What do Aaliyah Bedwell who is a three year old abused child in Northern California, Ronald Scharff, a man killed almost 30 years ago execution style just outside Chicago, and my lovely wife Jan have in common?
At first glance nothing. However there is a common thread. See if you can spot it?
Ronald Scharff was a tavern owner, he and his barmaid Patricia Freeman were found murdered execution style. The police had numerous leads but no one was ever brought to justice. That was in 1981. Last year my friend Denny Griffin co authored a book with Frank Cullotta, Cullotta was a Las Vegas mobster who turned states witness in the 80’s. He was in the witness protection program for several years and indeed to this day keeps a pretty low profile. In the book there is an interesting story told on page 130, it talks about another mob guy, who discovered that his ex wife had supposedly been dissed by a tavern owner, and had been killed for showing disrespect. The details in the Cullotta book match the McHenry County murders exactly. There is no doubt in my mind that Larry Neuman was the killer. A family friend of the Scharff’s just happened to read the book. She told Ronald Scharff’s son Paul about the book, and he started asking law enforcement some searching questions. Guess what? Law enforcement has done virtually nothing. The case is still open.
Jan Barrett’s story also happened quite a few years ago. She was an 18. She was viciously raped and beaten by a local businessman. With black eyes and bruises Jan went to the police. The gentleman in question was a ‘pillar of local society’ no action whatsoever was taken
Aaliyah Bedwell is a three year old girl who lives about 40 miles from Sacramento, California. There is convincing evidence that she has been sexually abused by her father. Jan and I have talked at length with people who know this child, and there is no doubt in my mind that there are grounds for some real concern for this girls safety. Rather than investigating the claims local law enforcement and the courts have totally ignored the allegations, in fact they have given full custody to the accused man.
See the connection? See the common thread? Actually there are two common threads. Law Enforcement completely dropping the ball even though the case looks open and shut. And a subtle yet even more insidious commonality, these three cases all happened in relatively small communities, and families with ‘pull’ are and were involved. It has now been 6 days since I called the Auburn police department about the Aaliyah Bedwell case, I am still waiting for the callback that was promised.
We are going to be exploring these cases and the implications on a talk radio show on Saturday May/9 at 3pm Central (1 pm Pacific, 4pm Eastern). Our guests include Jan Barrett, Paul Scharff, Cara Bedwell, and Christen Bedwell, they are both aunts of Aaliyah, and both have first hand knowledge of the case.
This will be an open show and we encourage all of the listeners to call in with their questions and comments. Our switchboard will be accepting calls at 3pm central, and the dial in number is 646-378-1120.
We look forward to talking to you on Saturday.
Simon and Jan Barrett
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Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackNatalee Holloway also comes to mind. The murderer even confessed on tape and they haven’t jailed him.
Awesome article Simon. And thank you for your candor and perseverance. Bless you Jan for all you have been through and all that you do to give victims a voice.
Simon I could not help but notice that Aaliyah is referred to as an “abused child”. Does this mean that you are now convinced this story is true? Is your investigation complete? If so is there anything we need to do to help this little girl?
I have been making calls daily but my concerns have been met with everything from indifference, denial and anger. I had little doubt that this case was real and this child needed help but have not been able to confirm anything for sure.
I do not have the contacts and information you and Jan have. I would really love an update on your findings.
The commom thread I see is at the worst police corruption and at the very least police failing to do their jobs, giving them the benefit of doubt.
Little Aaliyah must be removed from the custody of her father. How can we help make that happen? How do we force the courts to help this beautiful child? I am anxiously waiting for guidance, I will do whatever I can.
AnneA, DITTO! I am so frustrated with the doors being slammed in my face!
Karen so its not just me? I was worried it was personal. I don’t know how this will ever be rectified, its like they think if they ignore us we will go away. I will go away when this baby is safely back in her momma’s arms and not one second before.
Has anyone heard what happened at court yesterday?
Talina, I know what happened, but I don’t know if I’m allowed to say. I hate that your questions aren’t being answered.
AnneA, no, it’s not just you. When I call anyone they say, “Lady, I’m not discussing this with you.” So freaking annoying!
http://childprotectioncommunity.com/blog.asp?page=41327
just got this one in from her mother, knew everyone would want an update. We are anxious to see this finished. We will see how this turns out, looks promising. This was the e-mail I just got in. What is ths not being able to accept outside help? Anyone have anyfeedback on that?
Connie just got out of court. It was a little over 3 hours long. There’s good and bad news. Connie was still in court without a lawyer and the other side had their guns drawn with their big shot lawyer. Firstly, the other side got their wish. The restraining order and gag order was continued. Now it has more stipulations, she can’t encourage, allow, attempt, or accept any outside help, such as media, news, internet, etc. However, she’s a fighter and she tried as hard as she could by herself. Now the good news, there is a new judge. She did admit that something is not right in the first court hearing giving full custody to the father. The judge stated that she will take all of the evidence, paperwork, etc. home and will look over everything that has already been mandated. Also, there has been an order to have a completely new trial, investigation, etc. There is more good news about the trial, but I cannot say. All I can say is, there will be justice and it’s far from over. Connie is currently at the Rocklin, CA Police Department. Auburn Police Department are the one’s who did not investigate period, or if they thought that was investigating, then there are going to be a lot of unfortunate court hearings. The judge is going to look at the video FINALLY, she will be the first professional within this case to view it. Also, the judge ordered Aaliyah’s attorney, to view the video. So that’s it for now. For now, keep praying, etc. As far as the more stringent gag order etc…We will find a way around that. We need some time to figure out how. The only way that people are believing this, is by talking to the mother. Then they know that this is real and that she’s a good mother, person, soul, etc. Thank you to everyone who has helped thus far in something that is truly unimaginable. Thank you!
I don’t understand how a gag and/or restraining order can prevent someone from seeking help by whatever means they have at their disposal? Is that even legal? Something seems very odd to me about that.
I don’t understand how a gag and/or restraining order can prevent someone from seeking help by whatever means they have at their disposal? Is that even legal? Something seems very odd to me about that.
Talina, that’s the thing. She doesn’t have a lawyer to help her.
My stomach is in knots, I don’t want to do anything to make things harder for Connie or Aaliyah. I’m afraid if we stop nothing will be done. It is so hard to know which way to go.
My granny used to have a say when in doubt do nothing, just not sure that is best in this case.
AnneA, SHE can’t encourage us….we need to go to the media and such….they cannot silence us.
Karen yes I know but I don’t want to do anything that will interfere with Jan and Simon’s investigation. They are good people and I know they are working on this and doing the best they can. Its just hard to know what to do.
I can’t imagine having to be in front of a judge and beside a table full of attorneys without a lawyer.. I would get chewed up and spit out regardless of what I was agruing. Connie needs a lawyer.. and now.
Hi Everyone,
I wanted to give you a quick update. Simon is fuming over this continued gag order “they can gag Connie, but they are not gagging me, I’ll get the little b@astards”, justice will be done in this case”. I have seen Simon like this before, he’s like a dog with a bone.
We will get to the truth, and someone is going to hate life.
Join us on Saturday, I am sure the sparks are going to fly.
Jan
Jan,
In the court proceedings, are they closed to the public or is Connie able to bring in family members or friends with her?
Tal
I gotta ask, why has she not accepted help from any outside source before the gag order?
Not a single atty in CA would take this on?
I’m so sorry for what happened to this baby. She needs to be removed from the father’s “care” until the judge makes a ruling.
Jan, can you be responsible enough to state to your readers about donating to someone’s personal bank account?
I don’t believe you have all the answers as of yet nor do I believe the mothers’ story as of yet. If this turns out to be a hoax/fraud then what about those who chose to donate to Connie?
There are so many unanswered questions with respect to this, I still remain on the fence. Until those questions are answered thoroughly, I would not donate a dime. That is, unless a proper Trustee is set up to ensure the money will be used to ‘hire a lawyer’ for Aaliyah like the mother replied in an email request.
I’ve seen posts where she has turned down professional help from outside this County in CA and that concerns me deeply.
I hope everyone can use enough common sense not to pour out their hard earned money to a woman who has an edited video on a website with a donate button to her personal bank account only with a PO Box number as an address with no phone numbers. All those things scream fraud to me. I only hope my feelings about this is right because it means there that this little girl is not being abused by her father.
Jan please check your email, your phone appt. this morning asked me to pass his cell number on to you and if it came thru you should have it.
Jan don’t sound happy today. If Simon is in the same state of mind, well I just hope your tornado insurance is paid for sure.
Wouldn’t miss the radio show for anything. I understand there will be tens of thousands listening in on this one. WOW wear your sunday best….LOL
I have to admit that when this story first came to the attention of BNN, I was highly skeptical… and there are a lot of ‘red flags’ to indicate not everything was as presented.
However, I am very impressed with the way that Simon and Jan have jumped all over this and it seems the tree has been shaken, the branches are swaying, and hidden facts are falling to the ground.
I am extremely interested to read about the continuing developments in this case.
Jan or Simon, in your next article, can you confirm for us that the court date referenced really did happen today and the judge has changed and if so, the new judge’s name? Has there been any progress made on finding Connie an atty who will be willing to work out payments with her?
Concerned: Your post above regarding the court details in quotes below…
“The restraining order and gag order was continued. Now it has more stipulations, she can’t encourage, allow, attempt, or accept any outside help, such as media, news, internet, etc.”
Then there can be legal repercussions to anyone that helps the mother in any manner stated above. That includes solicitating the media to look into this further. It sounds like this is a very good judge and I trust she’ll get to the bottom of this.
Carol Smith its very nice of you to be concerned for OUR welfare but as I already know about this case I am under NO court order. I am not being asked by the mother to do anything. I just want to make sure this child is safe and I think everyone involved has the same goal. How could that possibly be wrong by anyone’s standards?
LCoast
My understanding is there has been no offer of help. The rumor to the opposite is alledgedly coming from the father’s camp, in an effort to further damage the mother’s credibility. They do protest to much for my taste. If there is nothing to hide, why do they get on the net and try to keep anyone from helping her?
I do have a question.. AnneA maybe you know. I have read that Aaliyah has an attorney? How does a 3 year old have an attorney? And if so, why isn’t this attorney intelligent to realize what is going on?
AnneA. there is absolutely nothing wrong with ensuring a childs safety. I am a Childs’ Advocate for that very reason. I have a vested interest in the protection of all children with all my heart which is why this story caught my attention.
I am speaking on my legal knowledge and experience in the courts. If any info you speak about on the internet can only be found by speaking with the mother - then even you are placing her in legal jeopardy. No, you’re not under court order but she is. It will harm HER not you.
She will find herself behind bars if this continues to go on. I hope everyone can understand that puts her in further jeopardy legally if she gets you to post via info from her. Any judge will not tolerate it for much longer. I only say it because it could cause further harm and not help for the mother IF her story is true.
