious of everyone rightfully so. In that despair and all the media manipulation things can and do get said that are not necessarily meant. Some one said people use situations like this for there agenda its knowing whether or not that agenda works for you. The lie detector guy his testing was done when the media was full tilt blaming Misty with that taking place from a business perspective how well do you think his business would of faired had his results came up different? He had recently purchased a voice stress test machine worth a lot of money and was marketing it as his businesses latest greatest thing, he gives lie detectors and stress test and then diminishes his own lie detector accuracy saying it’s 50/50 right but boast the voice stress test.IMO that was his agenda all along finding the truth at what ever cost and be it who ever was not his agenda. When the Police had Tommy and he was giving his re-call why not take his wife in and not tell her what he said and question her? 7 Months of lying is grounds and they had both been questioned before that and denighed any knowledge. Setting the bond that high, the media frenzy for him to talk, and not using it from every angle set the stage and the situation to play out only one way, not to find the truth at any cost no matter who it is but to get a statement against Misty that was their agenda. When someone comes along that is strong enough to get back to making their agenda all about finding the truth no matter who it reveals what mistakes have been made and what sources mislead things for agendas that is when the truth will be found. JMO
God Bless Haleigh and all her families
DustyRose your 2:10am post is spot on for me. Rightfully, these players, especially the immediate family has every right to be suspect and suspicious of any and all people. On the radar for them, is family, friends, media, LE, internet posters, attorneys, strangers, you name it. I would be if it was my daughter missing and I did not have information on her where abouts, and LE was up front and working with me in the lest. We know this to be the truth where Ron, his family and Misty are concerned. The agenda witch hunt against Misty has been criminal. Should be stopped. They have tried for a year to blame this young girl to no satisfaction. I think egos, wrong doing and insubordination holds them in their current places of not venturing out and solving this case.
LE refuses to look at the other side of the family. I believe LE refuses to look at anyone, especially Registered sex offenders also, which is ludicrous. They cleared the a/c man, rso’s, and everyone within the first few hours. THere’s no way possible they could have checked/double checked and confirmed this many alibis within this short time span. No way. They would have to have an allegiance of investigators the size of the United States Army to achieve this goal so quickly and do an accurate thorough job error free. Then onto re-checking and follow ups. Re-interviewing suspects and the circle of family and friends surrounding the potential most likely suspects to see if they’ve been talking, showing signs of guilt, made mistakes etc…
LE doeth protest too much concerning Misty. If Misty is guilty, there’s no way she acted alone. She didn’t have a car to dispose of Haleigh and remove her from the home. Why is LE no closer to solving and naming suspects? I think they do know what’s happened to her and why they won’t move this case forward leaves one with reasonable thinking and experience to guess the reasons why. The same ole same ole hidden undercover reasons that’s always surrounded crimes and people. Money, greed, corruption, egos, bitter hate in families, custody battles, drugs, coverups, etc….
Guys and Dolls, these posts were great, made great reading. Hats off to everyone of you. Even those that don’t hold my thoughts alike, I still enjoyed your caring posts that were made respectfully. There’s not many places to gather as others have mentioned, that isn’t a bash/kill/ destroy Ron and Misty agendas sites.
We are either closer than we think, with all that has unfolded since day one on the clicker clock upon Haleigh’s disappearance, and all these incidents and information we’ve learned will lead to a resolve in this case. Unless it is a stranger abduction. Then all these incidents, family battles and fights, past drug and behaviors, all the posts, etc… are irrelevant. A stranger could have removed Haleigh from the home. If so, I’m afraid we may never know as too many mistakes were made in the forensic gathering of evidence, and not proper management of LE agencies by someone with experience and the authority to do a stellar job for this child.
Question: Dawned on me from reading. We know Misty’s Mom Lisa is named “Lisa Carmen Croslin”. We have CJ’s Mom “Kathleen Carmen Jones”. Many women upon marrying drop their middle given birth names and replace it with their maiden names and add the new married last name as their new legal names. Are Lisa Carmen Croslin and Kathleen Carmen Jones related, like sisters or cousins? Carmen surely is an unusual name, though not unheard of. Just odd enough for me to question and then we have it within the same group of people, coincidence? Could be, just really odd for me as I think about it. Need to compare the pics of Lisa and Kathleen to see if theres any family resemblance, though we know Lisa, don’t know about Kathleen, but probably likely, has past drug use making her appearance drug noticeable.
Now that we have time and the presence to ponder on, I have come to the conclusion that Art Harris/ his site/ appearances and information can’t be 100 percent trusted, nor accurate. Though there is good information to behold, we now have learned enough that he’s reported we need to also call into question. Ex: the Ron and Stripper dating rumor, we’ve now learned it was a lie like so many others. So not only was he hired to make Crystal look good, (I have no problem with that, had he made it known up front), it was his right to be paid and take the money. But he also slung mud, and done damage to Haleigh’s case and family with his intrusive interference misleading many, including internet posters who reacted in ways that was wrong, and some incidences should be criminal and held into account by the Law. For the Law is suppose to: “Protect and to Serve”. And Haleigh’s family was harmed and put at risk by some of these acts committed by these people.
We need laws against these types of internet actions. It’s wrong. We should all post responsibly, use anonymous when necessary, but not to do bad deeds. But if we’re going to interject ourselves into the lives of others, we ought to speak up and use our own names if we believe so much that we must intervene and do/cause others to take note or move on behalf of what we post/request and attest to be the truth.
Haleigh’s family needs to start healing, get themselves together, get focused, work together being United, and get a plan to confront LE and put their minds together for the best interests of Haleigh and Jr. Make a United front, with LE making needed communications with the public, as the public can be of a great help in bringing resolution to this case. LE needs to clear matters up concerning this family one way or the other. They can either clear them, or professionally speak on behalf of their investigation to put the public at ease and assure them matters are being handled correctly. To put some balance and authority in this case leaving everyone involved along with the public with a perception of good feelings knowing this case is on target.
Good Morning, MarieSilk, my 9:34 was NOT directed to you.
I suppose in addition to putting the name of who a comment is addressed to I will now have to add the names of those to whom it is not addressed? (No! lol!)
MarieSilk, But my 9:51 was intended for you and I goofed and put Ms P’s name on it. It’s about the AC guy but Vaquera’s info at 1:31am is better.
And I agree with your 1:28 completely (except the first question that no my post was not intended for you)
I have theories that involve R&M too. I’m not trying to defend them or portray them as perfect, innocent people. But when the flow of comments has been 100% against one or both of them, sometimes it’s just too much and I want to say “There is another way to interpret that (comment or event or whatever) that does NOT put them in the wrong).” It’s just pointing out another way to interpret the same event.
I’m not trying to shut down debate – actually open it up.
Mariesilk, Teresa Neves stated that Haleigh got off the bus at 3:30PM.
Ms P. You are correct. The grandmother of Jordan did say that Ron is on Jordans birth certificate and that she receives a state check due to the diagnosis. The granmother has guardianship over the child. I believe Ron knows he is the father of Jordan. What I do not understand is why Ron and Amber are not held accountable to pay child support to the grandmother for Jordan. Like I said before GGSykes and Teresa Neves are the main caregivers for Haleigh and Jr.; not Ron. He may love his kids and have worked, but that is it. These grandmothers took care af their needs and Haleighs turner syndrome appointments. They may could not of taken on another child with this diagnosis. It would have been primarily on Ron. Perhaps that is why he took him back to his grandmother.
I had a thought while I was at work this morning. Its about the road rage incident.
Misty was called and harassed by CJ so we can assume they have each others phone numbers.
Why didnt she try to call him and tell him to stop that there were kids in the truck and so was she? I just wondered why she didnt try that first and then tell him if he didnt stop she was going to call 911. jmo
Holly gma, Have you ever researched blood hounds and how long they can pick up scent marking? I was just curious how long a scent can stay and still be picked up and I may have to check the weather again to see if it rained on the 8th or 9th. Its something to look at for reference on the trail passing 116 tyler.jmo
Call in the dog team quickly. Bloodhounds have followed trails several days old, but the best chance of finding the person is in hours, not days.
I found this reference on line for training blood hound to be certified. The evidence of a bloodhound following a trail can be used in court as evidence.
Evidence of a search by a Bloodhound is usually admissible in a court case, but the testimony will not convince judge and jury unless the handler has done certain things to properly prepare. The same preparations are needed if the team is to be valued enough to get called out for such situations as lost people.Scent is known as “the forgotten evidence” because it is invisible, it is deposited at most crime scenes, it is not collected and it is underutilized. By collecting scent from the crime scene and utilizing a trained Bloodhound, an investigator can retrace the path a suspect or victim walked. This type of Bloodhound utilization has resulted in locating witnesses, evidence, and suspects.
This could also be why Misty was believed to have left the MH. Were the hounds scenting her trail also? And if they were she walked the same route to the end of the road to Buffalo Road.
Its just something to think about. jmo
I feel they were also trailing Mistys scent because they asked her if she ever walked anywhere with Haleigh and she said to her family sometimes. jmo
Kool, Lisa and Kathleen are not kin. She’s Kathleen Engelberger or something like that.
Also the blood hounds never went to the dumpster did they? If she was there they would have picked up a scent trail leading to it.
Cadaver dogs only pick up a scent of death not a certain persons scent so it could have been that something else was once in the dumpster that had death scent on it. jmo
Sad to see, once again, that folks are interjecting their personal “feelings” about how other people may or may not post.
I agree that this is a great place to toss around thoughts and ideas regarding this case.
I think that Simon and Jan are wonderful people to allow a bunch of us nobodies to post here about this case.
There are several places that are the same including Art Harris, Scared Monkey’s etc… What I dislike is when some of us folks decide to try to manipulate and insult by telling people how to post or how not to post. We are all adults here. If someone says something that could seem as if they are focused on one person or another then fine.
SOMEONE DID SOMETHING TO THIS CHILD.
We do not know who yet.
I’ll tell you what, if this were my Child, and I guarandangtee you that I would be innocent, I could care less if people were looking at me because it all boils down to FACTS and PROOF in this or any case for that matter. I would not be upset because I would care only that my Child be found and at least then I would know that people were actually looking and doing everything they possibly could even if that meant examining my dang bowel movements. I’m so not kidding!
How many cases go quiet?
Look at the case of Adji Desir. No way has that little boys case gotten as much attention as has this one! There are many other cases out there that get even less than that!
I have looked at as many possibilities and possible suspects regarding this case as I possibly could given the information that we are privy too. I have looked in all directions Crystal Her Father, Her Mother, Ron. Misty, Tommy, WBG, Nay Nay this list goes on and even if I do tend to lean in any one of those directions as long as I am not trying to convict anyone via the interwub then what business is it of anyone elses? I am not here to intentionally start any trouble with other posters but too what I have to add to the conversation is my responsibility, not yours, they are my thoughts and ideas, not yours, and Simon and Jan can block me or any one of us at any time if they believed that we were.
Freedom of speech has it’s limitations on most boards. We are all liable and accountable for our own contributions and I believe that most of us are well aware of that fact.
All that I am saying is, Please do not insult me or other bloggers. Bottom line, It is my chosen opinion that we are all wanting the same outcome and that is for this little girl, Haleigh Cummings, to be found.
(Just trying to stay focused here.)
bbl.
Where is Haleigh??????
Very well put Tuff.jmo
That is why I am afraid when people start calling others out for bashing. If they feel offended and quit posting then what? There will be no one here debating and questioning what happened and by who. jmo
I have also noted that some people leave when others are posting because they feel they are going to get picked on.jmo
Vaquara is correct-no relation of L. Croslin and K. Jones. Lisa’s maiden name is Hollers.
Thank you find Haleigh I have been trying to find her maiden name for awhile too. I knew Mistys grandma was called that but I wasnt sure if it was Lisas name too.
Great post Tuff Stuff-I agree!
If you don’t like what someone states in their post just be an adult and ignore it and move on.
Anymore I just skip some posts-I get tired of reading someone telling everyone else how to post.
Too bad this board doesn’t have an ignore feature-I would use it.
winter, TJ just tweeted this, so I guess that’s why LE was at CJ’s
THESKY973DOTCOM
PCSO questions Charles Jones Wednesday…SOURCE: was questioned on many things, but no smoking gun in Haleigh case
Tobias said,
in January 7th, 2010 at 11:28 am
Holly gma, Have you ever researched blood hounds and how long they can pick up scent marking? I was just curious how long a scent can stay and still be picked up and I may have to check the weather again to see if it rained on the 8th or 9th. Its something to look at for reference on the trail passing 116 tyler.jmo
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I did not long ago and believe it or not your scent can last a year. I will see if I can find the article again.
