Comments on: Aaliyah Bedwell – HOT UPDATE May/11

By: marc

marc — Wed, 13 May 2009 07:56:58 +0000

Thank you Jan and Simon. I empathize with Aaliyah’s mother. I am the divorced father of 4 year old Mary Savannah Kerley. The divorce judge made a special provision in my decree for Mary Savannah to be babysat by a documented child molester. Please read savemarysavannah.com. I have posted some of the court documents on there. I would be glad to help any way I can. Please feel free to contact me through the website.

By: Jan Barrett

Jan Barrett — Tue, 12 May 2009 23:28:08 +0000

Good News from Placer County! Go to Simon’s new article and read it! here is the link:
http://www.bloggernews.net/120856

Thanks everyone!! This is a huge step!

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 21:43:28 +0000

Yup!

By: confused

confused — Tue, 12 May 2009 21:30:58 +0000

Hahahaha I completely forgot about the time difference!! It’s 5:30 here but I think that we are like 3 hours ahead of CA!

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 21:29:33 +0000

Confused, I know, me too. It’s only 2:30 there, the last court proceedings lasted 3 hours? I know this one is different, but, you never know.

By: confused

confused — Tue, 12 May 2009 21:08:58 +0000

Anxiously awaiting an update here!!

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 18:27:42 +0000

Sassy, thank you. That is a very nice compliment.

By: 007

007 — Tue, 12 May 2009 18:18:57 +0000

I hope and pray for a positive outcome for this child. I live in the area, and while I don’t have experience with or have heard of corrupt behavior in the Placer County courts, it indeed has happened in the Nevada County courts, a ‘neighboring’ county.
At any rate, I’ve been lurking in here lately and it is good to see people sharing their opinions in a mature manner, as compared the behavior when the topic is on the Casey/Caylee case. Sad and horrible case, but no need for constant name calling and bursts of emotions feeding off each other. It just is not necessary. It’s hard enough…

By: thinkingdeeply

thinkingdeeply — Tue, 12 May 2009 17:24:29 +0000

TruthBeTold, everyone posting here is already on BNN. Your statement confuses me too.

By: Smiley

Smiley — Tue, 12 May 2009 17:12:36 +0000

Sassy, I agree … if this is a scam, I’ve been sucked in as well. Any possibility that a child is or has been abused automatically gets my child advocacy radar up and I have been following this case along with the Caylee and little Emma Barker cases. If it’s true, I say justice better be served quickly and firmly to this waste of a “father” and if it really is a scam then I say I’d rather the public err on the side of potentially protecting a little girl first by acting and doing something rather than being wrong and having her continue to suffer. I could never keep that on my conscious. Kudos, Jan and Simon for everything you’re doing for little Aaliyah!

By: val

val — Tue, 12 May 2009 17:10:00 +0000

I find everyone’s opinion interesting and valid. The more puzzle pieces the better for an accurate resolution. I like to think of aspects that have not been brought up, but I have stopped trying to be right a long time ago!

By: Sassy

Sassy — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:59:34 +0000

I too appreciate different opinions without bashing one another. It is much more professional. I am having a problem reading other blog topics with all the idle chat (not on topic) going on. Perhaps a seperate blog can be set up for just chit chat. I don’t have the time to scroll through hundred’s of posts to get to something meaningful on topic.

KarenCCC, you should moderate a room. You do it with professionalism.

Simon & Jan, I can’t wait for your update. If this is a scam, them I have been sucked in too.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:54:33 +0000

Great job on this Simon.. and Jan too! Can’t wait for another update. Thank you again for doing what most won’t.. make noise and stand up when everyone seems to close the door or walk away. You haven’t turned your head and your willing to keep going on the research regardless of what you may find.

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:46:06 +0000

The Truth, was that supposed to be posted here? Because, we are at BNN.