If she does not have legal representation, then there’s no lawyer to tell her the consequences of continuing a online campaign if this is what the court has ordered.
Jenny in most states anytime a custody case gets dicey, the child is assigned an attorney or a guardian ad litem. In our state, guardians are not necessarily attorneys in some states they are.
As I understand it Aaliyah’s attorney has accepted the father’s version of facts and will not even talk to the mother. It is a small town and it really does matter who you know. The attorney has not contacted ONE person on the list of witnesses provided by the mother.
Hope that answers the question.
Carol Smith, Connie has no control over what we do. We have knowledge of this case and it is our duty to make sure this is not left in the same hands that have dropped in so many times in the past.
No judge will hold her accountable for our actions, she is no longer asking anyone to do anything. We are acting out of concern for this baby.
Carol,
From what I’ve read posted by people claiming to be her sister, father, boyfriend and close friends for many years, they are the ones putting all of this out there seeking help on her behalf - for the reasons you are concerned about - because she can’t do it herself due to court orders.
However, their posts describe circumstances, incidents that they themselves have personally witnessed and observed, not just heard from Connie, the mother.
In my opinion, it would be very hard for anyone to claim that whatever is being discussed and alleged is only coming from the mother in violation of a court order.
Also, Simon and Jan - nor anyone else that I’ve seen posting on this site for the past week on this subject - have ever encouraged anyone to make any monetary donations. Jan and Simon have both stated that the only thing they are putting into this is their time to try to get to the bottom of what the heck is going on out there in Placer County.
At least one poster said that when they told the mother they could not donate any money she said she didn’t care about that.
Talina
Yes it does.. Thank you AnneA. Just another diapointment to Aaliyah and an adult that is ignorant and not willing to fight for this precious child. I lived not far from Auburn (was in Fremont) but thank god I didn’t move there years ago. I wouldn’t even want to get a speeding ticket there.. never know who is more important then you.
Talina, all true and very good points.
Jenny
I can’t imagine living in a town that is so clanish they would allow this to keep happening to a little child.
There was a lot of skeptism and anger around this case. A lot of people doubted the validity of it. I watched the video and a couple of different things convinced me. I could not live with myself if I had kept quiet about it. At the end of the day, we do have to look in the mirror and we have to live with the choices we all make. I would have rather been wrong fighting for her then not to fight at all. This child needs help NOW.
I still don’t understand how a judge can order someone that they are not allowed to accept “outside help”. That seems awfully broad to me and on the surface I don’t see how that is even legal.
If it does actually say that, then that would prevent her from accepting help from a probono attorney, probono child abuse psychologists - the list is endless.
There’s got to be more to the wording of that restriction than what is posted.
Talina
I understand your need to want to fight for this child and it is commendable to all who are trying to help that little girl in a fight to find out the truth.
Let me explain the legal aspects a bit further.
A gag order can be far reaching if information is provided here or anywhere on the internet shows it could only come from the mother - then the mother has gone against the court order.
While Connie cannot control what you decide to write on the internet - from a legal perspective she no longer can discuss anything about this to anyone. Parents, sister, brother, friends, whomever. That is HER responsibility to the courts. It seems she has already broken that order.
If the courts were to read detailed info on the internet and determine there was no other way to obtain that info other than directly from Connie, SHE can be held in contempt.
I’m only stating what I know from prior court proceedings. The gag order can harm her if she is still talking to people other than her own legal counsel.
Take it for what it’s worth. I’m not into silencing anyone especially when its about potential child abuse. And I’m not here to support the father’s version either. I want the truth as much as the next person.
Talina I think you may be right but we have to wait for Jan and Simon to see what they have found out. I’m sure they will tell us what they can when they can.
It is hard waiting but for the sake of Aaliyah we have to do it.
AnneA-
I don’t think that the “fathers camp” is trying to protest people helping this child. I do think that they are trying to get more info out in regards to this case.
I still could be wrong.. but it only took me a few minutes into the video to believe this child. I don’t feel as if it could be coached, especially the way she describes daddys worm. The entire story disgusts me and even if she is not with her mother while an investigation is done.. she sure as heck shouldn’t be with her father. Every person responsible for enabling this situation doesn’t deserve the job they have. To close your eyes to a 3 year old pleading is just unforgiveable.
Carol, isn’t the info out there prior to the gag order? Can they block further discussion after the gag is in place from her friends or family? Your input is very interesting.
hi everyone..
jan..you are such a strong and amazing woman to go through what you have to still find the strength to fight for others…
this little girl is in my prayers,i wish i could do something to help…big thanks to all who shouted out for her….thats what this world needs…more people like you all…
Carol
I am in no position to argue about what the court order says or doesn’t say. I have not seen it nor have I talked to the mother.
I feel sure when the truth comes out tho ANYONE would appauld a mother who risk her freedom to save her child. I am not saying she has done this AT ALL. I am just saying the same judge who locks her up will let her out.
How far would you go to protect your child. I can tell you NO judge would shut me up in the same situation. To me, it would be a small price to pay.
well if i was in mothers shoes..theres no gag order or court in the world would make me not talk….id be screaming for help…
AnneA, I see there are a lot of posts here, I don’t have time to read them all right now, but I did see someone mention Aaliyah’s lawyer….I’m sorry I forgot your name, whomever you were, but her lawyer’s name is Rebecca Bowman and I think I found her on the internet. I am going to call her and see WHY SHE HASN’T YET VIEWED THE VIDEO! In court yesterday, she stammered all over herself when the judge asked if she had. I think we should contact her and demand she seeks justice for this little one!
jenmr
If the father’s camp is not trying to shut her up, why go back to court to make the gag order more restrictive and for a longer time period? That was what the hearing was all about yesterday, SHUTTING MOMMA UP!!!!
I assume by questioning anything regarding this situation my post will again be removed. My intent is not to accuse only question.
I too pray these allegations are false. This child deserves her innocence.
I was of the understanding that this was the original judge who presided over the earlier hearing that awarded the mother custody. Also wonder why all of the family and friends have not pooled their resources and retained an attorney.
Finially, we need to remember that a man has been accused of sexual and physical abuse, threatening to murder a woman and child.
Yesterday I learned the FBI was now involved and if they found merit to the death threats wouldn’t they have taken this child into protective custody?
So many unanswered questions.
Yes I Do Pray That Aaliyah Is Safe!
Karen do you know if Connie had an attorney or family members or anyone with her in court? I haven’t heard and really curious if she had to fight daddy, his worm, his attorney and whoever else he managed to get in on it.
Is there independent verification that the FBI is involved? I know a poster said the Connie had depleted her funds, having to sell things, but does no friend/relative have funds for a retainer? Good points. I also want to see this child in a safe place.
AnneA, No, Connie had no one there with her. All I know is that Judge Kearney spoke to his attorney for the longest amount of the time they were there. When she got to Connie, she said she had remembered her and asked why there have been 5 different judges assigned to the case since she had first resided over it. She said that she had to read all the documents, reports and watch the video and then will call them back to court. She said that Rebecca Bowman did absolutely nothing to stand up for Aaliyah.
Wow obviously Connie has been fighting for a long time. I am sure she is about at her wits end. I am praying this judge does NOT have any links with Daddy. It sounds like things MAY BE looking up, I hope.
I have no proof personally that the FBI are involved. Only statements made online. I read that the mother had a phone interview with them on another blog. Karen or Annea may have more information as they have been in contact with Connie I believe.
AnneA-
What would you do if someone was accusing you of doing these horrific things, posting your name & pictures for all to see & as a result of this people are now threatening to kill you? I understand that you feel this is an open & shut case against the father, but what if these allegations are false. Doesn’t he also have the right to protect himself? So maybe that is why he wanted the restraining order & gag order extended!
Somebody, I think the mother did indeed meet with the FBI on the murder threats and they didn’t dismiss her. So we will soon find out. Again I am sure Simon and Jan have know far more then I do about this and we will just have to wait for them to clue us in.
The waiting is so hard.
jenmr I don’t know what I would do, but I can tell you what I WOULD NOT do. I wouldn’t take that party to court and gag them, any doubt people may have had, well that sure wipes it out for many of them.
I would probably ask the state to remove my child until I could prove myself innoncent. As hard as that would be, I would want my name cleared and I would want everyone to know I was not hiding anything.
wow, so we are now thinking 5 different judges in Placer county have allowed this to continue?
At what point did Connie lose her Attorney? I know that there are no free attorney’s (such as public defenders) for Civil cases- but is it also the case with Family Court?
This was also a sealed courtroom where Connie could have no family with her? Is that normal in family law cases? I know that when I went to court to get a restraining order, it was not behind closed doors. Describing your messed up life in front of strangers is really difficult!!
Was this the only case the judge heard?
I pray for this child’s safety. I have written letters, and sent emails. I just do not know what else to do.
What is the FBI jurisdiction in death threats or abuse? I’ve only seen them in kidnapping across state lines, diplomatic violations, gov’t investigations, etc.
Hopefully the FBI will secure their safety if it truly is in danger.
I pray for this childs safety but am troubled by the questions I have.
I truly wish neither of the scenerios we are presented with existed. But the facts are someone is telling the truth.
Bay I think we are doing all we can. This is no longer just a mom, the world is looking on and surely people will start putting Aaliyah first.
Got a grand that wants some attention so got to run. Will check back in a bit, hoping for a new article from Simon or Jan.
I also know that Connie is about ready to say “F” the restraining order and go to jail.
I’ve gotta go, but AnneA, I will chat with you later if I can’t get back on here.
annea, I don’t know that I agree with you. I think that I would try to stop the other person from draging my name through the mud. And from what I understand in reading through all the posts online is that the mother had custody when all of these claims started and I think that I would feel like I did already prove myself if the courts then gave me custody & I wouldn’t want to tramatize my child anymore by putting her in a foster home. That’s just how I would feel.
Five different judges or five different attorneys? Last I read only two judges have presided over this case?
ay yi yi, this is getting more and more confusing to sort out fact from fiction.
Is it even possible to get access to documentation, or is it not public record? Medical, psychological, court hearings, attys, pediatricians, day care/preschool alerts, letter to editors, someone without a vested interest in this child?
How many groups like this one have attempted to investigate prior to this one, and what were their findings?
Val, I wish I had the answers to your questions. I am thinking that no, we can’t access any of that. I do know that APD has an open investigatin against the bio father. So, I’m thinking with that investigation being open, the documents are probably closed to the public. But I will definitely ask someone.
Carol Smith, I just read your posts…do you know of any lawyers in CA, in the mother’s area, that might want to take this on? I have been calling many, many, many…..but I do not ever get a response. I have some friends, lawyers - but not family lawyers, who are looking for me. But with your knowledge, maybe you know of someone?
I am not in California but I have put in a call to 2 people in CA that are trying to find a way to help get answers for you KarenCCC.