I wonder why CJ hasnt called Levi to tell his side of what went on in the road rage?jmo
Really? Dogs can track your scent for up to a year? That’s amazing.
Me, too, Tobias, or Ron for that matter. Why is Misty always the one in front of the mike or the camera?
As far as the poster who said it was ridiculous that LE cleared all the RSOs in the area so quickly (or something to that effect) I totally agree, and it always makes me think about poor little Jessica Lunsford, help was so close.
And in all fairness, we need to remember that Chad Reynolds is still missing and he had ties to the area and knew the National forest well down there, I know its a long shot and he’s probably dead, but still, I firmly believe he still needs to be keep at least in the picture somewhat.
Everything still needs to be considered, IMO, because we have no real information, none whatsoever. Other than the fact that the child is gone.
Has no one questioned Jr more about the events of that night to see what he remembers, if anything? Is that the ace card LE is holding, the one that makes them think Misty holds the key? I mean, the child is certainly old enough to recount some story of the events of that night, whether Misty took them out of the house, where did they go, what did they do, whodid they see, etc. KWIM? And people trained to question small children could certainly do it without scaring him.
If I understand the recent critics, I’m sorry to see that suggesting some measure of fairness or reason in the face of literally hundreds of posts, day after day, week after week (by only a few) consistently voicing 100% constant condemnation, baseless (and unrelated to the case) accusations and character assassination is offensive to some.
Somehow I think that’s backwards.
It’s also sad to see that few if any have recognized the backlash when someone dares to suggest another possibity to those types of posters.
IMO those are the kinds of posts that scare people off and that turn blogs into ones like Hobbits and others that only allow a certain point of view.
I seriously doubt that most posters and readers agree with that. Perhaps the more outspoken do and, of course, the ones who agree with those posters.
I simply do not understand why it’s okay for (for example) for someone to blame Misty for absolutely everything but the person who suggests that maybe one time it was not her fault is run off the blog. That’s the essence of the problem – and what started the recent discussion which has been totally misconstrued – as usual.
“Free speech” and being entitled to one’s opinion is great, isn’t it? But apparently only to some, I guess.
I’m not really seeing a huge backlash here m2c. I believe that the posters her are doing a fair job of posting their thoughts and considerations. My goodness, at what point do we just give up posting at all because some are possibly protesting to much? Or is that the point?
Help me out here because these egg shells are apparently getting rather thin and for the life of me I just do not understand why.
m2c did I post something to offend you? That was not my intent and I apologize if I did.
M2c EVERYTIME YOU POST IT HAS BEEN TO BASH ONE OF THE OTHER POSTERS WHY IS THAT HELPFUL?
DRAMAQUEEN, I always go to see if Chad R eynolds has been caught yet. I still have some small thought on him too. But more than likely since he has not turned up he is more than likely met with a bad end.jmo
I believe that because he would need money if he just took off and he didnt pick up his check from his job at the steak house where he worked. jmo
I agree about Chad R.
I hope that LE can solve that case soon as well.
It would sure take the lingering ? out of the picture in Haleigh’s case.
Sure would put me at ease if he was found and questioned. If he is out there what is he up to? jmo
Vaquera said,in January 7th, 2010 at 12:35 pm
What was on the twitter I couldnt find it.
What did they question him about? jmo
Also when does Snodgrass go to court? Hope they take him off the streets too. jmo
The Snodgrass case seems odd doesn’t it? Not sure why it is taking so long for that case to go to trial. I only know tidbits about it but if everything we have been told is true then the man needs to be in prison for a very long time.
I don’t know where some of this stuff comes from.
Tommy’s House: There has never been any comment that Haleigh and Junior were at Tommy’s on February 9th, in the afternoon after school!!! They were not there!!.
Laundry: Truth be known, Misty does not like doing laundry, and failed to keep the laundry up. Grandma Sykes, did laundry and brought it over to the house, giving the kids clean clothing to wear.
Weekend Prior: I also believed that Crystal had back to back weekends, and was told no, that Ron did have the kids the weekend prior to Haleigh gone missing.. With lots of phone calls from Chrystal, not checking on the kids, checking on her status with Ron, wanting to come home!!!!
Air conditioner man: He arrived at 5:00pm to service the Air Conditioner, that did not need servicing, there was nothing wrong with the heat pump or air conditioner.. He is a hired person who does maintenance for the rental company.. He has keys for all of the units that are rented. He was doing the spring??? service and replacing filters in February??? I don’t think he took Haleigh.. No, but I sure would like to know why he came when Ron was away at work, at the quitting hour, and why in February… I wouldn’t have let him in my house!!! Would have told him, come back in the spring!!! Like maybe April!!! The only way that man could have been involved, is if he were there to leave a key.. hidden outside, for the Abductor to use to gain entry into the house, therefore he would be conspiring with the Abductor or Abductor’s, which would mean this had been planned. Thats the only way!!!
OverTime!! Have any of you ever worked shift work?? Well sometimes when doing so, you have to work a little overtime.. this is common in the work world, sometimes jobs have a certain timeline to be completed, and it takes people to do so.. So, what is the big deal on Ron working overtime?? This could have been absolutely NORMAL.. Gheeezz…
Why don’t people, put their heads together and start with Motive… Who would have had Motive for Taking Haleigh? If your not familiar with the term, it means Reasons.. Who would have reasons to take Haleigh.. This should take you a couple of weeks to put together, but when you do.. I think you will be totally shocked!!!
Mlee the key part, didn’t Ron change the locks so only a few keys were available and if so who all had keys?Do you know if Ron gave keys to the landlord? Would maybe be helpful to know those answers anyway.
TIA
One other thing. Motive is good. I follow you on that but some times things can happen randomly and/or unexpectedly.
We should not rule that possibility out either.
You are correct Melee in alot of cases crimes have motives. But in alot of cases there was no motive. In this case there could be motive,
to hide Haleigh and get custody of both kids. But that hasnt worked out so why keep her hidden? If it is true and one of the grandparent has her hid out somewhere she is going to hate them for the rest of her life.
I hope LE has been keeping an eye on them in case this is what happened. jmo
Vaquera
Oh thank you and also for the court record info.I wonder if this is the 20 year old in Palatka.I’ll check around.Interesting the arrest and right after this road rage thing.Seems like a whole lotta something behind the scenes.
Also if the grandparents did this they had another party do it and they could have released her and she would show up at a hospital or somewhere. The grand parents would never be caught because Haliegh would never have known they were a part of her abduction. jmo
Another motive could be that someone really wants to get even with Ron for something.
By the actions lately we can all assume he has enemies. jmo
DramaQueen – No, certainly you have not offended me at all nor have 99% of the bloggers on here. I was trying to have a conversation in a way with someone here yesterday but wasn’t able to get the message across to that person and unfortunately everyone else thought I meant them! So my sincere apologies.
“Tobias said,in January 7th, 2010 at 2:12 pm Also if the grandparents did this they had another party do it and they could have released her and she would show up at a hospital or somewhere. The grand parents would never be caught because Haliegh would never have known they were a part of her abduction. jmo”
And there would be no way to trace anything back to them and they would have an easy out. I so hope something like that would happen where if someone has Haleigh they would just drop her off at a hospital or fire station etc…
Thanks Vaq on the same name question of Carmen concerning Lisa croslin and Kathleen Jones.
As I have always said I do not believe Ron or Crystal has anything to do with Haleighs dissapearence DIRECTLY. Their actions and the people around them may have been what caused this. jmo
TuffStuff – I guess you weren’t around to see the various “backlashes” I mentioned. You might notice that one of our regular bloggers is missing and that’s why (and I don’t mean HGm). Please give us the benefit of the doubt that it does happen.
I understand that you want to ignore posts like some of mine yesterday. I had read and ignored so many many posts of the kind I described (constant bashing of one or two people) for so long that I just had to try to bring it up to see if something could be done about it (in a nice way). But my comments met with a brick wall and the unfortunate fall-out of others being offended.
I will try very hard again to ignore those comments that truly are offensive (IMO).
Tobias, I did not see this comment in time to respond but last night you said, 8:03 pm ” MC2 i would still like to hear your theory. All you seem to do on here is intervine. You claim we are always bashing someone but you are always sticking up for everyone involved.”
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Tobias, it’s difficult for me to believe that you read my comments if you have to ask that and claim what you do.
The “we” you are referring to is really you and a couple of others who always – without exception – no matter what blame Misty and Ron and accuse them of all kinds of awful things without any foundation.
I don’t know how many times (including the past few days) I’ve said that I have a lot of theories. That I can take the few things we know and create a number of different scenarios with different people and motives.
Just yesterday I participated in great discussions about five different theories with bloggers. No problems.
Recently I have “intervened” to point out that another conclusion might be drawn when I saw post after post blaming the same people over and over again for all kinds of things.
Everyone can take a fact or point and have a different (but equally valid) opinion about it. I’m just mystified (sorry for the pun) that your response is always that it’s somehow Misty and Ron’s fault; they are always the bad guys no matter what.
That is your opinion. Please understand that others are equally entitled to a different opinion and are entitled to voice it here. That’s all I’m asking.
m2c I wasn’t posting yesterday so no I really didn’t notice. I don’t usually ignore others posts. I just try to see things from other people’s perspective. Who knows where one small piece of information may come forward that may help to solve this case? I’m not so bold as to believe that without a doubt my thoughts are the correct thoughts in regards to this case or any case even if I might have possibly been right about something in the past. Truce?
DramaQueen said,
in January 6th, 2010 at 1:56 pm
Vaquera, are you sure about the location of the convenience store? Because I distinctly remember reading that he had to actually drive past his street to go to the store. Of course, like so many other tings in this case, that could have been a wrong report.
And yes someone really did pay off the back child support, and yes, she was posting, there was more but I would have to ask CC to really remember all of it.
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Yes ma’am.100% sure. As much as I detest Art Harris even he had an article as to where the store was located. It’s not to far from where he worked at PDM on his route home
Just one more thing and I will shut up about this (I can hear the applause!) – I would never appear to “defend” Ron and Misty so much if they were not attacked and accused so darned much – consistently, in fact, by a few and far beyond reason, based on absolutely no facts at all.
I and others say negative things about them sometimes and include them as possibly responsible in some way for Haleigh’s disappearance. That’s reasonable speculation and discussion. But it is very very different from always finding them at fault or saying things like “they don’t want to take care of a disabled baby” (as an example). If you claim your right to say such things about people then please let others say they think it’s over the top or that they don’t agree.
That’s all I’m asking, Tobias. Thank you.
Tuff Stuff – Definitely and gratefully, “Truce!” Yes.
Nor do I think I am correct about just about anything. My sense of “fair play” and reason just got pushed way over the edge. I will try to control it from now on!
Wow, Vaquera and DramaQueen! Thank you for clearing up the info about the store. I too had thought it was fact that the store was “out of the way” for Ron on his way home.
Gosh, what all did we hear back then that was not true?
Also, does anyone know of the donor from Texas was thoroughly checked out by LE?
Tobias said,
in January 7th, 2010 at 1:54 pm
Vaquera said,in January 7th, 2010 at 12:35 pm
What was on the twitter I couldnt find it.
What did they question him about? jmo
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It’s TJ’s twitter for sky news.http://twitter.com/THESKY973DOTCOM
that’s all he said
Gosh, what all did we hear back then that was not true?
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I feel a whole hell of a lot.
http://www.myspace.com/mattmadness80
One of his pics of HaLeigh,he says she’s his cousin.
Probably Crystal’s side,one of the photo’s has a comment from a nasty guy that is on Danielle L.’s friends list.It’s the pic with Matt holding a dell computer with another guy in pic.
Winterrose, Is that the Mullins that got into a fight with CJs mom? I saw a Mullins in his friends. jmo
Maybe not Crystal’s side,a Cummings left comment on mother’s comment list.Who knows,everyone’s related.
This is what I’m thinking,this might be the guy,if same age.Didn’t see an age or address on the court docs,but he’s definitely got connections with relatives and friends.
Yep,the Mom is related to Cummings.
So Matthew Mullins is related to the Cummings?
Has anyone checked to see if he is on CJs page?