By: The Truth Be Told

The Truth Be Told — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:36:11 +0000

Anyone else who questions the authenticity of the “Daddy’s Worm Video”, while your making your complaint of fraud, scam, hoax, you should request, better yet DEMAND Law Enforcement do a forensic study of the tape while their, “exploring the possibility of fraud”. THERE ARE NO PENDING CHARGES OF FRAUD AGAINST CONNIE OR ANYONE ELSE as the Pedophile claims. Those who are actually interested in the TRUE FACTS of this case demand an investigation….and go to http://www.bloggernews.net – type in Aaliyah in the search box, then read the articles which include the emails from Placer County Sheriff Office and Roseville Police Dept. The crap from the pedophile clan and anyone they can influence posted on the petition is sickening deception. I have from a reliable source the Bedwell family and witness are presently very busy providing statements and further evidence to law enforcement. THE TRUTH WILL BE TOLD!

By: Simon Barrett

Simon Barrett — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:35:28 +0000

Usually I only comment when someone has really got my hackles up, but I decided to break that cycle.

I want to say that I am delighted with the high level of civility. People have differing views, and I encourage discussion from both viewpoints.

Kudos folks, this is what Jan and I want. Intelligent discussion.

Oh and I will also tell you that we have our spies on the ground and we will have the result of the court hearing minutes after it ends. And if Dustin’s lawyer is reading this, it is NOT Connie Bedwell!

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:25:42 +0000

Val, all I’m going to say about the video is that the mother and Aunt were trying to get Aaliyah to sleep. Aaliyah started talking and the mom turned the tape on. We’ve all discussed our opinions on the validity of it already.

By: val

val — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:21:41 +0000

I finally watched the tape even though I thought I knew pretty much what was on it by everyone’s description. I found it odd that the filming was with night cameras in pitch black. I think that is why the child was so verbal; she wanted reassurance where the two women were. She kept saying, “Momma?” like she couldn’t see her. My kid would have insisted on a night light, especially if scary things happen in the dark. I will not comment on the validity of the tape, but I think the courts will question it.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:13:39 +0000

Can’t wait to hear Karen. That would be promising news to hear.

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:11:07 +0000

Jenny, I have a friend working on that for me. I heard from her yesterday and will let everyone know something when I do.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:05:58 +0000

I just wish when I google news for Aaliyah I would see a major media outlet reporting.. would give me hope that someone is truely listening to the baby.

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 16:02:16 +0000

Jenny, I know, that’s what I said, there are too many posts to read. In every letter I have sent out to the authorities and what not, I have asked the same thing. Take the baby out of the home, in a neutral setting. I personally believe Connie, and only because I have spoken with her. I don’t even remember article two….it’s been so long ago. LOL

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:59:49 +0000

Somebody, your story is exactly why the children who are in real trouble seem to not get the help they deserve. I am sorry your family had to go through that and that the child is doing better now.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:59:37 +0000

Oh of course Karen, I am a supporter of Aaliyah. not mom or dad. I would like to see her placed with anyone other than family. then sort out all the accusations and issues. But for a new person to catch up on all the articles and blogs.. all I can say is “headache”. I did the catch up thing at article #2.

By: Somebody

Somebody — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:57:47 +0000

BNN bloggers
I am unsure of this situation, I do not say that to offend anyone. I have struggled with this from the moment I first saw the video.
This child does need help, there is no doubt in my mind.
I respect Jan and Simon doing their best and the opportunity to express my opinion and it is just that an opinion.
I also have a story that took place last Christmas. My nephew married a woman with two children five years ago. He and my family love these children very much.
When the woman and my nephew married the ex sought sole custody rather than a 50/50 agreement that had been in place. He lost.
The ex husband brought charges against my sister for physical and sexual abuse three years ago. Charges were dropped because they were unfounded. But back to Christmas, my nephew spent the day in jail because the ex filed charges of sexual abuse.
The first two court hearings the ex did not show. The judge set another trial and requested the ex show cause for the allegations.
To make a long story short, the allegations were false, the poor child had been forced to say some things by someone she trusted.
The child is in counseling and is doing well.

I too questioned my nephew because a child was at stake. I didn’t attack him thank goodness because then our relationship would have been damaged.

My brother and sister inlaw are foster parents. They see so much of this with children they parent. Some of the allegations are found to be true, others are not. Regardless it is the child who suffers.

Just saying that if we can support this child and neither of the parents we could have some healthy questions and answers.

Yes Anon I am a parent of four children whom I love very much. I believe our love of children is why we are so passionate in this case.