If it means helping this little girl and getting to the bottom of whatever is going on, I’m all for helping.
I hope you understand I’m not in Connie’s corner at the moment. NOR am I in the fathers’ corner either. I’m all for finding out the truth for this little girl.
Even though I may not support Connie, even the mother deserves counsel & legal guidance. And if she goes into court without that, it is an unfair advantage for the other side. I’m all for saving families, not splitting them apart.
If I can come up with a name or two, I can email them to Jan & Simon here and they should be able to forward it to you correct?
Carol Smith, thank you. I’m sure Jan and Simon would give me the message, yes. I just really want this little girl safe, that’s all. I thank you for your words and your help!
Talina said,in May 7th, 2009 at 12:33 pm I don’t understand how a gag and/or restraining order can prevent someone from seeking help by whatever means they have at their disposal? Is that even legal? Something seems very odd to me about that.
http://www.lawinfo.com/attorney/Child-Abuse/California/
It does not hurt to get on the phone with each and every one of them. Someone can direct a parent somewhere.
The court system belongs to the people. We the taxpayers pay those in the court system. It is everyone’s right to legally bring a true case to be heard before a judge. California residents pay their salary.
I found an attorney here that was suppose to represent the case?
Bradford R. Fenocchio
Placer County District Attorney
10810 Justice Center Drive Suite #240
Roseville, CA 95678
(916) 543-8000
(916) 543-2550 fax
Email-bfenocch@placer.ca.gov
http://www.cafemom.com/group/33200/forums/read/8712403/Please_help_us_save_Aaliyah_Please_pass_on_to_anyone_and_everyone
Carol Smith said,
in May 7th, 2009 at 4:51 pm I hope you understand I’m not in Connie’s corner at the moment. NOR am I in the fathers’ corner either. I’m all for finding out the truth for this little girl.
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Exactly!!!
C~A Trix ~r~4 Kids said,in May 7th, 2009 at 7:22 pm Carol Smith said,
in May 7th, 2009 at 4:51 pm I hope you understand I’m not in Connie’s corner at the moment. NOR am I in the fathers’ corner either. I’m all for finding out the truth for this little girl.
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Exactly!!!
Ditto from here too.
Carol Smith, I think EVERYBODY who has commented on this case, written letters, sent faxes and make phone calls want the truth.
I think the controversy comes from what to do in the mean time. If Aaliyah is in the father’s home and he is guilty, the child is in serious danger. Everyone has reasons for the way they feel and react to this case. Each of the responses are valid.
Nobody is advocating for foster care, BUT if this is going on and it looks like it is, foster care is far far more acceptable then leaving her with the abuser. Taking the child out of reach of both parents would eliminate any possibility of one parent influencing the baby.
I would most like to see Aaliyah returned to her mother, but at the same time, I can see the problems with that. If she has gone thru the suffering we think she has, nobody can comfort her like momma can. I know if I were her mother I would want to hold her and never let her go.
But the most important thing right now is making sure she is safe. It’s not important what any of the adults want, what needs to be done is what is best for Aaliyah. She is a strong child, she has already been thru so much. If she knows she will never be abused again and will be back with mommy soon, she will make it. I am praying for her.
I am in the Aaliyah’s corner and have not moved from that position for one second since we learned about this situation.
I believe the mother and others who know all parties. Every one of them is crediable and I have not caught anyone in a mistruth or anything that indicates deception.
Maybe a polygraph test would be in order. A test could possibly keep Aaliyah out of foster care. I know its not admissable in court but it sure would go a long way in finding out who is really the liar.
I don’t understand this whole gag order deal. Can “C” really be prosecuted for breaking this “gag order” when (to my knowledge at least) relatives and friends have been the only ones relaying these messages?
I don’t know who wrote this…I’m thinking (Carol)-but Cara (the sister/aunt) clearly stated on THIS FORUM that “we have court tomorrow”. Maybe its just me but doesn’t that imply her (the sister) being in court too to witness everything she relayed to CPC? That means no gag order was broken.
Ever since I caught wind of this case (May 1st)– I’ve never heard or seen information coming directly from the mother. Most of this story has been learned from the website saveaaliyah.com and the Youtube video that was posted WAY before the gag order was placed on her. Right? And the website is registered under a friend.
There is the CPC video that was posted on Youtube, so I guess no more of that or what? Even though at the end of that video the man claimed that she can’t be held accountable for talking to him…but I’m sure he didn’t know what he was talking about. -Shrugs-
I just can’t imagine how someone in her shoes is not supposed to talk to ANYONE pertaining the most important issue going on in her life. Slander is one thing…but just keeping the ones that care posted?
I can not attest for sure, but generally, Cara goes to ALL the court dates with Connie. I know that Connies boyfrend let her sell his extra car to help pay for the attorney she used to have. Cara works hard to pay all the bills and help Connie. The kind on money we are talking about here is HUGE. These attorneys bill out around $250 per hour. They have min $2500 retainer fees, so it is not a simple matter of “pooling some funds”. In four hours an attorney costs around $1000. In four hours Connie makes a bit over $100 on a good night with decent tips, and due to the economy, her hours have been reduced. These are women in their early and mid-twenties, and their parents have limited financial resources, so that might answer some questions. The questions you all ask about the gag order, and how so many of you say it does not seem right? Welcome to every stage of this nightmare. Time and time again we have asked ourselves, can they do that, and how can they do that, and WHY would they do that. This has gone on and on, thats why Connie needs help. So much has not seemed right, or made sense. Pray that changes!!!
“Jenny asked, in May 7th, 2009 at 1:41 pm
I do have a question.. AnneA maybe you know. I have read that Aaliyah has an attorney? How does a 3 year old have an attorney? And if so, why isn’t this attorney intelligent to realize what is going on?”
Jenny there were too many posts to read them all to see if this was answered or not.
Anytime an abuse case makes it into the courts the state appoints an atty to protect the child’s constitutional rights.
Let me educate the world on the way the pedophile clan operates; they are extremely easy to spot…
They call the people telling THE TRUTH names such as “Crazy, mentally ill, munchausen syndrome, fruitloop etc.” And have a very charming fake concern of why they are even blogging on the internet. It is a tactic of a liar to call the honest person “crazy.”
They try to convince people this is a scam to try to make sure the mother cant afford an attorney in Aaliyah’s defense to present the overwhelming evidence to the system. Another Abuser tactic is too control their victims money.
They bash the living heck out of the mother, yet never address the issues or things the baby has stated. They spin your mind and focus away from the real issue.
They will constantly try to sway people away from helping the mother (An abuser tactic). Abusers always have certain things in their intenions such as ISOLATING the victim so the victim cant get help, SILENCING the victim so the victim cant get help, and MANIPULATING everyone around them to turn on the victim so the victim cant get help, and last but not least THEY PLAY THE POOR VICTIM THEMSELVES. They try to confuse people with whom the victim truely is so nobody cares to support the true victim.
Also there is a saying about abusers that rings true in every case… “They look in the mirror and see their dirty face yet proceed to wash the mirror.” They blame the true victim for everything they are truely doing… for example…in this case the pedophile claims the mother is trying to keep the child from him…yet in reality he is using that exact lie to proceed to actually do that very thing to the mother. Everything the abuser uses as his reasoning against the mother is exactly his agenda (remember that). For example he cheated on her, so he blamed her, he has used cocaine so he says she does, he is an alcoholic so he says she is, he is abusing his baby so he says she is, he is a lying manipulator so he says she is…etc. His goal is to throw out so many crossfiring accusations that nobody can see the truth. So pay very close to peoples writings. Its not hard to spot the peophile clan. They come up with the most off the wall lies. Make them prove what they are saying…if they have an email claiming the mother only wants money (an outright lie) make them present this email…oh wait they cant…it doesnt exist.
They cant defend themselves with facts and truth so therefore result in the name calling.
They have a goal to divide and conquer. Notice how he “Anne Cloter” tries to turn the mothers boyfriend against her. Abusers think they own their victims so they are extremely jealous if a new man comes into their victims life. In abusers minds the victim should have zero independence and should solely have to depend on the abuser.
Abusers operate on this in everything they do…CONTROL and ENTITLEMENT. They try to control the entire victims life and they think they are entitled to do it.
If you see any of these signs you know who they are…keep your eyes peeled. The mothers family and friends use their names because what they are saying is the truth. You never see the clan putting their name to their “stories” because they wont stand for the lies they tell.
Also everyone blogging on this site keep your eyes on the look out for this one thing… Jan and Simon are trying to dig for the TRUTH to come out… one problem the pedophile clan has with that is they dont want the truth to come out. So in the pedophile clans mind they see someone helping the mother… watch for the isolation…it will be coming on thick.
We thank you all for helping the truth come out…
Aaliyah, we are going to save you from daddy and grandpa.
To the pedophile clan, something you will never understand…
When you hold fast to THE TRUTH even the very words of the enemy defeat themselves.
C. Bedwell
LCoastmom,
When custody of a child turns into a battle, the court will assign the child/children their own attorney in some states they have Guardian Ad Litems. (may or may not be attorneys) The function of this person is to look out for the child. They are not suppose to look out for either parent. Often times the costs for these individuals are covered by the state or there is no charges.
This is a great system, unfortunately some are in it for the money. I do not know whether CA uses only attorneys as Guardians. The guidelines for the childrens Guardians vary from state to state. Basically this person is only suppose to think of the child. Like with everything it doesn’t always work that way.
Only thing I do want people to keep in mind is that the truth of everything needs to be unraveled and I know a few of you talked to Connie yourselves.. I just hope you all keep an open mind in case you are prosecuting an innocent man..
Interesting domain info for saveaaliyah.com.
Makes my red flag meter go up….and say, hmmmm.
Domain Name………. saveaaliyah.com
Creation Date…….. 2009-04-05
Registration Date…. 2009-04-05
Expiry Date………. 2011-04-05
Organisation Name…. Deanna DeSoto
Organisation Address. 9055 Posada Way
Organisation Address.
Organisation Address. Sacramento
Organisation Address. 95826
Organisation Address. CA
Organisation Address. UNITED STATES
Admin Name……….. Deanna DeSoto
Admin Address…….. 9055 Posada Way
Admin Address……..
Admin Address…….. Sacramento
Admin Address…….. 95826
Admin Address…….. CA
Admin Address…….. UNITED STATES
Admin Email………. pleasehelpaaliyah@yahoo.com
Admin Phone………. +1.9168214159
Admin Fax…………
Tech Name………… YahooDomains TechContact
Tech Address……… 701 First Ave.
Tech Address………
Tech Address……… Sunnyvale
Tech Address……… 94089
Tech Address……… CA
Tech Address……… UNITED STATES
Tech Email……….. domain.tech@yahoo-inc.com
Tech Phone……….. +1.6198813096
Tech Fax………….
