Comments on: From WomenPayingSupport.com–Be a Man…Don’t Ask for Spousal Support http://www.bloggernews.net/111157 High-quality English language analysis and editorial writing on the news. Fri, 17 Feb 2012 17:14:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: james coppola http://www.bloggernews.net/111157#comment-1817312 james coppola Thu, 13 Jan 2011 06:06:37 +0000 http://www.bloggernews.net/111157#comment-1817312 justice liberty and the persuit of happyness alimony is unconstitutional everyone fight for your rights this is america remember justice liberty and the persuit of happyness alimony is unconstitutional everyone fight for your rights this is america remember

]]> By: james coppola http://www.bloggernews.net/111157#comment-1817304 james coppola Thu, 13 Jan 2011 05:45:13 +0000 http://www.bloggernews.net/111157#comment-1817304 why should it make a difference if you are a man or a women paying support alimony is wrong i can understand child support but not alimony. it ruins peoples lives why should anyone be subject to life long alimony and if they really can't pay it they get throne in jail even if they where a great provider and parent it dose not make any sence The law has to be changed for the sake of the good people why should it make a difference if you are a man or a women paying support alimony is wrong i can understand child support but not alimony. it ruins peoples lives why should anyone be subject to life long alimony and if they really can’t pay it they get throne in jail even if they where a great provider and parent it dose not make any sence The law has to be changed for the sake of the good people

]]> By: recoil http://www.bloggernews.net/111157#comment-1476258 recoil Sat, 02 Jan 2010 16:35:48 +0000 http://www.bloggernews.net/111157#comment-1476258 My visceral reaction is the same as BooHoo's. But we need more advocates for a fair process of limited and temporary support for all ex-spouses...and now that women are on the receiving end maybe things will change. Although 'system' and lawyers profit on all of this, in all likelihood it'll remain effed up for decades to come. My visceral reaction is the same as BooHoo’s.

But we need more advocates for a fair process of limited and temporary support for all ex-spouses…and now that women are on the receiving end maybe things will change. Although ’system’ and lawyers profit on all of this, in all likelihood it’ll remain effed up for decades to come.

]]> By: BooHoo http://www.bloggernews.net/111157#comment-1473828 BooHoo Wed, 30 Dec 2009 03:57:43 +0000 http://www.bloggernews.net/111157#comment-1473828 I don't feel sorry for you ...not one bit.....Get a second job....that's what judges tell men...... I don’t feel sorry for you …not one bit…..Get a second job….that’s what judges tell men……

]]> By: Just Want Freedome http://www.bloggernews.net/111157#comment-1022003 Just Want Freedome Tue, 03 Mar 2009 20:56:33 +0000 http://www.bloggernews.net/111157#comment-1022003 I am angry as well - married for 12 years, always made slightly more than husband in IT field, tried to get him to get a real job & not just construction. I just learned, from him that he has worked 'under the table' before. He is/was terribly verbally abusive for YEARS & me, an intelligent, analytical woman tried to reason with him & fix him to no avail, finally after the 90th time he threatened me with Divorce I had enough. I filed, he goes (again) to his boss to coordinate working under the table so he can get SPOUSAL SUPPORT like our neighbor! He was hoping to win me back because he thinks I only want his money and he told me he was working under the table - I told the Judge, SHE said to get proof. Working on that now & I will be turning over the prior year proof to the state that he & his boss defrauded and most likely the IRS - now he has a wage garnishment & I won't be able to pay rent, groceries, gas to get to work or kids sports. He was NEVER a CAREGIVER for our kids & now sends them to school without lunch. My attorney said you have a court date & it will get fixed! We have a subpeona in hopes of getting the evidence. I BELIEVE CAREGIVING MEN should get support UNTIL they become employed but not MEN who are Playing the system - obviously I never married a MAN. I am angry as well - married for 12 years, always made slightly more than husband in IT field, tried to get him to get a real job & not just construction. I just learned, from him that he has worked ‘under the table’ before. He is/was terribly verbally abusive for YEARS & me, an intelligent, analytical woman tried to reason with him & fix him to no avail, finally after the 90th time he threatened me with Divorce I had enough. I filed, he goes (again) to his boss to coordinate working under the table so he can get SPOUSAL SUPPORT like our neighbor! He was hoping to win me back because he thinks I only want his money and he told me he was working under the table - I told the Judge, SHE said to get proof. Working on that now & I will be turning over the prior year proof to the state that he & his boss defrauded and most likely the IRS - now he has a wage garnishment & I won’t be able to pay rent, groceries, gas to get to work or kids sports. He was NEVER a CAREGIVER for our kids & now sends them to school without lunch. My attorney said you have a court date & it will get fixed! We have a subpeona in hopes of getting the evidence. I BELIEVE CAREGIVING MEN should get support UNTIL they become employed but not MEN who are Playing the system - obviously I never married a MAN.

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