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:55:12 +0000

Jenny, I agree with you. It’s hard to not have as much evidence. But the true evidence is that a little girl is obviously in trouble wether you are a supporter or non-supporter. People who are new here should read more before posting, but there are a lot of posts.

Val, you are correct as well. In the case of Kelsey Smith Briggs, that’s exaclty what the mother’s boyfriend did. He ended up killing that baby.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:50:14 +0000

KAREN.. see what I am saying though? New people poking around and asking questions to catch up don’t normally make so many waves. This story seems to have hit a nerve in both supporters and non supporters. I almost think the bickering is also tied to lack of evidence.. and by saying that I only mean this. With Casey Anthony the blogs keep moving because of document dumps which gives everyone something new to discuss. In this case, we only know what has been said and the new information isn’t being relayed due to legal issues. New evidence or update on progress would spark conversation and ideas.. JMO

By: val

val — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:49:23 +0000

I find that an excellent question, Confused! Statistically, pedophiles seek women with children. I am NOT accusing either, but it is a point the court would consider, especially if the father has a good lawyer.

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:44:03 +0000

Your right I dont need to insult, but if your not still sickened by it all, that is sick.

Personally I think the child should be taken from both of the parents until the molestation case is resolved.

Taken from them for a while to see if the behavior continues.

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:43:06 +0000

Jenny, Anon is new here, from what I can tell. They haven’t read all of the posts on all of the stories, so he/she seems to think people on Aaliyah’s blogs are still saying it’s a scam. It’s ok, I understand their frustration.

By: Talina

Talina — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:41:51 +0000

Anon

Clearly you are very emotional about this and this has had that affect on a lot of people.

Howver, there are a number of people who have questioned whether this is an internet scam/haox that have absolutely no connection to this and nothing to hide.

Granted, there are likely those from the father’s side and/or family that have posted and added fuel to that fire but nonetheless, there are internet scams and hoaxes that go on daily so it’s not surprising that there are a number of folks that are skeptical.

Particularly more so if they do not have the time to read each and every blog, petition, post, testimony posted, etc.

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:40:59 +0000

Anon, I remember the first person that stated it was a scam, and they don’t have anything to hide (I mean here on BNN anyway). I just think a lot of people (not me) have been scammed before or maybe have seen scams and they just jumped to that conclusion. Believe me Anon, I have been working on this for two weeks straight. Jan and Simon have been working harder and we all are on Aaliyah’s side.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:38:41 +0000

Just sitting back and reading this blog.. I can see why everyone bickers so much. Some posts seem to come out of left field and get others agitated for some reason.

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:35:17 +0000

Confused, I suppose she’s had supervised visits since Aaliyah was taken away from her, a year ago. I am praying she retains a lawyer as soon as possible. People have said that legal aid can take up to a year or two before someone even sits down and talks to you. I’m sure Connie is working very hard to get a lawyer.

By: thinkingdeeply

thinkingdeeply — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:35:07 +0000

it’s confusing. Jan says Connie doesn’t have a lawyer for today but others are saying she does. Does she have help? It seems this would be the most important day to have one.

By: ♫Butters ♪ Salted

♫Butters ♪ Salted — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:34:54 +0000

Anon- Not to get into the middle of this but you are raising this far too much into a hostile area and I thought we all were past that.. They simply asked a question…you can just answer without being insulting or insinuating anything.

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:33:07 +0000

Good Karen because its not a scam, and the money may or may not be used for a lawyer.

The person who first initially stated it was a scam had something to hide.

By: Confused

Confused — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:30:17 +0000

How long has it been since Connie has had supervised visits with her daughter? I think that this “fund” needs to be used for Connie to have a lawyer to fight for her as well! Maybe even before one for Aaliyah–at least then her side is being given! Because honestly, I’ve worked with the dregs of society in my CPS office and even those people have NO problem finding attorneys for free or cheap!

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:29:36 +0000

Anon, you are yelling at no one. No one here that is helping Aaliyah think it’s a scam.

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:29:22 +0000

I really have nothng more to say but there are witnesses to the way the child is acting , it is not NORMAL for a child to act in such behavior, the truth always comes out.

EOM.

By: Confused

Confused — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:28:31 +0000

Anon-that is my point. I do not want to see the mother get into trouble for trying to get help for her daughter. But technically this is exploitation of a minor and I would hate to see the mother have to stop fighting in this way because of that!