Name Server………. yns1.yahoo.com
Name Server………. yns2.yahoo.comI’m not going to watch the video, but I wonder why this is not
Writing such a speech online Connie, will never endear you to the courts. You want to get your rights back as her mother, why spew this now?
DO YOU NOT REALIZE THAT you’re playing right into the other sides hands by writing what you just did. The father would be ever so pleased to see you held in contempt! WHY PLAY INTO THEIR HANDS?
And KarenCCC, in light of above comments aside, I am still looking for a lawyer as promised. Connie sadly needs to be educated about the court process or the courts will punish her for her actions.
I see it everyday where parents chose to self destruct instead of abiding by court orders. Many of those parents never get their children back. I’m not in Connies corner but even this mother deserves to have some sort of custody of her baby girl.
CBedwell, even though I don’t know what to think about you I am still fighting for your rights. It is true that not having legal counsel makes for a very unfair advantage for the other side.
You need to read my earlier posts and rethink about going against the court order. Otherwise you will be punishing your daughter further by having the courts go against you because of your actions. If you are locked up, who will help your child if she’s truly being abused?
For the record, I will try my utmost to find a lawyer for CBedwell!
However Connie - I’m against your methods of seeking money from your daughters alleged crime against her. If you get a TRUE PRO BONO LAWYER that will see this through to the end, will you please stop your campaign for money?
It does make you look like your motives are less than pure. It does come across as a scam to us professionals that have taken interest in your case dear!
Carol Smith: “Ms Bedwell” signed “C Bedwell” and isn’t talking in reference to herself but to someone else…I think your slightly confused on who just posted…that was Cara Bedwell-the sister.
Carol Smith: “Ms Bedwell” signed “C Bedwell” and isn’t talking in reference to herself but to someone else…I think your slightly confused on who just posted…that was Cara Bedwell-the sister.
I am getting so irritated when it comes to the subject of this mother & “asking for money”…no one is holding a knife to anyone’s throat DEMANDING MONEY. If you donate, fine, if you don’t, fine. What is the big freaking deal?
This mother is YOUNG and has a lot on her plate. With everything that she is dealing with…one can’t expect her actions in seeking help to be perfect. Money makes the world go round…obviously…money is CLEARLY why this man has custody of this little girl. What is so wrong about her wanting to be on the same level “money wise” as him? Everyone needs to stop focusing so much on this mother…and focus more on Aaliyah. C Bedwell is very right in posting her description of the “ped clan”. I for one have read these allegations and found myself dead in my track asking myself about whatever it is they’ve accused this mother of and thankfully I’ve been able to pull back (on several occastions) and say ‘wait a minute…and what about the child?’.
I hope you can succeed in helping this family Carol. This case can’t be fairly tried if the mother does not have an attorney to advise her and represent her in court proceedings. It is obvious that Aaliyah’s father has an attorney just based on the lack of response and information available on the internet from/about him.
I realize there are many alleged postings credited to him, or his ‘clan’. But they are not out there using their actual names. This makes proving who they are next to impossible without a warrant to subpoena ISP information.
I agree that these posts are going to come back and haunt the mother in court. I have a tough time understanding how the gag order can make the mother responsible or the postings of her family and friends. Wouldn’t they have to be named in the court order? At the very least, there is really no need to use the family name in the poster’s name.
There are plenty of people interested in this case right now. It bothers me to see only attacks, and so little in the way of actual ways to help (beyond donations).
I applaud your efforts to assist in locating legal counsel.
It may very well be Cara, but signed as C Bedwell, there is a good chance a print out of this is going to show up in court and Connie is going to have to explain that it is not her and hope they are willing to investigate to receive proof it is not…
Carol is really making some excellent suggestions and it would be in Connie’s best interest to carefully consider her advice.
I, too, think the set up of the website with paypal accounts and the request for donations has hurt Connie in the eyes of the public that truly want to help her, like Carol.
My appreciation and thanks go out to Carol for continuing to attempt to find a lawyer for Connie and for being the kind of person that can step beyond her impressions of the situation to recognize a true injustice in the fact this woman has no legal representation, which does put her at an unfair disadvantage in a court of law where this case is playing out.
I think that no matter what anyone thinks about the validity of this case, we can all agree that a child is in the middle of it, that both sides deserve fair legal representation in court, and that we all have the best interests and happiness of the child at heart.
Another thing that has been bugging me to no end is this website’s “background” being posted…both at Websleuths and here now.
Can someone PLEASE explain to me why this website (who owns the domain…when it was started…the address…etc) raises a red flag for “certain people”?
Bay, if you go back in the comments to when this case was first brought to BNN, you will find many, many suggestions on who to contact and you will also see than many, many people who visit this site have called and e-mailed local, state, and federal authorities. Jan and Simon have called the local paper and all of the local law enforcement in their quest for the truth. Connie has received an outpouring of help from BNN.
Spacely: If only there were a way to spread word over the entire internet to ’start using code names’ in reference to this family. I’ve been getting my point across by using terms such as “mother, child, father”. Even though it is quite obvious who I’m refering to when it’s on this forum.
I don’t think it would be a bad idea for bloggernews.com to start using initials or something of that sort to give courts less reason to hassle the mother about breaking a court order, etc.
It raises a red flag because there is some info going around that shows the IP address to be registered to an address somewhere other than Sacramento - but I don’t really know that much about the internet, so maybe that is normal.
The other flag is the date it was set up… it was about a month ago, but the child seems to have been in danger much longer. Connie seems to have cleared up a lot of that confusion up by explaining the chain of events.
Actually, if she could get an attorney working on the case, I don’t think any postings here will affect her.
This “ped clan” has the upper advantage that is for damn sure when it comes to them posting under false names…the sister/aunt is very right about this. They hide behind fake names…throw people off guard…and walk away without [a lot of] people realizing they’ve just become victims of brainwash on account of the “ped clan”…
Its much easier for the court to go straight to the source where this mother is allegedly posting and investigate than it is for them to investigate a possible “ped” and his clan influencing the internet.
Why isn’t this guy under a gag order?? Why is he allowed to “sway” us and she isn’t? GRR.
My apologies if it was Cara and not Connie. I did not know her sister’s name.
It is about this little girl. I hope there is pressure out there for outside officials to become involved and review everything submitted and investigated.
Whatever my thoughts about Connie, she deserves the same rights as the father she’s going up against. There are too many cases where someone has lost custody in part because they do not have legal assistance. Lack of counsel should never be a reason to lose custody.
Spacely: Thank you for clearing that up…and in the same breath making me confirm that the red flag is bogus.
What does it matter when the site was started? To my knowledge this site was started by a friend of the mothers because countless myspace accounts were deleted (the mother’s original plan to get this out on the internet)…so of course names don’t match and addresses don’t match either…
Right? Or am I just stupid? Ill informed?
Carol Smith, I totally agree with you. I said the same thing to her about being and jail and how good would that do Aaliyah. I told her that obviously I couldn’t stop her from speaking, but asked her to really think about it. I am not saying that is Connie that wrote that, because I really don’t know. But I also can see that after two years that no one has been listening to her, I think she is really, really fed up with being told to basically shut the heck up. I do know that she is really scared for her daughter’s safety. Thank you so much for trying to find her council. I am too, but it’s so difficult with me being 3500 miles away. But I won’t give up.
Who is Deanna Desoto? Is that the contact person if I find a willing lawyer to take this on?
Deanna if you read this I am sorry but I am trying to clear some confusion.. The tech address for the website is her friend’s address in sunnyvale.. (deanna)
But I find her name as Deanna Barela
n Ramirez, 2:40pm, she doesn’t have a lawyer, so she cannot place a “gag” order or a restraining order on them. This is what she needs most, a lawyer. Aaliyah needs to be taken out of the father’s home in order for CPS and APD to finish their investigation that they claim they have open against him.
Carol Smith, just go to http://www.saveaaliyah.com and go to “contact us” and put the information there. Her friends and family run that site, so they will be able to forward it to her.
Actually, I have been reading everything I can find about this case. I have not seen more than a few posts supporting the father in this case.
I have seen many posts attacking anyone who dares to post an opposing opinion. Many of these were simply from people who do want more information, or who question the attacks on other posters.
The majority of posts I have found are from those who support further investigation into this case.
Many more are from people who want to help, but do not have money, or choose not to donate money until they have more facts. Almost all of them are people concerned about the welfare of this child. That is what the priority should be, Aaliyah needs to be helped.
I just do not see any effective use of influence by the father’s side on the internet. The posts in support far outnumber anything being attempted by his side.
Signing a petition may help get laws changed, but I think applying pressure on the local and state level seems to be a more effective measure.
Carol Smith, the only reason I ask you to do that is because I know Connie gets her emails from there. I don’t know all of these folks on here saying they know Connie. And please, I am not saying that people here aren’t who they say they are….I just know Connie does get information from that site.
Jenny,
What is the Sacramento address?
The Sunnyvale address is actually Yahoo Inc.
The domain address is registered to Sacramento
KarenCCC: I see. It frustrates me not knowing exactly how the judicial system works. So it being very important that she get a good lawyer (which costs money…that some people just can’t afford, I know I couldn’t…) why is the “option to donate” a bad thing that she or her friends & family have come up with?
I mean honestly, putting myself in her shoes for two seconds…this scares me. I’m married. I have 2 gorgeous children. This could happen to me…a nasty divorce gone wrong…money more in his favor…boom my kids are gone. I mean she would have it much worse because the person who has custody of her daughter is a pedophile taking his aggressions out on his own daughter. Anyway, sorry I’m rambling…my point is…I don’t think it was in bad taste for them (people in favor of the little girl) to leave an option for someone to donate..I think I’d do it too…come to think of it.
I also googled the term Yahoo TechContacts and that Sunnyvale address pops up a lot.
I also notice the address is First Ave…
First Ave is almost always a street in the middle of a city, which usually has very few residential addresses, although it could very well be her friend’s personal address… but I think it is an address for a Yahoo office…
Carol Smith, Connie’s other sister’s name is Christine, so that could have been her?
Blue Bay?!?!?!
In reference to Bay’s findings:
Nothing red flag about that…at least to me.
I will look at the sac address but the first street I found Deanna Barela. BRB
I can’t seem to find anything on posada way but it’s a verifiable address.
Deanna DeSota phone number appears in the domain info. It is a Yahoo domain and the other info is tech info. Maybe Deanna knows soemthing.
Admin Name……….. Deanna DeSoto
Admin Address…….. 9055 Posada Way
Admin Address……..
Admin Address…….. Sacramento
Admin Address…….. 95826
Admin Address…….. CA
Admin Address…….. UNITED STATES
Admin Email………. pleasehelpaaliyah@yahoo.com
Admin Phone………. +1.9168214159
lol i found a cheese shop on posada
Carol Smith:
I would like to let you know that all of the Bedwell siblings’ names start with a “C” (3 girls and 1 boy). Perhaps you have information that I don’t have that proves CBedwell is in fact Connie?
