Welcome to my first blog article. Since this is my first article I wanted to mention who I am, what I am about, and how I came to be here at Blogger News Network.
I am an adult survivor of chronic childhood abuses. I have spent the past 15+ years learning, growing, and making positive changes for myself, as well as others. The answer to ” what I am about” is helping promote awareness and education about specific sets of social issues and how they affect us all in daily life. The answer on how I came to be here is easy. I have been a fan of the Blogger News Network for about a year now. I have actively followed the coverage of several Missing Child cases that were being reported by site administrators Simon & Jan Barrett. I appreciate their unwavering honesty and insistence upon validation of information that is used. This is the standard they not only hold themselves to, but also reports made by their peers. They have welcomed visitors to use their own voices & exercise their own freedom of speech, so long as it is not offensive, not a direct attack, does not use unsubstantiated information as fact, and complies with the law. It has been through that outlet that I have discovered my own voice and need to be heard in reference to my history as an adult survivor of childhood abuse; physically, sexually, mentally, emotionally, etc.
During my experience following a couple different Missing Child cases I realized I might have something to offer other concerned citizens. It didn’t matter if they also followed these cases or just wanted to make a difference themselves, I have valuable insights into several specific areas of social problems. The first of these topics is to be a look into what a survivor of abuse, rape, and/or kidnapping would endure not only during the traumatic event, but also the life-long effects of such experience(s) and their impact on the survivors life and those they love.
The National statistic for survivors of these traumas being diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is “-Eighty percent of young adults who had been abused met the diagnostic criteria for at least 1 psychiatric disorder at the age of 21 (including depression, anxiety, eating disorders, &post-traumatic stress disorder)” per http://www.childhelp.org/resources/learning-center/statistics
It is my goal to raise awareness and to help educate the public not only on this specific topic to include: National Statistics, Symptoms & Treatments, Information for loved ones and what they can do to help. All to include links to Nationally recognized sources & resources. I also plan to offer my readers my own personal insights & opinions on these topics with credits & links to verifiable sources that support my feelings & theories. I often read or hear people asking questions like “What is it going to take to stop this?” or “What can I do to help?” I have often pondered those sentiments myself. The conclusions I have come to are:
1) A person’s honest willingness to really look at these abuses and issues surrounding them.These include not only current issues, but future outcomes as well. What you will find is that it’s often raw, gritty, and not for the faint of heart. We all must make an honest effort to effect positive change.
2) The need for education via Nationally recognized sources of information. We need people who desire to learn more & use it daily within your personal experiences with victims,potential victims, and others.
3) The gift of contribution through various outlets. Internet public forums and particularly this blog offer people a place to contribute, either through sharing their own experiences or even through offering support of another. One may also contribute through: involvement with Nationally recognized Non-Profit Organizations, forming a new NPO, victims advocacy groups, Guardian Ad Litem programs, Adoption & Foster Care systems, volunteering at suicide & crisis prevention hot-lines, as well as in many other ways. No matter how you choose to contribute to the battle against social injustices & child abuse, the most critical decision you’ll make is to decide you care. Anything that follows will be a move in the right direction.
My decision to use the motion picture Black Snake Moan by Craig Brewer, as a guideline for this series of articles is due to it’s honest, cutting-edge look into the lives of abuse survivors. It gives an honest, insider view of these abuse victims and challenges they face daily, and for the rest of their lives. It is one of my favorite movies of all time. It’s author and director gives a no-punches-pulled, almost voyeuristic glimpse at this group, their actions, and common motivators.The Author/Director is himself a victim of stress induced anxiety attacks. I applaud his choice to shine some light onto this national as well as global issue. I would also like to take a moment to thank Samuel L Jackson, Christina Ricci, Justin Timberlake, and supporting cast in their choice to follow Craig Brewer out onto that ledge with their honest, even painful, portrayals of their characters. This movie is so true-to-life it made me wonder if Craig had been lurking through the shadows of my own young adulthood.
Since I had been following Missing Children’s cases I couldn’t help but see how these issues, the characters in this movie, and make comparisons with people involved in Haleigh Cumming’s life, those who had access to her, or responsibilities towards her. I plan to discuss these comparisons as they relate to these issues, the characters in BSM, and my own experiences. I think of this as a journey. One that heads us toward a better tomorrow for us all. I hope you choose to come along.
Movie available for purchase at Amazon
***Next article to cover chapters 1-2 of the BSM DVD. I plan to dissect those chapters in regard to the actions of the characters, the motives behind such actions, and/or contributing factors. There will also be direct personal accounts from the Author/Director via the DVD commentary & myself. I also plan to include any personal insights or conclusions as they pertain to the Haleigh Cummings Missing Child case. Don’t miss it!

