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:27:46 +0000

Anon, when you are responding to a post, if you could put the name of the person you are commenting on. I think that would help the confusion. I didn’t know who you were responding to either.

thinkingdeeply, I think everything that is going wrong with Connie in courts and supervised visits is because she doesn’t have lawyer fighting for her rights. That’s the only thing that makes sense to me.

By: Confused

Confused — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:26:30 +0000

Somebody-yes I was just asking. I was not accusing. I was just trying to figure out the time frame. Doesn’t anyone else find it interesting?

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:25:56 +0000

OK from your state of mind think of the mothers state of mind who doesn not have mommy and daddy to come to the rescue with a lawyer, think about a mother who her self was in the abusive relationship, think about a mother desparate to be heard, the last thing on her mind was slander of her own CHILD! It s desparate cry for help and she is NOT THE ONLY MOTHER GOING THROUGH THIS, so with that being said, think about it from her point of view, take your time, it may not be possible for you. For all we know you may not even have any children to what the feeling is like to be willing to do anything for your child, only some one on the other side would say such a thing just like the SCAM part.

A bunch of BULL.

By: Somebody

Somebody — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:24:18 +0000

Anon, Darrels witness letter states he has been involved for about 2 years and has been a witness to these activities during that time.
IMO Confused was just asking not necessarily accusing.

By: thinkingdeeply

thinkingdeeply — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:22:52 +0000

If the father got supervised visits that way, why can’t connie get family to supervise her visits so it won’t cost her money?

By: Confused

Confused — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:22:41 +0000

And one thing I read on the website is that at one supervised visit they were AT the boyfriend’s house. So I find it hard to believe that the child does not see the boyfriend.

By: Confused

Confused — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:21:20 +0000

The only reason I asked if anyone knows what she calls the boyfriend is because (and i have my bullet proof vest on) is that in most cases that I see in regards to sexual abuse it does not just start. And it does seem interesting that the abuse started with “dad” when the boyfriend starting hanging around the child. I’m not saying that he did anything to this child I’m just trying to figure everything out from a CPS standpoint(in another state mind you).

I still just hope that this is NOT happening to this child. And I hope that mom does not get into trouble for exploitation of a minor and/or slander!! Best of luck today!!

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:21:09 +0000

By him placing a gag order on her only makes the people who choose to take her side want to make the world more aware of the situation. His lawyer didnt think about that. Its really not in his best interest for his case.

By: thinkingdeeply

thinkingdeeply — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:20:24 +0000

sorry

By: Talina

Talina — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:19:14 +0000

Jan,

Do you know if Connie has to go alone to her supervised visits or is she able to have anyone accompany her on those visits?

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:17:39 +0000

I am aware of that, but its been so long that she has not seen him and the question had NOTHING to do with anything. Its most likely some one trying to get details so they have more ammo in court. pathetic. because they have nothing else, you will see him start to act out as the case starts to close in on him.

By: Talina

Talina — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:17:15 +0000

Anon,

The mother has not always been on supervised visits. By her boyfriends own comments and statements, as well as family members, the child does know him.

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:15:51 +0000

no thinkdeeply it was not,

By: Jan Barrett

Jan Barrett — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:15:50 +0000

Anon the mother used to have custody and the father had supervised visitation rights but his parents were the supervisors so he could take that child in other rooms while she was there anytime he wanted to. So YES Aaliyah DID know the boyfriend. I don’t know what she called him but I don’t see what that has to do with anything here anyway.

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:14:14 +0000

and if you cant google it like your saying…. then what is this?

» Aaliyah Bedwell – HOT UPDATE May/11 - Blogger News NetworkWe also have some interesting anecdotal stories about Auburn from some people … Update 5:04pm The attorney representing Dustin Thompson would merely give us a No … The California Attorney General as well. Stressing the potential of …
http://www.bloggernews.net/120845 - 17 hours ago - Similar pages

Oh no IMAGINE THAT! a google link! NO WAY!

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:11:31 +0000

nothing, the child does NOT even know the boyfriend, if you havent read the mother is on supervised visits. so to the child there is NO boyfriend. pointless question.