No offense intended. Just want to point out that people on this blog shouldn’t be so quick to jump to conclusions.
Here, 3:11, Carol is trying to find a lawyer for Connie. She is just saying that what good will it be for Connie to be in jail? Nothing. She is just looking out for her, EVEN THOUGH she doesn’t know what to think of the whole story. I know it is so hard to not defend Connie…..I’ve stayed out of that side of it since last Sunday. If you have the time, you should go back to May 1st to the Haleigh and Caylee blogs and read the posts….it is a losing battle. But what is awesome now, that it doesn’t matter if they believe Connie, they believe that Aaliyah is in danger and are doing all that they can to help.
LOL Jenny- a cheese shop?? LOL
Oh and if you google the address you will find out it is indeed a Yahoo Inc. site.
Well I found Deanna Barela at the Sunnyvale address.. and yea a cheese shop.. hehe
I will say it again.. I could be wrong but I think this story is very real. Regardless of the cheese shop on posada… lol
Jenny, you did not mention the wine they sell too! LOL-
The associated phone number for the website is a Sacramento cell phone. I see no red flags about the website. I believe the site is set up to publicize this case.
I choose not to focus on the request for cash donations, heck I have no money so it does not matter.
I do believe this child is in danger and needs help- in any form we can provide.
That includes keeping these articles alive and the post counts moving so people will read them and not forget about Aaliyah.
I agree with you Bay.. I have not donated anything but my time and support which I will continue to give until Aaliyah is safe and happy. I am not even concerned who she is safe and happy with as long as she is.
well that’s it for me folks.. have a wonderful weekend and a happy mothers day!!
I wish media was all over this. Why won’t media “touch this subject with a nine foot pole”? - as described by bloggernews.net in an earlier article?
I appears the Deanna Desota name may be the person who created the site for Connie. This may be Deanna’s info. Just called Paypal just to verify and the Paypal account is Connie Beldwell so there is nothing supicious with that????? It is Connie. If it were fraudulent, I don’t think Connie would use her name but an alias. Money donations is up to the person who feels led to give.
Regardless. Silly things like this make one forget the issue, the child..Aaliyah.
Thank you to all who yearn for the truth of this matter to come out and are defending Aaliyah, pushing the powers that be for her safety. Connie’s well able to refute the B.S. coming from the Pedophile clan, and will continue in every lawful way possible to do just that. We ALL truly appreciate your help, steadfastness, courage and most of all YOUR TIME & EFFORTS!
AALIYAH’S CRIES FOR HELP WILL NOT BE SILENCED!
NOW look who’s doing exactly what he requested the court gag/restraining order to prevent Connie from doing.
Pedophile clan and your supporters… NOTHING HAS CHANGED the fight for the truth goes on and sooner or later the TRUTH ALWAYS WINS!
The court gag order has NO AUTHORITY over family members, friends and supporters… they are not named in the gag order regardless of the attempt to extend it to them! Additionally, the court has violated Conne’s constitutional right of free speech and is attempting to extend it’s rule out of it jurisdiction(s) All of which are unlawful. This isn’t me talking, it the LAW. It’s so hard for people to conceive that there are judges who violate your civil rights at their own whim, but they do!
People lets stay on point…the issue is AALIYAH SAFETY and getting her help through legal channels. Let’s keep up the pressure on PC and the gang!
To shed light to the C. Bedwell issue…all 4 of my children are C. Bedwell and that’s not to say any of them actually wrote it either. But who ever did, it’s RIGHT ON POINT!!!
The reason the pedophile clan operates animosity is they are afraid to answer questions that would be posed to them about the pedophile … second, they can operate just as they have been … stirring up doubt and confusion as “direct dissenters” and mixing it up to play the “middle ground”… “I’m sooooo confused as to the issues”… No matter what you do “DON’T DONATE MONEY”, these are always common threats of the pedophile clan postings…so in the future when you read these nameless posters and some named posters, keep in mind their intentions because their words tell us who they are.
Pedophile clan, just to let you know out of all who have donated, not one has asked for their money back. Donating is a personal act of conscience towards an issue. No one holding a gun to anyone’s head, that’s called robbery! Yahshua (Jesus) “when you help one of these little one’s it’s the same as serving him.” Let your conscience be your guide
Thanks so much to ALL who have donate, whether it be of their time or money. I phrase it that way because TIME IS MONEY in our society.
To those who have chosen to donate money for lack of time. Thank you also.
To Jan and Simon for their tireless search for the truth of these matters and the extreme amount of time they’ve put into this cause. I tell you your time is worth a thousand times the equal amount of money. We know the truth will set Aaliyah free to be placed in safety so the healing process can begin. May God repay ALL who have supported this cause ten thousand fold in blessings and prosperity.
Those who oppose and hinder the finding of “TRUTH”… you shall be broken against it.
I wish more media would get behind this case as it is a very disturbing one,,thank goodness for simon and jan for all their efforts,,I hope that most people will keep an open mind about the things that are being said and try to support them in their endeavors,,
I’m against the request for money going into a private account because there’s no accountability on how it’s used. Putting it into a trust would be the responsible thing to do and Connie could appoint whomever she would want to be the director of that trust account. Using the excuse that the father would somehow get his hands on the money if it went into trust tells me that no one understands what a trust is!
So TIM, DO YOU WANT PROFESSIONALS TO HELP YOUR DAUGHTER OR NOT? BECAUSE IF NOT, I’VE WASTED ALMOST 12 HOURS OF MY TIME AND PHONE CALLS.
You sir, do not understand the meaning of a gag order. No matter if it does not have your name on it, if the INFO COMES FROM CONNIE HERSELF TO YOU then Connie can be held in contempt! I do not know how much more clear to make that point. I deal with the courts daily so I believe I have the right to speak.
Coming on here making accusations and blasting those who do not agree with her method of obtaining money does not endear me to want to assist further or help your daughter. So instead of attacking anyone and everyone, maybe get some legal advice yourself and calm down.
If you want the help of professionals that will mean Connie will have to obey the court orders until legal counsel can go in and fight to have them lifted.
I don’t believe I care to do anything further at this point. This entire family is hostile and unwilling to respect the court no matter how much you disagree with the order. Making an argument to why a lawyer should offer pro bono services has been very difficult on my end when I’m faced with this type of stuff.
NO ONE will be willing to offer any help unless this bashing fest ceases. As much as I hate to walk away from trying to help this child, if there is no willingness to respect the law, there will be no lawyer willing to step forward and help Connie.
Your attitude may have just cost your daughter a lawyer. I was willing to stick with this until I found someone even though I do not necessarily believe everything she has written. You are all out of control.
I do not intend to return so bash away at me all you want. For the record and I will contact Jan myself I have nothing to do with the father NOR DO I SUPPORT HIM ONE BIT!
Sorry to have you leave Carol
and hope this didn’t leave a bad taste in your mouth about BNN.
Carol,
I applaude you for your professionalism, honesty and willingness to stick your neck out here.
I could not have said what you did better.
Thank you for caring and your honesty.
I hope to run into you on a forum again. You are a wise caring woman with a lot of knowledge.
Carol Smith, I beg of you two things:
1. Please try to see the father’s pain
2. Please think of Aaliyah
Don’t do it for Connie’s father, sister, mother, brother or anyone else. Please just think of Aaliyah. I have been working so hard for a week and half to try to find just ONE lawyer to listen to me. I have had one response and the answer was no. I am begging you that if you know of someone that is willing to even just listen, contact Jan.
All you have done in the 12 hours you have been here is appreciated by me.
Thank you for listening to me
Karen
Can I ask why no lawyer wants to take this case on? I mean with a video to support the argument? Why are they saying NO? Why not go to legal services????? People don’t just go “without” a lawyer for no reason!
karenccc - What can you tell me about my above post…?
CA, I believe Carol Smith at 7:49 said why.
The one lawyer that actually spoke with said that she didn’t want to go against a restraining order already in place. I asked if she would at least speak to the mother, and she said no.
Actually, you can have to go without a lawyer in civil cases (divorce, restraining orders, ex parte hearings). There are public defenders for criminal cases. There are mediators for family law cases. There are no free attorneys in my former county, or free legal aid services. The same may be true in Placer county.
Carol seemed to be offering the best chance to find an attorney quickly, and she made a lot of sense to me. I am very sorry she is walking away from this problem, but I can understand her reasons.
Thank you for trying Carol and KarenCCC.
I just want to say WOW! - to Carol’s response to Tim. Calm down? I wonder how calm you would be Carol, if you were Aaliyah’s grandpa, or aunt, or MOM! Especially after fighting, screaming and kicking a brick wall for so long. I am following every single posting here and on other blogs as well, praying that this baby will be led to safety. I have held my tongue many times deciding it best to keep my opinion to myself. I understand your frustration with the family and the fact that you are just trying to give them your expert help and advice, but PLEASE! Have a little understanding and respect for what they are going through emotionally. You may deal with legal issues on a daily basis, but please keep in mind that most of us do not. Also keep in mind that you do not deal with legal issues from the standpoint or view of a victim as this family is. No, they do not understand all the legal aspects (most of us don’t) - we just know right from wrong and good from bad and when a wrong needs to be righted. In our eyes, just because the courts or the legal system does not have all ducks lined up or all the planets aligned just right to make the wrong right - LEGALLY, doesn’t mean that there is NO wrong to make right in the first place - as they would have us believe. Having dealt with the system and departments they are now, I completely understand and sympathize with this family. It is quite frustrating to know someone you love so dearly, that an innocent child is in danger and to be absolutely helpless to protect. It is a basic instinct of most people but especially of parents and grandparents for their babies…
Yes, I am quite emotional and passionate myself (with good reason) when it comes to fearing for a child. So I’d better stop here because I feel a real rant coming on. I have so much more I could say on so many subjects here - including to confused the CPS worker. But the bottom line is - AALIYAH - a BABY who cannot do for herself, who cannot just run away and who’s voice (and literally screams) - is/are not being heard! As I said in an earlier post, I pray she will be rescued from this atrocious abuse and not be failed and further victim of a neglectful and inadequate system.
I hope you will reconsider, Carol and continue to help this baby by helping her mother get legal counsel. I hope that anyone who is REALLY able to help, as you are, will do so. Helpless and scared, begging for your child’s life (and having to do so through others, no less) is quite a horrendous place to be. By the grace of God, may you never have to know that feeling first hand.
Bedwell’s - Many are doing what they can and praying for Aaliyah and will continue to do so until she is safe. God bless you all!
Sean’s Voice, thank you so much for your voice, and Sean’s.
Carol Smith, before you post after Sean’s Voice, please click her name and read what she has been through.
Thank you to all, I am exhausted. I will be here again tomorrow. Good night.