11 users commented in " Movie Review: Black Snake Moan; by Craig Brewer: Life Imitating Art Imitating Life; A Survivor’s Perspective "
Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackHello,Lesa Conway!
I enjoyed your very informative and interesting article. It is well written.
I look forward to your future articles. It is commendable of you to share your personal experiences regarding child abuse, etc.
I am an active advocate for child, elderly and animal abuse. I feel these are segments of society that need a “voice” to ensure their treatment and protection by society.
I, like many others, have been working with my State Representatives and we have seen new laws enacted in our state. I am currently working with issues that I hope will be introduced in my state’s next legislative session.
I think it would be wonderful if Simon and Jan would do a one-on-one interview with you. It would help raise awareness in the plight of child abuse. I know many folks that do not read blog sites but they do listen to radio programs.
Lesa, I am wishing you the very best in your endeavor. I am looking forward to your future articles!
Very well written article. Not only informative for others, but I’m hoping by making others aware, it could help you in the ongoing healing process.
I know you probably don’t feel this way, but you may be an angel in disguise to some. There are those who have probably been dealing with this pain in their own private hell thinking no one would understand, or have been threatened in some way with what would happen if they did tell, or maybe be ashamed. Children most often blame themselves. They need to know it is never their fault.
I too am looking forward to your articles.
Justice mentioned you possibly doing a one on one interview with Simon & Jan. I think it’s a great idea. You may be able to shed some light on this. You know what to look for and how these people feel. Who better to be an advocate?
I hate that you had to go through this at all, but you are doing a very courageous thing by talking about it and helping others. You have a special place in heaven.
Justice & Stormgardner;
I want to thank you for your comments. They are precious words to me. I had been somewhat nervous as to what the response to my first article would be or even if there would be any response(s). LOL I really do appreciate you feedback, ideas, and personal involvement with these issues. Together we may be able to help stop the suffering. I am very excited about this series, as well as a few others I have plans for in the future. I expect to post the 2nd installment by Saturday/Sunday.
PS I like the interview by Simon & Jan idea too! Although I would be a little nervous too.
SOOOOO WELL PUT YOU WRITE LIKE A PRO!!!!!
you forgot to include the movie review..
GMOM AT SOME POINT WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT A TOPIC ON RECOVERY, AND PREGNANCY?OR DOCTORS MISTAKES, HOW THEY AFFECT SOME FOREVER??[hint,hint]
Pinkie/humbled There is a new show airing on TLC I believe, that covers that exact topic. I think it could be a very timely issue. I will be thinking about what all I would like to say. I feel strongly about interviewss with people who have lived it, since it is not something I have experienced myself. Be thinking about what you would want the “world” to know.
Pt 2 of my continuing series will be posted soon. Part 2 goes in depth from scene one chapter one, through end scene chapter 2 of the DVD. There is so much to discuss.
For some this movie is mild entertainment and that’s great. For others this film is a wealth of information into the destructive behavior patterns of abuse survivors, even better. You can walk away from it’s viewing shaking your head and wondering “Why that girl is such a slut?” or you can walk away from it’s viewing, and hopefully my finished review series with a more complete understanding of these people, thier issues, and what, if anything, one can do to help them overcome or get control over the destructive behaviors. I hope you all choose to continue along with me.
After reading your articles, I can now in hind sight recognize some of the things you talked about. I will never judge someone again based just on what I see. With sexual abuse cases, things can go either way. Some girls may be promiscuous. Some may withdraw totally and not want anything to do with sexual activity at all. It’s hard for them to have a normal relationship, even with a loving partner. In these cases, you can only hope that they’ve shared their experience with their partner so they can understand and hope that person is compassionate and gives the victim time to trust again and gives them the space they need.
Fairly recently I had someone close tell me their story. Only then did I understand some of their behavior. It hasn’t been told, but I believe her sister was abused as well, but she just hasn’t told anyone. I think she put it to the back of her mind. I hope she gets help as well. From what I understand talking to others. Usually if it happens with one sibling, the other has an experience of some degree as well.
Holly’sGMom, do you know if that is true?
Everyone have a great day, I’ll try and check back later
stormgardner,
I do not know the statistics of that particular isuation, but will do some reasearch to find the answer(s). It is my belief that there would be a higher ratio amongst siblings than most realize. Then again there are abuse cases wherein only one child, the skapegoat child, is abused while the others are treated normally. It’s a strange world. I am just finishing up section 2. I hope to have it published by late Saturday.
Great article. Sad topic but very well written. I look forward to reading the next section. God Bless you.
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