By: thinkingdeeply

thinkingdeeply — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:11:13 +0000

Anon was that comment directed at me? Its very confusing.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 12 May 2009 15:10:53 +0000

I’ve never seen anyone involved in this case say what Aaliyah calls him.

By: Confused

Confused — Tue, 12 May 2009 14:54:09 +0000

And I know I’m going to get shot for this but…..what does this child call mother’s boyfriend? Does anyone know?

By: Confused

Confused — Tue, 12 May 2009 14:44:31 +0000

We had a situation in my CPS office where the child was abused to the point of hospitalization. A “family member” who ended up being the ex boyfriend of the mother set up a fund at a local credit union for donations to be set up. From our offices standpoint, WE wanted control of the fund to ENSURE that it went to where it was going to go. So I can understand some people being confused as to why the family has control over it. Not that I think that the family will be using it for anything other than this child, but as someone else said you cannot really trust anyone anymore. That’s the unfortunate part of this society!

By: Confused

Confused — Tue, 12 May 2009 14:42:04 +0000

This is what I was worried about. I hope that Connie does not go to jail. It would truly ruin any credibility that she may have left in the court system. I am not defending the father of this child in any means either. As I said in one of my other posts that this webpage could get her into trouble. I just hope they don’t slam her with slander!!

Best wishes to all!!!

By: Tori

Tori — Tue, 12 May 2009 13:47:59 +0000

Bmore,
Go to Haleigh Three Months and counting.

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 12 May 2009 13:28:36 +0000

Dont be silly, ever heard of a pro bono case? Guess not. And dont YOU BE UPSET that you just dont have any details, whats wrong? worried? you should be.

THE TRUTH ALWAYS COMES OUT .

By: ♫Butters ♪ Salted

♫Butters ♪ Salted — Tue, 12 May 2009 13:09:14 +0000

A lot of us are at the three months and waiting article too.

By: Bmore

Bmore — Tue, 12 May 2009 13:05:54 +0000

just want to verify that we’re running 2 articles today… this one and Haleigh’s mother hubbard one… The article we were on yesterday when i left work didn’t have a rabbit hole so i’ve been reading and searching… Seems to be a cat fight brewing over there… Think it’s safer here right now…

By: Talina

Talina — Tue, 12 May 2009 13:04:11 +0000

I totally agree Butters.

By: ♫Butters ♪ Salted

♫Butters ♪ Salted — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:59:03 +0000

Talina, I know I am not doubting they answered it but I am just saying I can see where people come from with the whole paypal thing. All in all if this girl is saved in this situation whether its exploitation or abuse.. I think we can all be thankful she is safe. I may be on the fence but I do want the best for Aaliyah.

By: Pattianne

Pattianne — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:50:29 +0000

hah funny how that works huh it will be interesting cause sometimes i “feel” what people are having and with butters its a girl lol so we will see!

By: Talina

Talina — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:47:23 +0000

Pattianne,

Same with me. Two girls and one boy. Sick the entire pregnancy with the girls and not a day with the boy.

By: Pattianne

Pattianne — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:45:46 +0000

haha I had both girls and a boy the boy was easy! I had 3 daughters first and then my baby boy who is now 18. Im really lovin the grandkids. my girls are 29,27,24. i gained more weight with them and was sick a lot longer so if thats good news for you i know it doesnt exactly sound like it lol! but to get a sweet lil girl is so worth it!

By: Talina

Talina — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:38:28 +0000

Butters,

I don’t disagree with you about the trust. However, prior to engaging an attorney and putting the trust into the attorney’s control, it seems to me it would still be controlled by a family member so I’m not sure that would accomplish much. It’s like a “catch 22″. Trying to raise funds to be able to engage representation but people hesitant to donate because there is no trust fund established where funds go directly to the attorney.

In my post above I was letting “thinkingdeeply” know that the family/friends had answered where the funds have gone so far. I interpreted their question to be that they and/or others had asked this question and were still waiting on an answer. The answer was given on the radio show.

Now, I’m certain people will still say “well how do we know that for sure?”. We don’t but to say that they have not answered the question is inaccurate at this point.