There are so many good points made on this sight. I am down to 2. Both kind of go together. My first one is that it was common for both Ron and Misty to give the kids something to make them stay asleep on a regular basis. If you are as old as I am,my parents and grandparents put brandy on our gums and put it in honey for teething pain and couphs. In my day we didn’t do that but tylenol made a realy good infants pain remedy that made our kids sleepy. Now adays we know all these things are rong,rong,rong,But it seems from reading and watching the news that young parents are giving thier kids low doses of thier scripts. I think that was the norm with Ronand Misty. Misty went out that night, gave the 2 kids the “usual” and left them in the van while she went in a house or shack or whatever they go into. She left the van running. Got back in the van, went home, proped the door to make it easier to get 2 sleeping kids in the home. Got the youngest in first, then got Haleigh, found out she wasn’t breathing. (or theother way around). I just think that putting the block in the screen door was a common thing with 2 kids. Get out,get a door prop, get the kids in. Anyway they found out Haleigh was’nt breathing, could have realy lost both kids in my theory. The only reason in Ron’s imature mind to keep Misty around is she “COULD” let a lot of secrets out about Ron and his (dare I say it) Rat affiliations with the L.E. Man think of it. All the drug bust and not even a conviction. In Topeka that means you are the D.A’s pet project. Anyway Ron is a jealouse fool, Misty is playing any man(boy) against eich other. (remember what we did when we were 16, 17, 18, as women).
They need to change the name of the town to SHEFFIELD/CUMMINGSVILLE. Everyone is related down there, wonder if there is a cummings married to a sheffield? jmo
Starting to sound like the Hatfields and the McCoys too.
what? whose mom is related to the cummings?
I should have posted also that Ron was afraid of losing his son if it comes out that he(they) drugged the kids. I realy think that is the only reason that Ron keeps Misty around aside the facted that in some sick way he loves her because the think and drug alike. Once Haleigh was dead he knew it might come out per Misty,and lose J.R. butthen ther is the whole family hiding whatever and getting deeper and deeper.
Matthew Mullins Mom.
Peggy, I could believe the part in your theory about Misty knowing Rons secrets. Just what those secrets are we may never know.jmo
Tobias, I think that if you resurch aome of the blog sights, there is a conection thru marriage, on some kind of distant cousin.
No we won’t until Ron finds some women with money and gumtion to actually fight what Misty knows.
Winter can you point me in the direction of what you’re looking at, please. I am so frozen I can”t think straight at the moment
Did you see Levi Page is on cj”s friends list
I really wonder if Ron really trusts and believes Misty like he keeps saying. His past relationships dont show much in the way of trust or even love.Maybe I am wrong but none of his exes have anything good to say about their relationships with him.And this is not to bash him plenty of guys have exes that say bad things about them.jmo
Vaquera, I did and I was hoping he would come on and say his isde of the roadrage.jmo
well peggy that theory seems to be gaining in popularity, that’s for sure
heck there was a couple here a few months ago convicted of murder because they had twin girls under a year of age that they were putting in their swings in the mornings and dosing with cough medicine and leaving them alone all day while they both went to work, even did it when they went out to eat, movies, etc, one of the babies died
terrible terrible stuff
At this point Ron is worried about losing his son to Crystal. I think it is more about other things comming out about him. I am with other bloggers about where is Amber and NayNay. Very quiet on that front. Iwonder if that is the thing that L.E. is keeping quiet.
Drama Queen, I tell ya it’s a different thing for every generation. (sad, sad, sad)
I kind of think that women like me at home should offer these women with low or no imcome a sevice to keep thier kids at any time so this kind of thing wont happen
If Ron was somehow working undercover with LE, he’d be an utter fool to let Misty find out. Not with her up-to-the-minute and long-time connections to the drug world. I’d think it more likely that he’d use her to find out stuff to tell LE.
Even IF R & M drugged the children I don’t see how Misty’s word on that would hold water with anyone. No proof anyway. Hopefully LE would have noticed something odd about Jr if they checked on him at all the night Haleigh disappeared.
If the grandparents had Haleigh taken they could have placed her permanently with another family (I hope). And from that moment on she’d be told how she was “saved” (if they didn’t try to convince her she was someone else – she may be to old for that). But all someone would have to do is show her all the blog comments about how horrible her father and Misty are for her to believe that she was “saved.” And to answer her question about why Jr wasn’t taken too? All they’d have to say is that as the girl child, she was the one being mistreated or in danger or whatever.
I’m putting the most positive light on how people could brainwash her but there are some bad ways too. It’s happened unfortunately.
All the above just one theory (of many).
Vaq, I am making 5 alarm chilli for dinner to keep warm. We are gettingg a bad weather front coming in here. they say we will be getting 9 in. of snow with more to come tommorrow.eeekkk.
Tobias eeekk is right!
Peggy, these parents involved in the twin girls, they were both in the military, so they had income, but that’s a great thought you had
also wasn’t not too long ago nay nay staying at Tommy’s with Misty and the rest of the gang?
I wonder if TJ got an interview with CJ or Levi? That would be good but maybe he was told to keep quiet about what PCSO was questioning him about.jmo
peggy @ 4:31
That’s very kind and generous of you but I have seen well-meaning gestures like that refused with anger and resentment. Like “you think I can’t take care of my own kids?”
The answer of course (which you would never say) is “Well, right, you can’t!” But no matter what, most of them would refuse the help and think you a b-ch for offering. Also there are PLENTY of high-income parents doing this and they can afford baby-sitters and stuff. And plenty are willing to read books on how to raise children but do they? Nope. They do what they want to do because those children “belong to them.” It’s awful.
Okay,trying to get this straight…
matthew Mullins…
http://www.myspace.com/mattmadness80
His mother…
http://www.myspace.com/elieshaizor
Was married to Thomas Mullins,now Thomas Izor and maybe seperated,not sure.
She has comments on friends list,one is a Cummings.Around the time haLeigh went missing,people were commenting asking how she was and putting out flyers.
So,why was Kathleen beating on a relative of Cummings?
Peggy, Dont be discouraged by the possibilty of being turned down at least you would have offered help. Not all people would turn down a free babbysitter if they could first check their backgrounds out. jmo
Right before her son was in a road rage incident with RC.Is this all related back to the Donald S incident with CJ?
what incident was that? and isnt Donald in prison now? jmo
Probable won’t work in their town but maybe mine, just an inspiration. I will get a cet. in topeka for child care and go by guidlines for rooms and adults verses children, a lot of laws per that verses what parents do.
AH hell no M2c. There are not a lot of high income people, there are a lot of low or no income people that would be that way, but I am worried about the people that would need and want the service. Any one else would be hidding something (like Ron and Misty perhaps) and I could care less.
I give you kudos Peggy. I personally only used Grandparents and then not very often. I worked different shifts at work from my husband in the early years then got a job where I could take my kids with me while I worked. Now they are grown and nearly grown.
Maybe someone can put some order of dates to the Donald S/CJ incident,then Kathleen/Matthew,then the road rage incident.
I’m not too up on the Donald/Cj thing,I think it was at a bar in Jax or something,but don’t know the date.
With the economy the way it is I am sure people would be glad to get some help like free or low cost child care.Esspecially if they know you as a friend or live near you. jmo
M2C A lot of men and women, when they think they are of like minds let a lot of secrets beknown between each other especialy when it comes to a 16 yr. old and a 25 yr. with 2 kids. when you are as young as Misty and your only purpose in life is to take care of kids that aren,t yours, Ron sounds good, especially if you use drugs and booze to nume the pain of your life and screw every guy you meet because you think that is what love is. Aint right and disgusting for someone as old as Ron and his mother and his grandmother. Come on GGS and TN
peggy, that’s true. I just don’t know if Ron felt that way about Misty or if she was just an “attractive” convenience – babysitter, bottle-washer, cook, etc.
Most of us don’t believe he married her because he really wanted to. It was either because of the possible “statutory rape” charges. And if she knows stuff, why divorce her? I don’t think she was very happy about that.
But there are other explanations -like they’re putting on a “show” and just divorced to lead LE astray.
Tobias, don’t give me kudos yet. I just had the thought and need. But is something I will get into with my church. We are a church that has goon into the rep as mission church. Used to be the most affluent and prominate churches in north Topeka. Personaly I think a mission church with mission type needs is what north Topeka needs.
I guess I misunderstood your post about offering help with children “so this won’t happen.” I thought you meant drugging the kids or having them mistreated or getting them kidnapped. Sorry.
Oh my God M2c, My fault. No I ment offering a sevice for low or no income women to get them on thier feet so they don’t reliy on every smoth talken dude that knows how to pick a a lonley scared young mother out.
Tobias said,
in January 7th, 2010 at 4:36 pm
Vaq, I am making 5 alarm chilli for dinner to keep warm. We are gettingg a bad weather front coming in here. they say we will be getting 9 in. of snow with more to come tommorrow.eeekkk.
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Carroll shelby’s chili tonight for me..it’s the best.
I make my own but where do you get Carroll shelbys? Is it premade or a recipe? If its a recipe I would like it please. Please. My family loves chilli.
Rons connection with Misty has always struck me as odd. He says he stands by her to one person and then tells another that he keeps his enemies close. And how many guys would forgive her after her weekend with WBG? Not any that I know of. jmo
It is alot to forgive after your daughter is missing. jmo
Peggy @ 5:27 – Thank you! I understand now!
Yes, young single mothers are the prey of a lot of different kinds of bad guys.
I also wish something could be done to help young women avoid becoming young single moms in the first place! lol! It’s a wonder, really, that Misty wasn’t knocked up already.
Maybe she cant. just a thought. Thats why she loves to babysit and loves kids so much, maybe she cant have any, we just dont know.
yes it’s a chili kit. you can get it at wally world.
catch ya’ll later
Thanks Vaquera will be checking to see if I can get some and try it.
Has anyone heard if Cobra got cleared of his charges yet?
Tobias…it’s possible that it’s just blind luck, thus far.
Depending on income, there are free or reduced cost child care available (at least here, in FL). The parents get a very long list of every DCFS certified day care establishment, home style on up to name brand facilities to choose from. Of course, there is an application to fill out, and you have to report your earnings, any changes, etc. Also DCFS & daycare workers keep records of your children’s attendance, health, behavior, etc. There is an “exchange” so to speak. This may be the reason some choose not to use these types of services. They want some things to stay hidden. (Not necissarily about M & R) I too have thought about a type of service like you mention Peggy. Like a caring out-reach program. Some will slap away any offer of help, but others will gladly accept. One just has to try to help make a difference anyway.
seems the cummings family is at it again. David Cumming probation violation he looks like he is about to bust out in laughter. jmo
Thats the second time he broke probation how do you get away with that? jmo
Okay,so Eliesha is David’s sister.I thought I recognized her and Tommy at the wedding.
You are right M2c. There is nothing to be done since the dawn of time. I agree it is a wonder that I have pondered since I hered about Nay Nay’s thing about her being preggers and Ron beating her up. (rumor,fact, who knows except who you believe and trust. There will always be single moms and there will always be tragic stories, we will never find a cure or answer.
Is he a cousin or an uncle? I heard a long time ago a reference that Misty had a thing for Rons uncle. Dont know if it is true for a fact and cant remember where I saw it. Dont quote me but I think it was on the show when they were talking about how everyone of the parties were more interested in sex than Haleigh. jmo
Ron said that was a lie about him hurting Misty and PCDO would have seen injuries on her when they questioned her. Who is lying Misty or NayNay who knows? jmo
I can see what they are talking about when they say PCSO talking to a bowl of jello and a box of rocks. Even if one of these people knows anything how can they use them in court. They all have bad records and known drug offences. A deffance attorney would pick them to pieces on the stand. jmo
There’s been so many rumors,it started out as Misty was with an older man,to it being RC’s uncle.You can’t believe three fourths of what you hear.But,why is CJ’s mother beating on RC’s cousin right before CJ is in a road rage with RC?
Who knows with this family they have been known to go to the bar and get into fights with each other over money and shoot guns in the air. And that was some of the older (wiser) ones.lol JMO
You could not pay me to go down there. The roads arent safe, the bars arent safe, drugs everywhere, and felons are out on bail within minutes. Not what I would call good PR for this area. I used to go to Florida on vacations in the 90s but not anymore.jmo
Two years ago I sent my daughter to Dland with her school band, glad I didnt know about this then or she would never have gone. She liked Dland by the way. jmo
Good night all remember to pray for Haleigh and for Junior.
Sorry about the confusion m2c, I guess it was too late for me too. But, you know, you should learn when to just drop a subject. We all got your point.
Over and over again.
Justice: Thank you for the time of Haleigh’s school bus. I have been working a scenario.
RC’s work times have never been specified and any comments made by le and RC’s lawyer have been vague at best. But we do know that Ron would have normally gotten off work at midnight and his shifts were normally 8 hours long. To have worked 8 hours by midnight his shifts must start at 4pm.
Now, RC’s drive to work is 33 minutes long. (Thank you whoever provided that info earlier
) So he would have had to leave by 3:30 AT LEAST to arrive at work on time. This already puts RC’s story about picking up Haleigh and dropping her off and leaving for work on a pretty shaky timeline. Add to that RC’s lawyer has insisted that RC arrived at work 1/2 to 3/4 of an hour early and RC’s story becomes an out and out lie…he would have had to leave for work at or before 3 for this to be true. Well before the bus.