I would like to offer some food for thought here. If each of us would just sit back and TRY honestly TRY to imagine the child we love most in this world, being in the situation Aaliyah is in right now, how much control would we have?
I have seen posts saying Connie should have went underground, how and why did she give the baby to the abuser to start with? Why would she put this on the computer to start with? How could she subject her child to this? The questions go on and on and on some more.
Seriously what would all of us asking these questions do, if it was a child we raised and loved and who looked to us for protection????
I know I would do anything and everything in my power. God help me I would hope I could keep myself together to keep from committing far more serious crimes then breaking a court order. I don’t know how far I would go, but I know I would do WHAT EVER I had to, to stop a man from sexually abusing my innocent baby girl.
It is easy to sit here behind our computer screens and pass judgement on the Bedwell family, but in reality what if your child were living in the abuse that has become Aaliyah’s nightmare? It’s easy to say give the justice system time to work, well every day they fail to act, is another night of horror for this little girl.
So to the Bedwell family I would like to say, my heart is with you all. You are showing more restraint then the law has any right to expect. Surely to GOD someone will realize the damage that is being done to Aaliyah, and put a stop to it. I will continue to make calls and demand justice for her and all of you.
Thank you AnneA and God bless you - I don’t feel so alone in my thinking now =)
And you are right Bay - you only get a public defender if you are charged with a crime. Also, there are no free attorney services where I live either.
Sean’s voice, first I am so so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful child, taken far to soon, all the nay-sayers should read your story. The system that should have protected your grandbaby, helped end his life. My heart breaks for you, I cried all the way thru it. You are so strong.
I think most states have legal aide. But I don’t know of any state that has less than a year of two waiting list. Aaliyah can’t afford to wait until her mom’s name gets to the top of the list.
I have barely slept since seeing daddy’s worm, I couldn’t eat for days, if it were my child or grandchild, I know I would have gone off already. This is a blackeye for our whole nation and somebody HAS to do something.
Sean’s Voice what a beautiful tribute to your little guy. I don’t really even know how to tell you how sad your story makes me. I hope his mother is where she can never harm another child. I hope your son is healing. We see this stuff from fathers but when mothers are this evil, its kind of a wake up call, evil comes in all forms. I’m so sorry.
Sean’s Voice and AnneA:
Thank you so much for your kind words regarding the Bedwell family. I can verify that they have been going through complete hell for far too long. Sean’s Voice, I am very sorry for the loss that you have suffered. My heart breaks for you and your family.
Thank you to everyone who has spent so much time trying to help little Aaliyah. It is appreciated!!
Pop Pop Tim - xoxo Miss you!!
Sarah
Thank you AnneA, for your kind words. It is true - abuse, crimes against our children IS a black eye on our nation. Your comment about somebody HAS to do something, reminded me of something I read just yesterday, although for the life of me I can’t remember where or verbatim. The same comment was made, more in a question though, I think, and God’s answer was, “You’re somebody”. It hit me because it describes just how I feel about being inspired (unfortunately through tragedy) hoping and trying to make such necessary changes. Kind of a light bulb moment as Oprah says, as I read it and just thought, “Touché” I AM somebody! We ALL are somebody! May we ALL succeed.
Sean’s murderer is serving life without the possibility of parole for first degree murder and an additional consecutive 9-15 years for first degree child abuse. I never ever considered a mother could be capable of torturing and killing her own child. It was absolutely inconcievable to me. My son has a long, long road ahead. I’m sure there will be healing, but there is more just coping with a knowledge of such horror lived with every day.
I know there are many here who doubt this story. To me it is in NO WAY far fetched and absolutely believable! I have seen far too much through and since our loss, to ever doubt someone’s cry for help.
Sean’s Voice,
Thank you again for your support. I am so very sorry for everything that your family has gone through. I do believe that you are making a difference and am glad that you are giving these abused children a voice. You are truly a remarkable person.
It is very heartwarming to see how many people FINALLY believe that what we have been saying for 2 years is the truth. I have been on EVERY single witness list that has been provided to all the professionals involved in this case and never received a single phone call. Thanks to everyone one on this site (especially Simon and Jan) I have hope that things are going to begin to change.
AALIYAH: We won’t stop fighting until you are safe!! We love you Pookie. xoxo
Letters from the family
childprotectioncommunity.com/blog.asp?page=41327
Concerned, thanks for that link. I would hope this clears up a lot of doubts about this case.
It is beyond tragic to realize the pain this child has suffered.
There are many people watching and waiting and praying for Aaliyah.
Carol Smith - Nothing I said warranted your rant, accusations or belittling because I corrected your perception of the law. We played their game for 2+ years and we are not going to allow Aaliyah’s voice to not be heard again! In fact what I posted regarding the validity of the restraining the order was right out of the mouth of legal counsel. It was and is an unlawful order, but that doesn’t mean that if they could prove her violation they wouldn’t arrest her! I was not disrespectful to you in any way, nor did I criticize your view point about donations. Interestingly, that was your first topic of attack towards me. You press and press and all but said it yourself that it was Connie that wrote C.Bedwell, all the while knowing if someone “affirmed it was Connie” that would provide proof of violation of the restraining order, to end up in court against her. You definitely have ulterior motives, you repeatedly show your intent though your words, I see and know who are truly helping Aaliyah’s and Connie’s cause and your not one of them! Please be true to your word - Hasta La Vista!
A BIG THANK YOU to the people who really are working to help Aaliyah and Connie. We see the fruit of your labor everyday! Were moving in the right direction to getting Aaliyah help.
One thing I would like to bring to your attention. On the 6th. in court the pedophiles attorney said that CPS and Auburn Police have reopened investigations. This was affirmed by Aaliyah’s worthless PC attorney. Something to be aware of; If CPS and APD have again opened investigations why would they have not at least removed Aaliyah from the pedophile’s home … even to foster care temporarily, until the dust settles. They haven’t. I’m afraid this points to more of the same from Placer County, CPS and Auburn Police Department. There just covering their asses because they’ve seriously messed up the first time! Please help keep up the pressure on all agencies. This is just the beginning.
Thank you God Bless
Sean’s Voice….
Your story brought tears to my eyes. Anyone who hurts a child? I ask, why do we even let them live? I know that sounds so harsh. I look at my kids, 13 and 5 and no matter how angry they make me, which kids know what button to press, I could never hurt them. Sadly, you don’t need to be registered to be a parent, anyone can do it.
I feel this world is being judged by God very soon, very soon. We cannot go on much longer like this. Look in the news, parents killing their kids…People, we need to wake up!!!!!
Mr. Bedwell,
I am so sorry for all the negative feedback and comments being made in this case. It is heart wrenching for me to read, so I can’t even imagine how hard it is for you and your family.
I honestly don’t know why people are reacting the way they are. I do know for weeks before KarenCCC brought this story to Bnn I was a new regular to this forum. I was comfortable posting and had interacted with the long time regulars with no problems.
My first response to Karen was to contact Rape Crisis, which by the way may be able to assist even now. They are listed in the phone book.
Most crisis centers have attorneys and other resources that may be helpful, but they must be contacted by the person needing assistance. Anyway I had NOT at that point watched
“daddy’s worm”, after viewing it, I wanted to help.
There were a couple of things I saw in the video which left no doubt in my mind, this child is being assaulted. When I failed to join the group attacking Karen, I, too, came under attack.
The accusations made would have been laughable had these folks not been serious. I don’t blog on the threads they are on anymore. Some of them come here, using other names, I don’t know why they change their names. I can only conclude they don’t want to be ostracized and yet they want to help your grandbaby.
Some come here and post comments or pose questions in an accusatory tone, in an attempt to keep us from supporting Aaliyah. Mr. Bedwell those of us who believe this is happening are strong, independant thinkers and will not wain in our support.
I know it has to be hard to ignore them. BUT if you can do it, that is the best way to go. They want to argue, they want to pull you down to their level, why give them the satisfaction
of knowing it bothers you? You have truth on your side and hopefully all who matter will soon realize it. When you know lies are being told, dispute them of course, but don’t let it get to you. Pick your battles.
It may be hard for you to accept, but I have seen goodness in the hearts of some who must now seem heartless to you. I think its just so hard to believe this could go on. People can’t accept that this is happening, because they would also have to accept, it could happen to them.
Our world is full of people who are flawed. It’s hard to accept all the horrors we hear about, and it don’t seem to be getting any better. For some people denial is their way of coping. As long as they don’t acknowledge something. it’s not true.
Many of the long time regulars who blog here, have followed the Anthony story for nearly a year. In that time other tragedies have come to light. They can’t deny children are missing and murdered. They can deny a child is being abused, they can tell themselves there are two sides to this story. I am not trying to make excuses, I’m just saying its not personal.
It”s not that they don’t want to help, its just they don’t want to believe. They have taken the children, whose stories have been in the news, into their hearts, and the pain they feel for these kids is real. Pain changes who people are and how they respond to situations.
Stay strong Mr. Bedwell, your daughter needs you and little Aaliyah will need you to. There are many who believe this is real and we will continue to call and demand justice. Others will call and demand an investigation, either way the light is being put on this case. Aaliyah’s cries will be heard. God give you strength and bless you all.
Independant thinkers? Hmmm
You know what AnneA - I am tired of you saying things like people “attacking” etc…and speaking for others!
AnneA said : When I failed to join the group attacking Karen, I, too, came under attack.
(there was no attacks AnneA, if I remember correctly it was you that attacked Dave_UH and Mermaid calling them out front and center and accusing them of being pedophiles…another blogger as well!
So don’t be calling the kettle black! There were a few that were asking questions is all! So don’t come in here talking about others behind their backs and accusing people of things and glossing over what really happened.
some got frustrated and have a right to be…just like karen got frustrated with me asking straight forward questions and was rude, afterward apologized. We all want the truth…justice in whatever form it may come in!
There were no “group” attacking anyone!
Please refrain from assuming you know how others feel!
(AnneA said : It”s not that they don’t want to help, its just they don’t want to believe
For some people denial is their way of coping. As long as they don’t acknowledge something. it’s not true.)
I have been keeping an eye on the updates etc…because I do care…I want to know the truth…just because some are on the fence about authenticity without solid proof or documentation doesn’t mean we don’t care or don’t want to “believe” whatever that means.
Asking questions is not denial…more assuming on your part. If we couldn’t handle the truth…we would not be here a year on Caylee Anthony case. This is the most horrific case I have ever been involved with. The murder of a child. there is no denial on BNN.
There is plenty of disgusting, horrendous and unthinkable things that have come to be fact from her disappearance to the finding of her little bones, to the way she died and the actions of her “mother”.
We have not shyed away from the “truth” of the case and have never once denied the truth. Why would anyone do that in the Bedwell case? Alot of us have backed off because “questions” don’t seem to be welcome on this article! We are accused of being the pedophile or attacking!!
I don’t appreciate you assuming how people feel!