Talina

By: ♫Butters ♪ Salted

♫Butters ♪ Salted — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:36:53 +0000

lol i think so too i didnt feel this bad with Vinny

By: Pattianne

Pattianne — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:28:53 +0000

I really didnt like that part lol! Girls were the worste so watch its prob a lil girly lol!

By: ♫Butters ♪ Salted

♫Butters ♪ Salted — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:26:58 +0000

mornin pattianne its meh still nauseated bleh

By: Pattianne

Pattianne — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:15:46 +0000

mornin butters! Hows the tummy this am?

By: ♫Butters ♪ Salted

♫Butters ♪ Salted — Tue, 12 May 2009 12:12:19 +0000

I don’t think people will just trust someones word where the money is going. I am just saying that most people like the idea of a Trust Fund better than paypal.

Good job Jan and Simon.. I look forward to seeing what unravels from here.

By: Talina

Talina — Tue, 12 May 2009 11:06:26 +0000

Thinkingdeeply,

On Saturday’s radio show, the guests on the show (two of her sisters, her boyfriend, her best friend and her dad) all said that the donation fund had not yet been touched and all the funds that had been donated as of that day was all still in the account. They said it would remain so until the amount was enough to pay a retainer and ongoing costs for good representation.

You can listen to the show in the can by clicking on the link Simon provided on his article after the show.

By: m2c

m2c — Tue, 12 May 2009 09:43:56 +0000

Hi, Jan @ 6:41 and 6:43 -Thank you for explaining. Now I understand better about the lawyer situation. What a shame that even Aaliyah doesn’t have a good one. Unbelievable! Sounds like a town without pity or a conscience. Shame. Shame.

By: Blues

Blues — Tue, 12 May 2009 07:01:31 +0000

It is great to hear that Connie has representation.

I have googled Dustin Thompson, and I do not find any that look like him based on geography and age.

By: thinkingdeeply

thinkingdeeply — Tue, 12 May 2009 07:01:12 +0000

hmmmm Anon there are thousands of Dustin Thompsons in the USA. There is much that pops up that has nothing to do with him. I’ve looked. You can be angry but I question if tomorrow is successful then Connie has painted herself into a corner in which it will take years, not months, years to gain the trust of the courts back. This will not help her to gain custody. Doing anything in anger will not get the attention of the right people.

Family has stated she does not have a lawyer. If she does, why is she still asking for money? There are reasons why total strangers ask this before wanting to hand out their cash. Why is it so wrong for people who have donated to now ask where our money went? There’s no follow up to that. I wish there was.

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 12 May 2009 06:34:20 +0000

She DOES have representation. Let them throw her in jail it just makes her LAW SUIT AGAINST ALL OF THE SICK PEOPLE who are defending HIM and who did NOT help her and were against her PAY for what they are letting happen to this innocent child!!!!!!!!

As far as I am concerned they are just as much of a child molester as he is, this story WILL GO INTERNATIONAL all you have to do is google his name and look what already pops up!!!!! HE CAN RUN BUT HE CANNOT HIDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By: Talina

Talina — Tue, 12 May 2009 02:54:00 +0000

sry didn’t copy the whole part of the 2nd definition:

Law. From or on one side only, with the other side absent or unrepresented: testified ex parte; an ex parte hearing.
From a one-sided or strongly biased point of view.

By: Talina

Talina — Tue, 12 May 2009 02:53:01 +0000

I looked it up and found these two definitions of ex parte hearing:

–noun from or on one side only of a dispute, as a divorce suit; without notice to or the presence of the other party

Law. From or on one side only, with the other side absent or unrepresented: testified ex parte; an ex parte hearing.
From a one-sided or strongly

By: Blues

Blues — Tue, 12 May 2009 02:50:10 +0000

No, and ex parte hearing is an emergency hearing, you may only get 24 hours notice of the hearing.

At least that was my experience with it.

By: Talina

Talina — Tue, 12 May 2009 02:34:38 +0000

Isn’t an ex parte hearing where one side is present and not the other?

By: Mermaid

Mermaid — Tue, 12 May 2009 00:22:30 +0000

Tim Bedwell is Connies dad

By: Mermaid

Mermaid — Tue, 12 May 2009 00:22:02 +0000

awesome idea there Anna, maybe he could offer some over the phone advice on how to proceed. I doubt there is time to get an attorney to represent Connie so quickly. But any advice she could get would be great. Hopefully she is mentally preparing herself for the possible contempt of court charges. Any legal advice she can get at this point would be helpful.