So, if this is a lie, why? And why is it so important that RC, Misty and TN all feel the need to tell the same story. A story that is refuted by more than one witness at the bus stop. And I just don’t buy that ALL of the witnesses got their days mixed up. It was the first day of the week, kinda hard to confuse that with a day before and especially after that weekend.
Vaq and Tobias… Can I come over for some chili, you got crackers or cornbread?
mariesilk @ 7:11 – Unfortunately, the point wasn’t aimed at you all who DID get it! lol!
I don’t think it’s gotten across to the intended yet. But I’m not going to try anymore, so please don’t worry!
crackers and grated cheddar and sour cream if you want.
almost ready. it’s 25 outside and dropping, good chili night.
Anyone have any thoughts on RC saying he picked up Haleigh from the bus, when it seems he should have already been AT WORK by that time?
MSilk..
I’m still a bit confused as to who really picked her up. I can’t understand why the mix up! Has LE confirmed who did?
Tobias, are you a member of the forum? I wanted to send pm or email about an idea I’ve had…
mariesilk:
I too question the claim that Ron picked Haleigh up from the bus stop. I think he has made that claim for 2 reasons.
1) To refute the claim that Misty had been there- therefore she couldn’t have slapped any child that day, so no DCFS investigation over that.
2) It came up unexpectedly, he just said it not realizing it could be dis-proven.
JMO…JMO…JMO
Ron, Teresa and Misty said it because it’s true. LE confirmed Ron picked HaLeigh up at the bus stop.
I don’t think le ever confirmed who picked up Haleigh. Only that they knew who had. What to make of the statements from the other parents? The chances of them ALL having the same story of Misty in the van. Perhaps they thought they had to cover for MC not having a valid drivers license at the time.
It is under the same line of thinking that I think they smudged the timeline of Monday night to fit in some ‘clean up’ before calling 911. They seem to be more concerned about saving their own behinds than aiding the investigation. They are either guilty or very stupid.
So many keep saying LE confirmed…can we please have a link to that confirmation by LE. It might be out there, I just think it needs to be confirmed once and for all.
OSPainter wrote to HLN with Mike Gallanos to get the transcript of the day PCSO was on the show, forgot which one was there, and said Ron did pick up Haleigh from bus. I also happened to watch the show that day as did some others who heard the same thing. I will see if I can find the link to where she posted it, thought I think it was at the monkey cage.
Captain Dick Schauland confirmed it. TJ remembered that and posted to his twitter iirc Vaq?
“All” the witnesses actually didn’t say it was Misty. Re-read Art’s article, even he didn’t even claim that in spite of his role.
15:21:46.06 “Prime news” on hln. Were about news and views. We want your views as we continue to search for little 5-year-old haleigh cummings. Lets get the view of linda in texas. Welcome to the show. Your comment or question here. Caller: hi, mike. I really enjoy your show. Thanks. Caller: i just wanted to ask about the stone or boulder that was propped up against the door the night haleigh went missing. Im wondering if they were ever able to get any fingerprints off of that. Lets ask the captain about that. Captain, how big of a piece of evidence was that boulder or stone propping up the door? It was a concrete block is what was against the door propping it open. Of course they sent it off to the lab to get whatever they can off of it. Were not really releasing anything as far as what evidence we gathered, but they have sent it off to the fdle lab in jackson to get what they can from it. And, again, captain, we appreciate the sensitivities here. T.J. , Anything to add when we talk about the concrete block? Yes. Were getting some talk from the crosslin side of the family about relatives in michigan who are urging perhaps police to take a second look at this joe fellow there, this tennessee cousin, because one of his m.O.S for breaking into buildings in his past criminal career was the fact that he used bricks or blocks to prop doors open. Dont know if thats anything to go on or not, but thats what were hearing. Thats the buzz in the community. Okay. John lucich, cousin joe well, let me ask the captain. Cousin joe in tennessee was cleared once, is that correct? Or is no one cleared? No one is cleared. He has not been cleared, as well as anybody else. Somewhere down the line, we know we have a crime involved here with the disappearance of haleigh. We dont know at the moment what the crime is because we dont know whats happened to haleigh. But everybody is still in the mix. Were still looking and reinterviewing everyone involved. Otcha. Candy in north carolina. Whats your comment or question? Caller: hi, mike. I love your show. Thanks. Caller: how do they know haleigh wasnt killed earlier in the day and maybe later that night they set it up so that the girlfriend would call the boyfriend to say she was missing and propped the thing up against the door to make sure it looked like she had been killed or taken out of the home during that time? Lets ask the captain about captain, when was the last time haleigh was seen alive? Not just from misty? Can you tell us that? Her father picked her up from the school bus and took her home in the afternoon. She was seen later in the early evening by a neighbor. And that was the last time she was seen. Okay. One more call. Jean in washington. Hi, welcome to the show. Jean, you there? Caller: yes, im here. Go ahead, jean. Caller: yes. Why arent they checking that girlfriend out more? You know, its real crazy, i mean, how anyone could sleep when a child was taken out like that. Im wondering if she hadnt been out and a drug deal went sour and they came back for retaliation. All right, jean, thanks for the call again. I know the captain cant deal with that. John lucich, misty crosslin, there she is, the 17-year-old live-in girlfriend, you have to be zoning in on her. Yes. Im suspicious of the fact she woke up just before her boyfriend got home and not called the cops. This guy had to tell her to call the cops. It was like to me its possible that she was never even asleep in the first place. Im not saying thats the fact. Its very probable. As far as that brick that was holding up the door, thats typically porous and you wouldnt get prints but maybe dna as far as oil. Guys, thanks so much
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=6288.880
it was posted on scared monkeys on 12-22 in case the link gets zapped by ospainter
Thanks curious.
Welcome Vaq.
I have looked for that link and I can’t find one.
Did you all know that CJ was busted at the Mexican drug house bust in April?
http://www.pcso.us/2009-4-17-a
Note the remark in the third paragraph how eleven were arrested. Nine were arrested and two were detained for questioning in an ongoing investigation!!
Well, was this the ‘Mexican drug house’ in Nay Nay’s story about their crazy weekend with the mysterious friend Lynsy (NOT Croslin) she talked about in her video with AH? All these people are connected. I wonder if CJ and Amber are friends? CJ didn’t like RC and Amber got in a fight (allegedly) with Misty on her infamous weekend. Drug induced hysteria can get out of hand, people do things they wouldn’t normally do.
I hope this is the beginning pieces of chit that will soon be hitting the fan. Whatever happened to Haleigh, I hope her justice is coming soon.
Another thing I found while going through the PCSO press releases, there are none about Haleigh until February 26th, when cadaver dogs were brought in. Maybe there was just enough press coverage that an official statement wasn’t necessary, but it seems odd with all the other smaller events listed.
I guess Haleigh going missing wasn’t a big deal to them? I hope I am wrong.
Vaquera said,
in January 7th, 2010 at 8:00 pm
crackers and grated cheddar and sour cream if you want.
almost ready. it’s 25 outside and dropping, good chili night.
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MMMM Chili. I found a recipe written on paper in my grandmother’s bible she gave me. And I tried it out OMG I thought at first no way, but here it goes:
While browning the meat for chili add 4 Tablespoons of A-1 Sauce and 2 tablespoons of Worchester (spelling on that one laughs but you get the drift). When meat is done browning drain as usual then add all the regular ingredients. Chili Beans, Kidney Beans, Chili Seasoning, salt, pepper or whatever else you like.
I make my chili this way now and it’s always a hit!!!!!! I love adding raw onions, cheddar cheese and a dollop of sour cream!!!
Just another version of how many chili recipes are out there.!
Homemade Cornbread- If you are a cook that likes to be a little different and try new things try adding a splash or two of A-1 and Large spoonful of sour cream to the mixture right before baking. Moist and zesty cornbread is what you will get!! It’s a hit in my household. Also sour cream is a great addition to homemade pound cake and will keep it moist an additional two or three days after baking!
NOW on another note God Bless you innocent angel Haleigh may the truth and answers about where you are come out soon. You are in our daily prayers and we light a candle for you every Sunday. You are on many minds and in many hearts little one.
Well, I would assume it was a him. I mean the child was afraid of the dark and would not leave. So, who would steal a small girl in the middle of the night? In the past these crimes have been carried out by whom? I can’t think of any woman that has taken a little girl in the middle of the night. Sadly, cases where men have come to mind.
Ron has Junior because DCF can’t give him to Crystal. They are just picking the better of the two. I guess they do not have enough to put him in a grandparents care. If Crystal was not on drugs and driving around while on drugs and crashing cars with her baby in them while she is on drugs then maybe they could and would remove Junior.
Thank you TJ for the reputable confirmation on that link.
Many I am a chili connisseur, and I’m gonna use your resume next. Bless your Granny and you. Great posts everyone. Time for a new article, and more of TJ’s and reporters notes. The tidbits continue to squeeze the puzzle together more tightly looking today backwards.
HollysGmom said,
in January 7th, 2010 at 1:24 am
hollys, ?can you share about orange park if anything came of it?
thank you for telling all of us abt fl custody and paternity! thank you for all the research you contribute!
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mariesilk said,
in January 7th, 2010 at 1:28 am
,,,I am only trying to think beyond the same theories we already have…
.. we may not all agree on everything, but it gets the thoughts flowing which is good…
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yes! and i am in awe, so many here really put in time and effort!
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looking for justice said,
in January 7th, 2010 at 10:26 am
i understand, ty! (also we agree on the c.s. issue.)
Ms. P, I see you are very pleased with mariesilk’s comment that “I am only trying to think beyond the same theories we already have…”
But I’ll bet you are not as THRILLED as I am!
I have been on the Haleigh blog almost since it started and I know that the ability to think and voice opinions OTHER THAN the same old same old is a privilege that’s been fought for over and over again.
It’s only recently that we are “allowed” to voice opinions that maybe R or M or someone is not the bad guy (although some are still stomped on for it.) It’s only recently, for example, that we can look at CS and family without being tromped on.
Not to go over the same old issues but for those of you who are “freely thinking out of the box” please know that you can do that because others stood up for that right – many times. Unfortunately a number of those posters have left the board – another one yesterday – because it is apparent that we still have to stand up for these rights.
Those posters were here with love for Haleigh, respect for their fellow bloggers and fair, open minds.
They aren’t fighters at heart. And to have to fight off the bullies in order to be heard was something they couldn’t stomach any more.
They, like you, just wanted the ability to voice different points of view and different possibilities.
So MY hat is off to those posters who stood up for what we are (hopefully) enjoying today.
A free, wide-open discussion. I pray it stays this way.
I truly hope those posters come back one day.
They’re good people. We need them and Haleigh needs them.
RE: Vaquera said,in January 7th, 2010 at 11:06 pm
OSPainter wrote to HLN with Mike Gallanos to get the transcript of the day PCSO was on the show
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Caller: how do they know haleigh wasnt killed earlier in the day and maybe later that night they set it up so that the girlfriend would call the boyfriend to say she was missing and propped the thing up against the door to make sure it looked like she had been killed or taken out of the home during that time?
Mike: Lets ask the captain about, captain, when was the last time haleigh was seen alive? Not just from misty? Can you tell us that?
Capt: Her father picked her up from the school bus and took her home in the afternoon. She was seen later in the early evening by a neighbor. And that was the last time she was seen.
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=6288.msg1041925#msg1041925
Mariesilk go to PDM.com and click on employment. It gives you the actual work hours. LE never said Ron picked Haleigh up from the bus. He had a modified work that day 4 pm – 12 am
Morning, looking for justice!
Someone asked earlier about trying to find where LE confirmed that Ron picked up Haleigh at the bus. I’m not very good at this kind of research but I did just now find a reference that maybe someone could help follow up.
The reference stated that there is a transcript of Mike Gelanos on Prime Time, HLN on March 3, 2009, talking to (Capt?) Schauland who stated that Ron Cummings picked his daughter up at the bus stop the last day she attended school, which was February 9, 2009.
Maybe another of our bloggers knows how to find that transcript?
Mike Galanos transcript:
Caller: how do they know haleigh wasnt killed earlier in the day and maybe later that night they set it up so that the girlfriend would call the boyfriend to say she was missing and propped the thing up against the door to make sure it looked like she had been killed or taken out of the home during that time?
Mike: Lets ask the captain about, captain, when was the last time haleigh was seen alive? Not just from misty? Can you tell us that?
Capt: Her father picked her up from the school bus and took her home in the afternoon. She was seen later in the early evening by a neighbor. And that was the last time she was seen.
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=6288.msg1041925#msg1041925
In the process of searching for the above, I stumbled on an interview Nancy Grace had with Terry Shoemaker, Ron’s attorney, which includes picking Haleigh up and work hours.