People post questions on here in respectable manner and they are deleted? Why?
Doesn’t mean we are not supportive. I was reading ONLY and was not posting at all! Your post gave me no choice!
Please, stick to you mission, and leave the gossiping and assumptions out!
In reference to Talina on May 7th-
Connie IS allowed to bring people into the court. Her family ALWAYS go with and I attend also- there is limited seating in there, but we are hoping when the trial is ordered, that we can completely overwhelm the entire area with people who want to fight to help save this baby! Everyone please listen today to the radio show- it will be the best way to get the information out and questions anyone has answered!
I know it has to be hard to ignore them. BUT if you can do it, that is the best way to go. They want to argue, they want to pull you down to their level, why give them the satisfaction
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I also like the way you think you are WELL ABOVE the rest who seek the truth! Great “independant thinking”
Good luck at uncovering the truth
The only reason I haven’t posted in these Aaliyah threads was out of respect for Simon and Jan. I did not want to “fan the flames” of emotion that surround this matter. I almost posted a couple of nights ago with the findings of both myself, the analysist I employed in this matter, as well as other concerned “regulars” here at BNN.
I sent a copy of the post I was going to place here for Jan to review. Jan’s exact words in response were……..
“This will no doubt set off a bomb in there tonight”
I have attempted to honor the notion of not causing trouble. But AnneA, Tim Bedwell and the rest if I see one more name being called, or one more put down as to anyone with doubts as to this matter, I will post the conclusions I have reached after considerable research.
You won’t like it.
OK Time out here! I am fed up to the back teeth with the bickering in here. I will turn comments off for this thread if I see one more problem. And I will continue to close threads on other articles if I see problems.
I realize that people have opposing views. And I encourage lively debate, but I hate bickering and name calling. It has to stop, and it has to stop right now.
Simon Barrett - Senior Editor
Papa, I know what you have and I thank you for not posting it here. Are you going to call into the show? I’d like to hear what they have to say about it.
Papa I want to verify something else. You quoted my exact words on your comment as to saying “This will no doubt set off a bomb in there tonight”
YES I did tell you that but NOT because I think what you have to say will prove this as a Hoax in anyway, shape or form.
I know the others in the group that are regulars in here would see your comment and be armed and ready for the first person that disagrees with you. I have seen them so many times ready for attack and that is what they would do here. I have asked those that don’t believe to stay out of here if they are only here to argue which 99% of those involved come here for. I told you they would flock in here like a pack of starving wolves that haven’t eaten in months to defend you and THAT is what I meant about your comment setting off a bomb in here and NOT that what information you have is the proof you have been looking for to discredit all these people.
I have offered to get you in touch with one of the Bedwell’s to talk to them so you could hear their side on the phone but you declined. That was your choice.
Simon and I have talked to people and we do happen to believe this after talking to them and hearing the answers they gave us and we are NOT only talking about family and friends.
And Papa, we already know what that “bomb” is and it has already been responded too with the agencies involved. So if you really want to stir the pot and piss people off then so be it. We can post all of the responses to that. It is a complete different agency that is clueless as to what is going on. This crime is occurring in Auburn, the Roseville agency is clueless and unaware or I should say was unaware of the details of this case. Im pretty sure they were unaware that cps and apd have open cases at this time (not that they do anything to protect Aali anyway). What you think you have we have already seen it. And your conclusions about it are only your perception because of your lack of knowledge in this case. We forgive you.
Well it’s just a little less than 2 hours before the radio show comes on. I am realy looking forward to hearing about all 3 cases. I can’t remember anyone ever doing this kind of show on the radio. I think it will be informative, interesting and entertaining.
I agree AnneA. This will be the first I’ve listened to. I didn’t know how to before LOL
I have listened to the regular sunday show and it reminded me of when I was a VERY young child, when we would all gather around the radio to listen to Paul Harvey or one of the comedy sitcoms. Wow we have come along way.
I too am looking forward to hearing the show.
Hello Sean’s Voice! I hope you are having a good day. I’ve gotta go right now AnneA and SV. I will see you hear for the show!
Ha! Ha! I can’t even type today. I will see you HERE for the show! LOL
Sean I clicked on your name last night and watched the tribute again, I missed parts of it because I was crying so hard and couldn’t see it clearly. I, again missed parts, same reason. I can’t imagine being able to get thru it without the waterworks. You are so brave.
ok Karen, have fun, whatever you are planning on getting into. Talk to you soon.
I got to do a few things before the show starts and as I don’t want to miss any of it, I better get my do done. bbl
personally i tend to believe simon and jan if they have done research and believe this is a real thing then im with them, and if its a hoax then thats what it is…the problem im having if people push this story aside as a fraud and its true then weve abandon a child who needs help! personally i would rather have it a hoax because that would mean this is NOT happining to this child witch would be a good thing..i know alot of people make false claims, buut not all are false and if we judged things by wheather the majority believes how many children would be left without help that accually need it???? ive had so many things happen to me in my life that are accually unbelievable..and i think people think im making up stories, im not, so i know some things that seem oone way are accually another…also i think simon and jan have alot of integry for them selfs and the bloggers at bnn they would in no way stand by a story they dont believe in..its everyones choice if they chose to believve or not no ones asking you to send money only a voice for a child who need one no one has listened so far untill people have gotten involved!!!! did that make sence??
Hi Anna,
Yes it makes perfect sense. I am so sorry that your life has been filled with the unfortunate situations you talk about. I hope your future is much much better.
I have so much to do, but sat down here to rest a minute and drink some iced tea and saw your post.
Wanted to say thank you for your support, I know Aaliyah will benefit from each and every voice that speaks out for her.
i only hope they can remove her from her abuser and fast…even if they have doubts about the mother place her somewhere safe, witch they should have done along time ago…every report should be investigatd thurology till the truth comes out….for goodness sake a childs life and well being is at staek, nothing to play around with….also if this comes out to be true i hope the mother sues the pants off e1 involved who chose to do nothing..and they loose thier jobs as i see it they havent donr thier job at all or we wouldnt be here on a blog fighting for a child right!!!
thank you very much anna. I applaud your comment. You have said here exactly what I have been trying to say all along. And to be honest this is what the Bedwell’s have basically been telling us too. Their main concern is this baby’s safety. I get choked up when I think of the possibility that this really could be true and no one doing anything about it. Her mother and family are trying so hard to seek help for her and yes I do understand their frustration here.
Sean’s Voice, thank you for your support too. I know you also know first hand how this family feels. I pray this isn’t too hard for you.
Simon and I truly love Blogger News and we love the people that help us make it a success but some need to realize what anna just said. We would NOT follow this if we didn’t have reason to believe. We are aware of the possibility of hoaxes and how common they are these days so we can only say if it is there are alot of people here that are all telling us the same thing. We have talked to officials that refuse to call us back. Why? Personally I think it is because they don’t want us reporting about it. Yes one of the bloggers did get a letter from an official but not as a reporter so sure they answered her. Now we think that is a very important factor.
Anyway we do hope you all will listen and at least hear this family’s story out before accusing them of trying to pull a hoax. You are all free t call in to leave comments or ask questions. The call in number is 646-378-1120.
Thank you to all those that support this and I thank all those that are reserving their judgment until more information comes out. Let’s see how this works.
My prayers are with Aaliyah and her family. We only want her safe even if it would mean for CPS to place her baby in a foster home until this is all settled. She would be willing to agree to that in order for her to be safe.
Jan Barrett
God bless you Jan for thinking of how this may be affecting me. Yes, it is hard, but absolutely necessary. I have devoted my life to being a voice and protecting children in Sean’s name- there is NO WAY I could ignore this case and not get involved to do WHATEVER I can. The sad, sad fact is that there are thousands (yes, thousands!) of children in this country, who are suffering unspeakable and horrendous atrocities every minute of every day. We really need to WAKE PEOPLE UP and motivate the masses to get involved - any way they are able - to be loud and strong voices impossible to ignore, to save these innocent victims. Cliché maybe, but they ARE OUR future and hurt people, hurt people. Everyone needs to remember that. The cycle continues if we don’t put an end to it, and it WILL continue to affect us ALL in the future.
There are nearly 3 million reports of child abuse made annually. The rate of child abuse is estimated to be 3 TIMES GREATER than is reported.
- Childhelp.org
One third of abused and neglected children will later abuse their own children, continuing the horrible cycle of abuse.
- Childhelp.org
“The test of the morality of a society is what it does for its children”
Dietrich Bonhoeffer
I missed the first couple of minutes, I couldn’t get the sound to come on, but have it now. Have I missed much?
Did you hear Jan’s story? It is heartbreaking.
No I missed it, I guess I can listen to it from the can tho can’t I?
I guess you should be able to, this is my first listening of the radio show.
This is just breaking my heart
yeah mine to, gosh I hope this helps this baby
Was a good show. The family got to get the story out there - tell what they know.
I missed the first few minutes because I couldn’t get the sound, I know there is a way to listen to it in the can. I have done it before, but for the life of me I can’t figure out how I did it.
to be the victim of a crime, and then further victimizing when no justice is done, it takes a piece of your soul from you, it takes away your humanity, like you don’t matter…i hear so many say we need better laws, but i really think we just need better people…my heart is out to this family, and to all the innocent children that go without a voice and get lost in the wind…
annea - just click the talk radio show link in the article above and you will get the show in the can…hope that helps
Kat thank you so much, I will do it now. again thanks for the help.
im not sure how i can help this child?? i dont have $$ to donate but i do have time…if there is something i could do write letters make calls(i have free long distance) please let me know….jan has my email and while i dont want e1 to have it you could send whatever to jan and she could forward it to me if she doesnt mind…hoope you understand about my reasons for my address….truly i would do what ever is needed that i am capable of doing..Anna
Jan
If you are reading this, I want you to know, I just listened to your story. I heard pain and sadness in your voice but I also heard strength, you dear dear lady, are the voice of survival.
I am sorry you didn’t get the justice, you deserved. But today you beat him, you didn’t destroy you, he didn’t take your voice.
Thank you for sharing with us. I can’t imagine how hard it was for you. Hopefully others will see how these things CAN and DO happen. I think your motive may have been to help Aaliyah.
I wonder if you even realize you have helped others. There are women you don’t know, who have carried a secret like yours. They heard your story, heard your voice, because of you, they too will find their voice. What you did today was a beautiful and selfless act.
Many find speaking out liberating, like a weight has been lifted from them. I hope talking about it has also helped you. Thank You.
i can only pitchure the fear this little child is facing on a daily basis..is she afraid to go to sleep, take a bath, be alone with her father??? as a adult we still have fears, but a childs fears are magnified 10000000000x over, and then to not be able to get any comfort from her parent is unforgivable..think of her sweet little face how innocent the look while sleeping, thier little smiles, thier soft voices…my daughter is 12 still while she’s asleep she looks so adorable like a angel not a care in the world..i couldnt immagine a child so small not having the sence of security she deserves, the confusion and hurt she endures on a daily basis..i know im just rambling but i feel so helpless to not go and bring her to my home where i know shed be safe!