By: anna bananna fe fi fo manna ANNA!

anna bananna fe fi fo manna ANNA! — Tue, 12 May 2009 00:18:13 +0000

why have i thought the fathers name was tim bedwell??? hmmm….

By: anna bananna fe fi fo manna ANNA!

anna bananna fe fi fo manna ANNA! — Tue, 12 May 2009 00:15:42 +0000

i accually had a laywer that worked for me pro bono dont know how it would work out of state or if he has connections in calif but i will give him a call in the am explain the situation and maybee he can help….he is a honest man and if he cant help maybee some advice could be helpfull….

By: Mermaid

Mermaid — Mon, 11 May 2009 23:54:53 +0000

I would think more letters and faxes sent to the Governor could help. If we can get a response in time. The California Attorney General as well. Stressing the potential of judicial malfeasance in Placer County. The judges names are posted on the SaveAaliyah.com webpage.

The worst thing is the speed of an ex parte hearing, there is no way to delay it. If you do not appear, the ruling is made without you. This is an urgent need for help tonite. Please help.

By: Jan Barrett

Jan Barrett — Mon, 11 May 2009 23:43:00 +0000

In a civil case one doesn’t get a court appointed lawyer and as someone stated earlier that use to be a social worker in Sacramento County, the lawyers there hated it when they had to go to Placer County on a case.

By: Jan Barrett

Jan Barrett — Mon, 11 May 2009 23:41:34 +0000

m2c, I don’t think Connie can afford a lawyer for herself. She needs a better lawyer for Aaliyah though. I understand there is some questions about the lawyer the court has appointed to her. The last court hearing the judge found out Aaliyah’s lawyer had not even bothered to look at the video so she was ordered to do so.

By: Mermaid

Mermaid — Mon, 11 May 2009 23:37:42 +0000

wow, I am glad to hear that help is a possibility and an investigation will in all likelihood be happening soon.

But I have been to an ex-parte hearing without a lawyer. I ended up losing my home and everything my daughter and I owned that could not be moved in 30 minutes or less. This was based solely on outright lies told in court that were believed.

At this point Connie needs a lawyer before 1:30pm tomorrow. She in all probability will end up in jail for contempt of court. The saveaaliyah website will possibly be shutdown too. With all the support out here for this case, it is possible that someone will have downloaded the video and will be able to put it back up on the web on a new website dedicated to Aaliyah.

Hopefully all those in her family that have posted online will be there to testify for her that they did so completely independent of Connie. Witnesses are allowed to testify during this type of hearing. Maybe the judge will listen to them and not punish Connie. I know this is not fair, but fair does not happen in court, law does. And depending on the wording of the gag order, Connie may indeed be in violation and be sent to jail.

I am very scared for her. I hope that I am wrong, but based on my experience with small town court systems, Connie is in serious trouble right now.
I will be praying for her, please join me.

By: m2c

m2c — Mon, 11 May 2009 23:25:08 +0000

Great work, Jan and Simon! And great article!

If Dustin thinks all his problems are going away if he can put Connie in jail, he’s got another “think” coming, that’s for sure. He can’t lock up all of us!

Please let us know if there is anything we can do. Also please let us know if there is anything we should NOT do! Don’t want to throw a wrench into things.

This is a different part of the problem that I don’t think we can do anything about but I really do wish that Connie would get a good independent lawyer somehow. I don’t know what’s going on with that. But with such serious charges being brought and with such serious consequences (jail!) she really really needs one. And of course even then, she still needs YOU (and us, of course).

By: rivercitypk

rivercitypk — Mon, 11 May 2009 23:07:15 +0000

AWESOME WORK!!!!!!

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Mon, 11 May 2009 21:54:45 +0000

Anna, WAY TO GO CHICA!!!

By: anna bananna fe fi fo manna ANNA!

anna bananna fe fi fo manna ANNA! — Mon, 11 May 2009 21:49:06 +0000

yea!!!

By: KarenCCC

KarenCCC — Mon, 11 May 2009 21:48:17 +0000

Awesome Simon! I can’t wait!