To find it you have to scroll down the page.
Before him, NG interviews Crystal and TJ Hart. And after Shoemaker she interviews TN.
I’m not a fan of NG’s interview techniques. For example, the bus comes at 3:30, the lawyer says it’s ONE MILE from Ron’s MH and yet NG stretches that into a 30 minute window – like Ron could not have left for work until 4:00.
Anyway, I don’t know who to believe but thought some people might be interested in seeing this. Below is the link:
http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0909/04/ng.01.html
Hello all, I am reading but busy at work, just wanted to say good morning, it is always a pleasure to come here and read and post when I can…….(waving)
“Waving back!” DramaQueen! Enjoy your day!
Yes m2c, Capt Dick Schauland confirmed it on Mike Galanos waaay back in March
Thank you, curious! I didn’t remember for sure so when someone asked about it earlier I thought I’d try to find out. I still don’t know how to find a particular CNN/HLN transcript (per my 10:04 am post). I only found the NG one because that link came up during a search.
But glad you remembered!
Good morning m2c. I have not heard LE state they know Ron picked up Haleigh from school. I saw on Nancy Grace That Ron has witnesses he picked up Haleigh from the bus stop. They are his mom Teresa and Misty. There are 4 different eye witnesses that say Misty picked up Haleigh. The only thing printed i have read is that they had a good idea what was going on the morning Ron was driving like a maniac to get Haleigh to school. I would appreciate that if there is a transcript stating otherwise that would be helpful.
If you go by the timeline and what Ron and both of his attorneys state about his work scheduleHe could not have picked up Haleigh from school. Misty could not have gotten into teouble for not having a license. They have to catch you driving without one. Granted it would not have looked good on Ron for letting his underage girlfriend drive his children around with no license.
schedule – sorry
looking for justice – yes, I have heard both versions of who picked up Haleigh that day and never knew if LE confirmed one or the other.
If someone clever at finding transcripts can find the one I mentioned in my 10:04 am post {Mike Gelanos on Prime Time, HLN on March 3, 2009, talking to (Capt?) Schauland}
then we’ll know for sure.
But even that doesn’t settle it really because some folks don’t believe everything LE says! (And I understand that!)
But one thing I don’t know that we’ve gotten really credible info on is exactly when R arrived at work that day. Do you know?
If he picked her up at 3:30 and took her home (one mile), dropped her off and sped on to work (supposedly 20 minute drive according to the lawyer I think) he could have made it by around 4. Or is LE just going along with the pick up/drop off/arrive at work times because they don’t think it’s very relevant or they’re trying to throw us (or their suspect) off?
I posted a couple of theories before.I even put in a couple things that were told to me by people close to this situation.I don’t know why,but they aren’t anywhere in these blogs.Sorry bloggers I thought you would appreciate the info.
Also do we know for sure when Misty returned to Ron’s MH after her big weekend? Sunday night? Monday morning? Obviously she wasn’t there or wasn’t in any condition to take Haleigh to school. Probably Ron couldn’t find any clean clothes for her so he ran to Grandma’s house for some (or Haleigh was pitching a fit to wear one particular outfit that was at Grandmas – I heard that too.)
Too bad R & M did not spend Monday catching up on the laundry! lol!
Well, it seems very clear to me once you consider the time line of that afternoon that RC couldn’t have been the one to pick up Haleigh IF he plans on sticking to his story of being at work early.
So why are they lying? Is it just to cover for Misty driving without a license, or something else? In all fairness, innocent people don’t lie to le when their children are missing.
If you go back and watch the interview with RC where he drops to his knees. It bothers me. There are moments, when he says things as though he knows she is already gone.
You know, maybe that is the key thing about Ron that nags at me. All of his behavior seems to suggest that he has endured a great tragedy and is trying to move on. But if he truly didn’t know what happened, wouldn’t he still be caught up in trying to find her.
The wedding would even make more sense then, two people just trying to get over the loss of a child. Ugh, I feel sick.
RE: Vaquera said,
in January 7th, 2010 at 11:06 pm
OSPainter wrote to HLN with Mike Gallanos to get the transcript of the day PCSO was on the show
* * * * * * *
Caller: how do they know haleigh wasnt killed earlier in the day and maybe later that night they set it up so that the girlfriend would call the boyfriend to say she was missing and propped the thing up against the door to make sure it looked like she had been killed or taken out of the home during that time?
Mike: Lets ask the captain about, captain, when was the last time haleigh was seen alive? Not just from misty? Can you tell us that?
Capt: Her father picked her up from the school bus and took her home in the afternoon. She was seen later in the early evening by a neighbor. And that was the last time she was seen.
http://scaredmonkeys.net/index.php?topic=6288.msg1041925#msg1041925
LE’s Capt. Schauland did state that RON picked up HaLeigh at the bus-stop. TJ Hart was on the show that day and confirmed on twitter that he recalled this happening.
I can post the part of the transcript that says this, but I don’t believe (because it is a different blog) the link to the SM board is allowed. If you want to see the actual full transcript, you’ll have to go to SM yourself and search out Ospainter’s posts – she got the transcript and was kind enough to post it.
Mike: Lets ask the captain about, captain, when was the last time haleigh was seen alive? Not just from misty? Can you tell us that?
Capt: Her father picked her up from the school bus and took her home in the afternoon. She was seen later in the early evening by a neighbor. And that was the last time she was seen.
(This is from Ospainter’s December 23, 2009 post at 01:20:22 AM if anyone wants to search it at SM to read the full transcript of the Prime News coverage of HaLeigh with Mike Galanos).
Hope this is helpful!
m2c:
I have been thinking about the laundry thing. It could be plausible there was no clean laundry in the mobile home come Monday morning. The weekend was probably pretty crazy and not much thought about laundry. So if she had no clean clothes Monday, they go to GGM’s get Haleigh clothes. Meanwhile, GGM’s decides that since there is no laundry soap at the mh she washes what clothes she has there for the kids and brings them over to avoid RC running into the same problem the next morning.
I know I would not be doing that for my grown children, but you would be amazed how some people will bend over backwards to enable these types of man/childs. My mother in law would do my fiancees laundry while we were separated, lol. Not on my watch though.
But then, why don’t we hear about it for 9 days? I don’t know, perhaps le knew all along, but it is missing from every single one of Misty’s run through till TN mentions it. There is something very wrong with these people.
Welcome m2c, and thanks J. I think some people would rather believe they’re lying, blows my mind. Me, I’ll stick with what TJ and Captain Dick have said.
You have to go by the time lines with the lies I think he lied about things when Crystal was after Junior and didnt want to give her more ammo. I think thats why he married Misty too I dont think it would look good if it would have ended up in court.Luck for him Crystal couldnt keep her drug problem under control. jmo
Rons and his attorneys said he always was 30 – 45 minutes early for his shift. It takes approx 30 – 35 minutes for him to get to his place of work. I know when I drive from Satsuma to Putnam County hospital it takes me 25 – 30 minutes depending on traffic through east Palatka. They said he clocked in on time that Monday. I feel LE believes the witnesses. Listening to the audio of Jerry Santos they did let him know he would probably have to stand up in court and give his testimony as a witness of who picked up Haleigh.
Teresa Neves herself said that Ron and Misty were up all night Sunday night working out their differences.
It is my understanding that Haleigh was not picked up by Ron:The parents of other children at the bus stop say,MISTY picked her up in the van that afternoon.
J – Part of the quote you posted leaped out at me:
The Captain said: “Her father picked her up from the school bus and took her home in the afternoon. She was seen later in the early evening by a neighbor. And that was the last time she was seen.”
That quote completely leaves out Grandma and whoever was with her as well as the AC guy (unless he’s the neighbor but I don’t think so).
So either the neighbor was the last to see her (which would have to be in the dark after 7pm when Grandma said she was there) OR LE is ONLY going by what NON-family members are saying (and I think the AC guy was there earlier so he would not have been the last one anyway).
Interesting.
I’ve heard people say that R was usually very early for work but maybe that day he squeaked in barely “on time” and not early.
Looking for Justice, I think you said above that the boss said he clocked in on time that Monday. So “on time” might mean the time he was due to start work (4:00) rather than the usual earlier time.
listening said,in January 8th, 2010 at 12:16 pm It is my understanding that Haleigh was not picked up by Ron:The parents of other children at the bus stop say,MISTY picked her up in the van that afternoon.
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There are conflicting witness reports, according to Art Harris. Not uncommon.
Marie, I noticed that too, she mentions Tommy and the AC guy in detail but not Gma Sykes,why?
Did she maybe want LE to assume she had washed the clothes on the counter along with her story of washing the blanket? It was odd that she didnt mention it and way later it came out.
It helped her time line of being at the MH at 7:30 . jmo
Just a note, I never reply to these things, but this creeped me out the other day. I went to the doctor and above my name in the sign in sheet was the name “Haley Cummings”. I know it’s not the same spelling but when I said something to the nurse behind the counter about seeing that name and knowing this little girl to still be gone she asked well How old was this little girl and I told her 5 but it’d been 10 months and she said this little girl was about that age. I know it’s probably just a coincidence but it’s still very eerie. This is in Mobile, AL btw.
listening, we’ve heard two versions of who picked up Haleigh that day too. We were just trying to find out what LE officially said about it and we’ve found a statement from LE saying that Ron did. LE could be lying or mistaken or deliberately misleading us but it’s good to know what they said and then we can regard it however we want.
Mariesilk – I know what you mean about momma’s boyz and I think Ron is one. And in some families (of all socio-economic levels) things like laundry are “women’s work.” So grandma pitches in when girl friend drops the ball.
Heathersmommy:
It is VERY IMPORTANT that you immediately contact the police. The info is below. It should be fairly easy for PCSO to call a doctor’s office (I hope) or send local LE over with a photo of Haleigh. BTW can you print out a photo from the web and take it to the doctor’s office? Maybe they would not tell you but they could speak with the doctor and he could contact PCSO thru the info below if it is her:
INFORMATION
If you have any information and wish to remain anonymous, please call Crime Stoppers at 1-888-277-TIPS (8477) or you can Text your tip by Texting “TIP231 plus your message” to CRIMES (274637).
Heathersmommy – you could also call the doctor’s office and give them the web address for any on-line place that has a good photo of Haleigh.
It could also be those clothes were at the gmas because the kids stayed with her over the weekend and she just washed them for Ron and he forgot them on Monday. Also alot of older people call Monday laundry day. jmo
Heathermommy, did you report this to any le agency? If not you should have. Marie Griffis did state Alabama as to be one of the places someone may have her. I would contact LE and give them the day and time. The doctors office would have records of this child and what they saw her for. I agree it is eerie.
M2c, I did not hear Rons boss say he clocked in on time. I heard it from Rons lawyers on Nancy Grace.
listening @ 11:42 am – I’m sure we would appreciate your theories and info. There are a LOT of articles and blogs now. I can’t find things I wrote a week ago! lol!
It’s just the way it works sometimes that people miss it or are engrossed in another topic or move to a different article. But please don’t think your posts were ignored. We are interested!
looking for justice – Thank you for clarifying the source about checking in on time. I think LE would double-check that. PDM isn’t saying too much but maybe is keeping quiet for fear of legal trouble (from Ron) or at the request of LE. So we don’t really know if he was on time or late that day.
I just called and gave all the info. My mother in law works in another building of this office, I’ll email her the pictures of Haleigh. Anything to help find this little girl even if I am wrong.
I posted the transcript of Mike”s show where LE confirmed Ron picked up Haleigh from the bus, guess it got zapped. It’s a scared monkeys posted on 12-22 by ospainter if anyone wants to read it.
When the media coverage stops people begin to give up. They may not go to blogs and check to see if there are any updates on the child. Thank God for Jan and Simon keeping Haleigh in the news here at BNN.
m2c you are right. There is so much controversy around little Haleighs disappearance that it shocked me that they would release anyone connected to her as not being suspects that includes Ron and Crystal.JMO
It’s interesting, J.S. and his girlfriend, two “witnesses” from the busstop that afternoon both have conflicting stories. I prefer to listen to what LE says, rather than eye witnesses. We never know what MAY motivate a witness when giving a statement. LE on the other hand would have spoken to the BUS DRIVER by March 3rd when the show aired that had Capt. Schauland stating that RON picked up HaLeigh. It was the bus driver’s JOB to make sure HaLeigh had someone there pick her up. I’ll take LE’s word.
FTR, to those saying Ron started work at 4pm, Ron’s lawyer stated he started at 5pm. I have no idea if that is true or not. Just what was stated. If that’s true, it leaves Ron plenty of time to get HaLeigh at the busstop, take her home and leave for work, and still get there early (which he was said to do daily).