Anna how kind of you. I think the best any of us can do, is keep calling the Placer county officials that we have been calling. If we can keep the pressure on them, they will have to do something, different than they have done in the past.
Simon I have to run but I wanted to take a second to tell you, it was a great show. I didn’t notice any pregnant pauses at all. Love your accent, can’t place it but I like hearing you talk. You really kept things moving along and it was over so fast. Seemed like a short 90 minutes. Congratulations on a job well done.
KarenCCC, AnneA, anna, Kat, Sean’s Voice, Joey Tillman and anyone else that I have failed to mention (please forgive me if I have) thank you all so much for your support. I think Joey Tillman is putting together a list of people everyone can write to or call to ask for help for Aaliyah.
You don’t have to have money to help. They ask for any help they can get. Giving your time to write or call someone is more help than they are getting from the people that our tax dollars are paying to protect us and we can see they are clearly NOT doing their job. We will get that list posted as soon as we can. We can all write and hopefully one day someone will wake up and decide to do something.
We thank anyone who wishes to help from the bottom of our hearts
Jan
I’m ready Jan! Thank you Simon and Jan for the great radio show. Thank you Bedwell family! I will do absolutely EVERYTHING I can for you!
thanks jan..AWSOME!!!!
Great show!!
ms. bedwell your description of a abuser is so accrate, i lived with a physicall abuser for yrs, in court the i tolld the victoms advocate that when she talked to him she’d see a swwet talker and most likely would believe him and not me(even tho i had the brusies) she informed me they all act like that and most of them were such sweet talkers is how they get away with it for so long and turn people against the abused person!
Mermaid, thank you for your call today and your input.
Mermaid tried posting this that she put together for us and for some reason it didn’t go through so I am going to try posting it for her:
Please help Aaliyah. I would like to ask those of you in California (and elsewhere) to take the time to write emails and letters to the following about this case.
Ask for an investigation into this case of apparent child abuse of Aaliyah Bedwell, a 3 year old child in Placer County, California. Please reference the following in your letters or emails:
- a video of the child speaking of suspected child molestation called “Daddy’s Worm”. Found on and YouTube at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=krihOkBsEt4
- copies of sworn statements of witnesses and family members at the Child Protection Community website -
http:/www.childprotectioncommunity.com/blog.asp?page=41327
- Auburn Police department case #530-823-4237.
- Article about Placer County Judicial misconduct
and corruption that Simon found and posted-
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/43819/placer_county_judicial_system.html?cat=17
Here is a link to send an inquiry directly to the Crime Victims Services of the California Attorney General’s office. It is the fastest way to ask for help for this child at a state level, including an investigation of judicial malfeasance/misconduct:
http://ag.ca.gov/victimservices/contact.php
Here is the info to contact the Placer County District Attorney to request an investigation:
Link to the Placer County District Attorney page:
http://www.placer.ca.gov/departments/da.aspx
Bradford R. Fenocchio
County District Attorney
10810 Justice Center Drive Suite #240
Roseville, CA 95678
(916) 543-8000
(916) 543-2550 fax
Email the department
Here is the phone number for the Placer County Child Protection Services :
530-889-7650 Auburn
530-784-6000 Roseville
Here is how you can contact the California Judicial Review Board about the Judge in this case-
this county has a real problem with it’s Judicial system! I would provide the names of the Judges involved, but I have not got that information. Maybe Jan or someone else can provide the names of the judges.
Complaints must be submitted in writing. The Commission cannot accept complaints over the telephone or submitted by e-mail.
WRITTEN CORRESPONDENCE:
Commission on Judicial Performance
455 Golden Gate Avenue, Suite 14400
San Francisco, CA 94102
This child needs help, and it only takes a few minutes to write a letter, or send an email, or send a fax. Please, all of you that live in California, make the extra effort to contact these officials. Out of state contacts are also welcome, but politicians pay attention when constituents write!
For the family of Aaliyah - Please visit http:/www.fightcps.com/, they may be able to help you find resources.
As always, a great article to read. I haven’t read the comments yet but wanted you both (Jan and Simon) to know that following up on any case where child abuse is suspected (or alleged)….is NEVER a waste of time and effort. What’s the WORST than can happen??? Hopefully….that this WOULD be hoax, rather than a horrific tragedy. You can sleep well at night knowing you did your best! Sorry to hear about what happened to you Jan, I did not know that. Although I feel sorry it hapened, letting me… as a reader know that…gives me an insight in to why you are both determined to seek the truth! write on!
There mermaid, I had a problem with it too but we got it posted for you, thank you so much for taking the time to put this together for everyone, and thans for caring.
Thanks Jan!
Please everyone, regardless of what you believe about the request for cash donations, you can still help.
Contact the relevant authorities to raise awareness and spark action on their part. This case can not be ignored if enough people act.
It is frustrating to say the least, that so many parties in official capacity have let this go on so long. This is not just a sad story about abuse - this is the life of an innocent child.
We can make a difference. We have to.
jan, so we can just call the phone numbers and refrence the sites??? and tell them we are concerned about aalyiah and demand a investigation?? along with writing a letter and email?? i can do that!!! just making sure i know thats what to do..thank you for allowing me to be of some help!
Thank you CHSAH for understanding us. It was hard to talk about it on the radio with everyone listening and there is a lot more to that story that I didn’t tell but the main thing was there was NO ONE willing to help me. I crossed the state line and was told it was out of their jurisdiction. Finally I gave up and was forced to drop it to keep my sanity. That was back in I think 1973, I was only 18 and the man stole more from me than just my dignity and pride.
I went on with my life wishing that one day I could end the torture I felt all those years. I am blessed having Simon at my side. He has helped me so much. I had nightmares everynight for over 30 years (I was thinking it was only like 26 years ago since this happened
but my loving husband reminded me I was 10 years older than I was thinking I am) It was actually 36 years ago. LOL
With the help from Simon I rarely have the dreams anymore. I opened up to him the full details and he talked to me about them and he made me realize I had nothing to be ashamed of.
Anyway this isn’t about me. I only told this story to explain to the people that this kind of thing indeed does happen. It happened to me, it happened to Paul Scharff when his father was killed (the other guest that was on our show), it happened to our new friend Sean’s Voice when her grandson was killed, and now it is happening to Connie Bedwell.
This kind of coruption has got to stop. It is just so sad.
jan do you mind forwarding that info to my email so i can print it…dont know how to copy and paste and daughters babysitting…i can wait till she comes home also..just dont want to loose it! thanks anna
yes anna you can, please do and thank you so much for your help
ok anna I will
ok anna I sent it, and once again thanks for wanting to help
i will jan i have no problem leaving them my full name address and phone also!!!! i hope it helps…
Jan, sorry I left for just a bit to take a telephone call.
Maybe if someone had taken the time to protect little Caylee….she’d still be alive….just maybe???? 
I got goosebumps when you said you were only 10!!!!! God has CHOSEN to give you a purpose thru your ordeal and YOU are putting it to good use in your writing! My hat is off to you and once again, your “sharing” has touched a heart. To be a child and to think you felt you had nowhere to go with your story….ALL the children in need should be SO lucky to have a “Jan and Simon” fighting for them.
that “just maybe” was suppose to have a sad face for caylee..sorry!
HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY TO ALL!
Got to jet now!
hi cash…..love you girlie
:) gotta go for the night {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
Thank you Jan for posting, and thank you Mermaid for the links and addresses. Letters will go out first thing Monday morning. God bless you all and have a wonderful Mother’s Day!
Praying for you Connie (((Hugs)))
Thank you all for helping us.
We greatly appreciate it.
Thank you,
The Bedwell family
Just popped back in but nobody “home” LOL.
Awwwww….Anna you ALWAYS have something nice to say. i ALWAYS look for your posts (among a few others) b/c they are always full of smiles!
jetting again! nite all!
Mermaid,
I would first, like to ask you for YOUR FORGIVENESS on behalf of myself, my family and those who have falsely accused you of wrong intentions of support of the pedophile’s campaign of distortions and lies.
PLEASE FORGIVE US.
Second, I truly appreciated your call of support and information you provided on the radio show this afternoon. You are articulate and well spoken and a true asset to this fight. Thank you so much for hanging in there and supporting Aaliyah’s fight despise our transgressions against you. It shows the spirit that leads you.
Mr. Bedwell, while I thank you for the apology, it is not necessary. Your family has been through so much, and I can understand your frustration, pain and anger.
It has to be hard to hold on to your faith, and to get through each day knowing a child you love with all your heart(s) is going through so much.
There will be many people helping to bring this child and your family through this nightmare. Hopefully you can gain some strength and renewed hope from the hearts of so many of us who want so much to help Aaliyah.
You, your family, and especially Aaliyah are in my prayers and thoughts. I will keep searching for ways to assist you in your battle.
Thank you for your kind words.
I missed the show.
You can still listen to the show online n ramirez…
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/Simon-Barrett/2009/05/09/Aaliyah-Bedwell-Real-or-Memorex
It was a very good show!
A SUPER HUGE THANK YOU TO ALL WHO HAVE FROM THE BEGINNING STOOD UP FOR AALIYAH CRIES FOR HELP and to those who stood unwaveringly in the face of criticism and ridicule for their support of Connie and our family.
These have been VERY TRYING TIMES that on occasion have frazzled the very fabric of our family. We haven’t been perfect in our reactions or responses, and we ask those whom we have hurt with out cause to forgive us. Thank you for over looking our faults and continuing with your support of Aaliyah, Connie and our family.
n ramirez you can scroll up and click the next to the last paragraph. You will see the darker wording talk radio show underlined. Click on those words and you can hear it all. It’s a great show and well worth the time.
Mr. Bedwell,
You and your family did a great job today. I am so glad you were able to get it out.
Don’t worry about us who have supported Aaliyah and your family. I wish it were not necessary. I can’t imagine walking in any of your shoes.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Considering with what you have had to deal with, I think you have all restrained yourselves admirably. I don’t think I would be that strong. Just be strong a little longer, help is on the way, it has to be. Aaliyah has suffered too long already. God Bless you all.
Mermaid,
Your call was perfect, I wanted to hug you. Thank you, thank you. You shine from the inside out.
Mr. Bedwell
Please call your local rape crisis center, seriously they may be able to help with an attorney. Many centers have attorneys who volunteer their time and expertise to help in just this kind of situation. Please call, it can’t hurt.
Mr. Bedwell, I’m sorry I forgot you are in Alaska, Connie or one of the sisters should call the center. These are good and devoted people, most volunteer because they care about victims. Some are paid, but most receive no compensation other then the satisfaction they get from helping others get thru this ordeal.
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