That is interesting J. I never heard his lawyer state what time Ron was supposed to be at work. Everywhere else including here at BNN received info that his work ours for that day were 4 – 12. The standard work schedule for the shift Ron worked was based on a 45 hour work schedule. It was from 3:30pm – 2:00 am m- thur. friday from 3:30pm – 8:00pm. I am sure Cobra stated the bus driver also said it was Misty that picked her up. Then there was a elderly man that wanted to remain anonymous and Jerry Santos and his girlfriend.
IMO he didn’t try to or want to find them:
“Other unidentified witnesses back Ronald’s account, according to sources close to the case, but I never found them. ”
Well everyone have a nice day. My granddaughter is not feeling well so I am going in to read her book. I will catch up with you all later. God Bless you all. Keeping Haleigh and Junior in my prayers along with all of other missing children.
I thought the time line the LE is questioning is from the time Gma Sykes last saw her from 7:30 until they got the call at 3;27. 7:30 is the last time anyone other than Misty saw she was there.(2 people gma Sykes and the Aunt).
After that no one else but Misty and Junior saw Haleigh. jmo
I also believe that the reason TN and GMA Sykes are sticking with Misty being at the MH is because they asked Junior if Haleigh and He left the MH and he says no. I know I would have asked him. jmo
Holly gma I am a member but for some reason I cant get logged into Blogtalkradio, it wont take my password. Hope they send me a new one before the show on Sunday.
listening said,
in January 8th, 2010 at 12:16 pm
It is my understanding that Haleigh was not picked up by Ron:The parents of other children at the bus stop say,MISTY picked her up in the van that afternoon.
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What van? The one in Crescent City? Gerald Santos has changed his story 3 times about that day and the other witness was his girlfriend and it was an AH article, the paid media consultant
I think Santos said he remembered Ron picking up Haleigh because he nearly ran them all down that morning. Just goes to reason he would have noticed the car right away . jmo
Tobias, to hear the show all you should have to do is go to the top of this page,look on the right, and see the box that reads BlogTalkRadio (with the graphic image of a microphone).
Or go to an old show by clicking on Simon’s name in the box with the name of the show. The box also has a an arrow for play. Anyway, you should not need a password to listen to the show. Anyone can do that.
Heathermommy way to go! You NEVER know what it takes to break a case, I am glad you reported that name in the dr office!
Also Santos has no beef with Ron, he did his tatoos and other family members. The one on his back and the one on his chest. jmo
M2C, You can not comment on the site without logging in.
Holly gmom please e mail me I would like to discuss something with you.
Actually, Santos may have a “beef” with Ron at the time he eventually gave those interviews with A.H. (MONTHS later). If you listen to the interviews that both Santos and his girlfriend gave, the girlfriend said she felt that Ron “threatened” her and the children. (Although, the girlfriend’s mother, who was also present, said that there was no threat by Ron, that he was just emotional given that his child had just disappeared).
It’s interesting that Jerry’s account and the girlfriend’s accounts of that afternoon at the busstop don’t totally match. I lost my notes on the interviews they both gave that gave all the differences. I’d have to go play the interviews again and make new notes, but there were numerous differences; and they were not just small ones.
yes Tobias that is what Santos said, Ron almost sideswiped his car and was driving very recklessly. IMO, if this account is true, this could be an important indication of something that about to go awry at the house.
And IMO it is going to take someone down there that was involved in what happened, if it was a family member or a member(s) of the Croslin clan, to get busted for something BIG before they get scared and tell the truth. None of this piddly getting arrested for pills stuff, something LARGE, something that LE has got some leverage with. KWIM? However, I just don;t see anyone down there being that hardened a criminal.
Well I emailed my mother in law the picture and one of the nurses confirmed that this was not Haleigh. She knows the little girl whose name I saw family and sees them everytime they are there.
whew close call then, but hey, you never know
Thank you for doing that, Heathermommy! Much better to take the time and effort to check to make sure!
Oh, Tobias, I thought you were talking about being able to hear the show. You mean the simultaneous chat room. I’ve never done that.
I can’t follow both at the same time! lol!
M2C its a good way to ask questions of the panel if you have any. Sometimes they answer.
You can always go back later to listen to the program in depth.jmo
I had an idea a while back about the road rage .
If CJ had Mistys phone number we can assume she had his. Why wouldnt she call him and ask him to stop because there are kids in the car?
It is just odd that you would not try to get him to stop if he is the one doing the road rage. And also tell him you are calling the cops on him in an effort to stop this. jmo
well Tobias that would make sense, wouldn’t it, and seriously, when have you known Misty to do something that made sense? I mean, the girl is all about drama, IMO. Even not wanting to give her/their names to the dispatcher added another element of drama, the way I see it.
I never heard any children crying in the background as I am sure they would have been if the circumstances were really as they were presented.
You do have a point about the kids being quiet, we can sure hear Ron over the phone.
He still is blaming PCSO if you listen close he says they only comeout when you are someone he needs to get a grip and try to work with everyone who is trying to help find his daughter.jmo
I myself would sell all of my extra vehicles to pay for a PI. jmo
Not to be mean but if you had a working car why would you buy a truck? and you are on unemployment and your daughter is missing. Just seems to me you would need the money more.
On his and Mistys divorce papers it says he owns 3 vehicles. jmo
yes Tobias, and I as you would be selling them to try and raise the money for a PI, too. But some people don’t think that far ahead, or maybe they do and realize it’s pointless. IDK, everyhting about the case has been so puzzling from the get go, it’s hard to imagine what is going through people’s heads.
A poster said yesterday if we would go back to the beginning and find the person who had the most notive to take Haleigh we would be totally surprised at what we came up with, what do you think they meant?
Run a KBB on the total value of all three vehicles. The combined total is almost nothing. Less than $5,000 on all 3. The 1985 truck won’t even pull up a value it is so old. If you do some research, only one of the three vehicles runs.
Tobias – Did someone tell you Ron doesn’t have a PI?
thanks for that info, J
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Holly gma, I WAS LOOKING AT PICS OF rONS TRUCK AND IT IS A SINGLE CAB HOW DO YOU TAKE 2 KIDS IN THAT?JMOO
The fib about who picked up Haleigh may have no bearing on her disappearance, but it does go to show how these people operate. They have discredited themselves in my eyes.
Ron worked 8 hour shifts. 4-12, normal hours. If he went to work at 5, he wouldn’t be done 8 hours till 1 am. All reports say Ron was usually done at 12. A half hour drive to PDM and Shoemaker told us he was early. No time ot wait around for a bus at 3:30. No one has confirmed a start time, and that is what makes it so fishy. When did Ron leave for work, when did he start and how long was he there for? And why lie to begin with? Its seems a very stupid thing to lie about.
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mariesilk, you are right. If Ron lied about it I don’t know why. And I don’t know why LE would explicity say that he did pick up Haleigh that day. I think Shoemaker was saying that Ron is usually early for work. Maybe he wasn’t that day. Maybe just on time.
Either way, I sure hope that LE was able to find out what time R got off work. That end of things seems more important to me. If the workers have to “clock out” then it seems like there’d be a record of it, that PDM would know for sure.
But lies or not, just the previous characters/history of some of these folks – nearly all – are not admirable. Poor Haleigh.
It doesn’t mean any of them are responsible for what happened to her but she was in a rough crowd. That’s one of the things that can make a child more vulnerable to all sorts of bad things happening.
I still would like to know how 2 adults and 2 kids get in a single cab truck and CJ doesnt see Misty in the truck. How do you get that many people in that truck. I own a extended cab,not a dual cab ( mine has jump seats)and there is no way you can get more than three people up front.Especially with a car seat. jmo
Unreal, so now LE is lying? Give me a break
curious, that’s been one of the big problems throughout this. LE states something and some people choose not to believe it!
I’ve never seen a case like this – where that happens. I’m not saying people don’t have a right to doubt LE but in this case particularly where we have NO info or evidence or statements pertinent to this case, we have less than nothing if we discount LE and then have to pick and choose who’s telling the truth about what.
So that really leave us with NO stepping stones to cross this roaring river!
Mc2 If you believe LE then you believe Misty is the key right? jmo
Tobias, there are several possibilities.
One is that CJ knew Misty was in the truck with R and that’s what p’d him off to start with! So calling him would make him even madder. Or CJ did NOT know she was in the truck and that would make him madder.
And also, gosh knows you think every word out of her mouth is a lie, so maybe CJ would not believe her about having kids in the car. I mean what’s he going to do? Say, “Oh, gosh. So sorry. Let’s schedule this for another day?” LOL! Probably not when he’s that angry and the adrenaline is pumping.
So you think this was all CJ?jmo
Tobias, one does not equal the other. Like you believe some things Misty said and not others.
I can believe (or hope, really) that official statements of times and events that LE checked out are true. It does not mean that I have to think they’ve investigated this whole case thoroughly from the start or haven’t goofed up or covered up (possibly their own mistakes). I don’t think you read my comments because I’ve been doubting a lot of things about LE and about R & M and the Sheffield side since the beginning.
Misty lied about the kids. Where do you put 2 car seats in a single cab truck? jmo
Tobias, my gosh. Please read my comments sometime at least! I don’t know why else you don’t know what I think about these things!
Just the other day I contributed to discussions about R being responsible and then CJ and then said it could have been typical testosterone-based road rage between two guys!
I also said that I do not think we have enough info to really blame either one. So my mind is still open on that until more info comes out!
Tobias – A lot of people don’t always put kids in car seats. I know and they know that it’s against the law but they still do it. So that is not enough reason for me to decide for a fact that Misty is lying – nor is the fact that we can’t hear the children. Neither Misty nor Ron were yelling. All the kids knew was that the car was swerving (if they weren’t sleeping). And if you want to believe the children were scared, well I”ve seen little ones so scared they did not utter a sound.
So again, to me, not enough for me to make that decision.
Please understand that I am open to these things as possiblities. I just can’t make a final decision as quick as you do.
My post doesnt say anything about the road rage. Misty lied about the kids. No way can you transport 2 kids in car seats in a single cab pickup. Or maybe you think they were in the bed? jmo
Its not rocket science, sorry. jmo
Our posts kind of crossed, Tobias. Please see my 5:52 about the kids/car seats topic.
I thought you were talking about the road rage thing when you asked, “So you think this was all CJ?” at 5:42 pm.
Did I misunderstood what you were asking about?
What’s not rocket science?
I own a truck. Even without car seats you can not fit 2 kids in there. She was lying, thats why its not in her written and signed statement. jmo
She didnt think that the 911 tapes would get out, she didnt know Cj was on the phone with 911 until after she had lied. Then when she made the statement she left that out and so did Ron. Remember she did not leave her name. jmo
The only way LE knew it was them was because CJ told them.jmo
Until I see the inside of THAT truck, and imagine Ron and Misty in it, possibly with kids on her lap, I can’t decide that’s right.
It’s fine for you to but I can’t. I have to leave that open for now.
Tobias, just about everything you say, I can say that something else is equally possible because there are no facts to back it up. What you call facts sometimes are really assumptions. It’s your opinion. And it’s influenced by your feelings about R & M (negative ones). But that’s fine. You’re entitled.
M2C, Your telling us 2 kids crammed in a single cab pick up and 2 adults getting run off the side of the road is going to be as quiet as the 911 tape we heard? Heck I would be screaming. Kids make noise when even when they arent scared. You must have never gone on any road trips with kids? Ear plugs come in handy. lol jmo
I have to go for now. Have a good evening!
bye
Tobias, you know what YOU would do and what YOUR kids would do. There are a lot of different people in this world and they don’t all react the same. In fact some adults would purposely keep their voices calm in order not to scare the children but I’m not claiming that M did that. Just saying some people would. And no I don’t think kids make noise every second except maybe when on a ride at a theme park. Once in a while they breathe, sleep, eat etc.
Bye for now!
Oh and yes I have personally seen children who were so scared that they were completely silent. So I can believe that. That tells me that not all children react the same to things. Now I really mean ‘Bye for now!”
In the divorce paperwork it states (re Ron’s white truck he was driving the nut of the incident with CJ.. because he was not driving the 85 truck, he was driving the truck with the “writing on it”, as CJ stated, which is the 1995 model)
So:
“If needed, wife shall convey all right, title and interest in and to that certain 1995 GMC Sierra Pickup truck… ” (snipped as that is all that is needed)
So, Ron was driving a 1995 GMC Sierra pickup truck.
Model Sierra C1500
Year 1995
Engine Size 4.3L – 6 Cylinders • 5.0L – 8 Cylinders
Seating Capacity 3 Seats • 6 Seats
Fuel Type Gasoline
Class Pickup Truck
(Not sure if this link is allowed, but this shows up on many sites).
So, if both Ron and Misty had on a seatbelt, there are still 4 seatbelts available to strap in car or booster seats. (3 seats = 2 in the front and one long seat in the back)
I’m not sure,but I heard that Ron said there was no detergent at the mobile home;also the washer and dryer supposedly were still running as law enforcement arrived
Go to the videos of the truck it is a single cab pick up.
I have a question. With drugs so prevalant in this area did PCSO give Misty a drug test?
And if they didnt why not she was the last person to see Haleigh. You can bet if you were her you would be drug tested. jmo
Even Greta van sustern asked her if she had been drinking or anything that made her sleep so sound . It was in a video. jmo
And I dont beleive Misty did anything to Haleigh but I believe she knows who did. jmo
Listening…. it was reported by Art Harris/Tim Miller/Cobra that he said that there was no detergent… I believe!!
Tobias… If no drug test was done on Misty.. Maybe it’s because they already knew about here party weekend.
Holly Gmom, Please e mail me with a response to my e mail. I need the recipe you were sending me and the site I can find it on.
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If they did she would have been arrested for child endangering. imo
Did you receive my e mail?
Found the info and I agree. The hamburger is the key to a good chilli. I also like the site you told me about, cant wait to try some of the recipes out on it. See you later.
Good Night Everyone and say an extra bidg Prayer for Haleigh and Junior tonight they need all of us .
mC2 You need to get OFF of Tobias’ case and everyone else you disagree with… The going back and forth with Tobias was really sad…and very petty. You seem to have your mind made up that R & M are totally innocent which is still up in the air as they are/were Haleigh’s “parents” and the last people to see her….Like Tobias said, It is not rocket science. I will give you this mc2….Everyone is innocent until proven quilty. So please, in the future don’t be so quick to dismiss theories that involve the parents. That is how it works….
PS…Grow up
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The couple that was trying to adopt baby Gabriel.
Does anyone else feel that Tammi and Jack Smith are loving the spot light…
I DO NOT TRUST THEM!!!
Good heavens, Blue Moon. What you said to me would be a little more appropriate to address to Tobias, don’t you think? Tobias is the one insisting she is right – all day everyday about everything and always with the same people at fault no matter what anyone else thinks.
I’m having a conversation WITH HER that I have (and am entitled to) other opinions. What is wrong with that?
I think it would help – and I was hoping that Tobias would understand that others are entitled to their opinions, too, without being hounded about them.
I think you’ve got this whole thing backwards.
And I am NOT dismissing theories. I am suggesting additional ones. Tobias is the one who dismisses all theories that differ from hers. (especially mine)
And I do NOT think R & M are totally innocent of everything. I’m just tired to death of seeing them blamed for everything. There ARE other interpretations of the same info we have.
I’ve said that Tobias is entitled to her opinions. I’d like the same in return – instead I get continuous non-stop arguments.
You haven’t noticed that?
Case in point…
*******Tobias is the one who dismisses all theories that differ from hers. (especially mine)
It is really, and I mean REALLY NOT ABOUT YOU!!!
Oh Believe me!!! I have noticed the arguments. That is what is non-productive….It is not about you and your SUDDEN theories.. this is about a little girl that is missing. Take a chill mc2, back off, read what you wrote, and digest it. Then come back and tell me and EVERYONE else that you are not out of line….PLEASE.
I do not have “sudden” theories.
I don’t think this is about me – unless you and some others are making it so?
I would like to be allowed my opinion even when it differs from others (including Tobias)
If this is about a little girl, and you really want to discuss what could have happened, then why are only Tobias’s comments and opinions okay?
I am not out of line.
Good night and please take the hostile attitude with you when you leave.
Waaaahhh! Give me a break..it is about you. You are allowed your opinion, but it seems to be YOUR opinion ONLY. Just settle down mc2 this is not a popularity contest. And Tobias, Hollysgmom, Treece, Vasqu..are the only one’s that post regular that don’t have their panties in a wad when someone questions them. This is an open forum…..be OPEN!
All,
This is an open forum, and it is also a public forum—meaning that anyone in the world can see comments left here. That includes Haleigh, should the most positive outcome occur. It also includes Haleigh’s relatives and friends, who love her dearly, and are devestated that she is gone. There should be some respect for these individuals, as again this is PUBLIC forum. That said, I do agree that until Haleigh is found…EVERYONE needs to be a suspect. That much should be a given. Yes, anyone of the players, and/or complete strangers may have taken her. We simply do not have enough evidence to point in ANY direction. As a result, everyone’s theories are as good as anyone elses. Maybe LE have more evidence that they are not releasing, maybe they dont. The point is there is not evidence in public domain to be certain about ANYTHING. Yes, we can theorize about anyone and anything, but lets remember again that the players are hurting, and until someone is convicted, all the players deserve our prayers and respect.
Blue Moon, I have not blogged on here all week because of the bickering that has been going on here but since you mentioned me I think I should respond. I thank you and know what you said was a compliment to me, so please know that I appreciate that and what I am about to say is not against you. I know you aren’t on here much and probably haven’t seen the whole picture. M2c has blogged on here much longer than myself, Tobias or Hollysgmom. For the months that I have been on here she, Paw69 and Vaquera have been some of the kindest and fairest posters on here. I can see if you were just reading a few of the current blogs that you might think m2c is picking at someone but that has not been the case. For the past few weeks there has been such an agenda to BASH Ron & Misty and blame them for EVERYTHING she has spent many of her post defending them, just trying to bring the blog back into some kind of balance. It has gotten to be such a Ron bashing blog that she is about the only one left on here that stands up for him or tries to keep an open mind or a balanced debate. If you have kept up with her ideas and theories all along she does NOT necessarily think Ron or Misty are innocent, she just wants us to keep in view the FACT that there is NO evidence against them. Until there is, we need to be open to other options or theories. Many of the post lately make statements as though they are facts that are just not based on truth. I just wanted to let you know how I see what has been going on here. This is just my opinion and I appreciate you letting me tell you.
bonanzajb, thank you, that is a lovely post and so, so true.
Sorry…thank you Treece and bjb for clarifying. m2c…sorry.
Thank you Blue Moon for considering what I said instead of getting mad. I sincerely appreciate it. Hope you have a great week end!!! Treece
Of Course…and you too!
cent said,
in January 8th, 2010 at 8:49 pm
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The couple that was trying to adopt baby Gabriel.
Does anyone else feel that Tammi and Jack Smith are loving the spot light…
I DO NOT TRUST THEM!!
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Yes and I don’t either but I have a feeling in my gut she killed that baby, so hope I’m wrong but I get a Casey Anthony vibe from her.
another day another silly fight on BNN.
M2C ya gotta stop taking it all so personal. We all seem to be OK with different theories, except you. I see Tobias trying to politely decline your point of view, only to have you reiterate it again. And again. For days now. I lose my patience just scrolling past the posts, I can’t imagine if it was aimed at me. I do respect your point of view and have been reading your posts here long before joining.
Ron and Misty do deserve the benefit of the doubt, we all agree. Most actions/events of the players in this case can be explained by multiple scenarios. But it doesn’t mean that we can’t analyze what they say and do. Because Haleigh deserves the truth and if I feel like RC is lying, then I feel like RC is lying. Your opinion won’t change my mind. (hypothetical situation)
ETA: Still haven’t been able to find anywhere credible to link to where le confirms RC’s original story of being the one to pick up Haleigh from the bus.
Glad to see you back, treece! =)
I took a little time off also. Glad to see some familiar “faces”.
As always, praying for HaLeigh. So sad that we are coming upon a year & we “seem” no closer to finding this precious child than we were on day 1. I’d LOVE to think LE knows SOMETHING — ANYTHING… but when I hear things like LE brought in Charlie Jones to question HIM… it makes me feel like they don’t know a whole lot. SAD… SO, SO SAD!
Poor HaLeigh. The devastation that her family (the innocent ones) must be feeling breaks my heart.
J, thank you!! I think one thing we all agree on is (the innocent ones) are suffering terribly. I can’t imagine the pain some of them have endured. I am so sorry for their heart ache.
We have to stand United and strong. There’s not hardly any place available on the net that isn’t bashing Ron and Misty, the Cummings to a horrible degree daily. I come here because I can read and discuss openly and fairly everyone’s opinions on all the aspects of this blank case of missing Haleigh.
We have to talk reasonably with each other, please, I beg you. There’s no where else I can go read and post about this case that isn’t mericlessly destroying this side of the family. It’s hurtful, wrong and one day many will suffer as they have caused this family and honest innocent citizens like ourselves to endure by caring about this case.
I’ve seen all the posters here be above the fray of stalking agenda posters, with the exceptions of the trolls and haters, who Jan quickly bans and deletes inappropriate attacking posts. We can get along, for Haleigh and her families sake. For our own solace and sovereinty. Peace.
When we talk about those we feel maybe involved, especially any family member, we can get our points across and not be disrespectful in the process. Our points can be made professionally with better zeal and passion than being writer haters. We’re above that.
I tried to read each of the responses to this blog. One thing that caught my eye and I think is probably far more important than the syntax that Ronald used the night of the 911 call(I don’t mind others discussing it, I’m just not sure if it is as important as something else I saw here)—someone up there^^^^ pointed out— That if we go with the scenario that Haleigh was removed from her bed while Misty slept a few feet away. How did the person that broke in, know that Misty would not hear them coming in the screen door, how would that know that she would not hear them come through the back door itself and prop it open? How would they know that she would sleep while the crept down the hall, into the master bedroom (how did they know that Haleigh slept in that room?) and lift her, and carry her out without Misty waking up? How did they know they could do all that and Misty wouldn’t hear a word? Interesting.
That would seem like good questions however no one knows Haleigh was in her bed. Even if she was several cases have transpired where a child was in their room with whole families in the house and the child taken by complete strangers how were they done? Baby Brandon was in his crib in his parents room taken while bio Mom slept and taken by two people how was that done? Polly Klass, Jessica Lunsford, & numerous others while the parent/parents slept through it. Never under estimate the capabilities of a predator. Wait for facts this could turn out to be a neighbour. IMO either LE has completely new information on some one not affiliated with the families at least not personally or they have another whack up crack story like the Tommy CROSLIN NONSENSE or have a lead by questionable grounds. Bond for free for exchange of info that can’t be substantiated & they are hoping for another to substantiate it & it will never happen or they are flat out full of BS. I find it interesting that the 911 dispatcher tells Jones she does not have the authority & cannot advice on legal matters yet the LE says the dispatcher handled the call alright because she gave excellent legal advice and knows the law. hmmm lol What bad liars they are. Further to that is the issue that the questioned asked to be addressed is the obvious lack of regard on behalf of the dispatcher regarding the children however that is not the question they answered or even remotely touched on, WOW. Yes these families have every right to want the FBI to take full control ASAP Please!!!!
IMHO I think this LE department is afraid of what the truth may present if it is not Misty. I think they are very afraid of the possibility that if someone took Haleigh and was holding her for a while & then did the unthinkable will that present how they possibly failed in initial searches? I think they are afraid of it not being Misty which would leave them looking foolish after all their media rants. I think their own concerns for their own selves has taken priority over what needs to be the first priority “finding Haleigh” no matter what or whom it reveals. As an every day person out there being asked to take in what they put out there I am rather insulted. I’m insulted that they are using the media to gather up bias support based on bias presentations of highly questionable claims and sources. Do they really think the public is that stupid? What about the importance of Justice? What about not placing Justice at risk for the victim for the families and the community why are they even using the media the way they have? Their behaviour to me seems desperate and completely disregarding right & wrong, the need for Justice to fairly run its course so we remain a civil and humane society. They are suppose to be the for most face of that message yet they are in their own actions completely diminishing the importance of that message. This team of who ever it is has a lot to look at if they are capable of looking at the possibility they messed up then they have a chance at finding Haleigh. As for emotional tolls on LE I understand it must be hard however emotional tolls make for foggy vision and reactions. They can cry once she is found until then they are the anchor and need to be 100% professional, sounds cold but that is just how it is.
God Bless Haleigh and all her families
This is not the first child abduction to be reported in the media and its not the first for LE they have to follow all leads even if they are of the families. I am sure they have researched all of the past abductions and have formed a guide to follow in an investigation.
These are trained and educated people, they know what they are doing. If it appears they do not, it may be because they cant get any of these parties to tell the truth. And I feel that if the families want her to be found they will endure any questioning no matter how painful. Teresa Neves even said she would give anything but her children and grandchildren, I believe she would. But I also believe she does not know anything about what happened. Others do and will lie to cover other secrets they have that they dont want made public. And some that may be lying to stay out of jail. That is my opinion and I dont believe I am alone in it.
Who had opportunity, who knew where she slept,
who knew Ron would be at work, who knew where the bricks were in the yard,who knew Misty either slept sound or was not there, who knew the area well,and who knew there were no dogs in the area that would bark,and who knew how to make it look like a SO ? JMO
Here are a few more questions to ponder.
Who knew Ron had gone to work and not called off, who knew Misty was there and not another family member?, who could explain away why they would be out walking in the area if someone saw them, who knew they could do this and get away with it? jmo
I also have researched robberys and home invassions. Usually the person robbing will watch for a pattern (like when people leave and when the house is unoccupied) in which to get in and get out without detection. This would apply but these people have no set pattern to their lives. People are in and out,awake and asleep at differing hours. One of the Grandmas said they leave the TV on at night alot. That is the main reason I do not believe this was a stranger, this person knew so much before they even entered the MH that night. And remember Ron had only lived there for a couple of months and had only been on night shift for 4-5 weeks. jmo
M2c, You say I always bash Misty and Ron. At no point will you ever find in my posts that I say Ron or Misty hurt Haliegh. I believe they may have indirectly been involved by knowing the person responcible or in Mistys case be covering for the person who did this. In no way do I think they harmed Haleigh knowingly.
At one point I even stuck up for Ron when someone said he used drugs. I know you can not be on drugs and work at PDM Bridge as a crane opperator drug tests are extemely accurate now.
And anything I have said about either person
is my opinion as to their behavior when there is an incident involving them.jmo
Also we can not comment on Crystal or her family if there is nothing to comment about. Except that they are being very quiet and not involved in any incidents, so far anyways. When or if they are I will be on debating my opinion with that too. jmo
We can debate an opinion on anything we want, including whether or not there are aliens from other planets that visit Earth. We need to remember that opinions without solid facts to back them up are like a**holes, everybody has one. I personally am not looking for a debate on opinions without facts.
Fact is Haleigh is missing and fact is no one has found her or the person responcible.
Will she ever be found who knows? The person responcible knows.
I think the person who did this watches everything that is going on and with every day he/she feels safer the colder this case gets. I am sure they would like nothing better than for all of us to go away. jmo
I have one more thing to add before I leave for the day. If it were my child I would not be able to trust anyone around me or my child. I would forever wonder where my child is and if she were alive. I would look into everyones eyes and wonder did you do it? I would need to know. I could never really moveon.jmo
Good points made by everyone. I don’t think that this baby is ever going to be found. I pray that she is, and can be laid to rest. I just don’t see that it will happen. I don’t think anyone will ever be charged for her death either. It’s a shame.
Not unless, like alot of other cases, someone slips and says something that incriminates someone. But then again we dont know what LE has. jmo
Tobias said,in January 9th, 2010 at 3:05 pmI think the person who did this watches everything that is going on and with every day he/she feels safer the colder this case gets. I am sure they would like nothing better than for all of us to go away. jmo
i agree tobias!!! plus anyone who may be protecting the guilty!!!!
Anyone with the audacity to enter a home and kidnap a child while an adult and another child are present (or even to kidnap a child, regardless of who is present), does not care if we are writing about his/her/their crime. In fact, a sociopath will get a high off of our attention. The more that is written about the crime, the greater the high.
bonanzajellybean said,in January 9th, 2010 at 10:32 pm
hello bjb!
– i am not sure if you are stating a counterpoint argument to what is stated above
– or adding another possibility and a another way to look at it
– or are you possibly stating what you think is more/most likely to be what you think happened here. sincerely and tia, ms.p.
No argument, as there is nothing to argue with. I just cant believe that anyone so brazen to have done what he/she/they did (possibly including murder-intentional or not) and not have confessed by now has any feelings of guilt or discomfort whatsoever, and after one year certainly would have no fear of getting caught. If indeed it was a child predator/sociopath, the high of not getting caught may be lifted more by the constant public attention to the case. The only ones that I see that would love for us to go away is LE—who after one year are no closer to finding Haleigh than the night she disappeared. LE would love the media scrutiny of their competence to go away.
I think we need to look into Somer & Haleigh’s abductors having a Jacksonville connection. Didn’t Crystal live with a man in Jax? He would have been around Haleigh at some point or even just seen a picture. He might have become fixated. Then he found Somer….I hate to think so, but it is still a possibility. Maybe not the guy Crystal lived with, could be a friend or relative of his, maybe a neighbor they had….I know many don’t want to make a connection due to Somer being found murdered. I understand, It’s a hard road to go down ,even just to theorize, but don’t we owe it to both girls to find out for sure. Maybe Deinda & Crystal had a friend in common, male, I’m sure. Were they ever neighbors? Surely it would have been mentioned if they had ever met. Just thinking out loud…..
ty bjb for your answer.
—i understand better now!
—about le, i would think the law would want as much press (blogs incld) as possible in a missing persons case. in this case i am hoping they are working on something hush hush. but, i do understand why most are concerned, so am i!
gd mrn holly’s, i too have/am wondering about a possible connection between the two cases. i have been hoping fbi, le, or pcso or somer’s pol. dept have made an attempt with the families to see if they have anyone in common, if that is possible to do. even if they don’t (hve smone in comm) i still wonder if it is the same person that targeted these two children. yes it is terrible to think about.
in regards to previous post
i remember polly saying (she had lived in a m.h.), she thought to much noise for a intruder coming in and not waking misty up, especially coming into the same room and maybe even up to the same bed. so that is why some have trouble believing an abduction happened. by a known or an unknown person to the family or to haleigh herself. at least out of the m.h.
but, for the sake of looking at all possibilities, i am just wondering if
-misty was really zonked out,
-the tv was left on so noise from a intruder might be partially muted
-and if ron and misty were used to children sleeping in their room, they might not notice movement as much when sleeping.
——-sooo WAS someone able to come into a “noise-making” mobile home.
– maybe someone who was observing them that week.
– maybe even with all the “ta do” that week, everyone was distracted or less likely to notice if someone was watching them.
– or smone very good at being able to blend in to community or area
– and don’t forget – next door m.h was empty. (maybe someone was goin in e.m.h. or empty m.h. just made it easier to hide in that yard.
– or it was someone known to haleigh herself. so could have lured her out somehow?
***all possible. .but, i do see why le and others say not a stranger abd. .a awful lot of ifs, for that to have happened. so i am thinking more possible by someone known to family or haleigh. (of course, if it was even a 1/10 of 1% chance and it is you, well then statistics don’t mean anything to you.)
in my opinion it just seems unlikely to have happened the way m & r said. or maybe they have a unusually quiet m.h. and m.c. just happened to wake when r.c. was nearly home and her intincts didn’t tell her to call police (not even for her own or r.jr.’s safety)till r.c. told her to.
note: if it was a stranger abduction, the stranger might be familiar with similar or same m.h. – not necc. that m.h. itself. .in this particular case, the mobile home had recently been advertised on the internet for rent with pics of the inside rooms iirc
well i could not sleep and hope i made sense. no more posts for a while. everyone have a wonderful day!!!
Holly GMom, I got the woolies when they talked about the house that Somer disappeared at was being renovated(drywall) was that ever looked into who did the drywall in that house? Like I said it gave me the woolies. jmo
Also who was renovating that trailer that used the dumpster in Satsuma? Is there any connection? Just thinking there could be since the areas are close. jmo
In the somer case I think this person watched for the opportunity, was there in the area for days before they took her, and has anyone notice the days are 10 in the2 of the 3 unsolved cases?
Jan. 10- Feb. 10- Oct. 19 are there any more in the area? And the months , those are months that snow birds from other areas come down to florida. Just thinking of possibilities. jmo
I live in a gated community up north and alot of seniors are snow birds they leave right after Christmas and return around the end of March or early April. There was a gap in the disapearences and murder of Somer T. just a theory I have been looking at. jmo
I have been following this case from the beginning and the first thing that struck me and has never left my thoughts is the fact that the first interviews I saw of Misty crying in that high pitched barely intelligible voice, where there was no eye contact, was that she constantly said “I loved that little girl” and used past tense to refer to Haleigh. She also never said the child’s name. She kept saying things like “I was like her mother, I loved her, etc.” but never just flat out looked at the camera and said “Haleigh I miss you and if you can see this find a way to find a phone, but get home!” She was telling a story to me not calling out for the safe return of this child.
It was what she didn’t say that was so telling. I know she was coming off a drug binge and one thing about the favored xanax is that is causes amnesia in high doses, maybe she truly didn’t remember a lot but she sure knew that “She lovED that little girl”.
I just cannot get over that. With everything else, the fact that she didn’t immediately call 9-11, the fact that she couldn’t get her story straight either, the house was spotless, beds were perfectly made, didn’t look as though the house was even lived in let alone a child was just stolen!
Something stinks really bad with this case. I really think the accidental overdose theory is a very feasible one. A lot of druggies give their kids Benadryl when they want them to knock out so they can party, you can give a child an overdose of that too. Not sure how accurate a dose measurer would be coming off of polydrugging for a weekend straight. Especially since the cravings for more would have been so strong, she would’ve had the shakes, the sweats, very cranky, very high strung, lights, noises, everything would bother her. One more thing about coming off of drugs: insomnia. If she wasn’t using, she would not have been able to sleep, what-so-ever.
I have peripheral neuropathy and was on Duragesic patches but became allergic to them so they took me off of them, the dose of the alternate drug given wasn’t high enough and I had withdrawal symptoms, when I say they were bad, that is an understatement. I had to go to the hospital, I was going crazy! That is why I refuse to use those meds anymore, no way will I have something like that run my life. Imagine if I was a heavy duty Oxy head like these guys are.
My cousins ex-fiance went into a rage and almost choked her to death because he couldn’t score any oxycontin and he used 3 of the 80mg tabs per day. It only took him 4 hours to start acting really crazy. Imagine this woman, mad at RC, left with these kids, especially one she had to spank sometimes to “keep her in line”, wanting drugs, getting the cravings, the stomach cramps, the shakes, and sweats, dizziness, extreme fatigue, pain, and just being really out of sorts having to deal with arguments with RC on the phone, probably because she wanted to score and he wanted her to stay home with the kids, and she just wanted drugs.
I can see why she would resort to having someone, anyone bring her something. What did she have to pay with? Her body. If the reports about JR saying the couch was bouncing is accurate, most likely that is what happened, she had sex for drugs to stop the massive withdrawal. When someone is in the state, nothing else matters.
For all we know, RC snitched on this person or their boss in the past (if he was/is a narc)and they were waiting for a chance to get back at him. Once Misty was comatose, they seized the opportunity and took the child.
That is how the “B****” got his child stole. Any a number of things happened, but Misty is the most logical the link. There is no humanly way possible that she came off that binge with such intense withdrawal that most definitely occurs that she had no ill effects and just did laundry, put the kids to bed, and played Suzy Homemaker like a big girl.
These are my opinions but knowing how bad withdrawal can be, and knowing she couldn’t go to a hospital which is what she really needed not more drugs, she had to get the fix and this was the cost.
Of course she won’t admit that. If you were raised in that situation and had the heavy addiction she does, would you?
This child died because of drug abuse. The people who introduced her to the addicts and dealers are completely responsible. Anyone who knew what was happening and didn’t stop it, is completely responsible. She didn’t stand a chance. I hope Daddy can clean himself up for Jr’s sake. That little boy deserves a fighting chance to be a better man than those around him turned out to be.
(JMO, of course)
MomInWis;
You make some very valid points….especially about withdrawl symptoms from Coke & oxy/Roxy. The pills are synthetic HEROIN. Just becasue it doesn’t come straight from a Poppy plant doesn’t mean it isn’t addictive like regular heroin. There are classic withdrawl symptoms from herion (synthetic or otherwise). The only way to stop them from occurring is either “hair of the dog that bit you” aka more oxy/roxy OR morphine. I had an uncle who was in Nam. He used heroin when off-duty and they would come back and “pop” a morphine ampule and suffer no withdrawls or ill effects. It would make them puke right away, then all was good. BTW heroin will also make you puke when first taken. Oxy/Roxy also.
Misty will always be circumspect in my book, no matter what. Everyone else may not be but she IS.
Some say follow the money….I say take a good listen to the original 911 call audio. He says some things to her (that I’m sure LE have alreasy heard and analysed) that should raise some questions to the validity of her story as well as makes one wonder what else he has kept silent about, if anything.
Has everyone moved to a diff thread or site? No updates here…
Hi, Blue Moon!
Yes, I think people moved to another article.
The easiest way to find it is to scroll to the top of this screen and type in Haleigh Cummings in the Search bar on the right and click on Search. The article we are on is the first one on that list (until a newer one comes out).
It is called: “Haleigh Cummings and other Upcates- BNN Radio Sunday Jan/10″
Gotcha! Thanks m2c!!
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